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Are All These Marriage Processes Compulsory? by Nobody: 7:23pm On May 28, 2021
-Introduction
-Engagement
-Church/white wedding
-Court wedding (registry)
-Reception

Is there any that can be skipped?
Re: Are All These Marriage Processes Compulsory? by SUPERPACK: 7:29pm On May 28, 2021
All can be skipped apart from the Court wedding and introduction.

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Re: Are All These Marriage Processes Compulsory? by Nobody: 7:33pm On May 28, 2021
SUPERPACK:
All can be skipped apart from the Court wedding and introduction.

Good to know

Chapter1vs6:
Introduction church wedding and reception

That reception is NO for me. Even God knows that I don't have strength for all the unnecessary displays at the reception.
Re: Are All These Marriage Processes Compulsory? by mariahAngel(f): 7:54pm On May 28, 2021
SimplyFacts:
-Introduction
-Engagement
-Church/white wedding
-Court wedding (registry)
-Reception

Is there any that can be skipped?

They all can be rolled up into three celebrations:

-Introduction/Engagement
-Court marriage
-Church wedding/traditional marriage/reception

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Re: Are All These Marriage Processes Compulsory? by OsusTroller: 8:19pm On May 28, 2021
Just do traditional wedding! That's all.

We must not continue to live by how pink-pale skinned people (so-called whites), who came all the way from their regions to STEAL, RAPE, KIDNAP AND ENSLAVE US, want us to live.

The only thing they left behind is religion that they used to trick us to get into our minds.

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Re: Are All These Marriage Processes Compulsory? by Deborah98(f): 8:31pm On May 28, 2021
Where una dey see this love undecided thought we all agreed to hustle this year sad

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Re: Are All These Marriage Processes Compulsory? by crackhaus: 8:43pm On May 28, 2021
All of those steps can be skipped – a woman can simply move in with a man she loves, live in harmony with him and raise kids together.

This is the modern way to do things, and I believe that modernists & feminists will agree with me on this.

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Re: Are All These Marriage Processes Compulsory? by federal9: 8:54pm On May 28, 2021
Davido and Wizkid skipped all. They have kids and they are living better than the ones that skipped or didn't skip all.

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Re: Are All These Marriage Processes Compulsory? by socialmediaman: 9:06pm On May 28, 2021
Deborah98:
Where una dey see this love undecided thought we all agreed to hustle this year sad

Now this cracked me up

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Re: Are All These Marriage Processes Compulsory? by Rubbiish(m): 10:44pm On May 28, 2021
Deborah98:
Where una dey see this love undecided thought we all agreed to hustle this year sad
Lol
Re: Are All These Marriage Processes Compulsory? by Lunaretta: 11:46pm On May 28, 2021
You can skip all these steps. It is enough just to live together. If you really care about your feelings, then marriage is not important. In a family relationship, it matters what you think about raising children, running a household, and religion. That's what's important, not the wedding.My friend met a beautiful girl among russian brides https://well.dating/russian-brides They live together for a long time and they are happy. And they are not getting married!

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Re: Are All These Marriage Processes Compulsory? by Vision101(m): 12:03am On May 29, 2021
Na by force to get married.

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Re: Are All These Marriage Processes Compulsory? by Deborah98(f): 8:23am On May 29, 2021
socialmediaman:


Now this cracked me up
yes nu... You guys are using love to intimidate somebody's daughter sad
Re: Are All These Marriage Processes Compulsory? by adeomos(m): 8:33am On May 29, 2021
Don't worry finding love is the side hustle
Deborah98:
Where una dey see this love undecided thought we all agreed to hustle this year sad

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Re: Are All These Marriage Processes Compulsory? by Nobody: 8:57am On May 29, 2021
crackhaus:
All of those steps can be skipped – a woman can simply move in with a man she loves, live in harmony with him and raise kids together.

This is the modern way to do things, and I believe that modernists & feminists will agree with me on this.

May your future daughters raise kids and move in with men who will skip all of the above processes, can I hear a resounding amen?
Re: Are All These Marriage Processes Compulsory? by socialmediaman: 10:18am On May 29, 2021
Deborah98:
yes nu... You guys are using love to intimidate somebody's daughter sad

You can hustle and still see o, depends on your packaging

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Re: Are All These Marriage Processes Compulsory? by Nobody: 10:56am On May 29, 2021
crackhaus:
All of those steps can be skipped – a woman can simply move in with a man she loves, live in harmony with him and raise kids together.

This is the modern way to do things, and I believe that modernists & feminists will agree with me on this.


This table you're shaking ehn grin

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Re: Are All These Marriage Processes Compulsory? by Nobody: 11:00am On May 29, 2021
Lunaretta:
You can skip all these steps. It is enough just to live together. If you really care about your feelings, then marriage is not important.

You don't mean it
Re: Are All These Marriage Processes Compulsory? by merieam16(f): 2:44pm On May 29, 2021
Deborah98:
Where una dey see this love undecided thought we all agreed to hustle this year sad
grin Ure really funny
Re: Are All These Marriage Processes Compulsory? by Deborah98(f): 4:21pm On May 29, 2021
Q
merieam16:
grin Ure really funny
lolzzzzz but dats the agreement now
Re: Are All These Marriage Processes Compulsory? by GboyegaD(m): 6:05pm On May 29, 2021
They can be rolled into engagement and religious marriage and all done in one day. Engagement in the morning, church at noon and no need for reception. I did this and it worked for me.

What we did was that my wife registered the documents at the registry in her local government. Got a letter from her church to back up the documents sincee the church is licensed to issue the marriage certificate.

We got back the paperwork from the registry the week before the wedding. After the wedding, we submitted a copy of the certificate at the registry. Shikena!!!

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Re: Are All These Marriage Processes Compulsory? by Nobody: 7:06pm On May 29, 2021
Not all are compulsory. Small, simple weddings are still a thing. You just have to be on the same page on what you both want.

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Re: Are All These Marriage Processes Compulsory? by Ishilove: 7:27pm On May 29, 2021
crackhaus:
All of those steps can be skipped – a woman can simply move in with a man she loves, live in harmony with him and raise kids together.

This is the modern way to do things, and I believe that modernists & feminists will agree with me on this.

Which yeye modernity? Our values have been grossly eroded and sacrificed on the altar of so-called modernity
Re: Are All These Marriage Processes Compulsory? by Smile4mee01: 2:25am On May 30, 2021
Sometimes when I think of the.many requirements our women want us to do to get married. To marry, no dey hungry me.

I am an introvert, and want peace and quiet. Once I can get the approval form her parents in a traditional parlor wedding. We can go get the marriage certificate alone.

There is more to life to worry about. Besides, none of these gurantee a happy married life.
Re: Are All These Marriage Processes Compulsory? by sulorog(m): 3:47am On May 30, 2021
Deborah98:
Where una dey see this love undecided thought we all agreed to hustle this year sad

Who be una? Person when find love go see am na
Re: Are All These Marriage Processes Compulsory? by Zabiboy: 7:12am On May 30, 2021
SimplyFacts:
-Introduction
-Engagement
-Church/white wedding
-Court wedding (registry)
-Reception
Is there any that can be skipped?
Everything here can be skipped bro
Even bride price sef isn't necessary...
Just do a family dinner/get together, your family and her family( if you are interested in all these church stuffs, you can invite one pastor over)... You get to know each other's families well, Pastor prays if need be, then Goodluck..
Truth is, Everyone is now more interested in the wedding ( ceremony) than the marriage (union)
My opinion o

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Re: Are All These Marriage Processes Compulsory? by Nobody: 11:39am On May 30, 2021
Zabiboy:

Everything here can be skipped bro
Even bride price sef isn't necessary...
Just do a family dinner/get together, your family and her family( if you are interested in all these church stuffs, you can invite one pastor over)... You get to know each other's families well, Pastor prays if need be, then Goodluck..
Truth is, Everyone is now more interested in the wedding ( ceremony) than the marriage (union)
My opinion o

Insightful
Re: Are All These Marriage Processes Compulsory? by Nobody: 11:39am On May 30, 2021
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Re: Are All These Marriage Processes Compulsory? by AirBay: 1:10pm On May 30, 2021
SimplyFacts:
-Introduction
-Engagement
-Church/white wedding
-Court wedding (registry)
-Reception

Is there any that can be skipped?

2 and 4 are okay in this buhari economy

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Re: Are All These Marriage Processes Compulsory? by AirBay: 1:11pm On May 30, 2021
Zabiboy:

Everything here can be skipped bro
Even bride price sef isn't necessary...
Just do a family dinner/get together, your family and her family( if you are interested in all these church stuffs, you can invite one pastor over)... You get to know each other's families well, Pastor prays if need be, then Goodluck..
Truth is, Everyone is now more interested in the wedding ( ceremony) than the marriage (union)
My opinion o

Gbayi
Re: Are All These Marriage Processes Compulsory? by Ishilove: 3:10pm On May 30, 2021
Zabiboy:

Everything here can be skipped bro
Even bride price sef isn't necessary...
Just do a family dinner/get together, your family and her family( if you are interested in all these church stuffs, you can invite one pastor over)... You get to know each other's families well, Pastor prays if need be, then Goodluck..
Truth is, Everyone is now more interested in the wedding ( ceremony) than the marriage (union)
My opinion o
Bride price is not necessary in your village, shey?

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Re: Are All These Marriage Processes Compulsory? by kingreign(m): 3:20pm On May 30, 2021
Ishilove:

Bride price is not necessary in your village, shey?

Na bride snatching dey necessary for their clan
Clowns everywhere cheesy cheesy

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