dajobi:
Contrary the the advise given to me by a guy on this thread @Caveadullam or something that I should give the girl more money or something like that, well i have not follow that advise. This morning this stupid girl did something very stupid and I had to block her. I told her to send me her picture and she sent me picture of her and a guy with the guy's hand on her breast (inside the guy's room because the place looks like a room). And when I told her what she's doing is bad, and that she should start treating me well, she started raining insults. I just observe she only needs me for resources and she see me as a friend she can talk to when she's down emotionally.

dajobi:
Contrary the the advise given to me by a guy on this thread @Caveadullam or something that I should give the girl more money or something like that, well i have not follow that advise. This morning this stupid girl did something very stupid and I had to block her. I told her to send me her picture and she sent me picture of her and a guy with the guy's hand on her breast (inside the guy's room because the place looks like a room). And when I told her what she's doing is bad, and that she should start treating me well, she started raining insults. I just observe she only needs me for resources and she see me as a friend she can talk to when she's down emotionally.

SOZINN:


Ah, local man cannot anymore.

dajobi:
Contrary the the advise given to me by a guy on this thread @Caveadullam or something that I should give the girl more money or something like that, well i have not follow that advise. This morning this stupid girl did something very stupid and I had to block her. I told her to send me her picture and she sent me picture of her and a guy with the guy's hand on her breast (inside the guy's room because the place looks like a room). And when I told her what she's doing is bad, and that she should start treating me well, she started raining insults. I just observe she only needs me for resources and she see me as a friend she can talk to when she's down emotionally.

Rozcol:
fattprince give us update on how far you've gone with your weight loss, remember you can't be fat and claim to be a redpiller, na na na.If you are short and claiming redpill please find your way out too,imagine a short man claiming redpill, as in someone you can freely give a knock on his head, very annoying.

Skepticus:


Una wey dey give "relationship and dating advice" dey really try.

The stories I know will come up from many guys who don't understand women and the dating game, might make me loose my cool and beat sense into some guys head with a 2X2 plank.

I know we all have our simping past, and I'm not trying to mock guys who simp to very annoying levels, but you just can't help wondering if some guys never had any form of male guidance on their life when you hear the ridicule and bullcrap they do with women and tolerate from them. The other day, I saw you and Martinez39s advising a brother who came up with the line "I love this girl. She told me to touch her ass, not her boobs. She allows another guy touch the two" bla bla bla i just knew the "dating advice" thing was not for me.

I can not can. If you were a younger relative of mine and told me that story, I go first smack that your head before we continue with the conversation. Lol *Just Joking*

dajobi:
Contrary the the advise given to me by a guy on this thread @Caveadullam or something that I should give the girl more money or something like that, well i have not follow that advise. This morning this stupid girl did something very stupid and I had to block her. I told her to send me her picture and she sent me picture of her and a guy with the guy's hand on her breast (inside the guy's room because the place looks like a room). And when I told her what she's doing is bad, and that she should start treating me well, she started raining insults. I just observe she only needs me for resources and she see me as a friend she can talk to when she's down emotionally.

DeusMagnus:
It seems you are from Enugu

dajobi:
Contrary the the advise given to me by a guy on this thread @Caveadullam or something that I should give the girl more money or something like that, well i have not follow that advise. This morning this stupid girl did something very stupid and I had to block her. I told her to send me her picture and she sent me picture of her and a guy with the guy's hand on her breast (inside the guy's room because the place looks like a room). And when I told her what she's doing is bad, and that she should start treating me well, she started raining insults. I just observe she only needs me for resources and she see me as a friend she can talk to when she's down emotionally.

Azurevermillion:
What does OG mean?

nwaezeemmanuel:
Media Detox To Help With Masculinity and Redpill

I want to share what I've been doing for some time. When you take the redpill, you realise the world is filled with a lot more lies and controlling mechanisms tailored to the naive man.

One thing I have done to unplug myself effectively is a media detox - purposefully choosing the content I consume. They fall within the following:

1. Movies/TV Shows

I started watching masculinity-themed movies and series. Sometimes movies say a lot more than words. If you're here and you watch too much RomCom, Disney, Happily Ever After or Stranger Finds Love movies, you'd slowly lose frame - there's a reason girls love those things a lot.

Instead, watch shows that portray men in their most traditional state. Fight Club, Shawshank Redemption, Mad Men, The Godfather are some good recommendations.


2. Social Media

This is in my opinion the most influential because it works very fast. A lady posts a picture, you can sight her boobs and start rationalising simping or worse you assume she's a quality lady - we've all been there but you don't have to remain there.

Uninstall Instagram, Snapchat and TikTok, if you know deep down you only use them to pleasure yourself/self-service to thirst traps - this is just as good as a woman holding you to her vagina except it's on your phone.


3. Books

Everyone of us here should have a physical or digital library of books in the manosphere, in addition to other books.

These books are unique because they'd tell you truths the people that claim to love you will never tell you. Any book that talks about harsh/observable reality like David Goggins Can't Hurt Me or Robert Greene's 48 Laws of Power works.

Remember to read with understanding and context before you start applying.


4. Music

If you check the verses of a lot of trendy songs these days, you'd find a line or more that goes against men becoming men.

A lot are too weak, extremely emotional and encourage victim mentality. Try using music as inspiration, you can even download trap beats and continue with your day.


That's a wrap. I'd share more as I progress. If we can all master these four pillars, we'd see better improvements in our mindset and overall character.

Trex4:
À plethora of things... Original, Original gangstar, Old gangstar etc.

dajobi:
Contrary the the advise given to me by a guy on this thread @Caveadullam or something that I should give the girl more money or something like that, well i have not follow that advise. This morning this stupid girl did something very stupid and I had to block her. I told her to send me her picture and she sent me picture of her and a guy with the guy's hand on her breast (inside the guy's room because the place looks like a room). And when I told her what she's doing is bad, and that she should start treating me well, she started raining insults. I just observe she only needs me for resources and she see me as a friend she can talk to when she's down emotionally.

RAGGA40:
I'm from Abia, thank you mr know all.

dajobi:
Contrary the the advise given to me by a guy on this thread @Caveadullam or something that I should give the girl more money or something like that, well i have not follow that advise. This morning this stupid girl did something very stupid and I had to block her. I told her to send me her picture and she sent me picture of her and a guy with the guy's hand on her breast (inside the guy's room because the place looks like a room). And when I told her what she's doing is bad, and that she should start treating me well, she started raining insults. I just observe she only needs me for resources and she see me as a friend she can talk to when she's down emotionally.

Frustrated007:
When a man's resentment for women exceeds his lust, he then becomes wise

flexyEmy:
Women want male friends because they are better company. More interesting, more entertaining, less crazy, less annoying and all of that good stuff. Likewise, they know if they are pretty they can leverage that into favour while giving you nothing, so this is the scam most even moderately pretty women are working.

Men want to be friends with woman because they are STUPID and think FRIENDSHIP is the first stepping stone to sex. Women profit from this false belief because men waste time, passion and energy on an endeavor which yields nothing but hassle in return. As such when a man figures out friendship is not the path to getting laid, he ceases to see the point in having female friends.

Even though a man's frienship is worth more than woman's, women won't trade sex for it because being LIKEABLE doesn't make you FUCKABLE. Women have the opposite problem, they are fuckable rather than likeable.
Men have to work to be fuckable, women have to work to be likeable.

But a woman is only concerned with her own needs, not yours. Just like men will gladly use up a woman SEXUALLY, women will gladly use men EMOTIONALLY and FINANCIALLY. A woman is too happy to devour your time, using you as a source of entertainment and conduit for complaint all whilst giving you nothing in return. This is a bad deal for a man because his company is infinitely higher quality, and thus more valuable than hers.

In 99% of cases this means if you are hanging out with a woman you are not fucking, you are getting a bad deal.

Legitimate female friends,women you find attractive and are interesting are RARE, because MOST women have no personality. Their personality basic, based on GOSSIP. This is most women, the epitome of boring. Most women never become more than their sexuality because they don't need to elvolve beyond that to be successful. This is why the vast majority of women make no effort to be funny or interesting, and if you want quality friendship, you look it among MEN

Cc ILLIMITABLE MEN

neyyoh:
So the peep's from the olosho thread finally found there way here

Well paying for sex is simply simping no matter which way you see it, infact this kicked started the transactional hook up culture we now have in Nigeria where the line between real relationship's and paid sex is blurry.

If you're doing it live your best life but you have no value to add here in this thread.

SOZINN:
Rich man only.

Junnior:

Immediately I learnt that guy is a regular poster in the ashawo thread, I classed him among those whose posts I've been ignoring.

CaveAdullam:


Many a times, I'm skeptical about some of the questions asked here, because I view them as shit tests or just a medium the questionnaire use in garnering votes for his own conclusion. And I've come across some in the last few days. However, some are still genuine.

The reply I gave to you the first time was a sarcastic one that was posted at the heat of the immediate past debate. Once in a while we do experience such, and as this space is a conglomeration of males with different perspectives, definitely, there will be collision from time to time in order to ensure a good path to follow. It's pitiable and unfortunate that you took that sarcastic reply wholesale without proper analysis.

You know that girl is not interested in you, however, because you've enough money to spend, you think you can buy her genuine desire. So badly for you, she had to collect a whole sum of 60k to go "take care of a broke nigga". She didn't even play some romance pranks on you at all, she just showed face, took advantage of your lust and embezzled you without hesitation. A smart girl indeed! She knows your weaknesses in and out and has ways of finagling around it.

I support the Gees who told you to block her from your life and forget about her. But it shouldn't end there. That girl must vomit that 60k back. Give her an ultimatum to return your money at least not more than a week and if she fails, report her in a police station. I know 60k might not worth the stress, but for this girl, you need to clear her doubts because she's too bold. Don't threaten her, just let the law and police take its course.

On the contrary, she might be dating a "rough" nigga and you must be careful with proximity. But if you feel that taking actions will seriously jeopardize your life and business, just erase her from your life forever and learn your lessons.

Definitely, she will come back for more exploitation, this time you must reject her completely, scold her without fear and if you are a serious "madman" you can hang her dirty linens on the street. This act will help you get three birds. One, it will make her run far away from you. Two, it will make her subject herself to you for some sexual escapades, however, it will still be a means of exploitation because you will definitely lose everything in one or two notch counts. So, avoid. Three, it will make you reclaim your masculinity and set you on a path to redemption.

Reclaim your masculinity. Be well guided.

Thanks.

Qasak:


It’s stuff Iike this that rekindles my decision to be red pill and never love this girls. Just look at how heartless she acted. Women care only about there selves. It’s high time we also do that. Bro disconnect all association with this girl but don’t block her or insult her so she doesn’t have the satisfaction of having more power over you than she already has.
If you like her distant yourself to recreate attraction. If she comes back fine, if she doesn’t fine but she will never respect you if you keep chatting with her after she openly disrespected you.