Rozcol:
My friend isn't a leech and does not demand from him as well but however his stingy habits portrays a red flag, a man who does not priotize your needs will eventually be an irresponsible man in marriage, he will extend such stingy attitude towards his kids

I still stand on my word that you or your friend is a leech.Why this entitlement mindset so rampant among Nigerian women so are you telling me that the guy hasn't been giving her money since they have been together or you expect anytime she makes demand it must be fulfilled either he has it or not.l am only hearing from one side haven't had from the guy so I won't conclude yet all I am advocating here is you should be financially independent,remember that guy is not married to her so there are limit to what he can do for her now

There is nothing wrong with being stingy. advise your friend to either make her own money or tell him that he is too stingy to be her man.
Discuss what you don't like in your partner with him.

Why are you taking panadol for another person’s headache?

Rozcol:
Please help my friend suggest very good flimsy escuses to dump her hardcore stingy but very good boyfriend.

He's very good on all other aspects but his stinginess is beyond human comprehension and my friend don't want to appear as been materialistic.

The last straw that broke the camel's back was when she demanded if he could get her pads and some few stuff on his way to her place and when he eventually bought and brought the items to her, he calculated everything he bought and was waiting to be paid which she eventually did and imagine he got the nerves to collect the money from my friend (Just some few thousands), he's very rich so brokenness is out of it.

We've exhausted all the escuses we thought would work out to dump him but he somehow have ways around them (very annoying) and my friend wants to be diplomatic. Please your suggestions are highly welcomed. Thanks

you are materialistic or a gold digger!

Why do most Nigerian girls feel entitled to a man's money just because of the so called boyfriend status? As long as he is not married to your friend, u cannot qualify his character as stingy and yes, your friend is materialistic, if not she will not be complaining. Since she could afford buying those 'pads' for herself, why send the guy and then label him stingy because he collected the money?
Girls should learn to stop entering rships and marriages as an escape from poverty

Rozcol:
You still don't get it,there are certain things any lady should not overlook in a relationship, a man who doesn't priotize your needs clearly shows you are not part of his life and if you eventually marry such man he won't care about your needs and that of the kids and besides my friend is not materialistic but a reasonable man should know what to do.There was a day they went out together and he stopped to buy some banana and my friend wanted some as well,he bought his own and paid and stretch forth his stingy hands to collect money from my friend to pay for her own,who does that?stop taking sides and hit the nail on the head

Hey Stop justifying nonsense....

Rozcol:
Please help my friend suggest very good flimsy escuses to dump her hardcore stingy but very good boyfriend.

He's very good on all other aspects but his stinginess is beyond human comprehension and my friend don't want to appear as been materialistic.

The last straw that broke the camel's back was when she demanded if he could get her pads and some few stuff on his way to her place and when he eventually bought and brought the items to her, he calculated everything he bought and was waiting to be paid which she eventually did and imagine he got the nerves to collect the money from my friend (Just some few thousands), he's very rich so brokenness is out of it.

We've exhausted all the escuses we thought would work out to dump him but he somehow have ways around them (very annoying) and my friend wants to be diplomatic. Please your suggestions are highly welcomed. Thanks

Is he supposed to take care of your friend even if they are dating. Relationship is not a poverty alleviation scheme. Let your friend hustle her own money and take care of herself the way she wants. This entitlement mentality is what kills most girls and makes them miss out on very good guys

Rozcol:
Please help my friend suggest very good flimsy escuses to dump her hardcore stingy but very good boyfriend.

He's very good on all other aspects but his stinginess is beyond human comprehension and my friend don't want to appear as been materialistic.

The last straw that broke the camel's back was when she demanded if he could get her pads and some few stuff on his way to her place and when he eventually bought and brought the items to her, he calculated everything he bought and was waiting to be paid which she eventually did and imagine he got the nerves to collect the money from my friend (Just some few thousands), he's very rich so brokenness is out of it.

We've exhausted all the escuses we thought would work out to dump him but he somehow have ways around them (very annoying) and my friend wants to be diplomatic. Please your suggestions are highly welcomed. Thanks

Broke b**ches.....dey call another guy stingy on top him own money,make u and ur broke friend no go find as Una go hustle Takecare of Una needs... liabilities everywhere.

Very useless girl.
I can't even date a girl that can't pay her transport of buy pad....
Where is her father...
Is relationship a job?

Understanding is the most important thing

Rozcol:
Please help my friend suggest very good flimsy escuses to dump her hardcore stingy but very good boyfriend.

He's very good on all other aspects but his stinginess is beyond human comprehension and my friend don't want to appear as been materialistic.

The last straw that broke the camel's back was when she demanded if he could get her pads and some few stuff on his way to her place and when he eventually bought and brought the items to her, he calculated everything he bought and was waiting to be paid which she eventually did and imagine he got the nerves to collect the money from my friend (Just some few thousands), he's very rich so brokenness is out of it.

We've exhausted all the escuses we thought would work out to dump him but he somehow have ways around them (very annoying) and my friend wants to be diplomatic. Please your suggestions are highly welcomed. Thanks

I won't blame the guy completely

Many young ladies sees generous guy as maga

The guy might have very bad experience with gals and decided that he will never spend on any gal again

mosdii:
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Mosdii say that again all of them are useless.

All you need to do is to allow your friend to think for herself first and then you can see if she genuinely wants to be with him.

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Learn to be humble and specify when you want something for free or when you need a help you are to return.


Dude did nothing wrong taking his money back, if she had specified, "please buy for me, I have no money... "This could have being a topic about a stingy man but as it is, I see no stingy man here.

Why are you bringing your dirty linen to wash in public? Breakup or .........

Stop calling, ghost him be distant

If you can't tell him is over between you two then , he's still fixed in that your bracket , i mean you still love him with his hardcore stinginess

maybe that your gf no get and she still dey form for the guy like say she get. so you fit dey surprise, as she dey reason say she don jam guy man wey hold it, the guy man dey reason say he don jam babe wey kind of dey comfortable too. abi that your gf no dey gree open leg give guy man something but she wan collect money? who no dey use his brain kwanu??

Have they at any time sat down to address this?

Rozcol:
My friend isn't a leech and does not demand from him as well but however his stingy habits portrays a red flag, a man who does not priotize your needs will eventually be an irresponsible man in marriage, he will extend such stingy attitude towards his kids

Men are always the stingy one in a relationship, women are always the complainant

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Rozcol:
Please help my friend suggest very good flimsy escuses to dump her hardcore stingy but very good boyfriend.

He's very good on all other aspects but his stinginess is beyond human comprehension and my friend don't want to appear as been materialistic.

The last straw that broke the camel's back was when she demanded if he could get her pads and some few stuff on his way to her place and when he eventually bought and brought the items to her, he calculated everything he bought and was waiting to be paid which she eventually did and imagine he got the nerves to collect the money from my friend (Just some few thousands), he's very rich so brokenness is out of it.

We've exhausted all the escuses we thought would work out to dump him but he somehow have ways around them (very annoying) and my friend wants to be diplomatic. Please your suggestions are highly welcomed. Thanks

[/s] She should go and work. Relationship is not for poverty alleviation. You think guys are foolish?

Rozcol:
I've never seen his type,my friend is a soft person because if I'm the one I'll tell him to go away direct

He is deceiving her, He doesn’t love her one bit. That’s the reality. He will dump her when he is done with her, believe me he still have one babe somewhere that knows his mumu bot...

Let her tell him her anger with him...that he is stingy!
Mist stingy peoples dont know they are stingy..

Rozcol:
I've never seen his type,my friend is a soft person because if I'm the one I'll tell him to go away direct

Believe this shit at your own peril

Rozcol:
Please help my friend suggest very good flimsy escuses to dump her hardcore stingy but very good boyfriend.

He's very good on all other aspects but his stinginess is beyond human comprehension and my friend don't want to appear as been materialistic.

The last straw that broke the camel's back was when she demanded if he could get her pads and some few stuff on his way to her place and when he eventually bought and brought the items to her, he calculated everything he bought and was waiting to be paid which she eventually did and imagine he got the nerves to collect the money from my friend (Just some few thousands), he's very rich so brokenness is out of it.

We've exhausted all the escuses we thought would work out to dump him but he somehow have ways around them (very annoying) and my friend wants to be diplomatic. Please your suggestions are highly welcomed. Thanks

Entitled mentality aside, some men are ridiculously stingy and are now using the assumption of the average Nigerian babe's greed as an excuse not to spend on their girlfriends. If you can't as much as buy toiletries of a few thousand naira for your girlfriend, you deserve to be dumped. Such man will be the most useless of husbands, they would rather watch their wives and kids starve and wear rags than spend on them. Ladies too should cultivate the habit of buying gifts for their boyfriends from time to time

Just tell him not to be stingy else you’re leaving..... I can understand if he’s broke tho

damnn jst dash your friend the guy na

ThatIgedeBoy:
Very useless girl.
I can't even date a girl that can't pay her transport of buy pad....
Where is her father...
Is relationship a job?

Don't mind the parasitic lady looking for whom to devour financially.An average Nigerian lady sees relationship as poverty alleviation program and majority of them has nothing to offer expect their pucci.The guy has limit to what he can do for her,let her go and meet her father or uncle

May God bless him.