mariahAngel:


I think so too.
Most times, when I read some comments on this platform, I just wonder...most views here come from a place of resentment.



Gini ka Redpill miniri?
I've never taken the term seriously...but I've seen it being used almost all the time and it makes no sense to me.

At some point, I decided not to understand everything I read...to avoid messing up my mind
Especially on nairaland





Was he strict or related freely with you guys growing up?



Errrrrrmmmmmmm....maybe at the early part of the marriage/relationship
They can't get enough of each other at that stage, mana later, with the arrival of children, things will change.



As in...

Of course.

O wu nu ya....resentment...

Redpill wu nu ndi woke nke umu nwoke..Ndi na ahu nwaanyi ka o wu nkikara akwa...use and throaway..

Hahahaha @ the bolded...very good for a lady, maka sanity.....

Growing up at infant and primary stage he was too strict..But from secondary, he is like our elder bro...relating freely...We talk about everything..Even then, my brother's babe then no too get height, he deh use am shade am...lol

Na mom too tight then, especially in our relation with girls...Ya ruo gi anya eehhh...you pray for ground to swallow u.....well her boys av become men.

Gbam! Arrival of children, everything scatter...

A friend was telling me the other day, before ya luo nwunye ya, They do all sex styles and it was great...But after marriage and she had their first child, church agbasa...

Nwaanyi choziri na ni uka(missionary ) style.....ike a gwula di guy...

Munzy14:

O wu nu ya....resentment...

Redpill wu nu ndi woke nke umu nwoke..Ndi na ahu nwaanyi ka o wu nkikara akwa...use and throaway..

OK.

Hahahaha @ the bolded...very good for a lady, maka sanity.....

For real.

Growing up at infant and primary stage he was too strict..But from secondary, he is like our elder bro...relating freely...We talk about everything..Even then, my brother's babe then no too get height, he deh use am shade am...lol

Boys at the early stage are usually very rambunctious, and ekwesiri I ji aka igwe jide ha or else

Na mom too tight then, especially in our relation with girls...Ya ruo gi anya eehhh...you pray for ground to swallow u.....well her boys av become men.

O gbaliri o.
Okwu gbasara umuaka nwoke ehn...

Gbam! Arrival of children, everything scatter...

A friend was telling me the other day, before ya luo nwunye ya, They do all sex styles and it was great...But after marriage and she had their first child, church agbasa...

Nwaanyi choziri na ni uka(missionary ) style.....ike a gwula di guy...

I imagine being a mother makes one feel different....probably

mariahAngel:


OK.


For real.



Boys at the early stage are usually very rambunctious, and ekwesiri I ji aka igwe jide ha or else



O gbaliri o.
Okwu gbasara umuaka nwoke ehn...



I imagine being a mother makes one feel different....probably

Lol Aka igwe okwaya....Ihe o piara anyi then eeh...Na cable wire he deh use not even regular cane.


Yes, but young mothers should know hubby is the priority....Children wu secondary...On a normal obi na adi nwoke mma, both the wife and kids will enjoy full dose of him.

Some women the moment ha muru nwa, all the love is transferred to kids...Di ha ga di zi ka someone cohabiting with her and kids...very terribe...

Munzy14:

Lol Aka igwe okwaya....Ihe o piara anyi then eeh...Na cable wire he deh use not even regular cane.

Chai!
You guys probably fought a lot...mana cable wire di ni too much na

Yes, but young mothers should know hubby is the priority....Children wu secondary...On a normal obi na adi nwoke mma, both the wife and kids will enjoy full dose of him.

Some women the moment ha muru nwa, all the love is transferred to kids...Di ha ga di zi ka someone cohabiting with her and kids...very terribe...

...but most men don't like to talk about it and make their wives understand in clearer terms. Why is that?

There were times m si ka'm buputara mpa'm nri, o ga si "dewegodi ya nga ahu, mgbe nne gi lotara"
I understand now that what he really wanted was her attention.

mariahAngel:


Chai!
You guys probably fought a lot...mana cable wire di ni too much na




...but most men don't like to talk about it and make their wives understand in clearer terms. Why is that?

There were times m si ka'm buputara mpa'm nri, o ga si "dewegodi ya nga ahu, mgbe nne gi lotara"
I understand now that what he really wanted was her attention.

Lol...Anyi nyere nsogbu di egwu... 4guys...isi na ere oku...

I remember how my mom will always rush from kitchen with ukwu aziza to scatter everywhere when the last two boys start their fight without ending...

Yes, they feel it will bruise their ego...Or make them appear like sisi men...A lot of men are passing through that...
Exactly he wants the wife to do serving and also come closer for attention.


I think some modern day married women are correcting that mistake...of making kids priority...

I know my boss...No one cooks his meal except the wife...In fact he has 7kids, the wife rarely cooks for the kids...except on Sundays...She left them in the hands of the eldest daughter and househelp..for those unplanned meals and week days routine.

All her attention wu 85% hubby...

If you have a business with my boss, he must refer you to the wife...In fact the wife run 80% of all his investments...I hu kwanu ya, mgbe o wula obi di the man mma...


Na aka ya ka m noro muta getaway...Ihe ya na nwunye na eme na getaway almost every friday to return sunday afternoon...

With this care, this man no fit joke with the wife o...
O wu hu udiri nke m huru my uncle na nwunye ya na-eme...Lol...Too much priority on the kid...To extent When I visited them, i was watching one man city match, woman came o, na m biko na m tinyere my cousin Jimjam... chai...Anya m lere ya eeh, were nwaayo were remote tinye na akpa m...were phone gbanyere the boy film...
They can't guy a guy man.

That was my leave time during nysc...The next day...I pack my bag leave them...E shock them o...I just call my babe then to return, say I don abort the leave holiday.... lekwa m na i zo remote maka jimjam when i don't even touch remote in my apartment sef.

Munzy14:

Lol...Anyi nyere nsogbu di egwu... 4guys...isi na ere oku...

I remember how my mom will always rush from kitchen with ukwu aziza to scatter everywhere when the last two boys start their fight without ending...

Omg!
I can just imagine...

Yes, they feel it will bruise their ego...Or make them appear like sisi men...A lot of men are passing through that...
Exactly he wants the wife to do serving and also come closer for attention.


I think some modern day married women are correcting that mistake...of making kids priority...

Ok.

I think so too.

I know my boss...No one cooks his meal except the wife...In fact he has 7kids, the wife rarely cooks for the kids...except on Sundays...She left them in the hands of the eldest daughter and househelp..for those unplanned meals and week days routine.

All her attention wu 85% hubby...

If you have a business with my boss, he must refer you to the wife...In fact the wife run 80% of all his investments...I hu kwanu ya, mgbe o wula obi di the man mma...

Na aka ya ka m noro muta getaway...Ihe ya na nwunye na eme na getaway almost every friday to return sunday afternoon...

With this care, this man no fit joke with the wife o...

That's really good o.
The idea doesn't even occur to most people.

O wu hu udiri nke m huru my uncle na nwunye ya na-eme...Lol...Too much priority on the kid...To extent When I visited them, i was watching one man city match, woman came o, na m biko na m tinyere my cousin Jimjam... chai...Anya m lere ya eeh, were nwaayo were remote tinye na akpa m...were phone gbanyere the boy film...
They can't guy a guy man.

That was my leave time during nysc...The next day...I pack my bag leave them...E shock them o...I just call my babe then to return, say I don abort the leave holiday.... lekwa m na i zo remote maka jimjam when i don't even touch remote in my apartment sef.

I ragbuola the woman anya.

mariahAngel:


Omg!
I can just imagine...


Ok.

I think so too.









That's really good o.
The idea doesn't even occur to most people.



I ragbuola the woman anya.

Lol...when I remember then eeeh, ma chigbuo onwe m na ochi.....Chai last two fought no be here...Iraq and USA fight...umu nwoke wu fun..


Most couple wu nu lack of money and poor planning.. no time to rekindle the love and affection...haputa from bedroom..ihe i ga na anu Mpa Ifeanyi na mma Aboy...


Ones in a while plan getaway in a happening or serene environment....special time for both partners to relax and unwind..forget life and it's stress..And bond more...

Couples nowadays shoul avoid giving birth to too much kids....3 is ok...even 2...

Otherwise, them go train kids tire.


hapu that my aunt, ihe m mere fugburu ya...she likes me to come around then, but I deh dodge invitations...no one should sacrifice his little comfort for unnecessary frivolity o.

Munzy14:

Lol...when I remember then eeeh, ma chigbuo onwe m na ochi.....Chai last two fought no be here...Iraq and USA fight...umu nwoke wu fun..

Hahahahahahahahahaha
Two of my brothers lukatara ehn...until the day mpa'm e nye ha final warning with his thunderous voice and fire in his eyes

Most couple wu nu lack of money and poor planning.. no time to rekindle the love and affection...haputa from bedroom..ihe i ga na anu Mpa Ifeanyi na mma Aboy...

Ones in a while plan getaway in a happening or serene environment....special time for both partners to relax and unwind..forget life and it's stress..And bond more...

Couples nowadays shoul avoid giving birth to too much kids....3 is ok...even 2...

Otherwise, them go train kids tire.

True.

hapu that my aunt, ihe m mere fugburu ya...she likes me to come around then, but I deh dodge invitations...no one should sacrifice his little comfort for unnecessary frivolity o.

The worst part wu na o mahu na ya mejoro gi.

mariahAngel:


Hahahahahahahahahaha
Two of my brothers lukatara ehn...until the day mpa'm e nye ha final warning with his thunderous voice and fire in his eyes








True.




The worst part wu na o mahu na ya mejoro gi.

Lol...ha luwa kedu ihe i na eme? Gi na nwanne gi nwaanyi? Do u cry or seperate them..
You know most girls cry in such situation.

O ma kwa nu...Since then, I never visit them...

Munzy14:

Lol...ha luwa kedu ihe i na eme? Gi na nwanne gi nwaanyi? Do u cry or seperate them..
You know most girls cry in such situation.

O ma kwa nu...Since then, I never visit them...

Cry or separate gini? Anyi o jikwanu ike? They were like two baby elephants fighting
We ran to call one guy to come and separate them 'cause mma'm na mpa' a nuhu n'ulo mgbe ahu...they even smashed and destroyed some things. Omg!
...and that was their last serious fight.

My father did what he had to do to avoid the situation repeating itself.
Raising male children adikwahu easy o...especially without their father.
They can be very rebellious too...and they don't respect just anybody at their juvenile stage.

There's this widow who's my mum's friend, she was left with two males and a female.
Whenever she needed them to do something for her, they were never anywhere to be seen, only for them to come from nowhere when time to do that thing has passed.
You know what the woman would do? She throw herself on the ground and start crying in front of her sons that they want to kill her.
By then, they'd be weak and confused....she'd also report them to my mum
That was the strategy she used to get them to behave. I mean, who wants to see their mother crying?

N O

NO


NO


NO




NO

mariahAngel:


Cry or separate gini? Anyi o jikwanu ike? They were like two baby elephants fighting
We ran to call one guy to come and separate them 'cause mma'm na mpa' a nuhu n'ulo mgbe ahu...they even smashed and destroyed some things. Omg!
...and that was their last serious fight.

My father did what he had to do to avoid the situation repeating itself.
Raising male children adikwahu easy o...especially without their father.
They can be very rebellious too...and they don't respect just anybody at their juvenile stage.

There's this widow who's my mum's friend, she was left with two males and a female.
Whenever she needed them to do something for her, they were never anywhere to be seen, only for them to come from nowhere when time to do that thing has passed.
You know what the woman would do? She throw herself on the ground and start crying in front of her sons that they want to kill her.
By then, they'd be weak and confused....she'd also report them to my mum
That was the strategy she used to get them to behave. I mean, who wants to see their mother crying?

E no easy o...umu nwoke...I av asked God to give me female first...Ka m hapu i ji utari piarie umuaka..

With boy child....If na girl child somehow easy, girls are sensitive and pay attention to details at that stage...Their problem start, when they start getting male attention..

Ha bia use wa zie cell phone...okwu agwula...Lol

Chai my neighbour that year, their daughter kept on burning their family food ebe o na aza all those one hour plus calls guys ji asa ha isi.

Mma ya piara ya nonsense that day eeh..Si na o ga akpu ya isi, na her hair weh she fix they swell her ego...

Thats just when girl child becomes a problem, otherwise they appear most behaved from infancy to adolescence...

Munzy14:


E no easy o...umu nwoke...I av asked God to give me female first...Ka m hapu i ji utari piarie umuaka..

Gi lewe omume ha ehn, I nwere ike I ji aka kugbuo ha.

With boy child....If na girl child somehow easy, girls are sensitive and pay attention to details at that stage...Their problem start, when they start getting male attention..

Ha bia use wa zie cell phone...okwu agwula...Lol

Chai my neighbour that year, their daughter kept on burning their family food ebe o na aza all those one hour plus calls guys ji asa ha isi.

Mma ya piara ya nonsense that day eeh..Si na o ga akpu ya isi, na her hair weh she fix they swell her ego...

Thats just when girl child becomes a problem, otherwise they appear most behaved from infancy to adolescence...

Hahahahahahahahahaha

mariahAngel:


Gi lewe omume ha ehn, I nwere ike I ji aka kugbuo ha.









Hahahahahahahahahaha

This laughing emoji, o di m ka u can relate well...

jeff1607:
Nah , too expensive to maintain, one might surprise her with a gift and turns it down, probably it was cheap(in her own standard) or wasn’t classy enough, I canor come and kill myself.


Other aspects yeah

Omo, no be small thing oooo

Munzy14:

This laughing emoji, o di m ka u can relate well...

It's a normal occurrence na...but one just has to be disciplined so that you don't get too carried away

Otu n'ime umunne'm ndi nke nwaanyi choro I na call ya ehn, ya jus gbanyuo gas, duuru n'elu deep freezer na kitchen a za call
I was so mad at her for leaving what she was supposed to do...I didn't talk to her for a while

mariahAngel:


It's a normal occurrence na...but one just has to be disciplined so that you don't get too carried away

Otu n'ime umunne'm ndi nke nwaanyi choro I na call ya ehn, ya jus gbanyuo gas, duuru n'elu deep freezer na kitchen a za call
I was so mad at her for leaving what she was supposed to do...I didn't talk to her for a while

Hahaha...oooh...o wu nu general case...


Ihe ahu wu stage umu nwoke ji akpo umu nwaanyi...sugar in his tea, cockroach in his cupboard, tomato Jos ya...

Gi hu the babe ya na smile on phone ka nwaanyi biara ije di ohuru...lol

As u know talk, that was a deep message for her.

I was enjoying the page not until u guyz turned it to ur local language reply, off to another page abeg

Munzy14:

Hahaha...oooh...o wu nu general case...


Ihe ahu wu stage umu nwoke ji akpo umu nwaanyi...sugar in his tea, cockroach in his cupboard, tomato Jos ya...

Gi hu the babe ya na smile on phone ka nwaanyi biara ije di ohuru...lol

As u know talk, that was a deep message for her.

I had to guide her to do what is right.
There's time for everything.

mariahAngel:





I had to guide her to do what is right.
There's time for everything.

Yea sure...you try well well.