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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Women After Sleeping With Them? by highchief1: 7:34am On Jun 27, 2021
officialmario:
Some ladies may be having an affair with their lover, they had great time together, but he is no longer answering his phones and looks to be unable to meet your demands. You may have fallen in love with him, but he vanished that night after having a taste of you, it happens to me at times whenever I have sex with a woman I don't have much feelings for, the love disappears after having a taste of her, but I always try to make myself available for her, even after the whole scenario.

I had love the whole house to shed more light on this.

Why do men lose interest in women after sleeping with them?

over to you.
if totooo smell me don move.
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Women After Sleeping With Them? by spiralwedge(m): 7:34am On Jun 27, 2021
The other way round for me. I have a lot of self control and i easily put ladies on sister-zone. But if you're into me like i am into you, and we get down to it, especially if it's our first meeting, i'm relunctantly to let go. The interest will increase.
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Women After Sleeping With Them? by Goldbw122(m): 7:36am On Jun 27, 2021
It takes the grace of God to stay with one woman ..

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Women After Sleeping With Them? by MNDY(m): 7:37am On Jun 27, 2021
Ogbotobo77:
It is not a man's duty to retain a woman...a man's duty is to attain a woman...a woman's duty is to retain the man post-sex...and how do u do this?...STAND OUT..how do u stand out from other women?...add value in his life...be an asset not a liability...when u do this,a man's interest amplifies....women control access to sex..men control access to commitment and marriage...men have done their part to get the sex...it's the woman's turn to gain a man's commitment and ring

Gold input from a psychological angle.
Unfortunately, women think doing all that would amount to desperation.
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Women After Sleeping With Them? by Nobody: 7:42am On Jun 27, 2021
Abikeade11:
Because they have gotten what they wanted. Men and pussy are 5&6.
Abike i wont do that to you,trust me.

Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Women After Sleeping With Them? by abiolamitodun(m): 7:45am On Jun 27, 2021
MALIGNANTGuest:
It's Natural.
Even married men lose interest in their wives.
Married Male pastors are also inclusive.
Some happen abruptly.
Some happen insidiously.
It takes both to keep the affair rekindled.
That's the singular reason your decision to marry any Lady shouldn't be based on PUSSY..., but should be based more on what she can offer beyond PUSSY.

Ask all those MALE NAIRALANDERS who got married in January this year, 50% of them are already tired of seeing their wives nudes.
They want to explore other women around.
The rest will get more tired after she gives birth.
Thereafter, SEXX becomes a duty & not a fantasy.
MALE creatures are naturally wired that way.
As a Man, It takes a lot to be inclined to one Lady, even the ladies know that.
Some are just too stupid to know that it takes alot to keep to one woman...if women do get pregnant through the man's mind and not the physical...do u know how many women would have gotten pregnant by a married men...some married are even worse that they can't even spice their marital sex life...
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Women After Sleeping With Them? by Quaddafi29: 7:49am On Jun 27, 2021
When an okada man gives you a free lift with a genuine heart, it won't be easy to forget him but when you pay for the ride, don't have any reason to remember the rider. It's just business. Genuine courtship borne out of love and affection has disappeared to be replaced by pay-as-you-go, and that why its all business now. Personal opinion though

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Women After Sleeping With Them? by Abikeade11(f): 7:49am On Jun 27, 2021
DonroxyII:
smh the kinda men you been around !
well, I made that comment based on what I see happening around which is very common and not based on my life experience.
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Women After Sleeping With Them? by JBoss25(m): 7:49am On Jun 27, 2021
michjunior:
All the bad friends my parent warned me about done make am finish ....The good ones dey do POS
grin grin
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Women After Sleeping With Them? by remedick: 7:50am On Jun 27, 2021
officialmario:
Some ladies may be having an affair with their lover, they had great time together, but he is no longer answering his phones and looks to be unable to meet your demands. You may have fallen in love with him, but he vanished that night after having a taste of you, it happens to me at times whenever I have sex with a woman I don't have much feelings for, the love disappears after having a taste of her, but I always try to make myself available for her, even after the whole scenario.

I had love the whole house to shed more light on this.

Why do men lose interest in women after sleeping with them?

over to you.

Bros that was not love. It was just infatuation.

Love does not vanish after sex cos her body was not what attracted you to her.

Simple.

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Women After Sleeping With Them? by Abikeade11(f): 7:51am On Jun 27, 2021
Volkswagen90:
Abike i wont do that to you,trust me.
I am not even searching though and I know you aren't searching either.
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Women After Sleeping With Them? by frowland(m): 7:54am On Jun 27, 2021
Ogbotobo77:
It is not a man's duty to retain a woman...a man's duty is to attain a woman...a woman's duty is to retain the man post-sex...and how do u do this?...STAND OUT..how do u stand out from other women?...add value in his life...be an asset not a liability...when u do this,a man's interest amplifies....women control access to sex..men control access to commitment and marriage...men have done their part to get the sex...it's the woman's turn to gain a man's commitment and ring


Hmmm
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Women After Sleeping With Them? by ChngedChnges(m): 7:56am On Jun 27, 2021
Ogbotobo77:
It is not a man's duty to retain a woman...a man's duty is to attain a woman...a woman's duty is to retain the man post-sex...and how do u do this?...STAND OUT..how do u stand out from other women?...add value in his life...be an asset not a liability...when u do this,a man's interest amplifies....women control access to sex..men control access to commitment and marriage...men have done their part to get the sex...it's the woman's turn to gain a man's commitment and ring
Wisdom de follow u my brother
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Women After Sleeping With Them? by IJEYdiamond(f): 7:58am On Jun 27, 2021
officialmario:

can it happen to someone's housewife? I mean not having feeling for her after having sex with her.

Yes there r some many men in marriages (Arranged Marriages) who do not have chemistry,intimacy and or not sexually connected to their housewives.. they just have sex because the body needs it.. no pleasure no affection nothing. open leg do and move.. and also for the sake of having children... So yes it happens in such cases.
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Women After Sleeping With Them? by phoenixcent(m): 7:58am On Jun 27, 2021
its because you never loved her, you just wanted a do it because you felt she loves you. when a man have sex, he does it for the pleasures but when a woman does, she does it for love. women hardly have sex for the fun of it except for the loose ones, but men generally have sex for fun or to sample different kinds of pussy.

no matter how good a pussy is, if you don't love the owner of the pussy, you will never love her coz of d pussy. you may love a lady with a bad pussy and help her find a way to make it good.

pls note, the last part of my statement does not apply to virgins.
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Women After Sleeping With Them? by PoshTraveIer: 7:58am On Jun 27, 2021
i dump them if they are not sex addicts

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Women After Sleeping With Them? by lifeandjoy: 7:59am On Jun 27, 2021
Ogbotobo77:
It is not a man's duty to retain a woman...a man's duty is to attain a woman...a woman's duty is to retain the man post-sex...and how do u do this?...STAND OUT..how do u stand out from other women?...add value in his life...be an asset not a liability...when u do this,a man's interest amplifies....women control access to sex..men control access to commitment and marriage...men have done their part to get the sex...it's the woman's turn to gain a man's commitment and ring
This is insightful, never seen this point of view before.
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Women After Sleeping With Them? by Ogbotobo77(m): 8:04am On Jun 27, 2021
UncleJudax:
you certainly doing FnF

Learnt alot from that podcast and also from rollo tomassi
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Women After Sleeping With Them? by Xplorex: 8:06am On Jun 27, 2021
The comments here are sort of...

Y'all make it seems as if it's the responsibility of wives to spice up the sex life of the marriages, while the men sit and do nothing..

Men should be responsible too. Y'all are always quick to run from responsible behaviours and will still open your mouths to say women are weak ..

Mtcheew

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Women After Sleeping With Them? by MartinsD12(m): 8:09am On Jun 27, 2021
officialmario:
Some ladies may be having an affair with their lover, they had great time together, but he is no longer answering his phones and looks to be unable to meet your demands. You may have fallen in love with him, but he vanished that night after having a taste of you, it happens to me at times whenever I have sex with a woman I don't have much feelings for, the love disappears after having a taste of her, but I always try to make myself available for her, even after the whole scenario.

I had love the whole house to shed more light on this.

Why do men lose interest in women after sleeping with them?

over to you.
It's lust not love that's the simple answer, if I should love a girl genuinely assuming I even sleep with her it won't make me lose interest in her rather I will try to see how I can make plans to marry her once we are comfortable and compatible with one another
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Women After Sleeping With Them? by xpertoyin: 8:10am On Jun 27, 2021
The question can also be asked that why is it only sex that THOSE women have to offer? Believe you me, if a woman has more to offer a man in the fulfillment of his destiny than a hole to poke, he will not leave.

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Women After Sleeping With Them? by Nobody: 8:14am On Jun 27, 2021
extol1:

you are very OK my bro

Alright. Thanks.
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Women After Sleeping With Them? by Vickymoores: 8:18am On Jun 27, 2021
DDDEnterprises:


It may happen. But the principles that your union was founded upon (marriage), if the man disciplines himself to follow it, will make him stick to his wife if there was ever any moment his interest in her diminishes.

That's why i said "founded upon pure love and a mindset of life-long union (marriage)"

And of course, there are practical steps that couples can take that'll make their love for each wax stronger or catch fire again if the flames ever die or get low.
how because I am one of them
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Women After Sleeping With Them? by Fastlinkpro: 8:27am On Jun 27, 2021
Ogbotobo77:
It is not a man's duty to retain a woman...a man's duty is to attain a woman...a woman's duty is to retain the man post-sex...and how do u do this?...STAND OUT..how do u stand out from other women?...add value in his life...be an asset not a liability...when u do this,a man's interest amplifies....women control access to sex..men control access to commitment and marriage...men have done their part to get the sex...it's the woman's turn to gain a man's commitment and ring

Good one, men have done their best to get the sex. Women, do your best to get the rink. Add value not liability.
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Women After Sleeping With Them? by deavicky(m): 8:29am On Jun 27, 2021
Maybe the hole is not sweet so no need to remain there.
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Women After Sleeping With Them? by Cholls(m): 8:29am On Jun 27, 2021
falcon01:
it seem you don't understand the screenshot you sent
my brother no na tell me
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Women After Sleeping With Them? by Ensquare(m): 8:32am On Jun 27, 2021
We can't take a particular brand all the time
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Women After Sleeping With Them? by akinwale701(m): 8:34am On Jun 27, 2021
Ogbotobo77:
It is not a man's duty to retain a woman...a man's duty is to attain a woman...a woman's duty is to retain the man post-sex...and how do u do this?...STAND OUT..how do u stand out from other women?...add value in his life...be an asset not a liability...when u do this,a man's interest amplifies....women control access to sex..men control access to commitment and marriage...men have done their part to get the sex...it's the woman's turn to gain a man's commitment and ring



You spoke well, bro.
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Women After Sleeping With Them? by vickydevoka(m): 8:40am On Jun 27, 2021
officialmario:
Some ladies may be having an affair with their lover, they had great time together, but he is no longer answering his phones and looks to be unable to meet your demands. You may have fallen in love with him, but he vanished that night after having a taste of you, it happens to me at times whenever I have sex with a woman I don't have much feelings for, the love disappears after having a taste of her, but I always try to make myself available for her, even after the whole scenario.

I had love the whole house to shed more light on this.

Why do men lose interest in women after sleeping with them?

over to you.
Me I start to lose interest in a woman de moment she starts to beg me for money. That's y I'm looking for a lady who can cater for herself
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Women After Sleeping With Them? by RSVP: 8:45am On Jun 27, 2021
Ogbotobo77:
It is not a man's duty to retain a woman...a man's duty is to attain a woman...a woman's duty is to retain the man post-sex...and how do u do this?...STAND OUT..how do u stand out from other women?...add value in his life...be an asset not a liability...when u do this,a man's interest amplifies....women control access to sex..men control access to commitment and marriage...men have done their part to get the sex...it's the woman's turn to gain a man's commitment and ring

You're very right and this is exactly my view too.

Most men just want to have sex and no any strong form of commitment from the initial stage of the relationship bcuz we are usually paying much attention to the physical features at that stage and we can do almost anything to get the ship sailing till we reach our goal then we sometimes start developing deep feelings for the lady when we found her attitude and affection appealing... So logically, it's now the lady responsibilty to make us want her more after the sex thing so we don't make her an object we run to whenever we need it.

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