Stevebamdex:
Ladies And Their Myopic Reasoning Sometimes..The Guy Approached You But You Turned Him Down.
He Wooed Your Friend And She Accepted Him.
Your Analog Mind Should Tell You That Guys No Dey Chase Women For Long Again..If You Keep Us Waiting For Too Long,we Moveeeee!! .
Sorry For Your Pain, But I Like Your Bestie Sha..She No Even Waste Time..

ThEGodFaThEr103:
You're truly selfish. You rejected the guy and he opted for your friend and your friend accepted and now you're having issues with your friend over a guy you rejected his proposals. You cannot eat your cake and have it. Your friend made a wise decision knowingfully well that "man dey scarce for market".

maiiilooo:
I wasn't going to talk,but since u asked for our thought...i will say u're stupid.

Pierocash:
So this girl hasnt realised that men are no longer persuasive in chasing women. Once they woo you and you say no they move on.

So because you don't like some kind of fruit means your friend shouldn't eat the fruit right? You are confused

I did same,I proposed to her about marriage,she was sounding incoherent, I moved on and proposed to another more prettier babe she knows quite well,because of that she stopped greeting me when she discovered we are deeply in love and sees us often. Who cares?

Pierocash:
So this girl hasnt realised that men are no longer persuasive in chasing women. Once they woo you and you say no they move on.

So because you don't like some kind of fruit means your friend shouldn't eat the fruit right? You are confused

I did same,I proposed to her about marriage,she was sounding incoherent, I moved on and proposed to another more prettier babe she knows quite well,because of that she stopped greeting me when she discovered we are deeply in love and sees us often. Who cares?

mariahAngel:


Ogologo ihe a I dege, akwa I ma na onye ahu wu Zzor?

Rozcol:
Yes I had to end my friendship with my once very good friend because she saw nothing wrong in dating someone who used to be so interested in me, that I turned him down isn't enough reason for her to date him

There are so many other guys she can date and it shows the guy does not genuinely love her else he wouldn't have come for me in the first place.

I don't think it's cool for a close friend to go ahead and date someone who was once interested in her friend, its betrayal and also a sign that she doesn't know and respect boundaries and that's dangerous to me, such friends are not to be trusted. She can stab you at the back when you least expect.

Now she's telling people that I'm selfish and petty for having issues with her decision to date the so called guy. What do you think?

Kandeed:


You're a real nigga

Rozcol:
And you didn't notice the betrayal in all of these,its against the rules and this is just a little of what she's capable of doing

Rozcol:
Yes I had to end my friendship with my once very good friend because she saw nothing wrong in dating someone who used to be so interested in me, that I turned him down isn't enough reason for her to date him

There are so many other guys she can date and it shows the guy does not genuinely love her else he wouldn't have come for me in the first place.

I don't think it's cool for a close friend to go ahead and date someone who was once interested in her friend, its betrayal and also a sign that she doesn't know and respect boundaries and that's dangerous to me, such friends are not to be trusted. She can stab you at the back when you least expect.

Now she's telling people that I'm selfish and petty for having issues with her decision to date the so called guy. What do you think?

Telstar:
Yeah, foreign girls are straightforward. If you are talking to a foreign chick and she likes you, she would go ahead with you immediately, but if she doesn't like you, she would tell you straight away.

I could recall when I was in a nightclub with my niggas, one of them said to me Man G, look at this pretty chick. She's starring at you. I went to meet the girl, I was like wazz up baby? Bla bla bla, the rest is history now.

Makaveli217:


Leave all these Nigeria girls with their confused brains and always playing hard to get mentally, even if they are dieing for a guy and start giving him green light and he codes it and approach them, they will immediately start playing hard to get games while secretly dieing and craving for him. Very low mentality beings.

Munzy14:

Ooo so owu ya di ihe a...lol

Anyway di okwu a wufu hu...It may still be a personal experience ya sha...

What's your Opinion on this her petty mindset regarding her frnd?

Rozcol:
Yes I had to end my friendship with my once very good friend because she saw nothing wrong in dating someone who used to be so interested in me, that I turned him down isn't enough reason for her to date him

There are so many other guys she can date and it shows the guy does not genuinely love her else he wouldn't have come for me in the first place.

I don't think it's cool for a close friend to go ahead and date someone who was once interested in her friend, its betrayal and also a sign that she doesn't know and respect boundaries and that's dangerous to me, such friends are not to be trusted. She can stab you at the back when you least expect.

Now she's telling people that I'm selfish and petty for having issues with her decision to date the so called guy. What do you think?

killerdragon:
MANY ARE MAD BUT FEW ARE ROAMING

Rozcol:
Its not exactly the way you painted it,she was in the know all the while he was after me,she never said anything positive about him but secretly started dating him,she's snakelike and why was she hiding it?if she were to be open about it I won't have had any issues with her

Rozcol:
Yes I had to end my friendship with my once very good friend because she saw nothing wrong in dating someone who used to be so interested in me, that I turned him down isn't enough reason for her to date him

There are so many other guys she can date and it shows the guy does not genuinely love her else he wouldn't have come for me in the first place.

I don't think it's cool for a close friend to go ahead and date someone who was once interested in her friend, its betrayal and also a sign that she doesn't know and respect boundaries and that's dangerous to me, such friends are not to be trusted. She can stab you at the back when you least expect.

Now she's telling people that I'm selfish and petty for having issues with her decision to date the so called guy. What do you think?

mariahAngel:


To be honest, if the "friend" went behind my back to agree to date a guy that was wooing me, I'd cut her off. (It'll be different if she asked me about it)
It's not being petty, it's being wary of someone you considered a friend. E fit be her husband wey she go collect in future.
Most guys do that sort of thing a lot...mostly to get back at the lady that refused them. It's so silly.
Some even stoop so low as to ask the sister to their interest out.

I ma na okwu gbasara ndi umu nwoke di n'ich n'okwu gbasara umu nwaanyi.

mariahAngel:


To be honest, if the "friend" went behind my back to agree to date a guy that was wooing me, I'd cut her off. (It'll be different if she asked me about it)
It's not being petty, it's being wary of someone you considered a friend. E fit be her husband wey she go collect in future.
Most guys do that sort of thing a lot...mostly to get back at the lady that refused them. It's so silly.
Some even stoop so low as to ask the sister to their interest out.

I ma na okwu gbasara ndi umu nwoke di n'ich n'okwu gbasara umu nwaanyi.

BlissGod:


Ibu onye ara. Anu ofia, that friend needs your validation to date am adult like her.

Onye iberibe. Someone you rejected and she accepted. Anu mpama

Munzy14:

Chai....gi nà this babe eeh...

I swear it sounded somehow...Person weh u no want, your friend eeveloped interest...To me it shouldn't bother u like that na.

Well, the truth is, if u have a good guy around...Some females around you(Including friends and siblings) also want him...Ihe o ma wunu choice.

And it starts by u sharing info about him to them, some will develope interest.

To me I feel it's bad if you have interest in a guy, only to discover a friend u told, went behind to hook him...

But you see a guy u rejected, dating ur friend...shouldn't be a big deal...

The trick is...As a lady, 5 guys will be drawn towards you for 5different reasons...

Same is with a guy and five ladies giving him greenlight.

Rozcol:
Its surprising to see majority of you insulting me over this, if what she did was right,when then did she keep it a secret till I found out. My visit to her house exposed everything because I met the guy there and was surprised and immediately he saw me his countenance changed,I quickly smell something fishy and confronted her and she owned up that they've started dating, I was dumbfounded and I just quietly left her house and text her never to come near me and everything that concerns me again.I'm not jealous of anything but that snakey slimy and cunning habit is what I can't stand.