Please guy I am at a crossroads, my fiancée loves clubbing and night parties a lot, is it right to marry a girl like that?

FYI, she does not drink or smoke, she just loves the nightlife.

You, do you love clubbing? yes or no?

Nope not worth the hassles

SUPERPACK:
You, do you love clubbing? yes or no?

No, I just want to confirm if girls like that are very promiscuous

Well it depends on how chronic the issue is. Marriage calls for a lot of adjustment and compromise; but if not...

Wazzaowner:


No, I just want to confirm if girls like that are very promiscuous

It's a red flag if u don't drink alcohol or go clubbing yourself, but I don't know about the promiscuity part.

I've also met some good girls who started clubbing as a result of bad influence, thinking there's something to gain from it, so it's not always an indication of bad character. Either ways, I no fit marry woman wey dey club cos I no dey go club or drink alcohol.

When you get married to her she should change her character because there are stages in life so that is how marriage life is programmed.

Goldbw122:
When you get married to her she should change her character because there are stages in life so that is how marriage life is programmed.

This is where the biggest problem lies. Marriage doesn't change people like we think. There are many married people complaining cos they feel caged and the moment they see an opportunity to catch fun outside, they may start cheating...

Marry your type, finish. Nothing new about clubbing but don't marry a club girl if you're a church brother... That's life.

Bro God that have you the brain early will guide you all the way.. every situation is different but I will say, that is a red flag.

Wazzaowner:
FYI, she does not drink or smoke, she just loves the nightlife.

She doesnt drink or smoke, then what does she goes there to do.

If you can't cope with her lifestyle now, thinking she will change after marriage.
My Broda you're on your own o because she might add more to just sitting in clubs.

Ki Oluwa wa pelu e o!

dhameelare:


She doesnt drink or smoke, then what does she goes there to do.

Probably to dance and network, if not na hook-up girl o!

Wazzaowner:
Please guy I am at a crossroads, my fiancée loves clubbing and night parties a lot, is it right to marry a girl like that?

FYI, she does not drink or smoke, she just loves the nightlife.

Only if you can marry Okpoho then proceede with her

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Goldbw122:
When you get married to her she should change her character because there are stages in life so that is how marriage life is programmed.

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It is definitely a red flag for me. The last lady I dated I met her through a colleague at work.The first weekend she spent at my place was actually the last. The first night She kept disturbing me to take her clubbing but it wasn't something i was into so the next day which was on a Saturday evening I took her to a bar around the area that was always bubbling with people but before we could take our seats,she said it wasn't what she wanted then I formed I knew exactly what she would like and took her to a popular night club in town but she also complained that the place was too boring for her that she liked seeing activities.That was when I asked her if she had anywhere in mind that she would love us to go. She actually took me to a Strip Club that had prostitutes all around,with rough guys playing snooker one side.A bottle of beer there was #900 before I could finish one she was on three and she started dancing any how all over the place that I felt ashamed for her.
Took her Home and pretended I was cool but that was enough for me to find an excuse to ditch her. I did background checks.She was also smoking and had alcohol issues and other nasty tendencies I couldnt deal with.

Girlfriend abi fiancee?


You know what happens in clubs?

Offpoint1:
Girlfriend abi fiancee?


You know what happens in clubs?

Fiancee

SonofGod231:
It is definitely a red flag for me. The last lady I dated I met her through a colleague at work.The first weekend she spent at my place was actually the last. The first night She kept disturbing me to take her clubbing but it wasn't something i was into so the next day which was on a Saturday evening I took her to a bar around the area that was always bubbling with people but before we could take our seats,she said it wasn't what she wanted then I formed I knew exactly what she would like and took her to a popular night club in town but she also complained that the place was too boring for her that she liked seeing activities.That was when I asked her if she had anywhere in mind that she would love us to go. She actually took me to a Strip Club that had prostitutes all around,with rough guys playing snooker one side.A bottle of beer there was #900 before I could finish one she was on three and she started dancing any how all over the place that I felt ashamed for her.
Took her Home and pretended I was cool but that was enough for me to find an excuse to ditch her. I did background checks.She was also smoking and had alcohol issues and other nasty tendencies I couldnt deal with.

Wahala plenty for this life

No insult mean’t brotherly. How do understand the quote “show me your friend and I will tell you who you are!”
It isn’t safe out there with that lifestyle.

DankemzI:


Probably to dance and network, if not na hook-up girl o!

Which networking do you want to do inside a club?

Even if you network with big men that can help you,chances are that they just want to sleep with you!
Club is not for networking abeg!

A decent girl no get time for night life.

Though is good to have fun sometimes but not constant.

Either she's an upcoming or a repackaged Olosho

Mehn!

SonofGod231:
It is definitely a red flag for me. The last lady I dated I met her through a colleague at work.The first weekend she spent at my place was actually the last. The first night She kept disturbing me to take her clubbing but it wasn't something i was into so the next day which was on a Saturday evening I took her to a bar around the area that was always bubbling with people but before we could take our seats,she said it wasn't what she wanted then I formed I knew exactly what she would like and took her to a popular night club in town but she also complained that the place was too boring for her that she liked seeing activities.That was when I asked her if she had anywhere in mind that she would love us to go. She actually took me to a Strip Club that had prostitutes all around,with rough guys playing snooker one side.A bottle of beer there was #900 before I could finish one she was on three and she started dancing any how all over the place that I felt ashamed for her.
Took her Home and pretended I was cool but that was enough for me to find an excuse to ditch her. I did background checks.She was also smoking and had alcohol issues and other nasty tendencies I couldnt deal with.

Damn Niggar!!!!!
Issoright

brosom:
A decent girl no get time for night life.

Though is good to have fun sometimes but not constant.

Either she's an upcoming or a repackaged Olosho

The bolded

Wazzaowner:
Please guy I am at a crossroads, my fiancée loves clubbing and night parties a lot, is it right to marry a girl like that?

FYI, she does not drink or smoke, she just loves the nightlife.

Go ahead nah, at least whenever she is coming from night club, you will wait beside ur gate and when you hear horn you can open gate for whoever that's his turn to drop her that nite

Thank God ur scripture says God loves a cheerful giver, modernisation also gives credence to such type of cooperative and blissful marriage.

Is she a nice person, sincere and down to earth?
Those are the kind of stuffs you should be looking at. ..some girls don't go to such or do such things your girl does but are bad n worst like the devil!

So it's your choice

Wazzaowner:
Please guy I am at a crossroads, my fiancée loves clubbing and night parties a lot, is it right to marry a girl like that?

FYI, she does not drink or smoke, she just loves the nightlife.

It's obvious both of you are not on the same wavelength... just ditch her

Wazzaowner:


Fiancee

You should have asked this question before proposing to her

Wahalla be like wetin again?

Youngpo413:
Wahalla be like wetin again?

ah don forget too

Geee you are being a f@cking Simp with this question of yours. Who send u message to enter relationship Who even send u message to go date a club girl..

I can’t count how many club girls I’ve smashed in the bathroom of the club while their boyfriend is out there placing orders..

How many I secretly gave my complimentary cards while their bf is paying the bills..

guy your b!tch goes to the club in order to be impressed by affluent spending guys and those guys dig her sweet watery guts till she buhhhhhh...

Better run leave the girl and if u know what’s good for you simply date to smash and not to attach.

Wazzaowner:


Fiancee

u said she doesn't smoke or drink abi, I don't believe that sha..I don't like night parties but I visit my friend weeks back, we used go out to chill everynite I don't drink, one night we went out nd I was offered alcohol ,(she ws saying Emu si,drink more)in short I took 5 bottles nd I started behaving anyhow, it was very terrible day for me,I actually passed out o..since den I vowed not to take alcohol nd night parties is a no! The truth is once a lady is addicted to night parties nothing can make her change, it takes the grace of God..u are man I hope u understand me.