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Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by Igbojihadist: 12:28pm On Jul 04, 2021
Good day nairalanders there is this very girl I love so much. I have expressed my feeling to her but she keeps telling me she is not ready yet. It has been four years now and am finding it difficult to move on or love any other girl.

Its ruining me as all i do each day is to think of her, atimes I might decide not to call her again within three days or what she would call me telling me is this the type of love I have for her. I am overwhelmed but she doesn't understand how i feel (please i need advice) plz anyone who would remind me of the present economy should stay off as ur problem is not mine.

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Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by Boss13: 12:30pm On Jul 04, 2021
Go and make money and stop this nonsense. Your focus should not be women but your purpose. Women will rush you when you are on your purpose.

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Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by SUPERPACK: 12:30pm On Jul 04, 2021
Buy sense

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Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by Godada(m): 12:37pm On Jul 04, 2021
There are plenty fishes in the river, why put your life on hold for just one?

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Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by Angelacruz: 12:43pm On Jul 04, 2021
Kontinue,it will only end in premium tears...u are just a backup plan for her.

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Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by AfroKnight: 12:56pm On Jul 04, 2021
With your permission, that girl has held you back for 4 years. Wow.

Some people would advise you to go to the beach to wash your head cos this is not normal.

Can’t you see she’s stringing you like a puppet? Do you value yourself at all? Na wa for you o.

If we check now, the girl fit no get big yansh o. Might be one village girl with rugged features. Chai. Guy you need to come back to your senses.

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Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by tomilayomi: 1:01pm On Jul 04, 2021
The truth is very bitter, lemme kuku FEM! grin

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Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by fineberry(m): 1:11pm On Jul 04, 2021
Igbojihadist:
Good day nairalanders there this very girl i love so much i have express my feeling to her but she keeps telling me she is not ready yet is been four years now and am finding it difficult to move on or love any other girl its ruining me as all i do each day is to think of her, atimes i might decide not to call her again within three days or what she would call me telling me is this the type of love i have for her, am overwhelmed but she dont understand how i feel (please i need advice) plz anyone who would remind me of the present economy should stay off as ur problem is not mine SEUN, LALASTICLALA PLZ TO D PROMISED LAND
She is playing with your emotions man, and you seat there asking what you should do. When will guys like you learn that its not every girl you wooo. Some will just waste ur time and make you miserable.... Learn man .... Learn

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Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by Mophor: 1:13pm On Jul 04, 2021
Damn Niggar!!!!!!!!
Issoright

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Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by Jeon(f): 1:33pm On Jul 04, 2021
Igbojihadist:
Good day nairalanders there this very girl i love so much i have express my feeling to her but she keeps telling me she is not ready yet is been four years now and am finding it difficult to move on or love any other girl its ruining me as all i do each day is to think of her, atimes i might decide not to call her again within three days or what she would call me telling me is this the type of love i have for her, am overwhelmed but she dont understand how i feel (please i need advice) plz anyone who would remind me of the present economy should stay off as ur problem is not mine SEUN, LALASTICLALA PLZ TO D PROMISED LAND

Huh

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Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by Nobody: 1:50pm On Jul 04, 2021
Are you really kidding me here?
If I had a son like you I'd kick him in the balls

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Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by drmikeadams(m): 1:53pm On Jul 04, 2021
Igbojihadist:
Good day nairalanders there this very girl i love so much i have express my feeling to her but she keeps telling me she is not ready yet is been four years now and am finding it difficult to move on or love any other girl its ruining me as all i do each day is to think of her, atimes i might decide not to call her again within three days or what she would call me telling me is this the type of love i have for her, am overwhelmed but she dont understand how i feel (please i need advice) plz anyone who would remind me of the present economy should stay off as ur problem is not mine SEUN, LALASTICLALA PLZ TO D PROMISED LAND

U follow and still follow woman for four years..I don't know if liar Mohammed is our problems or na u? grin

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Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by Viridis(m): 1:57pm On Jul 04, 2021
Hahaha
I know that situation when you love a girl and the girls refuse your advances only to start disturbing you when you start withdrawing.
Tell her plainly that you are tired of her games and lock up

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Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by Igbojihadist: 2:11pm On Jul 04, 2021
drmikeadams:


U follow and still follow woman for four years..I don't know if liar Mohammed is our problems or na u? grin
is not a must you will comment

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Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by Igbojihadist: 2:13pm On Jul 04, 2021
fineberry:
She is playing with your emotions man, and you seat there asking what you should do. When will guys like you learn that its not every girl you wooo. Some will just waste ur time and make you miserable.... Learn man .... Learn
thanks for the advice but i dont just know am getting crazy about her

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Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by drmikeadams(m): 2:14pm On Jul 04, 2021
Igbojihadist:
is not a must you will comment
grin grin is not a must you will reply.

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Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by Igbojihadist: 2:18pm On Jul 04, 2021
Boss13:
Go and make money and stop this nonsense. Your focus should not be women but your purpose. Women will rush you when you are on your purpose.
i warned people like you to stay off

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Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by Igbojihadist: 2:19pm On Jul 04, 2021
drmikeadams:
grin grin is not a must you will reply.
today is sunday i no they same mood with u
Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by drmikeadams(m): 2:21pm On Jul 04, 2021
Igbojihadist:
today is sunday i no they same mood with u
grin grin today is Sunday,I no dey same mood with you too.

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Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by Igbojihadist: 2:21pm On Jul 04, 2021
Godada:
There are plenty fishes in the river, why put your life on hold for just one?
thats same question i do ask myself but am finding it difficult to another person

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Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by Igbojihadist: 2:23pm On Jul 04, 2021
drmikeadams:
grin grin today is Sunday,I no dey same mood with you too.
have a nice day dont bother to reply

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Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by drmikeadams(m): 2:25pm On Jul 04, 2021
Igbojihadist:
have a nice day dont bother to reply
grin grin grin have a nice Day too, if you like bother and reply

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Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by Igbojihadist: 2:26pm On Jul 04, 2021
AfroKnight:
With your permission, that girl has held you back for 4 years. Wow.

Some people would advise you to go to the beach to wash your head cos this is not normal.

Can’t you see she’s stringing you like a puppet? Do you value yourself at all? Na wa for you o.

If we check now, the girl fit not get big yansh o. Might be one village girl with rugged features. Chai. Guy you need to come back to your senses.
okay like what do u sugest now
Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by Igbojihadist: 2:28pm On Jul 04, 2021
Viridis:
Hahaha
I know that situation when you love a girl and the girls refuse your advances only to start disturbing you when you start withdrawing.
Tell her plainly that you are tired of her games and lock up
okay
Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by bigcee(m): 2:29pm On Jul 04, 2021
What tf is wrong with you? You need to grow up and stop chasing shadows. That's the only advice you need.

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Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by Godada(m): 2:29pm On Jul 04, 2021
Igbojihadist:
thats same question i do ask myself but am finding it difficult to another person


You need to distract yourself. Block every channel of communication with her. She is living inside your head and messing it up.

Look for at least two beautiful girls and initiate a relationship. You wanna heal from the emotional constipation, so you need to chill, have fun till the poison she has worked into you loses its potency.

For reasons beyond the scope of this discourse, I can't tell you why you are so into her. But your job is to set your self free. She is the enemy of your peace of mind and should hence be seen as one.

What kind of a diabolical woman keeps man in sexual limbo? The most manipulative type.

Make sure you keep her out of your psych. Guard your heart diligently

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Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by Igbojihadist: 2:33pm On Jul 04, 2021
Godada:



You need to distract yourself. Block every channel of communication with her. She is living inside your head and messing it up.

Look for at least two beautiful girls and initiate a relationship. You wanna heal from the emotional constipation, so you need to chill, have fun till the poison she has worked into you loses its potency.

For reasons beyond the scope of this discourse, I can't tell you why you are so into her. But your job is to set your self free. She is the enemy of your peace of mind and should hence be seen as one.

What kind of a diabolical woman keeps man in sexual limbo? The most manipulative type.

Make sure you keep her out of your psych. Guard your heart diligently
boss i apreciate ur advice i would put that into pratice

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Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by Godada(m): 2:37pm On Jul 04, 2021
Igbojihadist:
boss i apreciate ur advice i would put that into pratice


Do this: you will be fine.

Bear this in mind: It's not all women you chase. Not all women you ALLOW yourself to fall in love with. This is a message to my younger self: I am the prize, I am the hunted. I should be desired. Finally don't fall for a lady. Let her fall. Keep your head clear. The reason being that the pattern of love and madness is the same. Ever wondered why they say he is MADLY IN LOVE?

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Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by AfroKnight: 2:58pm On Jul 04, 2021
Igbojihadist:
okay like what do u sugest now

The very last line I wrote.

Whatever this self-inflicted hypnosis is, you need to snap out of it.

If you step back a bit and analyse your situation you’d see how bad it is for you to continue being “in love” with her.

Any girl who strings a guy along like this for years should be avoided like a plague. Stay away from her for your own good. How you choose to move on is up to you.

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Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by debbydams(f): 3:07pm On Jul 04, 2021
Boss13:
Go and make money and stop this nonsense. Your focus should not be women but your purpose. Women will rush you when you are on your purpose.
chop knuckle grin

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Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by Igbojihadist: 3:16pm On Jul 04, 2021
AfroKnight:


The very last line I wrote.

Whatever this self-inflicted hypnosis is, you need to snap out of it.

If you step back a bit and analyse your situation you’d see how bad it is for you to continue being “in love” with her.

Any girl who strings a guy along like this for years should be avoided like a plague. Stay away from her for your own good. How you choose to move on is up to you.
okay thank you remain blessed
Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by Igbojihadist: 3:18pm On Jul 04, 2021
Godada:



Do this: you will be fine.

Bear this in mind: It's not all women you chase. Not all women you ALLOW yourself to fall in love with. This is a message to my younger self: I am the prize, I am the hunted. I should be desired. Finally don't fall for a lady. Let her fall. Keep your head clear. The reason being that the pattern of love and madness is the same. Ever wondered why they say he is MADLY IN LOVE?
okey thanks remain blessed

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