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To overcome shyness you have to start participating in stage talk where you will face the audience or do some public teaching work and participate in reading or announcing things in your church on Sunday service. If you see big aunt girls joke with them. Join your age mate in visiting events and shows.

You're likely suffering from social anxiety disorder which is a mental health condition and beyond mere shyness.

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I was like that.

Until i became rich

Join cult make ur fellow cult members use u shine....u no get liver u wan go join cult

I wonder where you guys bring all this contents from

Cerebellum:
One mumu up there said, you should be drinking alcohol, beta don't listen to him so you don't become a gutter warrior and kidney problem patient

And cultism...Eh eh..Premium death is loading on your dear life, I just pity ur mama and papa

Iree o

What's ur own suggestion ?

Learn how to welcome various options even if they are not tardem with urs

lmao

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright....

You are an introvert but the way you are going now if you care is not taken you will turn into a pussy ass niggarr

No you are not knee down lemme pray for U

Pls don't join any cult o. All u need is a social guy as a best friend.

sweetshisha:




You are an introvert , no big deal.

In other to help yourself you must set a goal daily to speak with a lady or two daily, try simple lines like " excuse me, do you stay around here, I like your looks, can I have your number, can we be friends" highest she'll say No, or walk off.. but slowly you'll start getting over the sense of embarassment and start replacing it with jokes like " She no even fine sef" , "girl wey I won manage"


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my Nigga
Modified.
Introvert wahala, Op I was just like you a couple of years back... Very innocent and shy, na so one guy say I dey fear woman ,con bet say I no fit talk to woman. E pain me o , I thought about it for a couple of days, I man up approach one slim beauty, I no even know say na serous runs babe. But she use F*ck reset my brain , after a month with her. I turn from dull to sharp , from shy shy to champion... But Op don't be like me, gain no dey am at all, you'll regret last last.

Get the service of a therapist. A therapist will help you get out of that shyness.

I STOP reading at one boy told u to Join CULT and u are thinking about it . Young man! That's not the SOLUTION but HIGHWAY to the GRAVE.If dey kill U tomorrow,the said friend will wear black T-shirt,wear sunshade(And thank God say nor be him) light candle.Listen up,u dnt need much friends.3/4 peepz are ok for u.As for GF ,Get urself busy with a job even without driving a car yet,dey'll swarm around u in nor time and even fight themselves cos of u.Nothing do u.Nor go KILL urself

Ask the HolySpirit to help you overcome shyness and you will see what will happen.

Try it and thank me later.

What people don't know is that, one of the fruits of the HolySpirit is BOLDNESS.

sweetshisha:




You are an introvert , no big deal.

In other to help yourself you must set a goal daily to speak with a lady or two daily, try simple lines like " excuse me, do you stay around here, I like your looks, can I have your number, can we be friends" highest she'll say No, or walk off.. but slowly you'll start getting over the sense of embarassment and start replacing it with jokes like " She no even fine sef" , "girl wey I won manage"


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Kuku kill him

Don't let no f*cker try to intimidate you oo

you are just an introvert ..practice speaking to strangers ,holding conversations ...learn to be assertive most introverts are not great at that ....you are perfectly normal ..dont worry just build your confidence up

Story

Try see a counsellor or psychologist.
Join small groups e.g.. a sports club or church group. Also read books in public speaking and 'how to make friends or meet people'.

Facts111:
Good day everyone..

I'll be 24 next month. The problem now is that am too shy. I don't have confidence. I don't have any girlfriend (am too shy to speak to a lady). You can wrongly accuse me and i will went away crying.

I am the first born of a family of six. A man once accused me of sleeping with his wife (the woman in question senior my mama) and i was like "me ? Me ? Me ? " and I went inside crying.

The only friend i have is my phone. The thing is affecting me seriously. I can't eat in public. I can't insult. I can't even look at your face to talk anything.... I talk alot inside... Am an online keyboard wariorr..

One boy was telling me yesterday to join 'cult' to improve. Though am thinking of it. People take me for a fool. Nairaland is my best website.

Please doctors in the house, is there any drug or medication that i can take to make me overcome shyness ?...

What's your zodiac sign?

Facts111:

Thank you... But what of those taking advantage of my simple life. Any advice?

Do you watch football?

Facts111:
@ drizzle0007
Yes i forget to stated it. " i mastubate ". But finding it hard to stop.

This is your problem in front of you. Don't masturbate for 2weeks. If your life doesn't improve, then come back to tell me.

Facts111:
Good day everyone..

I'll be 24 next month. The problem now is that am too shy. I don't have confidence. I don't have any girlfriend (am too shy to speak to a lady). You can wrongly accuse me and i will went away crying.

I am the first born of a family of six. A man once accused me of sleeping with his wife (the woman in question senior my mama) and i was like "me ? Me ? Me ? " and I went inside crying.

The only friend i have is my phone. The thing is affecting me seriously. I can't eat in public. I can't insult. I can't even look at your face to talk anything.... I talk alot inside... Am an online keyboard wariorr..

One boy was telling me yesterday to join 'cult' to improve. Though am thinking of it. People take me for a fool. Nairaland is my best website.

Please doctors in the house, is there any drug or medication that i can take to make me overcome shyness ?...

Oga trust me I understand you.. I was so shy too.

Couldn't talk to girls, can't just say shxt bck then.
But trust me I'm 70% free from all that rubbish shyness.

Yeah I don't have a gf at the moment, but it's now a matter of choice.. Girls way dy flock around me plenty, on like b4 but right now I no come even dy interested again.

I'm going out of it you too can.
If interested I can just give you my little tips.
You really need a friend to start with.

Same here oo
Am still struggling to overcome shyness and being an introvert
I don't have a single human as a friend
I was thinking am the only one with kind of problem...

Sometimes I do avoid to get in contact with people is just to avoid societal problems...

You too dey watch porn and masturbate bro.

drizzle0007:
You didn't state this but I feel it's one of the problem.
Stop masturbating it enforces your current situation.
Rather than the cult option.
Take alcohol. It would give you that temporary confidence boost than could be a push.
For now forget about talking to women like you've been adviced. Creat strong bonds with your male folks and advance to the other gender. You have a social problem not a woman problem so start easy.
Try to go out more or get a job. You'll find it easier communicating with colleagues.
Exercise, it will make you feel good about your self and promote self confidence. You give your self a goal of 100 push ups a day 25 each set spread across the day.
Try to work on communication via calls. WhatsApp calls are cheaper and would make you talk longer. This would help you practice communication without feeling pressure from the person's physical presence. Work on this seriously and you'll find it easier to talk in person.

Pray, I works for some.
Goodluck.

Underrated post.

donshady:


This is your problem in front of you. Don't masturbate for 2weeks. If your life doesn't improve, then come back to tell me.

Ok.

Ishilove:
Do you watch football?

Sometime.

Read this book and thank me later ....."the power of a positive mental attitude" by Napoleon Hill.

Don't join cult or you would end up a collateral damage