Lady got dumped in Hookup _Instablog9ja

Ask yourself is it the way he handle you doing the sex,the money he gave you,or the gift he bought you?,if this things are not in the picture will you feel anything or something at all...
Because from the look of things you are trying to dig a gold well out of this guy,having a thought of you Ex in explaining his care. Na ur Ex dey ur brain.

All of the above

It's stupidity and selfishness.

Love ??
You got a correct dose of penistamol and you are already claiming love..u are just experiencing symptoms of withdrawal...it will pass..just get busy..

Why won't you have feelings for him when he gave you a dick + money + care

And bought you things
My sister just follow your heart

He took care of you and even gave you money?? Better move on cuz he would soon be sentenced to death by the Redpillers being a simp he is

Kudducini:
Why won't you have feelings for him when he gave you a dick + money + care


And bought you things

as in ehn this infactuation is coming cuz he bought her things n gave her money, nothing else is bringing the feelings other than what he spent. Lmao may i never get to date any 9ja girl ever again in my life

Reason I stay away from this category of girls.
Having sex with you and giving you things doesn't mean you should become a pest to my quiet life.

After having sex with him.. And you are saying you don't want to look cheap ... You are very cheap already.... So remove those words outta your mind that you don't want to look cheap...

Pass jare, cheap thing

First impression matters alot in everything. You first presented yourself as an Olosho, am sorry only a community p^nis will ever take you serious thereafter.

Abeg do giveaway with dey money wey him give u joor. After all prick ma u get for free so no dey greedy .

Damn Niggar!!!!!
Sex just once in 4days?
I doubt that but if that's true,it means the guy also is not about sex with you but wants you to think about him with the care he gave you so you'll be able to consider him when he comes back to you

Morningblues:
So I’ve been chatting with this guy, and I finally decided to hookup with him, The hookup was just about (sex) and not relationship, Nd we both consented to it.. so I visited this guy and we spend some good Quality Time together. We had sex just once, Nd I spent 4days together. During that four day we only had sex the first day I came, After that we didn’t do Anything again, he took care of me to be honest, gave me money, bought me gift and so... Guys ever since I left his place, I haven’t being myself, Always Thinking about those moment we spend together and everything, I can’t take him of my mind, I’ve tried to, but it not working. I think I’m developing feelings for him, which I don’t want to. I don’t want to be in Any relationship for now, because of my encounter with my Ex. What should I do guys, should I tell him I have feelings for him, i don’t want to look cheap.. I’m confused , I actually want to stop thinking about him but I just can’t... I actually wanted to have fun and moved on. But then I developed feelings which I was avoiding. Please help guys...ur girl is devastated. Relationship gurus should help please. I’m loosing it. Is this love lust or stupidity

To start with I like your courage to come here and share this unlike some ladies here full of pretence.

Don't let your past ruin the beautiful present you have for you that's life, we all has had good time and bad time in relationship. That the last person gave you a sour taste doesn't mean that all relationship is like that, give yourself the fun when you can have it you definitely will meet a good guy so far you keep good yourself, be positive to life, be calm, be confident and be firm, know what you want in a relationship.

Don't tell him your feelings for him cos you have a pride to protect as a lady beside we men don't value a relationship we get so cheaply, we value the ones we pursue and catch, you get the logic.

You just keep a communication line open with him, give him the usual green light a lady gives a man she likes but don't make it too obvious.

Let him make the first move even at that don't jump at it, pretend as though you don't want it while at the same time you encourage him to press further, then when you can see his seriousness you give in.

Kandeed:


as in ehn this infactuation is coming cuz he bought her things n gave her money, nothing else is bringing the feelings other than what he spent. Lmao may i never get to date any 9ja girl ever again in my life

True bro, if you eventually get a foreign girl with good attitude stick to her.


And if you have any extra one just dash me

You think guys are not smart, the guy will Laugh You tire if you ever spell out anything like having a feeling for him. He have already classified You as a first grade Olosho so just calm down any time he wants ur services he will contact You. It seems his dick did wonders in your Headquaters.

Ur age & time will tell u. U better grab ur oppornuty now.

What you feel MAY NOT be love. Just tread with caution. Even if it is love, be sure that he also feels the same way else it MAY end in premium tears.

There is nothing as painful as loving someone who doesn't love you back.

Morningblues:
So I’ve been chatting with this guy, and I finally decided to hookup with him, The hookup was just about (sex) and not relationship, Nd we both consented to it.. so I visited this guy and we spend some good Quality Time together. We had sex just once, Nd I spent 4days together. During that four day we only had sex the first day I came, After that we didn’t do Anything again, he took care of me to be honest, gave me money, bought me gift and so... Guys ever since I left his place, I haven’t being myself, Always Thinking about those moment we spend together and everything, I can’t take him of my mind, I’ve tried to, but it not working. I think I’m developing feelings for him, which I don’t want to. I don’t want to be in Any relationship for now, because of my encounter with my Ex. What should I do guys, should I tell him I have feelings for him, i don’t want to look cheap.. I’m confused , I actually want to stop thinking about him but I just can’t... I actually wanted to have fun and moved on. But then I developed feelings which I was avoiding. Please help guys...ur girl is devastated. Relationship gurus should help please. I’m loosing it. Is this love lust or stupidity

hum mm its Love and stupidity,sorry if my words are harsh, control your emotions else u will be jilted again..It normal to have feelings as a lady try to control it,,minimize the communication it will help u reduce whatever feelings u have for him. Don't make yourself look cheap abeg.
If he wants you let him come for you pls..

Queenserah26:
What you feel MAY NOT be love. Just tread with caution. Even if it is love, be sure that he also feels the same way else it MAY end in premium tears.

There is nothing as painful as loving someone who doesn't love you back.

I'm telling you some guys will start using someone once they realize u love them too much.

I've worn that shoe before sis, I know how much it hurts.

debbydams:
I'm telling you some guys will start using someone once they realize u love them too much.

Kandeed:


as in ehn this infactuation is coming cuz he bought her things n gave her money, nothing else is bringing the feelings other than what he spent. Lmao may i never get to date any 9ja girl ever again in my life

my girlfriend did just leave me cos a guy did all the aforementioned for her... She thinks she loves him. I hope I don't get to hear the gist afterwards

Queenserah26:
I've worn that shoe before sis, I know how much it hurts.

may God help us

Queenserah26:
I've worn that shoe before sis, I know how much it hurts.

it works both ways my dear

Moz22:
it works both ways my dear

one sided love or case like this will always end in premium tears

True

Moz22:
it works both ways my dear

debbydams:
one sided love or case like this will always end in premium tears

I had my breakfast yesterday.. I'm a guy

Queenserah26:
True

I just lost a girl who's just like the op.. well I wouldn't say I lost her, she lost me

Wooow, I'm sorry about this.

Moz22:
I just lost a girl who's just like the op.. well I wouldn't say I lost her, she lost me

Queenserah26:
Wooow, I'm sorry about this.

it's nothing.. I'm healing already

Be strong please. It may be hard but you'll better soon.

Moz22:
it's nothing.. I'm healing already