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My Fiancee's Anger Issues by mario22: 11:00am On Jul 22, 2021
My fianceé anger issue is worrisome to me. ones she has a bad day, I will get my own share at home. I have begged her all i need in this marriage is togetherness, peace (she jokingly calling me Mr. peace of mind).

She just graduated and we are staying together for 2months now. She can be very sweet and hardworking, caring, can clean, arrange the house. I don't expect her to be this all good cos NOBODY is perfect, but her anger issue a big turn off.

When her Project supervisor was purposely frustrating her, and told her he will not accept her work and she will not defend (it was sorted out later) . I tried to talk and advise her she angrily walked out of my car in the middle of the road.

That night she wasn't talking to me and i started a call n went to the parlor, she came and was asking whom i was talking to and i said my guy, she queried but why did i go to the parlor, she flung our engagement ring away without knowing whom i was talking to (not cheating or calling any girl) she makes rash decisions when angry. like She can scatter our 2weeks plans cos of a small provocation.

I Love her but the anger issues is killing.

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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by IfIPerishIPeris: 11:09am On Jul 22, 2021
You clearly seed the Red danger signals but you are forming macho lover man. I hope we don't get to see you in front page of weekend punch or vanguard newspaper with a battered eyes, fractured limbs and stabbed chest.

Give yourself brain.

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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by thorpido(m): 11:14am On Jul 22, 2021
Well,since you love her,you can love her anger issues(use your tongue to count your teeth).

Except your fiancee is ready to go for therapy and continuous healing,you will be sleeping with a lit candle on your thatched roof.

There's a therapy I will recommend for her.Tell her to buy rubber bands and wear two on her wrist.Everytime the anger comes and she wants to flip,she should snap the rubber band hard on her wrist.She should do that every time and as often as the anger comes.If she really wants to get better that is.
You will see some improvement.

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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by SUPERPACK: 11:14am On Jul 22, 2021
Patiently waiting for the part two of this story maybe from a neighbour ''Married man stabbed by Wife out of anger'''.

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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by Ahmed0336(m): 11:14am On Jul 22, 2021
angry

Oga, if she cannot control herself when angry I'd advice you seek the help of a therapist ( if you can afford it)

Your life is in danger with such kind of person.

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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by Nobody: 11:20am On Jul 22, 2021
Red signs...

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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by mystery22: 11:26am On Jul 22, 2021
Stay there till she kills you...Mr nice simp...

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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by HONESTFACT101(m): 11:27am On Jul 22, 2021
how will the headline be "Hot tempered girlfriend with trust issues stabs boyfriend over airtel CUSTOMER SERVICE call" cheesy

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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by Sambai65(m): 11:29am On Jul 22, 2021
I am smelling chidimma part two,guy run if you love your self undecided

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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by Nobody: 11:44am On Jul 22, 2021
mario22:
My fiancé anger issue is worrisome to me. ones she has a bad day, I will get my own share at home. i have begged her all i need in this marriage is togetherness, peace (she jokingly calling me Mr. peace of mind).

She just graduated and we are staying together for 2months now. She can be very sweet and hardworking, caring, can clean, arrange the house. i don't expect her to be this all good cos NOBODY is perfect, but her anger issue a big turn off.
When her Project supervisor was purposely frustrating her, and told her he will not accept her work and she will not defend (it was sorted out later) . i tried to talk and advise her she angrily walked out of my car in d middle of the road.

That night she wasn't talking to me and i started a call n went to the parlor, she came and was asking whom i was talking to and i said my guy, she queried but why did i go the parlor, she flung our engagement ring away without knowing whom i was talking to (not cheating or calling any girl) she make rash decisions when angry. like She can scatter our 2weeks plans cos of a small provocation.
I Love her but the anger issues is killing.

Anger Issues

Think twice before getting engaged with anyone that has such. E get why.

Cheers.

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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by mario22: 11:48am On Jul 22, 2021
Ahmed0336:
angry

Oga, if she cannot control herself when angry I'd advice you seek the help of a therapist ( if you can afford it)

Your life is in danger with such kind of person.

does the therapist work?
Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by Sonnobax15(m): 11:49am On Jul 22, 2021
undecided
Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by valentineuwakwe(m): 11:50am On Jul 22, 2021
Why will a lady be upset at all times, thought its you that should have this anger issue n not her. Well Let her be..na small girl sense and campus babe matter still dey worry her unto she still dey school. If she sees the other side of life, she will adjust be force.

Sit her down most times and talk sense into her. Whenever she flares up again, ignore her n see if she will apologize. Let her see that her actions are wrong nngettingntou passed off. No too dey do soft soft, she will play it more on you so be proactive now!

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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by Made619(m): 1:42pm On Jul 22, 2021
A lady with serious anger issues should b a turn off for you. my guess is, she's beautiful and good curves na watin dey blind most guys wey dey regret their marriage now with ladies like ur babe

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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by obinna58(m): 1:58pm On Jul 22, 2021
Future news be like 'woman stab her husband to death because she thought the girl in the compound was his side chick'

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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by Ahmed0336(m): 2:13pm On Jul 22, 2021
mario22:


does the therapist work?

To a large extent, yes.

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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by Queenserah26(f): 3:37pm On Jul 22, 2021
Ah, this is serious. I support the therapist thing. She can avail herself of a class in anger management.

All in all, she has to first admit that she has a problem that needs a solution because that is the first step. Otherwise, whatever you do MAY be fruitless.

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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by ProphetofOdin: 4:02pm On Jul 22, 2021
Red flags!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
walk away now that you can, i am tired of reading about how women are killing men.

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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by daniel7328(m): 4:02pm On Jul 22, 2021
thorpido:
Well,since you love her,you can love her anger issues(use your tongue to count your teeth).

Except your fiancee is ready to go for therapy and continuous healing,you will be sleeping with a lit candle on your thatched roof.

There's a therapy I will recommend for her Tell her to buy rubber bands and wear two on her wrist.Everytime the anger comes and she wants to flip,she should snap the rubber band hard on her wrist.She should do that every time and as often as the anger comes.If she really wants to get better that is.
You will see some improvement.


Please what will happen after that, I got a brother who also has a very bad anger issue...
Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by DonEd(m): 7:03pm On Jul 22, 2021
What's wrong with men of nowadays?

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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by Moz22: 7:48pm On Jul 22, 2021
Queenserah26:
Ah, this is serious. I support the therapist thing. She can avail herself of a class in anger management.

All in all, she has to first admit that she has a problem that needs a solution because that is the first step. Otherwise, whatever you do MAY be fruitless.
do we have one on Nigeria? Anger management classes
Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by Spider20: 7:48pm On Jul 22, 2021
They're all suffering from pussy phobia(Fear of loosing pussy) grin grin grin

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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by Opemiposii(f): 9:10pm On Jul 22, 2021
is she an introvert?... she has mood swing and dat may be because of heartbreak or sumfin dat she may nt want to talk to you abt.. she may be lonely... u will have to talk to her gidi gan ni o... i knw worram zaying

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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by Opemiposii(f): 9:12pm On Jul 22, 2021
try and do things often dat would make her laugh sooooooo hard.. wit time her mood swing would reduce

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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by Truvelisback(m): 9:16pm On Jul 22, 2021
mario22:
My fiancé anger issue is worrisome to me. ones she has a bad day, I will get my own share at home. i have begged her all i need in this marriage is togetherness, peace (she jokingly calling me Mr. peace of mind).

She just graduated and we are staying together for 2months now. She can be very sweet and hardworking, caring, can clean, arrange the house. i don't expect her to be this all good cos NOBODY is perfect, but her anger issue a big turn off.
When her Project supervisor was purposely frustrating her, and told her he will not accept her work and she will not defend (it was sorted out later) . i tried to talk and advise her she angrily walked out of my car in d middle of the road.

That night she wasn't talking to me and i started a call n went to the parlor, she came and was asking whom i was talking to and i said my guy, she queried but why did i go the parlor, she flung our engagement ring away without knowing whom i was talking to (not cheating or calling any girl) she make rash decisions when angry. like She can scatter our 2weeks plans cos of a small provocation.
I Love her but the anger issues is killing.
Give her some break until her head gets cool.
Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by daddio(m): 9:22pm On Jul 22, 2021
mario22:
My fiancé anger issue is worrisome to me. ones she has a bad day, I will get my own share at home. i have begged her all i need in this marriage is togetherness, peace (she jokingly calling me Mr. peace of mind).

She just graduated and we are staying together for 2months now. She can be very sweet and hardworking, caring, can clean, arrange the house. i don't expect her to be this all good cos NOBODY is perfect, but her anger issue a big turn off.
When her Project supervisor was purposely frustrating her, and told her he will not accept her work and she will not defend (it was sorted out later) . i tried to talk and advise her she angrily walked out of my car in d middle of the road.

That night she wasn't talking to me and i started a call n went to the parlor, she came and was asking whom i was talking to and i said my guy, she queried but why did i go the parlor, she flung our engagement ring away without knowing whom i was talking to (not cheating or calling any girl) she make rash decisions when angry. like She can scatter our 2weeks plans cos of a small provocation.
I Love her but the anger issues is killing.


Weigh the options

Would you allow any of your siblings to marry someone with such behaviour or attitude?

You'd seen all these during friendship/courtship but because you are love drunk, you added her to your prayer points that God should change her (right?)

I'm sure if you are opportuned to travel out of the country to settle down with her (you will surely do it)

And her madness would made her call the cops on you one day.

You are the one in love with her.
I don't think a reasonable/sensible lady will throw her engagement ring away (just like that)

WELL SHE KNOWS YOU WILL ALWAYS COME TO BEG HER


BEGI BEGI LOVER.

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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by FatherCHRISTMAS: 9:23pm On Jul 22, 2021
obinna58:
Future news be like 'woman stab her husband to death because she thought the girl in the compound was his side chick'
grin
Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by FatherCHRISTMAS: 9:24pm On Jul 22, 2021
You already have your answers
Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by yean1(m): 9:25pm On Jul 22, 2021
HONESTFACT101:
how will the headline be "Hot tempered girlfriend with trust issues stabs boyfriend over airtel CUSTOMER SERVICE call" cheesy

Can't Stop laughing....

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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by peedeeasobie(m): 9:34pm On Jul 22, 2021
mario22:
My fiancé anger issue is worrisome to me. ones she has a bad day, I will get my own share at home. i have begged her all i need in this marriage is togetherness, peace (she jokingly calling me Mr. peace of mind).

She just graduated and we are staying together for 2months now. She can be very sweet and hardworking, caring, can clean, arrange the house. i don't expect her to be this all good cos NOBODY is perfect, but her anger issue a big turn off.
When her Project supervisor was purposely frustrating her, and told her he will not accept her work and she will not defend (it was sorted out later) . i tried to talk and advise her she angrily walked out of my car in d middle of the road.

That night she wasn't talking to me and i started a call n went to the parlor, she came and was asking whom i was talking to and i said my guy, she queried but why did i go the parlor, she flung our engagement ring away without knowing whom i was talking to (not cheating or calling any girl) she make rash decisions when angry. like She can scatter our 2weeks plans cos of a small provocation.
I Love her but the anger issues is killing.


Firstly, you are in love and advising a person in love is like trying to save a drowning man... He drags you to his level. He needs to drown first before you can save him. Your heart needs to be scattered first before you can listen to advice.

That girl will deal with you but that's not a problem... You will bear it (remember, you are in love). She will show you pepper with that her anger issues... But you will bear.

You will still come back to this platform after marriage to post "I love my wife but her anger issues" and you will still receive the same advice that will now be too late.

You know what to do but you want to shift the responsibility of your action to nairalanders.

Let me tell you sorry in advance for the big problem you will have in marriage if you end up marrying this girl.

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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by Aurelius1(m): 9:56pm On Jul 22, 2021
mario22:
My fiancé anger issue is worrisome to me. ones she has a bad day, I will get my own share at home. i have begged her all i need in this marriage is togetherness, peace (she jokingly calling me Mr. peace of mind).

She just graduated and we are staying together for 2months now. She can be very sweet and hardworking, caring, can clean, arrange the house. i don't expect her to be this all good cos NOBODY is perfect, but her anger issue a big turn off.
When her Project supervisor was purposely frustrating her, and told her he will not accept her work and she will not defend (it was sorted out later) . i tried to talk and advise her she angrily walked out of my car in d middle of the road.

That night she wasn't talking to me and i started a call n went to the parlor, she came and was asking whom i was talking to and i said my guy, she queried but why did i go the parlor, she flung our engagement ring away without knowing whom i was talking to (not cheating or calling any girl) she make rash decisions when angry. like She can scatter our 2weeks plans cos of a small provocation.
I Love her but the anger issues is killing.
Kill that love you have for her now. If you go ahead and marry her you'll spend the rest of your life regretting.

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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by Nobody: 10:06pm On Jul 22, 2021
Sort it out before your marriage. Good luck.

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