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Re: BBNaija S6: I Don’t Chase Women, They Come To Me - Whitemoney by taiocol: 8:52am On Aug 03, 2021
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Re: BBNaija S6: I Don’t Chase Women, They Come To Me - Whitemoney by millionboi(m): 1:19pm On Aug 03, 2021
majorbravo:

Lol. This gave me chills. Na virgin I go marry last last.
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Re: BBNaija S6: I Don’t Chase Women, They Come To Me - Whitemoney by webizone(m): 2:12pm On Aug 03, 2021
Fisher007:
Hmm he was making sense until he said they will come back home to him after playing around with other men.

Now that is were he lost it. So he is the backup plan. The retirement plan. The option T - Z ( literally their last option).

He is the one who bags the prize ( lol). I mean used up, emotional baggage and trauma prize. The keeper of the abused (knowingly or unknowingly). The caterer of their souls. The uncle beta simps.

He feels that he can bond or create anything tangible or worthwhile with them. He doesn't understand the sexual marketplace or value. He doesn't even knows is value. He doesn't understand the age dynamics.

So after years of focusing on your mental, physical and financial well being. You wait for a used , manipulative and self-centered creature whole didn't build with you to then come to you.

At times, I just pity my own gender our mumu too much. No wonder eve could put Adam out of God's grace.

Well I wish all men luck in there pursuit of happiness. I come in peace.

I am interested in learning about age dynamics. Explain that one more.
Re: BBNaija S6: I Don’t Chase Women, They Come To Me - Whitemoney by Revolva(m): 5:00pm On Aug 03, 2021
Re: BBNaija S6: I Don’t Chase Women, They Come To Me - Whitemoney by overall90: 12:04pm On Aug 04, 2021
beyondPen:


Show me a woman that has not been bleeped like 10 times or more before marriage.

What is 10times.
Is the 10times for one week?

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Re: BBNaija S6: I Don’t Chase Women, They Come To Me - Whitemoney by Fisher007: 3:19pm On Aug 04, 2021
webizone:


I am interested in learning about age dynamics. Explain that one more.

The age dynamic is similar to smv ( sexual market value).

As a man, your prime officially start at 35yrs ( some 28 yrs) till death. Especially if you are one of the Top earners.

As a lady your prime start officially from 18 ( in some cases less 16yrs) and ends between 35-40 max.

As a man you should date ladies in their early age to form a bond and lead. Once you start dating them from 25- 27yrs upwards, get ready of lots of crap.

There drama, emotional abuse based on past relationships. They will mostly just want to outplay and manipulate you to settle down with them. After marriage comes more problem.

This which will be pretty annoying to you. That is why most men in marriage end getting frustrated and sex starved. They married a woman who age dynamic doesn't suit theirs.

You see as a man between the age of 16-22 yrs sex and relationship couldn't have been your priorities. You had pass jamb, get admission, graduate, get master, get a job and on top of that compete with other men.

But you are sure of babes in that age bracket on campus. From one uncle to another sugar daddy to another banker to senator to etc. They were in their prime. They gather experience with men who are way above you. They have seen it all. Deja Vu.

Now when you finally start earning and your building your wealth you can't settle with such an individual who have been used, traumatized, emotional messed with, ovaries are gone, mentally unstable, no logical and rational thinking. No accountability.

Even if you want to bond and build up with her, it will practically be impossible because of her past ideas from uncles, boyfriend, daddy,banker etc. She will never follow your lead. She will be a feminist with a messed up ideology. Once you try to accertain your position as the head she will call it slavery, torture master, abusive, etc

In other words or conclusion
The age dynamic between you and the lady you want to marry must be in sync with when you both start or enter your prime. It gives you both leverage to build and understand each other. You both will bond and grow together. That is if you want to marry or settle down.

If it is just for dating and putting them back to the street my brother you don't need all the above. Just smash and move. Simple
Re: BBNaija S6: I Don’t Chase Women, They Come To Me - Whitemoney by webizone(m): 10:07pm On Aug 04, 2021
Fisher007:


The age dynamic is similar to smv ( sexual market value).

As a man, your prime officially start at 35yrs ( some 28 yrs) till death. Especially if you are one of the Top earners.

As a lady your prime start officially from 18 ( in some cases less 16yrs) and ends between 35-40 max.

As a man you should date ladies in their early age to form a bond and lead. Once you start dating them from 25- 27yrs upwards, get ready of lots of crap.

There drama, emotional abuse based on past relationships. They will mostly just want to outplay and manipulate you to settle down with them. After marriage comes more problem.

This which will be pretty annoying to you. That is why most men in marriage end getting frustrated and sex starved. They married a woman who age dynamic doesn't suit theirs.

You see as a man between the age of 16-22 yrs sex and relationship couldn't have been your priorities. You had pass jamb, get admission, graduate, get master, get a job and on top of that compete with other men.

But you are sure of babes in that age bracket on campus. From one uncle to another sugar daddy to another banker to senator to etc. They were in their prime. They gather experience with men who are way above you. They have seen it all. Deja Vu.

Now when you finally start earning and your building your wealth you can't settle with such an individual who have been used, traumatized, emotional messed with, ovaries are gone, mentally unstable, no logical and rational thinking. No accountability.

Even if you want to bond and build up with her, it will practically be impossible because of her past ideas from uncles, boyfriend, daddy,banker etc. She will never follow your lead. She will be a feminist with a messed up ideology. Once you try to accertain your position as the head she will call it slavery, torture master, abusive, etc

In other words or conclusion
The age dynamic between you and the lady you want to marry must be in sync with when you both start or enter your prime. It gives you both leverage to build and understand each other. You both will bond and grow together. That is if you want to marry or settle down.

If it is just for dating and putting them back to the street my brother you don't need all the above. Just smash and move. Simple



Thanks. Gonna save this.
Still one question, I had tried a lot to find and ask girls out for a long time as I had planned on bonding with one and getting married early enough, but without success. I am just in my early thirties, and some of my friends are already married. Nowadays, I don't try as much or bother again. I am now more interested in my business. Since, in society, it's required for guys to ask girls out and I don't feel the excitement about it anymore, is it true that it gets to a point you get asked out by them?
Re: BBNaija S6: I Don’t Chase Women, They Come To Me - Whitemoney by Fisher007: 4:54pm On Aug 05, 2021
webizone:


Thanks. Gonna save this.
Still one question, I had tried a lot to find and ask girls out for a long time as I had planned on bonding with one and getting married early enough, but without success. I am just in my early thirties, and some of my friends are already married. Nowadays, I don't try as much or bother again. I am now more interested in my business. Since, in society, it's required for guys to ask girls out and I don't feel the excitement about it anymore, is it true that it gets to a point you get asked out by them?

You are already going into MGTOW mode ( men going their own way) like me.

Don't get it wrong. I have my rotation of girls who come in to do the needful. I don't chase or pay girls like some men think. Paying or trying to please a woman is the most simpish way.

Now most people think MGTOW men don't have ladies or are incel. On the contrary . Na we understand female and their nature more. I don't expect loyalty from any of them like most men do. And that is most men downfall.

MGTOW brothers focus more on their self improvement. Going your own way allows you to focus more on your self. You devote your energy, attention, time and money on yourself. You work on your mental, financial, physical and phycological growth.

The fact you are going on your own way means you have started practising stoicism without knowing. The ability to walk away from women, humans, problem, stress or anything that might bother or hinder your peace of mind is blissful. In other words the ability not to give free fvcks is blissful. If you feel like taking yourself to a wonderful restaurant or travel or just be indoors and Netflix and chill without worrying about the outside world is blissful.

You see most people have problems like bicycle. When you let them into your world means they bring in their own baggage and try to attach it to you.

Now for your married friends, they mostly entered without adequate plan and just did it based on age , time, got a little job ( small finance) etc. Then they marry feeling they are prepared. Most ladies marry for provisioning or age is not on their side any more. Some marry for fairytale delusional love which we both know doesn't exist and is conditional. These put them not even at ease with themselves. Most of my married friends are unhappy. They don't like going home. They complain of been sex starved by their wives.

They think getting married make them responsible. Being responsible is not something you attain automatically by marrying. It is something you practice when you are single. When you are single you should be accountable for your actions. You should have a long-term plan and evaluate your possible outcome even in the future.

I had to explain the above before I answer your question to give you an insight of where am coming from.

Now most ladies are like cats. Men are like dogs. Cats are fickle creatures. They get close to those who don't need or neither give them attention. Meaning once smart lady sees you as a confident man ( who confidence is not built on money or material things - like other men who's confidence and leverage is based on provisioning ( money).

They will definitely come to you. Once you don't flaunt it or show off . But they see your composure and know you have it. They know a man who is focus on is business and mental well being will not devote most of his time chasing them around. Women read men more then we read them. It is only men who have no purpose in life that will be chasing and woeing women up and down like a job.

This same theory above applies to women. It only an unambitious woman with no goal or purpose in life chase after men. Cause they believe they really need to leech or secure a man for provisioning. Simple

It is only gold diggers that will solely want you because of money. But in as much as you don't spend it based on their request or exorbitantly, they will know you have a long term goal for yourself.

The smart ones will make themselves available to you. They will give you choosing signals and approach you on their own. They know you are the prize. They will try everything to please you . Even manipulate you to see them as the unicorn you have been looking for.

My brother ( or sister Incase your monicker is showing the wrong gender) focus on yourself. Spend more time alone and you will start enjoying your own company. Even if you accept few ladies like I do. I enjoy my quality time more either at the gym, pool, restaurant or at home. Most of the ladies on my rotation understand it.

I care less what they do when they are not around me. I am not bother cause I know what I am worth ( not being arrogant here.) Just continue focusing on all aspect of your self improvement and watch them Chase you as time pass by.

Stay safe man.

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