lalasticlala:
What do you think about a 30-year-old man dating an 18-year-old girl?

You want to do autogenerated traffic

Capital Letter NO it is not right
Case closed

Iamagoodgirll:
Its wrong she just turned adult

Regina 20 dat got married to 60+ no?

Beebah2000:
Haba.....It is very wrong joor.

But Ned nwoke is very right joor... hypocrites

Beebah2000:
Haba.....It is very wrong joor.

My friend shatap

Fiscus105:

A girl of 17 in which she dnt think of anything other than how to satisfy men sexually, infact they discuss individual sexual prowess among themselves (girls)

You don't think females who engage in sex are satisfying themselves too?

I’m 25, my girlfriend is 20 ��

I'm 43 currently dating one Kano girl in our compound 15 years, In fact, we do argue about who is older between us, she calls me pikin and I call her pikin too.

lalasticlala:
What do you think about a 30-year-old man dating an 18-year-old girl?

There's nothing wrong as long as she's actually 18. However, I wouldn't do it because her childishness would drive me mad

Agbaya , get outta there before I vaporize someone

nurain150:

But 17 years isn't

The topic reads 18years

she is above 18, so its not wrong. But then, not everything that is not wrong is right

May God help us all[color=#550000][/color]

Hyerin:
It's morally wrong and borderline pedo because an 18 year old is either just finishing high school or a freshman at uni. The emotional and mental disparity is great because both are at different stages in their lives. The prefrontal cortex of the 18 year old isn't even fully developed. Why would you date someone that young if not for ulterior motives? Men who actively seek younger women most times do so because they're easier to manipulate and control which gives room for abuse. What happened to the women in your age-range that you don't want to date them? You have more things in common with them than the 18 year old.

For those using the law in support of this age gap, legality doesn't equate morality. Just because something is legal doesn't necessarily mean it's right.

If the legality of Abortion can be justified, I don't see why a legal consent age relationship can't be, if it's below it's pedophilia, men through out all the adult age spectrum from 18- 60 find women between 18- 25 yrs more desirable and attractive because Biologically they are in their most fertile years for child birth, you can't fight evolution with social constructs demonizing men preferences, nature is nature,women are fully developed at 18 for motherhood, we don't want Masculine combative quarrelsome argumentative mannerless women chasing career that are disrespectful and an headache, no wonder marital rates are declining in Western Societies

Rubyventures:


The topic reads 18years

17.5 isn't that 18

nurain150:

17.5 isn't that 18

The heading states "is it right for a 30 year old to date an 18 year old?". That's what my answer is based on.

IkwereIgbo:
I'm 43 currently dating one Kano girl in our compound 15 years, In fact, we do argue about who is older between us, she calls me pikin and I call her pikin too.

You sick o

Vinnie2000:


You might be Right! But if the Guy wants a proper relationship, things will Flow well! Unless, it's to Fucck dat they are After!
NB: 18 years Girls Don Know Things! If they handle you or Tell you how they handle Guys/Big men for Bed, U go Fear!

am fùcking one rite now and She's screaming jesus, jesus

Iamagoodgirll:
Its wrong she just turned adult

So she isn't an adult?

lalasticlala:
What do you think about a 30-year-old man dating an 18-year-old girl?

Age is just a number

18 can be matures


28 can still be childish

BLOODYSPERM:



If the legality of Abortion can be justified, I don't see why a legal consent age relationship can't be, if it's below it's pedophilia, men through out all the adult age spectrum from 18- 60 find women between 18- 25 yrs more desirable and attractive because Biologically they are in their most fertile years for child birth, you can't fight evolution with social constructs demonizing men preferences, nature is nature,women are fully developed at 18 for motherhood, we don't want Masculine combative quarrelsome argumentative mannerless women chasing career that are disrespectful and an headache, no wonder marital rates are declining in Western Societies

Abortion and wanting to date an 18 year old are two different things. First of all, just because someone clocks 18 doesn't magically make them an adult. They have not had enough experiences. Thus, the naivety. Their worldview and outlook of life is still mostly underdeveloped and like I said earlier, most are just leaving high school and still learning to navigate the world. They're in a vulnerable position. Isn't that why men love pursuing 18 year old girls so they can take advantage of this naivety? From a moral perspective, one would argue that It's wrong. While you're somewhat right on the evolutionary/biological viewpoint of attraction and fertility and basing your logic on that by giving credence to that belief, it is a naturalistic fallacy. Just because it is natural doesn't mean it is ought to be. Why? It doesn't paint a holistic picture. It doesn't take into account the emotional, psychological, mental of the 18 year old nor does it consider the implications and ramifications of being with someone way older, what it entails and to a greater extent--motherhood.

By your logic, since men are naturally aggressive and violent does that now make committing violent acts okay? Just because it is "natural"? Arguing from this perspective is flawed.

For abortion, yes, it's legality can be justified because it is a multifaceted topic. If a woman, outside rape, isn't financially, emotionally, mentally ready to birth a child, then she should not be forced to do so because a child is a life-long commitment and investment. The decision of having children should be properly thought over and actually wanted. It is way better for the hypothetical child to not be born than to be in an unstable environment and not having its needs met.

There is nothing bad in it. The age gap between Olu Jacobs and wife is 19 while there exist an age difference of 15 between Ay the comedian and his wife. The most important thing is understanding between the two partners.

Hyerin:


Abortion and wanting to date an 18 year old are two different things. First of all, just because someone clocks 18 doesn't magically make them an adult. They have not had enough experiences. Thus, the naivety. Their worldview and outlook of life is still mostly underdeveloped and like I said earlier, most are just leaving high school and still learning to navigate the world. They're in a vulnerable position. Isn't that why men love pursuing 18 year old girls so they can take advantage of this naivety? From a moral perspective, one would argue that It's wrong. While you're somewhat right on the evolutionary/biological viewpoint of attraction and fertility and basing your logic on that by giving credence to that belief, it is a naturalistic fallacy. Just because it is natural doesn't mean it is ought to be. Why? It doesn't paint a holistic picture. It doesn't take into account the emotional, psychological, mental of the 18 year old nor does it consider the implications and ramifications of being with someone way older, what it entails and to a greater extent--motherhood.

By your logic, since men are naturally aggressive and violent does that now make committing violent acts okay? Just because it is "natural"? Arguing from this perspective is flawed.

For abortion, yes, it's legality can be justified because it is a multifaceted topic. If a woman, outside rape, isn't financially, emotionally, mentally ready to birth a child, then she should not be forced to do so because a child is a life-long commitment and investment. The decision of having children should be properly thought over and actually wanted. It is way better for the hypothetical child to not be born than to be in an unstable environment and not having its needs met.

What you refer to as an evolved instinctive naturally caused predation and taking advantage of young girls by the man who seeks a legal 18yrs old lady for a relationship which you suggest ought to be curbed is what I call prudence, wise calculation and foresight, a logical and pragmatic man that would want to have the best outcome for a spouse especially in these mordern era where most women have lost their feminine essence and are very poor bets for long term relationship as they are not chaste virgins and they lack the Feminine character of compliance, submitting willfully and deference to a man's authority needed for a successful relationship, because they are older and have the so-called experience after probably being damaged by their multiple Sexual and relationship experiences as scientifically most women who are randomly having casual sex have the least bond pairing capacity hence they can't develop intimacy with the partner they want to settle down with, men seeking young fertile chaste women are taking calculated risk to maximize the probability of success in relationship, not disputing that we have young 18 yrs old girls engaging in casual sex making themselves damaged already with the experience or 25+ yrs old women who might probably be virgins, regardless I will seek young chaste virgins because they are coachable rather than the word you used " easy manipulatable", see the odds of marital success in Western Societies is 50%, who initiates most of the divorce, 70% women, why, because most of them were damaged with Sexual experience and they took on Masculine combative quarrelsome traits that makes them not conducive for relationship, to further increase the odds of success in my relationship,if I was staying there I would move to a very conservative Society like UAE that's developed and the laws are not biased towards men, in Western Societies overwhelming the alimony, child support and child custody favours the women in at least 80% of the time, even marital rates are declining, Nigeria doesn't have such problem

The studies with two citation links even shows that women that have a sexually promiscuous past are the worst bets for relationships as they are the most likely to divorce, and I doubt we have mature aged virgin women in these mordern era, they are very scarce, even young ones to are loosing their feminine essence, I can't take any gamble on the welfare of my future genes by entering a relationship with a pseudo-masculine combative, quarrelsome, woman "so-called matured woman" who is highly probably sexually active and already damaged with experience, the legality of Abortion doesn't mean you did not kill an unborn infant regardless of the cause, that's a life terminated

How old were Buhari and Aisha when they married

BLOODYSPERM:




[s]What you refer to as an evolved instinctive naturally caused predation and taking advantage of young girls by the man who seeks a legal 18yrs old lady for a relationship which you suggest ought to be curbed is what I call prudence, wise calculation and foresight, a logical and pragmatic man that would want to have the best outcome for a spouse especially in these mordern era where most women have lost their feminine essence and are very poor bets for long term relationship as they are not chaste virgins and they lack the Feminine character of compliance, submitting willfully and deference to a man's authority needed for a successful relationship, because they are older and have the so-called experience after probably being damaged by their multiple Sexual and relationship experiences as scientifically most women who are randomly having casual sex have the least bond pairing capacity hence they can't develop intimacy with the partner they want to settle down with, men seeking young fertile chaste women are taking calculated risk to maximize the probability of success in relationship, not disputing that we have young 18 yrs old girls engaging in casual sex making themselves damaged already with the experience or 25+ yrs old women who might probably be virgins, regardless I will seek young chaste virgins because they are coachable rather than the word you used " easy manipulatable", see the odds of marital success in Western Societies is 50%, who initiates most of the divorce, 70% women, why, because most of them were damaged with Sexual experience and they took on Masculine combative quarrelsome traits that makes them not conducive for relationship, to further increase the odds of success in my relationship,if I was staying there I would move to a very conservative Society like UAE that's developed and the laws are not biased towards men, in Western Societies overwhelming the alimony, child support and child custody favours the women in at least 80% of the time, even marital rates are declining, Nigeria doesn't have such problem

The studies with two citation links even shows that women that have a sexually promiscuous past are the worst bets for relationships as they are the most likely to divorce, and I doubt we have mature aged virgin women in these mordern era, they are very scarce, even young ones to are loosing their feminine essence, I can't take any gamble on the welfare of my future genes by entering a relationship with a pseudo-masculine combative, quarrelsome, woman "so-called matured woman" who is highly probably sexually active and already damaged with experience, the legality of Abortion doesn't mean you did not kill an unborn infant regardless of the cause, that's a life terminated

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Save your incel talking points for someone else

hammer567:



THAT IS THE ONLY CONSIDERATION BUT PUT ANOTHER 5 YEARS, PEOPLE WILL TURN A BLIND EYE.



I.E. 35 YEARS OLD DATING 23 YEARS OLD.



THIS IS THE DIMENSION THAT MAKES MATTERS SUCH AS THIS NOT BLACK OR WHITE.



THERE IS THE AGE DISCRIMINATION DIMENSION AND SO MANY ASPECTS.



THOUGH IT IS NOT IDEAL, IT CAN HAPPEN, DO WE KILL OR JAIL THEM WEN IT HAPPENS?




NO!


CC:COCOCANDY

we live in an evil world where people have sealed their conscience with wickedness

Eve was probably many years younger than Adam. There's nothing morally wrong there biko. Men have always dated younger women, that's how nature designed it.

Hyerin:
It's morally wrong and borderline pedo because an 18 year old is either just finishing high school or a freshman at uni. The emotional and mental disparity is great because both are at different stages in their lives. The prefrontal cortex of the 18 year old isn't even fully developed. Why would you date someone that young if not for ulterior motives? Men who actively seek younger women most times do so because they're easier to manipulate and control which gives room for abuse. What happened to the women in your age-range that you don't want to date them? You have more things in common with them than the 18 year old.

For those using the law in support of this age gap, legality doesn't equate morality. Just because something is legal doesn't necessarily mean it's right.