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Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by babavik: 8:22am On Aug 23, 2021
JONSYN7154:
The rate at which married women cheats these days is so alarming. What's happening?

Two married women were caught cheating few days apart in the same area.
But married men have been cheating without anybody questioning them?

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Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by JONSYN7154: 9:21am On Aug 23, 2021
babavik:

But married men have been cheating without anybody questioning them?
plenty married men that cheat ended up in 6ft below. Ask chidimma she'll a pro in that aspect. Lol.
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by Baldwretch: 10:15am On Aug 23, 2021
HeavenlyCherub:


Wow.. fidelity based on who has more money. God help us

As stupid and senseless as it may sound, what I said makes sense. You don't understand life, sadly.

In life, human have to work for everything. Let me rephrase it, human beings have to meet his own wants. It is no one's business and responsibility to do that for you. If you want to eat rice, you plant rice. If you don't want to walk barefooted, you make slippers/shoes. If you want to travel overseas, you either construct your own plane, or your own boat. If you need to use the toilet, you must either make your own or dig the ground to tumble your own faeces in. If you need clothes, you must make your own clothes. If you need to drink alcohol, ferment your own crops.

You can see that I didn't see the word "buy" in all the instances I chose, or did I? No.

If you do any of the above to meet your wants, you would do fine, you wouldn't have to depend on anyone to meet your needs, but sadly, we don't and sometimes can't too.

Then nature creates a sort of exchange for things we can't do. Things we'd otherwise give up on. The medium is called money. Money is the ultimate measure of value.

That man who gives you that shoe in exchange for some paper we call money doesn't love you. That guy who sold alcohol to you in exchange for paper is not your friend. That woman who measured 3 kongo of rice to you is not your relative.


AND IT TAKES A HELL OF EFFORT TO MAKE THIS MONEY. WHICH MEANS YOU ARE NOT GOING TO GET MONEY FROM PEOPLE JUST LIKE THAT.


I know that you say, then what?

The truth is, when people give you value, they expect value in return. It's a law of life. The exchange doesn't necessarily have to be the same as I have shown. When men give, they expect something in return, either from man or God.

Some men haven't helped his fellow man, but he can't count the number of times he's helped women. A beggar by the roadside would beg and beg and he'd get nothing from most men, but these same men would give women even when they didn't ask.

Let me back off a bit and say this, men give women to tie them down. Understand that. They give women so that their seed can be identified, nurtured, and grow by the women.

Women bear and nuture men's seed. Imagine a world where women do not have to stay with one man. It would cause chaos because while a women knows, a man wouldn't be able to identify his own seed.

So the society and men by implications, tie women down and promise to give them value in exchange. These value ultimately, is money which could come as goods, shelter, clothing and more. She is very much obligated to restrain herself and keep away other men access to her body because someone else has meet her basic wants. We call that marriage.


So yes, fidelity is more a feminine imperative than a masculine one especially when the man brings finances to the table.

Cc: JovialJune

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Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by JovialJune(f): 10:30am On Aug 23, 2021
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Baldwretch:


As stupid and senseless as it may sound, what I said makes sense. You don't understand life, sadly.

In life, human have to work for everything. Let me rephrase it, human beings have to meet his own wants. It is no one's business and responsibility to do that for you. If you want to eat rice, you plant rice. If you don't want to walk barefooted, you make slippers/shoes. If you want to travel overseas, you either construct your own plane, or your own boat. If you need to use the toilet, you must either make your own or dig the ground to tumble your own faeces in. If you need clothes, you must make your own clothes. If you need to drink alcohol, ferment your own crops.

You can see that I didn't see the word "buy" in all the instances I chose, or did I? No.

If you do any of the above to meet your wants, you would do fine, you wouldn't have to depend on anyone to meet your needs, but sadly, we don't and sometimes can't too.

Then nature creates a sort of exchange for things we can't do. Things we'd otherwise give up on. The medium is called money. Money is the ultimate measure of value.

That man who gives you that shoe in exchange for some paper we call money doesn't love you. That guy who sold alcohol to you in exchange for paper is not your friend. That woman who measured 3 kongo of rice to you is not your relative.


AND IT TAKES A HELL OF EFFORT TO MAKE THIS MONEY. WHICH MEANS YOU ARE NOT GOING TO GET MONEY FROM PEOPLE JUST LIKE THAT.


I know that you say, then what?

The truth is, when people give you value, they expect value in return. It's a law of life. The exchange doesn't necessarily have to be the same as I have shown. When men give, they expect something in return, either from man or God.

Some men haven't helped his fellow man, but he can't count the number of times he's helped women. A beggar by the roadside would beg and beg and he'd get nothing from most men, but these same men would give women even when they didn't ask.

Let me back off a bit and say this, men give women to tie them down. Understand that. They give women so that their seed can be identified, nurtured, and grow by the women.

Women bear and nuture men's seed. Imagine a world where women do not have to stay with one man. It would cause chaos because while a women knows, a man wouldn't be able to identify his own seed.

So the society and men by implications, tie women down and promise to give them value in exchange. These value ultimately, is money which could come as goods, shelter, clothing and more. She is very much obligated to restrain herself and keep away other men access to her body because someone else has meet her basic wants. We call that marriage.


So yes, fidelity is more a feminine imperative than a masculine one especially when the man brings finances to the table.

Cc: JovialJune
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Thoughtless rants from a misogynist and a sexist, you did not think this through before commenting

You first comment to me was that extreme fidelity is expected for who has more money, you even used yourself as an example and played the "common sense" card with me lol, I gave you an instance of Dangote's daughter and her husband, your lame comeback was to make fidelity a woman thing?

You think you're talking to a nursery pupil? Your ad hominem got a better of you, couldn't even hide your two faced self when backed to a corner

Your opinion hold no water, it is null and void, baseless and thoughtless,

No particular gender has the extreme right to cheat, and I say it again and again, be you a Dangote or a bezos, your wife will cheat on you if and whenever she wants to cheat, very simple.

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Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by Baldwretch: 10:32am On Aug 23, 2021
JovialJune:
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In 2019, one of Dangote's daughter got married, the husband cheated on her, the side chick now has a child for him, the wedding was all over the internet and the talk of the town, so drop your stupid common sense rant else where, the mumu husband that knows Dangote is the richest man in Africa and she has the money, why wasn't there extreme fidelity from him?

Same way a woman will cheat on her husband whether rich or not, do not expect fidelity from anyone, especially from the wife because you spent more money or you're rich, the earlier you guys accept this reality, the better.

You are very ignorant and I don't mean to be rude.

How many Dangote do we have in Nigeria or the world at large? And point of correction, she didn't have the money until Dangote gives her. You don't have money. You earn it. Until she earns money, she doesn't have it, so no, I'd pass.
My point still stands. The exception only proves the rule. It doesn't negate it.

No matter what you do or assertion we make, we are always going to find an exception or two, but it doesn't make our assertions wrong.

If I say Keke riders are male. Note I didn't say "all Keke riders", I just said Keke riders.

That would be correct but it doesn't mean that you can't find female Keke riders who are making a killing in the job. It just means that the general trend follows a certain trajectory. In the same vein, just because you say some women are breadwinners doesn't disprove what we have on ground. Namely, men are breadwinners in marriages. To find a female breadwinner would be rare and far between. They exist but they pale in comparison and don't use Dangote for any baseless comparison.

A woman cheating on her husband is a double cheat. She has no reasons to.

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Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by JovialJune(f): 10:47am On Aug 23, 2021
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Baldwretch:


You are very ignorant and I don't mean to be rude.

How many Dangote do we have in Nigeria or the world at large? And point of correction, she didn't have the money until Dangote gives her. You don't have money. You earn it. Until she earns money, she doesn't have it, so no, I'd pass.
My point still stands. The exception only proves the rule. It doesn't negate it.

No matter what you do or assertion we make, we are always going to find an exception or two, but it doesn't make our assertions wrong.

If I say Keke riders are male. Note I didn't say "all Keke riders", I just said Keke riders.

That would be correct but it doesn't mean that you can't find female Keke riders who are making a killing in the job. It just means that the general trend follows a certain trajectory. In the same vein, just because you say some women are breadwinners doesn't disprove what we have on ground. Namely, men are breadwinners in marriages. To find a female breadwinner would be rare and far between. They exist but they pale in comparison and don't use Dangote for any baseless comparison.

A woman cheating on her husband is a double cheat. She has no reasons to.
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You lack common sense, truly

Look at you desperately trying hard to justify what you, on your own, spew

Imagine you dismissing the fact that Dangote's daughter comes from money, using "she earns" as a lame excuse lol, you guys are so dumb, you'd go low just to prove a baseless point,

It's just like me saying if I'm married to Bill Gates son, doesnt mean he has money lol, or a man marries Bill Gates daughter means she doesnt come from money lmao, that they "only earn it", I mean, I do not understand how some of you think, but it definitely defiles logic, no doubt

And then you had to use the famous "there are exceptions to the rule" when you lack more baseless excuses to spew lol, how expected of you and how empty too,

Dude, drink water, there will never be an exception to any stupid rule, rich is rich, poor is poor, a cheat is a cheat, a man can cheat, a woman can cheat, nobody owes anyone fidelity especially women, if you like cry and wail otherwise, they abound today, and will continue till the end of time, all you guys can simply do is cry and wail about it till infinity, that's all.

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Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by Baldwretch: 10:51am On Aug 23, 2021
JovialJune:
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Thoughtless rants from a misogynist and a sexist, you did not think this through before commenting

You first comment to me was that extreme fidelity is expected for who has more money, you even used yourself as an example and played the "common sense" card with me lol, I gave you an instance of Dangote's daughter and her husband, your lame comeback was to make fidelity a woman thing?

You think you're talking to a nursery pupil? Your ad hominem got a better of you, couldn't even hide your two faced self when backed to a corner

Your opinion hold no water, it is null and void, baseless and thoughtless,

No particular gender has the extreme right to cheat, and I say it again and again, be you a Dangote or a bezos, your wife will cheat on you if and whenever she wants to cheat, very simple.

I am not a misogynist and neither am I sexist. I just state things the way they should be without apology. If you give me money in exchange for my loyalty, then you very much deserve it. I mean, imagine as a man, let me imagine that one guy somewhere sends 60k to me every month because according to him, he wants to be my friend. Even without the financial assistance, we would be lose but that assistance makes me love him the more.


Let me give you one instance. I used to have one roommate back in school Very generous. I mean, really really generous. We just love this guy and we are heterosexuals oo, lol, guy like us oo. In fact of all my roommates then, he's the only one I have called on a couple of occasions.

If a woman is being provided for by a male, he'd expect her loyalty. That shoes off other advances. After all, she brings nothing to the table besides herself. Let's be honest, it is the truth.

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Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by Baldwretch: 11:06am On Aug 23, 2021
JovialJune:
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You lack common sense, truly

Look at you desperately trying hard to justify what you, on your own, spew

Imagine you dismissing the fact that Dangote's daughter comes from money, using "she earns" as a lame excuse lol, you guys are so dumb, you'd go low just to prove a baseless point,

It's just like me saying if I'm married to Bill Gates son, doesnt mean he has money lol, or a man marries Bill Gates daughter, means she doesnt come from money, that they "only earn it", I mean, I do not understand how some of you think, but it definitely defiles logic, no doubt

And then you had to use the famous "there are exceptions to the rule" when you lack more baseless excuses to spew lol, how expected of you and how empty too,

Dude, drink water, there will never be an exception to any stupid rule, rich is rich, poor is poor, a cheat is a cheat, a man can cheat, a woman can cheat, nobody owes anyone fidelity especially women, if you like cry and wail otherwise, they abound today, and will continue till the end of time, all you guys can simply do is cry and wail about it till infinity, that's all.
What I mean in essence is, since she is not Dangote, we can't really talk either way about the marriage. What belongs to your parents doesn't necessarily belong to you and much less your spouse. The man tells you Dangote is the one feeding his family? Since you don't know, don't assume. Even the Dangote you kept hammering on, how much did he give one of his female friends that eventually ended exposed him? $15000. She was asking for more but he refused and this is a man worth billions of dollars. She probably threatened to expose their affairs to the general public but he could not have been bothered.

I used myself as an instance because I want to assume that if someone, whether male or female, continually provides value, I am very much obligated to give back values in the way I can.

Seriously, when it's not as if he gave birth to you, a man would toil from morning to night to provide food for you to eat and you'd still cheat, you too think it carefully, does it make sense? Can you work for someone (who is not related to you) to eat, maybe I should start from there? This guy approached you on the road, you begin to cohabit and then you find yourself feeding him for the next 5 years. Breakfast. Lunch. Dinner. For 5years. Can you do it in the name of love?

Women like to manipulate men by downplaying men's vital contributions in their lives and that is what you are justifying, sadly.

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Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by DSC7: 11:17am On Aug 23, 2021
JovialJune:


Yes a woman can do same and more, it is a choice, no one can tame another, is that not what you guys preach about everyday?

You forget what this thread is about yet you tell me to condemn cheating of all kinds, how many of you men have ever opened threads to condemn cheating men? You guys cheat and take pride in it, ladies are cheating right back and all of you keep crying about it like babies deprived of milk,

The idiot I quoted had the effrontery to say men have the right to cheat, you did not preach the rubbish up there to him, yet you choose to tell me, sumtin dey worry you

Don't quote me to spill rubbish if you cannot direct it back to your gender.


Hmmmmm.....

U dey para ooooo.....


Yet to find one reason why i love u cool
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by Elporo(m): 11:32am On Aug 23, 2021
JovialJune:


Yes a woman can do same and more, it is a choice, no one can tame another, is that not what you guys preach about everyday?

You forget what this thread is about yet you tell me to condemn cheating of all kinds, how many of you men have ever opened threads to condemn cheating men? You guys cheat and take pride in it, ladies are cheating right back and all of you keep crying about it like babies deprived of milk,



Every now and then I see reasons why the girl child should not get any formal education passed the secondary school.

How many married men bring their bastards home?

Give them prestigious last names, and an inheritance.

Most empires were destroyed by bastards philandering women like yourself brought back bastards to their foolish husbands.
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by JovialJune(f): 11:50am On Aug 23, 2021
Elporo:


Every now and then I see reasons why my mother, sisters and daughters should not get any formal education passed the secondary school.

Most empires were destroyed by bastards from my philandering mother and sisters who brought back bastards to their foolish husbands and my father.

Fixed.

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Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by HeavenlyCherub(f): 3:50am On Aug 24, 2021
Emmanuel909090:


I doubt you have a mother, but if you do i guess she will die soon. Because having a poison like you will definitely kill her.

Now down to tbe matter, I can't exchange points with a mind on emergency.
I never expected more from a slut, i didn't expected less and you didn't disappoint your clan.
You will always support your trade, since your pot is itchy let men keep scratching it lol.

I pity any man wifing or planning to wife you.
Bastard fly.


Its nice being behind a keyboard. From your mouth to Gods ears. I pray you heal from the rage you feel. I understand when people have no point they tend to insult people. I was going to wish you everything you wish me but I will leave it to God. Be blessed �
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by Emmanuel909090: 5:41am On Aug 24, 2021
HeavenlyCherub:


Its nice being behind a keyboard. From your mouth to Gods ears. I pray you heal from the rage you feel. I understand when people have no point they tend to insult people. I was going to wish you everything you wish me but I will leave it to God. Be blessed �

You must be very foolish, initially you didn't leave it to God, now you know God.

Just be a good woman and give a reasonable advice, not looking for points that will support your stupidity.
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by 10thTenthMan: 6:19am On Aug 24, 2021
JONSYN7154:
The rate at which married women cheats these days is so alarming. What's happening?

Two married women were caught cheating few days apart in the same area.


What is special about cheating please?

Do women need to write to the senate to cheat? Cheating is as easy as walking into a corner and having sex with a man. It is as easy as being on an App and swiping left or right. It is as easy as dressing sexily and accepting the advances from a male she finds attractive.

Are we saying because they are women, they should show inhibition and not cheat?


EVERY MAN OR WOMAN (ALL HUMANS) HAVE THE POTENTIAL TO CHEAT. THE MEN DID IT BOLDY AND ATILL DO IT TODAY. WOMEN ARE REALIZING THEY TOO CAN AND ARE USING THE POTENTIAL TO ACTUALIZE IT.

It is when you realize that no one owes you anything, you will live a peaceful life enjoying the lesson you learn from it. Life is a school, nothing is guaranteed you other than the fact that you MUST experience experiences whether pleasant or otherwise.

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Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by 10thTenthMan: 6:38am On Aug 24, 2021
HeavenlyCherub:


Its nice being behind a keyboard. From your mouth to Gods ears. I pray you heal from the rage you feel. I understand when people have no point they tend to insult people. I was going to wish you everything you wish me but I will leave it to God. Be blessed �


Let me tell you something.

Men feel that cheating is worse felt by them when a woman does it. To men, when they cheat they don’t do it with their full emotions. “It is just sex”. They don’t secretly sneak another woman’s baby home for their partners to nurture. Men feel a cheating woman bruises their pride and their egos. Men also claim when a woman cheats, she does so with so much emotion and does not love her husband or spouse or mate anymore.

So you have to understand where these men you are bantering with are bringing their logic from. Clearly, from a point of view where what is good for the goose isn’t good for the gander.

Like I initially posted, who says women need to write to the senate to cheat? More women are getting bolder. Women are becoming more economically independent. Women have access to Apps like Tinder, etc. I am not here to discuss morality. MEN CAN CHEAT AND A WOMAN CAN ALSO NOW CHEAT IF SHE PLEASES. It was societal pressures and culture and tradition that hindered women. The societal double standards are now being destroyed right before our eyes. The rights to uncontrollable and unhindered pleasures of the flesh are no more domiciled with the gender bearing brute strength.

No single gender should claim absolute rights to cheat. Nature did not create a gateman to stop one gender from cheating and allow another to freely do so. Does a man have sexual desires he wants satisfied and can he get it from women(or perhaps another man)? Yes. Does a woman have sexual desires she wants satisfied and can she get the satisfaction from men (or perhaps another/other women)? The answer is a resounding yes! Both genders have the brain and free will to give their bodies out. Let no one see the other as “more shameful”.

Let everyone decide to cheat or not to cheat. But please remember no one owes you anything. Eventually people will do what they want to do.

I don’t want to cheat. My personal decision. Not because I am a saint and not tempted. But I value all relationships I get myself into. I take time to chose and I invest in it. If she cheats. Then so be it. Relationship over. Wetin dey this life wey we dey stress sef? Who has the fundamental right to use their peni ses and vaginas with whoever, whenever and however they want? Both genders can and do.
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by Elporo(m): 8:17am On Aug 24, 2021
JovialJune:


Fixed.

The Child My Husband Thinks Is His Son, My Boyfriend wants him back
https://www.nairaland.com/6706394/child-husband-thinks-son-boyfriend

Like I said ... "philandering women like you bring their bastards home"

cry
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by HeavenlyCherub(f): 1:28pm On Aug 24, 2021
Emmanuel909090:


You must be very foolish, initially you didn't leave it to God, now you know God.

Just be a good woman and give a reasonable advice, not looking for points that will support your stupidity.

You and your mother are stupid. Stop replying you sound ridiculous.
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by HeavenlyCherub(f): 1:33pm On Aug 24, 2021
10thTenthMan:



Let me tell you something.

Men feel that cheating is worse felt by them when a woman does it. To men, when they cheat they don’t do it with their full emotions. “It is just sex”. They don’t secretly sneak another woman’s baby home for their partners to nurture. Men feel a cheating woman bruises their pride and their egos. Men also claim when a woman cheats, she does so with so much emotion and does not love her husband or spouse or mate anymore.

So you have to understand where these men you are bantering with are bringing their logic from. Clearly, from a point of view where what is good for the goose isn’t good for the gander.

Like I initially posted, who says women need to write to the senate to cheat? More women are getting bolder. Women are becoming more economically independent. Women have access to Apps like Tinder, etc. I am not here to discuss morality. MEN CAN CHEAT AND A WOMAN CAN ALSO NOW CHEAT IF SHE PLEASES. It was societal pressures and culture and tradition that hindered women. The societal double standards are now being destroyed right before our eyes. The rights to uncontrollable and unhindered pleasures of the flesh are no more domiciled with the gender bearing brute strength.

No single gender should claim absolute rights to cheat. Nature did not create a gateman to stop one gender from cheating and allow another to freely do so. Does a man have sexual desires he wants satisfied and can he get it from women(or perhaps another man)? Yes. Does a woman have sexual desires she wants satisfied and can she get the satisfaction from men (or perhaps another/other women)? The answer is a resounding yes! Both genders have the brain and free will to give their bodies out. Let no one see the other as “more shameful”.

Let everyone decide to cheat or not to cheat. But please remember no one owes you anything. Eventually people will do what they want to do.

I don’t want to cheat. My personal decision. Not because I am a saint and not tempted. But I value all relationships I get myself into. I take time to chose and I invest in it. If she cheats. Then so be it. Relationship over. Wetin dey this life wey we dey stress sef? Who has the fundamental right to use their peni ses and vaginas with whoever, whenever and however they want? Both genders can and do.

Thank you for passing your point without aggression. I agree with your write up except the part you said men cheat just to and women cheat with emotions. Whoever came up with that is misinforming people. A cheat is a cheat, a man loses value just as a woman loses value. Imagine one submitting themselves to all those soul ties.
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by okoroemeka(m): 3:27pm On Aug 24, 2021
silibaba:
am sorry I sound like that, it wasn't intentional. for a married woman cheating? mehn, is so disgusting to me. I hate indecent dressing in women/girls talk more extra-marital affair.

am not taking side in men, but I abhor seeing married women doing nonsense.

if I get married and find my wife in the act, I will set her ablaze, I wont bother about the law that will hang me later
are you sure you are ready to kill for pvssy and face the rest of your life in lice infested jail,I think that is the dumbest thing to do,pvssy does not worth such headaches and emotions,I really love my wife and family,but I can cheat at any given opportunity,I don't regret,I don't care,pvssy is meant since time immemorial to be fvcked so shall it be.
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by Emmanuel909090: 8:10pm On Aug 24, 2021
HeavenlyCherub:


You and your mother are stupid. Stop replying you sound ridiculous.

Lol, like you have a mother?
Can you define a mother?
Just tell your mad slut to limit the way she cheats with all those small boys in your area, its affecting your medula, bingo hahaha.
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by authority2006(m): 9:59pm On Aug 24, 2021
JovialJune:



You must be living in a cave if in this 21st century, you think there are no independent single and married women, are men not also looking for emotional support when they go into a relationship or get married? How old are you?

Who started the paying of bride price? Is it not men aka your ancestors? If you want social justice, work on your foundation by going to your villages, sit your elders down and tell them to abolish bride price and the nonsense bride price list before you come here to spill rubbish, after all the bride price is paid to a man, not the woman,

No woman will pay any groom price rubbish becos in the history of the world, women have not, and will not sit down to deliberate on any stupid list or groom price, till then, any woman that wants to cheat can cheat at her own free will, no particular gender has the exclusive right to cheat.

The end game is very simple for all the party. Before you claim "what a man can do, a woman can do better" with your husband, just make sure you are ready to accept the consequences. Yeah, think deep before you make that costly mistake!
I would never tell my wife not to cheat (either on her own or just to retaliating because of what she perceived that I might have done), she should just prepare to face whatever that's coming her way! Simple, no long story.
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by 10thTenthMan: 5:10pm On Aug 26, 2021
HeavenlyCherub:


Thank you for passing your point without aggression. I agree with your write up except the part you said men cheat just to and women cheat with emotions. Whoever came up with that is misinforming people. A cheat is a cheat, a man loses value just as a woman loses value. Imagine one submitting themselves to all those soul ties.

Yes. Understand that I do not believe in that point of view either. What I did was to present the biased beliefs most men have on the matter, as basic as they are. I am not viewing this matter from a moral point of view. Morality has its own biases.

Can a Man have a reason to cheat? Whether flimsy or serious? The answer is Yes. Can a Woman also have reasons to cheat? Whether flimsy or serious? The answer is also a Yes. Can they each decide not to cheat if they want? The answer is Yes. The violent, religious, societal and cultural ''gates'' imposed on women and the slut-shaming are no longer working as effectively as they used to.

Let no one therefore claim that they have the monopoly of being sluts.

I acknowledge your own point of view though. Your statement that ''A cheat is a cheat, a man loses value just as a woman loses value. Imagine one submitting themselves to all those soul ties''.

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Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by HeavenlyCherub(f): 5:04am On Aug 27, 2021
10thTenthMan:


Yes. Understand that I do not believe in that point of view either. What I did was to present the biased beliefs most men have on the matter, as basic as they are. I am not viewing this matter from a moral point of view. Morality has its own biases.

Can a Man have a reason to cheat? Whether flimsy or serious? The answer is Yes. Can a Woman also have reasons to cheat? Whether flimsy or serious? The answer is also a Yes. Can they each decide not to cheat if they want? The answer is Yes. The violent, religious, societal and cultural ''gates'' imposed on women and the slut-shaming are no longer working as effectively as they used to.

Let no one therefore claim that they have the monopoly of being sluts.

I acknowledge your own point of view though. Your statement that ''A cheat is a cheat, a man loses value just as a woman loses value. Imagine one submitting themselves to all those soul ties''.


Finally! A non biased man. I thank God
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by Habib101: 5:09am On Aug 27, 2021
Ahmed0336:
Fear that gender...


Na d only gender wey see devil eye to eye bi dat
And the devil shake head up and down and sigh
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by Mrscarter(f): 5:28am On Aug 27, 2021
JONSYN7154:
The rate at which married women cheats these days is so alarming. What's happening?

Two married women were caught cheating few days apart in the same area.

Well ppl cant say all these excuses such as my husband neglects me or he cheats too or whatever the likes of cos if ur partner is doing any of those things n ur married to the petson then the sensible thing to do is talk to them n sort out the issues not to go and cheat cos how does that make sense? How will that help or change matters? If anything itll complicate ur life n marraige all the more. So those reasons they all give (husband or wife cheating) is bullshiit
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by JONSYN7154: 6:43am On Aug 27, 2021
Mrscarter:


Well ppl cant say all these excuses such as my husband neglects me or he cheats too or whatever the likes of cos if ur partner is doing any of those things n ur married to the petson then the sensible thing to do is talk to them n sort out the issues not to go and cheat cos how does that make sense? How will that help or change matters? If anything itll complicate ur life n marraige all the more. So those reasons they all give (husband or wife cheating) is bullshiit
Thank you for this candid comments.
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by Suck2pool: 11:55pm On Aug 28, 2021
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Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by indadi(m): 1:05am On Aug 29, 2021
JONSYN7154:
The rate at which married women cheats these days is so alarming. What's happening?

Two married women were caught cheating few days apart in the same area.
Truth is they have always been cheating but now social media and jobless people are hunting news to keep them happy
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by oserolink(m): 6:58am On Aug 29, 2021
humilitypays:
During marriage rite, there is mothers right which the groom pay to the brides mother and her fellow women.


Stop arguing what you don't know young lady.


Men pay bride price, sponsor the whole wedding, foots most of the family bills, carry most of the family's burden on his head.


Only in few rare cases that you see some women grudgingly sharing the family's bills with the husband or maybe bringing more and when you visit such a family you will definitely know from the hostile environment and disrespect to the man and every living thing in that household just because the woman is bringing more.


But all over Nigeria and in most families, the man is footing 90% of the bills, buy cars for the wife, kids, sponsors her to vacation, and she lives her dream life out of the man's sweat without the man making a fuss of it.



Any woman that does that happily can cheat.


How many women are contributing to community projects and development projects; even the ones occupying top political offices, barely insignificant few, you know the truth even if you decide to argue.
To me paying of bride price don't change a thing if a woman is spoiled she is spoiled bcoz it has always been in her mind to cheat.

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