This is currently a hot gist at a particular new generation bank on the Island.

A female staff of the bank came in yesterday (Thursday) all sweaty, sad and completely weighed down. Initially her friend thought that her disheveled look was due to the traffic she faced while coming to work and thought that she would get over it after getting a rest before resumption of office duties.

By 1p.m it was even worse as the said lady kept on crying, vomiting and complaining of headache and stomach pain. With much inquiries and persuasion from her close colleagues, she bursted out in tears and said "he has impregnated her".

This sent confusion to her colleagues who were consoling her but with further findings, it was learnt madam's husband has impregnated their 20years old maid (house girl).

The lady was sober because she claimed her husband threw the whole fault on her saying his actions were as a result of are not being home always and neglected him to concentrate on her banking career.

Saddest part of the story is due to the bank's policy, she can't get pregnant until after 2years of confirmation. She has only been confirmed 9months ago and only got married 11months (exactly a year next month).

Is this kind of situation what's the best advice for both the man and woman?

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I always wondered, why was polygamy thrown out of fashion.
It could have solve so many problem and perhaps create some few ones

Any man who impregnates another woman outside his marriage does not deserve to walk freely on the surface of the earth.I pity these naive modern generation of women who don't know how to sexually tame their randy husbands. No be penis wey rise for another woman go fit cheat and impregnate?let me stop here lol.

I don't blame the man or the woman or the maid. They all have different priorities in life.

*The Banker Woman is all about her career
*The Husband Man is all about who will fulfill his marital needs
*The Maid Lady is all about satisfy her boss man and securing her job to maximum limit.

The maid wouldn't mind continuing the union but the banker woman will be her enemy.

Bottom line, if they can continue the union living separate in peace, the banker woman can then let her husband man know when she's ready to have her own baby.

Wahala nor dey finish.

Iyaebe:
Any man who impregnates another woman outside his marriage does not deserve to walk freely on the surface of the earth I pity this naive modern generation of women who doesn't know how to sexually tame their randy husbands. No be penis wey rise for another woman go fit cheat and impregnate?let me stop here.

And a woman who brings another man's child for her husband?

GIdiata:


And a woman who brings another man's child for her husband?

Same applies dear, I'm not biased towards any gender

Iyaebe:
Same applies dear, I'm not biased towards any gender

Good to see/read Sir/Ma.

It's well, wahala be like wetin?

That's your problem.

Go and face it

Iyaebe:
Any man who impregnates another woman outside his marriage does not deserve to walk freely on the surface of the earth.I pity this naive modern generation of women who doesn't know how to sexually tame their randy husbands. No be penis wey rise for another woman go fit cheat and impregnate?let me stop here.

Hmmm, eyin tun bad ooo.. I fear your gender o

Olumighty123:



Hmmm, eyin tun bad ooo.. I fear your gender o

Why the fear?I thought men wiuld be brave enough to face their infidelities and what comes afterwards

Iyaebe:
Any man who impregnates another woman outside his marriage does not deserve to walk freely on the surface of the earth.I pity these naive modern generation of women who doesn't know how to sexually tame their randy husbands. No be penis wey rise for another woman go fit cheat and impregnate?let me stop here lol.

tell me ur version of taming.
Wanna learn pls..

kinglaxon:
I always wondered, why was polygamy thrown out of fashion.
It could have solve so many problem and perhaps create some few ones

God will bless you and your generation. Feminists will not support this because to them, everybody has equal right

Iyaebe:
Any man who impregnates another woman outside his marriage does not deserve to walk freely on the surface of the earth.I pity these naive modern generation of women who doesn't know how to sexually tame their randy husbands. No be penis wey rise for another woman go fit cheat and impregnate? let me stop here lol.

Can you intelligently observe your comment? What is the Purpose of Marriage if the wife avoid her primary responsibility as the manager of the home. The husband is the true son of his father. Better still, Polygyny should be embraced to solve this problem

GIdiata:


And a woman who brings another man's child for her husband?

No mind that smelly gutter weh she call mouth. For her empty head, she don talk sense.

kinglaxon:
I always wondered, why was polygamy thrown out of fashion.
It could have solve so many problem and perhaps create some few ones

polygamy? polygamy is not a good thing by the western world and christians and is themed an Islamic thing but rather get satisfaction from Love Machine and porn and masturbation or same sex stuffs.

Which bank makes such weird policy that she can't get pregnant until after two years of confirmation

is this actually coming from a lady ?

kinglaxon:
I always wondered, why was polygamy thrown out of fashion.
It could have solve so many problem and perhaps create some few ones

The house help is her helper , she should embraze it and have her own child too. it takes three to tangle in some cases

nokspos:
is this actually coming from a lady ?

yes

Iyaebe:
Any man who impregnates another woman outside his marriage does not deserve to walk freely on the surface of the earth.I pity these naive modern generation of women who don't know how to sexually tame their randy husbands. No be penis wey rise for another woman go fit cheat and impregnate?let me stop here lol.

Iya alawo spotted.
Extend my greetings to Babalawo


On the other hand, she should wait for her turn after the expiration of her banking period ban.

Husband no be firewood. She left her territory uncovered, now it ended in tears.

Sorry is her name.

SweetiliciousD:


Iya alawo spotted.
Extend my greetings to Babalawo


On the other hand, she should wait for her turn after the expiration of her banking period ban.

Husband no be firewood. She left her territory uncovered, now it ended in tears.

Sorry is her name.

Are you in any way supporting the unreasonable randy husband? what happens to marital vows and commitment. Lol @ your first line.

Iyaebe:
Are you in any way supporting the unreasonable randy husband? what happens to marital vows and commitment. Lol @ your first line.

Hahahahahaha. @my first line. Lol


Marriage suppose to be mutual understanding.

If the husband is handy and can shoulder the family responsibilities, it then sounds double jeopardy for him to be starved of marital flavour on account of banking job. He was denied and he settled himself. The wife should suit herself and get satisfaction from her bank job.

The man is settled.

If a good house maid cooks, served the husband, makes the bed, gives him the succor the wife denies him, is it bad she carries his child too?

kinglaxon:
I always wondered, why was polygamy thrown out of fashion.
It could have solve so many problem and perhaps create some few ones

Who threw polygamy out of fashion? And how would it have solved so many problem?

jidamsel43:
God will bless you and your generation. Feminists will not support this because to them, everybody has equal right

Are you trying to say everybody does not have equal right? What has feminism got to do with it?

Tomilola360:


polygamy? polygamy is not a good thing by the western world and christians and is themed an Islamic thing but rather get satisfaction from Love Machine and porn and masturbation or same sex stuffs.

See daft thinking, so the condemnation of polygamy brought about diildo, porn, masturbation and same sex stuffs? In Africa and especially the northern Nigeria that encourages polygamy, how come people still watch porn, diildo, masturbation and same sex stuff?

SweetiliciousD:



Hahahahahaha. @my first line. Lol


Marriage suppose to be mutual understanding.

If the husband is handy and can shoulder the family responsibilities, it then sounds double jeopardy for him to be starved of marital flavour on account of banking job. He was denied and he settled himself. The wife should suit herself and get satisfaction from her bank job.

The man is settled.

If a good house maid cooks, served the husband, makes the bed, gives him the succor the wife denies him, is it bad she carries his child too?

I believe there should be high level of understanding in marriage, the woman had no option else she would quit the job.I think the husband is selfish for refusing to be patient with the wife,he should have simply asked her to quit the job.Dialogue is very important, it saves critical situation like this

JovialJune:



See daft thinking, so the condemnation of polygamy brought about diildo, porn, masturbation and same sex stuffs? In Africa and especially the northern Nigeria that encourages polygamy, how come people still watch porn, diildo, masturbation and same sex stuff?

go and kill yourself abeg

Tomilola360:


go and kill yourself abeg

Lol why should I kill myself on your behalf, when it clearly shows you lack intelligence.