There’s this girl I’m dating ,though she fell in love seeing me at first sight,I never felt the same way then but as we’re getting intimate ,I found myself loving her to a point that I even imagine us being couples..she’s cute ,respectful,and so decent ,so emotional though
Days ,months ,years passed we’re still good as lovers though there are days we settle issues ,infact lemme say most times ..cuz she’s always complaining of me not giving her the desired attention..what do I do? I’m a Strict and full time dream chaser,it’s always about music videos,shows,and online audience..
But it Sucks she’s not getting it
I remember vividly some days I’m depressed and worried cuz I couldn’t afford bills to pay up my studio bills ,this same girl is there to cover me up in all ways ,she’s ready to do whatever to make me happy ..
Got to a point she has to report me to my cousin brother most times ,hoping he’ll advise me to change and treat her right
All this seems cool until We had fight(I and my gf)she insults me ,pointed out all my Bleep up in the relationship ,at some point I started feeling bad and not enough,trying my best to make a huge change,I call her time to time ,text her before she closes eye at night ,early morning texts,we walk beautiful places together most nights ,hugs,kisses and sweet moments starts booming..but it seems nothing is right still..this girl still visits my cousin despite the fact that we don’t really have issues anymore, it’s sad I can’t stop her from that ,cuz I don’t know anything about it at the first place, moreover how sure I am they’re flirting,I’m not good with it but I couldn’t speak out ..I don’t wanna offend my cousin but this rumors keep banging my head
As a street OG, my guys are out watching every shiis, they all confirmed it that they’re making out sexually , I never reacted nor do I bliv still until a dude was telling me my babe was brought by my cousin brother for knacking in his room, imagine! They even dey lend room to knack
As big as she is ,damn! I used to think my babe is classy ..
This day ,my head was really hot,I was on a low acting aggressively but how do I confront her?
I don’t have any idea..I don’t wanna tell anybody about it too cuz it’s not making any sense
I starts reacting,not picking her calls ,not replying her chats ,after several pleads to know what she did, finally I decides to called her ,I only said but babe why ?,why do you have to go to my cousin’s place behind, haven’t said more than this ,then she starts shouting ,raising her voice saying all terrible things to me, I had to hang up the call ,she starts calling time to time ,
Wants to shout at me again? I will drag her to mud I swr
Then she calls again at night begging me ,saying she knows what I actually wanted to say , she said she heard the rumors too,that it’s all lies, I shouldn’t listen ..saying she loves me I should just believe that .. She’s in tears talking to me

This girl is playing with fire I was thinking I’m my mind ,same time I was getting emotionally weak,I dey overheat but no ,what do you think about this ?
This same girl has really tried for me in life l,to be honest ,many times I’m in trouble that I can’t even call my own blood ,she’s the only one I’ve always got
That aside ,she’s always supported my dreams sharing my songs ,posters among her friends,a lot of pple become my fan through her
Yet she respects me a lot ,she hardly calls me by name ,as in she cherish me a lot I might not really find such a girl elsewhere,I was in deep thought
..it’s sad,I don’t wanna pay her back dumping her this way, won’t I be an ingrate?

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Ingrate in what way.. the best and greatest help a woman can give his man is to be virtuous that’s the only way she show how much she respect,cherish and love you. She is more of an helper to you than someone u can say U want to spend the rest of your life with.. bro your girlfriend is a shameless cheater. For her to cheat with your cousin and your cousins brother means she has always been cheating with other people during u guys relationship. Stay away from her if you want the best for ur self

Pantheraly:
Ingrate in what way.. the best and greatest help a woman can give his man is to be virtuous that’s the only way she show how much she respect,cherish and love you. She is more of an helper to you than someone u can say U want to spend the rest of your life with.. bro your girlfriend is a shameless cheater. For her to cheat with your cousin and your cousins brother means she has always been cheating with other people during u guys relationship. Stay away from her if you want the best for ur self

Hmm thanks for this
But She wasn’t caught red handed
Do you feel the guy should leave her ?

She's profiled you as a husband and acting accordingly. As a result, she is experiencing the life of a single girl with someone else.
I can only say you are very unserious.
Even as a bachelor, lies puts me off how much more infidelity.
Keep waiting for CNN to show you their clip before you take decision.

MaryBaey:


Hmm thanks for this
But She wasn’t caught red handed
Do you feel the guy should leave her ?

you don't need her to be caught red handed,all the red flags are flying but the love you have for her will not let you see them,relegate her to be just a sexmate and control your emotions,women are Masters in mind control and emotions,she is just playing games with you,if the true character of that girl is revealed to you,I bet you may have a heart attack.

MaryBaey:


Hmm thanks for this
But She wasn’t caught red handed
Do you feel the guy should leave her ?

Guy, when you get to that age, you will know better.
I don't know why I'm getting upset at your reasoning sef.
Visiting your cousin without your knowledge is a crime.
Picking a fight when confronted with the allegation is a sign that says you will never know peace if you marry her. Cos marriage is full of challenges. You need someone that has the ability to choose to reason with you and not choose to fight...
Why expect your cousin to leave her? Is that how you will be harassing every male that she cheats with? You go die young o.

Similar shiit happened between my immediate elder bro and I last year...Las las,na she lose because my brother already had a serious date while I moved on with my life...Well,it was my bro who exposed the whole secret to me...That I shouldn't take her too serious,say na only her lure am into the act..I no kukuma ask her.....I just moved on with my life..I learnt my lesson in a hard way.... Probably never to trust my bro interms of matter relating to a woman I'd wanna marry..

But op,your bro has broken the bro code..No matter what,a nigga man must not lash his fellow nigga man's banny..

IbnBattuta1960:

Guy, when you get to that age, you will know better.
I don't know why I'm getting upset at your reasoning sef.
Visiting your cousin without your knowledge is a crime.
Picking a fight when confronted with the allegation is a sign that says you will never know peace if you marry her. Cos marriage is full of challenges. You need someone that has the ability to choose to reason with you and not choose to fight...
Why expect your cousin to leave her? Is that how you will be harassing every male that she cheats with? You go die young o.

Hmm this is deep and thoughtful

okoroemeka:
you don't need her to be caught red handed,all the red flags are flying but the love you have for her will not let you see them,relegate her to be just a sexmate and control your emotions,women are Masters in mind control and emotions,she is just playing games with you,if the true character of that girl is revealed to you,I bet you may have a heart attack.

Hmm you said it all

IbnBattuta1960:
She's profiled you as a husband and acting accordingly. As a result, she is experiencing the life of a single girl with someone else.
I can only say you are very stupid.
Even as a bachelor, lies puts me off how much more infidelity.
Keep waiting for CNN to show you their clip before you receive sence.

I understand your point But it’s not as easy letting go as you claims

Sonnobax15:

Similar shiit happened between my immediate elder bro and I last year...Las las,na she lose because my brother already had a serious date while I moved on with my life...Well,it was my bro who exposed the whole secret to me...That I shouldn't take her to serious,say na only her lure am into the act..I no kukuma ask her.....I just moved on with my life..I learnt my lesson in a hard way.... Probably never to trust my bro interms of matter relating to a woman I'd wanna marry..

But op,your bro has broken the bro code..No matter what,a nigga man must not lash his fellow nigga man's banny..

God bless you for this write up

[quote author=MaryBaey post=105392573]There’s this girl I’m dating ,though she fell in love seeing me at first sight,I never felt the same way then but as we’re getting intimate ,I found myself loving her to a point that I even imagine us being couples..she’s cute ,respectful,and so decent ,so emotional though
Days ,months ,years passed we’re still good as lovers though there are days we settle issues ,infact lemme say most times ..cuz she’s always complaining of me not giving her the desired attention..what do I do? I’m a Strict and full time dream chaser,it’s always about music videos,shows,and online audience..
But it Sucks she’s not getting it
I remember vividly some days I’m depressed and worried cuz I couldn’t afford bills to pay up my studio bills ,this same girl is there to cover me up in all ways ,she’s ready to do whatever to make me happy ..
Got to a point she has to report me to my cousin brother most times ,hoping he’ll advise me to change and treat her right
All this seems cool until We had fight(I and my gf)she insults me ,pointed out all my Bleep up in the relationship ,at some point I started feeling bad and not enough,trying my best to make a huge change,I call her time to time ,text her before she closes eye at night ,early morning texts,we walk beautiful places together most nights ,hugs,kisses and sweet moments starts booming..but it seems nothing is right still..this girl still visits my cousin despite the fact that we don’t really have issues anymore, it’s sad I can’t stop her from that ,cuz I don’t know anything about it at the first place, moreover how sure I am they’re flirting,I’m not good with it but I couldn’t speak out ..I don’t wanna offend my cousin but this rumors keep banging my head
As a street OG, my guys are out watching every shiis, they all confirmed it that they’re making out sexually , I never reacted nor do I bliv still until a dude was telling me my babe was brought by my cousin brother for knacking in his room, imagine! They even dey lend room to knack
As big as she is ,damn! I used to think my babe is classy ..
This day ,my head was really hot,I was on a low acting aggressively but how do I confront her?
I don’t have any idea..I don’t wanna tell anybody about it too cuz it’s not making any sense
I starts reacting,not picking her calls ,not replying her chats ,after several pleads to know what she did, finally I decides to called her ,I only said but babe why ?,why do you have to go to my cousin’s place behind, haven’t said more than this ,then she starts shouting ,raising her voice saying all terrible things to me, I had to hang up the call ,she starts calling time to time ,
Wants to shout at me again? I will drag her to mud I swr
Then she calls again at night begging me ,saying she knows what I actually wanted to say , she said she heard the rumors too,that it’s all lies, I shouldn’t listen ..saying she loves me I should just believe that .. She’s in tears talking to me

This girl is playing with fire I was thinking I’m my mind ,same time I was getting emotionally weak,I dey overheat but no ,what do you think about this ?
This same girl has really tried for me in life l,to be honest ,many times I’m in trouble that I can’t even call my own blood ,she’s the only one I’ve always got
That aside ,she’s always supported my dreams sharing my songs ,posters among her friends,a lot of pple become my fan through her
Yet she respects me a lot ,she hardly calls me by name ,as in she cherish me a lot I might not really find such a girl elsewhere,I was in deep thought
..it’s sad,I don’t wanna pay her back dumping her this way, won’t I be an ingrate?

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Date Nigerian ladies at your peril..................
What a misplaced priority
Feel sorry for Guys that waste such precious time dating them.
It will end in tears‼️‼️‼️

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So they should date foreigners, hmm 9ja guys are starting again o

MaryBaey:

I understand your point But it’s not as easy letting go as you claims

As a young man, what one likes is more of physical attributes and other like things.
As you make that decision to get married, you begin to realise that its beyond physical things.
Loyalty, patience, tolerance, effective communication, self respect and respect for spouse...
It's not her you are letting go. You are letting go of shame, constant fight and picketing, heartache, false progress, regrets...
I might be wrong though.
No test, no testimony.

IbnBattuta1960:

As a young man, what one likes is more of physical attributes and other like things.
As you make that decision to get married, you begin to realise that its beyond physical things.
Loyalty, patience, tolerance, effective communication, self respect and respect for spouse...
It's not her you are letting go. You are letting go of shame, constant fight and picketing, heartache, false progress, regrets...
I might be wrong though.
No test, no testimony.

Hmm perfectly said

For me I will advise u to and have a man to man conversation with ur cousin........
Go straight to the point by telling him the issue

lanre9ja:
For me I will advise u to and have a man to man conversation with ur cousin........
Go straight to the point by telling him the issue

But don’t you the girl issue can bring havoc between them that way

MaryBaey:
There’s this girl I’m dating ,though she fell in love seeing me at first sight,I never felt the same way then but as we’re getting intimate ,I found myself loving her to a point that I even imagine us being couples..she’s cute ,respectful,and so decent ,so emotional though
Days ,months ,years passed we’re still good as lovers though there are days we settle issues ,infact lemme say most times ..cuz she’s always complaining of me not giving her the desired attention..what do I do? I’m a Strict and full time dream chaser,it’s always about music videos,shows,and online audience..
But it Sucks she’s not getting it
I remember vividly some days I’m depressed and worried cuz I couldn’t afford bills to pay up my studio bills ,this same girl is there to cover me up in all ways ,she’s ready to do whatever to make me happy ..
Got to a point she has to report me to my cousin brother most times ,hoping he’ll advise me to change and treat her right
All this seems cool until We had fight(I and my gf)she insults me ,pointed out all my Bleep up in the relationship ,at some point I started feeling bad and not enough,trying my best to make a huge change,I call her time to time ,text her before she closes eye at night ,early morning texts,we walk beautiful places together most nights ,hugs,kisses and sweet moments starts booming..but it seems nothing is right still..this girl still visits my cousin despite the fact that we don’t really have issues anymore, it’s sad I can’t stop her from that ,cuz I don’t know anything about it at the first place, moreover how sure I am they’re flirting,I’m not good with it but I couldn’t speak out ..I don’t wanna offend my cousin but this rumors keep banging my head
As a street OG, my guys are out watching every shiis, they all confirmed it that they’re making out sexually , I never reacted nor do I bliv still until a dude was telling me my babe was brought by my cousin brother for knacking in his room, imagine! They even dey lend room to knack
As big as she is ,damn! I used to think my babe is classy ..
This day ,my head was really hot,I was on a low acting aggressively but how do I confront her?
I don’t have any idea..I don’t wanna tell anybody about it too cuz it’s not making any sense
I starts reacting,not picking her calls ,not replying her chats ,after several pleads to know what she did, finally I decides to called her ,I only said but babe why ?,why do you have to go to my cousin’s place behind, haven’t said more than this ,then she starts shouting ,raising her voice saying all terrible things to me, I had to hang up the call ,she starts calling time to time ,
Wants to shout at me again? I will drag her to mud I swr
Then she calls again at night begging me ,saying she knows what I actually wanted to say , she said she heard the rumors too,that it’s all lies, I shouldn’t listen ..saying she loves me I should just believe that .. She’s in tears talking to me

This girl is playing with fire I was thinking I’m my mind ,same time I was getting emotionally weak,I dey overheat but no ,what do you think about this ?
This same girl has really tried for me in life l,to be honest ,many times I’m in trouble that I can’t even call my own blood ,she’s the only one I’ve always got
That aside ,she’s always supported my dreams sharing my songs ,posters among her friends,a lot of pple become my fan through her
Yet she respects me a lot ,she hardly calls me by name ,as in she cherish me a lot I might not really find such a girl elsewhere,I was in deep thought
..it’s sad,I don’t wanna pay her back dumping her this way, won’t I be an ingrate?

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Nairaland is so full of intellectuals ,as in I sent this dude a screenshot of all these comments and it was really cherished by him ,I really appreciate y’all for each advise based on experience