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What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by Nelchuksmandela(m): 1:56pm On Sep 12, 2021
Good day Niralanders,

I need your sincere advice on my present situation.
Please ignore any grammatical error or punctuation. I’m the first son of my family, my father is an average Nigerian trader, he single handedly sponsored my schooling from nursery to higher institution.

After my service year, one of his friends scammed him of 300k in the name of they will get me a job in NUPENG before he paid that money I told him my pastor’s revelation about the NUPENG job, which my pastor said She does not like the job and shared ill references associated to the job with me and I told my dad when I got home, he countered and rebuked the revelation, he doesn’t take any of our advice, he finally fell for the scam.

To cut the long story short, I’m now working class that earn 75k monthly, however I’m still squatting with a friend and I’m still struggling to survive.

Recently I received a call from my dad, he told me he needs 500k for trading, that he wants me to take loan on his behalf he will be paying the debt once it’s due, since he is yet to complete the outstanding loan he took from the same bank, which is remaining 3 months to complete. I later discovered he had another debt he’s still servicing (Paying ) of a different bank that is remaining 6 months to complete.
After pondering over it i asked him; what if he defaults what will happen ? he shunned me and said why will I be negative and I politely told him my mind that I cannot help the current issue. Since then he started reporting me to my mum relatives to talk to in order to accept and collect the loan of 500k on his behalf.

Please your advise on this will be helpful.
Thank you.

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Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by duro4chang(m): 2:01pm On Sep 12, 2021
Sorry, what has he been doing with all the loans he has been taking?

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Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by Nobody: 2:02pm On Sep 12, 2021
Break your sim card change location so that it will be hard to connect you buy a separate number to call on ur free space ur papa na witch... Case close

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Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by yomi007k(m): 2:07pm On Sep 12, 2021
duro4chang:
Sorry, what has he been doing with all the loans he has been taking?

Good question.

Op don't take any loan.
If you give him financial support monthly then continue.

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Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by Nobody: 2:08pm On Sep 12, 2021
See, op. He's your dad. Also remember he got into debt because of you. He meant well for you and if not for how everything turned out badly, you'll prolly be doing a 6 digit job and living large by now. So consider him and do this.

Take a 100k loan. at least you can conviniently pay back in case he defaults. Just test him with that first and see how it goes. Don't just turn him down outrightly.

That's all.

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Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by donbachi(m): 2:13pm On Sep 12, 2021
Help him,even if he wont pay it back.




La familiar!

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Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by aanuoluwami14(f): 2:16pm On Sep 12, 2021
Your father wants to ruin your life, ignore him. What has he done with all the money collected?! Na by force?

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Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by kestolove95(m): 2:26pm On Sep 12, 2021
Even if ur dad say u should collect Nigeria as a loan for him... U HV no option than to do it

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Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by BeeBeeOoh(m): 2:28pm On Sep 12, 2021
Your papa never clear all the igbese wey dey him neck and he wan make you collect another igbese on his behalf? Abeg,

Is your papa an Igbeserian!


Baba, make you use ur tongue count ur teeth.

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Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by thuxzwda1: 2:32pm On Sep 12, 2021
aanuoluwami14:
Your father wants to ruin your life, ignore him. What has he done with all the money collected?! Na by force?


Na woman..........

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Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by Righteousness2(m): 2:40pm On Sep 12, 2021
If I was in your Shoes, I will not take the loan.

I will do my best and gather some money and give to him.

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Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by richmond500: 2:41pm On Sep 12, 2021
Ok

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Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by Enormous81: 2:41pm On Sep 12, 2021
I won't support that

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Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by sayhi2bammy(m): 2:41pm On Sep 12, 2021
I am so very sorry to say this.

Your father is your "village people".

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Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by NaijaCuzin: 2:41pm On Sep 12, 2021
Japa

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Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by merits(m): 2:41pm On Sep 12, 2021

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Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by MarveworldG: 2:41pm On Sep 12, 2021
Ok

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Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by Cmanforall: 2:41pm On Sep 12, 2021
Okay

Family issues

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Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by Sonnobax15(m): 2:41pm On Sep 12, 2021
lipsrsealed
Na wa oh....Those previous loans he took,had it been he was productive with them, it'd have been easy for someone to advise you to help him...But since he didn't make good use of them but hellbent on compelling you for another loan,op,run for your dear life.... You're too young to start something that you can't finish.

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Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by Moving4: 2:41pm On Sep 12, 2021
Omo! I nor know how una family be, but i don't think that's a good idea o tongue

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Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by TimmyTen(m): 2:42pm On Sep 12, 2021
Collect amount you can pay like #150k, use him as guarantor in case he defaults . Nothing spoil

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Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by Nobody: 2:42pm On Sep 12, 2021
Mercychen:
See, op. He's your dad. Also remember he got into debt because of you. He meant well for you and if not for how everything turned out badly, you'll prolly be doing a 6 digit job and living large by now. So consider him and do this.

Take a 100k loan. at least you can conviniently pay back in case he defaults. Just test him with that first and see how it goes. Don't just turn him down outrightly.

That's all.

Na something dey worry you

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Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by Crossroad1(m): 2:42pm On Sep 12, 2021
It will end in premium tears.
I don't like when things like this happens, it put the child in a very tight bad spot...
Tell your dad you are not entitled to loan until after some years...
Tell him to get the loan somewhere else that you will help him offset it with your salary...
At least if he gets the loan, he will be able to pay it the same way he wish to pay if you help him obtain the loan..

Believe me, he will default and play the, "I am your father, I spent on you, I was indebted because of you card"

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Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by Samfloxin(m): 2:42pm On Sep 12, 2021
Tell him you can only collect half of that money. If he agrees,do that. Remember,you don't know what he really passed through to see you through school. Make the sacrifice for him, it is worth it.

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Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by wunmi590(m): 2:42pm On Sep 12, 2021
tongue

Which kind of selfish attitude is that, God forbid, what if you get the loan and after handing the money to him and something happened to him, you will now be running from pillar to post to pay back loan you didnt spend a dime in....

If you can contribute 100k and hand it over to him do please

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Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by NaijaCoverBlog(m): 2:42pm On Sep 12, 2021
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Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by Ancecoker(m): 2:42pm On Sep 12, 2021
sad
Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by PantherNG: 2:42pm On Sep 12, 2021
Don’t take the loan in his name. He will default and you’ll have to pay and might not be convenient for you. Don’t build bad credit history for yourself.

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Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by rottenPussy: 2:42pm On Sep 12, 2021
U sef give him money

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