@jagzangel: My first salary came yesterday and immediately I received alert, I rushed to my husband and asked him how much he needs me to contribute after informing him that my salary has been paid.

Oga thought I was joking and mentioned a figure thinking I was going to contest because it was almost all my salary, I just carried my phone and transferred it to him.

It was doing him like film, I then went ahead to pay the salary of our children's lesson teacher so that he would stop thinking about it.

That's when I realized that he was doing so much without complaining He sees it like his duty and even when the financial burden is too much, he struggles to pay without asking me.

He was so surprised and happy, I know that my money is just a fraction of what he brings but he felt like I gave him millions.

I then told him that I am putting in the effort to make more money so that I can still reduce his stress. He didn't marry a responsibility, he married an helper and he should be feeling more relaxed than when he was single.

I have never felt entitled to anybody's pocket and I won't do that with my husband.

Omo, oga went to the market without even telling me, stocked up the home.

Cooked and served me o, this small support has gone a long way to settle silent quarrels that I didn't even know about.

I will keep working harder and doing my best, men also need support, they are not supermarket. Men needs our support too

Written by a virtuous woman!

“Men are not Supermarkets”... they still need help �

you try. in your dreams

HMMM, THAT'S TRUE.

Description of my rare girl

I need these kind of a lady for serious relationship

Where is uyailncomparable dat tink a man's wife is his responsibility.

Nice write-up

God bless you and may He continue to bless the work of thy hands. You're truly a virtuous woman not the one I have in the house. I buy everything in the house even the chewing gum that she chews too

Na friction be this jare.
But on a more serious note, this is something my mum does on a steady Sha, so na norms

Nice right up. Hope you are one !!!

Mennnnnnnn,this kind of woman,na only once in a millennium God dey create dem..

It may seem that most men appreciate a woman like this or most women feel comfortable sharing the bills but it isn't really true. Most men feel emasculated in such situations and most women will not submit totally to their husbands nor give them due reverence while sharing the bills which pierces the man's ego and make him demand respect through physical actions which hardly ends well for both.

It is best a man remains the provider. Men should hope and work towards being rich and comfortable, this is how most homes remain happy and satisfied with less trouble from the woman.

That's what I know.

Rare breed indeed.
The man must have crossed seven rivers, sacrificed a pregnant mosquito and had rode on a mad bull to get this kinda wife.

Such women are very few and rare to find.

The kind of women I need right now, are the ones that would come to my house, give me head and Fuc.k the hell outer me. Then I give them t-fare so they can fucking get out of my life.

Does this mean that I'm times past, you did not used to help out in your home?? (Please correct me if I'm wrong)

A man carries the entire responsibility of the home, no biggie and a woman just shoulders a minute fraction of it and it's making headlines...this life sha

It's nice that her husband is appreciative in return -- appreciative enough to cook for her. That's not always the case.

So many men are insecure. The moment their woman starts earning more than them, they feel threatened. I wonder how this woman's husband would react if she should start earning more

At the end of the day, marriage is a partnership. It's best to be supportive and appreciative of each other

U copied this post here on NL and reposted....

Amb1045:


He was so surprised and happy, I know that my money is just a fraction of what he brings but he felt like I gave him millions.

The most important part of your story is the one in bolded. It shows you married a good man.

Omor wetin the man don dey do tey tey,

She just run am once everybody ghast know,sha na so women dey.

A great man once said : the honesty of a humble fowl is determined by the greatness of his unity....
you don't understand right?? ME TOO��

This is fake because no such Nigerian woman exists in this generation

Story story

Old stuff , it was on nairaland FP

Veggieseedies:
Description of my rare girl

Not RARE in my Family.
We engineered such and God crowned our thoughts with Reality.
My WIFE gave me $2000 on my Birthday which I just celebrated last month.

No bi woman wey go dey dash me salary me want jare. I just want a woman to be proud of 366 days in a year.

G

Truvelisback:
Such women are very few and rare to find.

The last of such women is a grandmother now so the earlier you give up hope on finding a virtuous woman especially in Nigeria, the better.

Men are the ones that gave women the entitlement mentality everyone complains of

NL women take note