Oga.....you the vase me, just go and sleep. Are you jealous that ur son has taken your wife's mouth from you or what . If you were brought up in a terrain with playing mums and their children, you wouldn't be troubling us with this. Free your wife abeg...
How on Earth will my wife not kiss my baby on the lips . Something that I will also do

Shellsploit:
Let us wait to hear from lalasticlacla
Lemme go and plug guava, will be back.


Back to the topic..
So your wife shouldn't kiss her own baby again? Wait, who is the mother of the baby?

Wahala no dey finish for marriage!

No mind am. Imagine him nagging for his wife

You're just being delusional, you haven't recovered from the truama of the past. My advice for you is to go for therapy.

What kind of a man are you A mother shouldnt kiss her own child? Who does that?

Tell your wife your concerns about the kiss and the sad experience it brings back to you. Maybe she would understand

Hmm. Differences in upbringing are beginning to raise their heads. Pick a compromise. As a third party I'll say she should engage in the act whenever the teenager is not around and likely when you aren't. That child needs both of you in its life. Don't make petty issues draw you people apart.

@OP,

No, i don't think you are wrong. Kissing on the lips means something special to me, and if my wife starts kissing our baby like that, i would certainly request her to please stop it.

I noticed that almost everyone (apart from @LilMissFavvy and a few others) seemed not have a problem with a mother kissing the baby on the mouth/lips. That's ok, everyone to their own i guess - but it is rather distasteful that y'all think the OP must be "having issues" or "delusional" because he thinks differently from you. People are different, and it is wrong to expect each person to act like you do.

OP clearly has a problem with his wife kissing their child on the lips and the wisest idea would be to sit with his wife and work out a compromise. If one partner has pet-peeve, unless the other partner acknowledges this and works with him/her to make a compromise, it will always cause problems and quarrels. Just saying "abeg get used to it" is making a mockery of your spouse's problems and asking for friction in your home.

kay9:
@OP,No, i don't think you are wrong. Kissing on the lips means something special to me, and if my wife starts kissing our baby like that, i would certainly request her to please stop it..

Kissing on the lips means something special to you and so your wife should deny a baby the affection it requires because of your hangups where kissing on the lips is concerned?

Will you also deny your wife breastfeeding the child because cupping her nipples means something special to you?

Or maybe you will deny her taking a bath with the baby because your wife's unclothedness means something special to you?

I suggest you spend today watching nature shows observing the behavior between animals and their young, particularly new mothers and their babies and maybe you will learn how not to inject your own delusions where nature and nuture is concerned.

I'm sure it's more like a peck on the child's mouth. Nothing wrong and i'm sure it makes the child smile.
However, you should know the difference between a mother showing her child motherly love, and one practicing incest.
If it makes you uncomfortable, talk to her and let her know what you term as acceptable.
I believe if the kid is left in your care for 24hours straight, you too will kiss the child to stop it from crying, or to make the child laugh.
You can try counseling and therapy.

bobontop:
My wife is fond of kissing my 6months boy in the mouth. I personally don't like this and I have told her to stop it but she refused.

This issue in causing a serious argument in my home and I want to take a serious action since she has refused to stop it.

Please I need advice from experienced parents.

I was abused sexual as a child by a cousin staying with us and there are cases of incest around me. I don't want any of this to happen to my son.

The teenage girl staying with us always sees my wife kissing my son in the mouth and I am afraid she my copy it and start doing it.

Please am I wrong? Am I over reacting? Is it a normal practice? Please advise me.

sorry bro but u need to see a doctor ur self

bobontop:
My wife is fond of kissing my 6months boy in the mouth. I personally don't like this and I have told her to stop it but she refused.

This issue in causing a serious argument in my home and I want to take a serious action since she has refused to stop it.

Please I need advice from experienced parents.

I was abused sexual as a child by a cousin staying with us and there are cases of incest around me. I don't want any of this to happen to my son.

The teenage girl staying with us always sees my wife kissing my son in the mouth and I am afraid she my copy it and start doing it.

Please am I wrong? Am I over reacting? Is it a normal practice? Please advise me.

Please don't tell your wife how to express love to your baby.
Also, kissing a baby isn't sexual abuse.
I understand you want to protect your baby but you can't decide how others show love to your child.

bobontop:
My wife is fond of kissing my 6months boy in the mouth. I personally don't like this and I have told her to stop it but she refused.

This issue in causing a serious argument in my home and I want to take a serious action since she has refused to stop it.

Please I need advice from experienced parents.

I was abused sexual as a child by a cousin staying with us and there are cases of incest around me. I don't want any of this to happen to my son.

The teenage girl staying with us always sees my wife kissing my son in the mouth and I am afraid she my copy it and start doing it.

Please am I wrong? Am I over reacting? Is it a normal practice? Please advise me.

You cannot stop a mother's love.

Doctors even say it is not good to kiss babies. It is unhealthy.

Stupid father

Bornsinner7:
I see nothing wrong as it is her child.. that you were sexualy abused have left a scar in your memory but you have to deal with it..

Maybe you should let her understand your point of view rather than just prohibiting her authoritatively from the act...

Everybody loves the feel of the lips of babies bro.. don't be mad..

Paedophile spotted. You and who like wetin?

TemmyT002:
Doctors even say it is not good to kiss babies. It is unhealthy.

Where?

Medically, it’s wrong to kiss a baby on the lips. A lot of dangers to it. I can’t explain all here but a simple google search would help.

This kind of Op eehn , a kind of Commando like very authoritarian ,like come here ...sit here ...go to bed and open your leg ....WTF

bobontop:
My wife is fond of kissing my 6months boy in the mouth. I personally don't like this and I have told her to stop it but she refused.

This issue in causing a serious argument in my home and I want to take a serious action since she has refused to stop it.

Please I need advice from experienced parents.

I was abused sexual as a child by a cousin staying with us and there are cases of incest around me. I don't want any of this to happen to my son.

The teenage girl staying with us always sees my wife kissing my son in the mouth and I am afraid she my copy it and start doing it.

Please am I wrong? Am I over reacting? Is it a normal practice? Please advise me.

You are yet to recover from the above. See a therapist

Bros,you're the one that needs help here seriously, telling a mother not to kiss the child,even fathers do. Try to go for your mental rahabilitaion you cant skip it,the abused you suffered is telling on you.

[1quote author=bobontop post=106257969]My wife is fond of kissing my 6months boy in the mouth. I personally don't like this and I have told her to stop it but she refused.

This issue in causing a serious argument in my home and I want to take a serious action since she has refused to stop it.

Please I need advice from experienced parents.

I was abused sexual as a child by a cousin staying with us and there are cases of incest around me. I don't want any of this to happen to my son.

The teenage girl staying with us always sees my wife kissing my son in the mouth and I am afraid she my copy it and start doing it.

Please am I wrong? Am I over reacting? Is it a normal practice? Please advise me.[/quote]

There is difference between a peck and sensual kissing

bobontop:
My wife is fond of kissing my 6months boy in the mouth. I personally don't like this and I have told her to stop it but she refused.

This issue in causing a serious argument in my home and I want to take a serious action since she has refused to stop it.

Please I need advice from experienced parents.

I was abused sexual as a child by a cousin staying with us and there are cases of incest around me. I don't want any of this to happen to my son.

The teenage girl staying with us always sees my wife kissing my son in the mouth and I am afraid she my copy it and start doing it.

Please am I wrong? Am I over reacting? Is it a normal practice? Please advise me.

u de craze

Kobojunkie:
You tell a mother not to kiss her own baby, from her own womb, in the mouth, why?

If you need to seek counseling for the abuse you suffered as as child, then go get it quickly. But to try to restrict a woman from showing love and affection to her own baby because you were abused is a bit too much.

And using the teenage girl living with you as reason to scold your wife is ridiculous. Tell the girl she is not to do the same to the child, not scold your wife for showing affection as a mother to her own offspring.

one sided advise, so if he kiss his daughter I guess it's okay?

bobontop:
My wife is fond of kissing my 6months boy in the mouth. I personally don't like this and I have told her to stop it but she refused.

This issue in causing a serious argument in my home and I want to take a serious action since she has refused to stop it.

Please I need advice from experienced parents.

I was abused sexual as a child by a cousin staying with us and there are cases of incest around me. I don't want any of this to happen to my son.

The teenage girl staying with us always sees my wife kissing my son in the mouth and I am afraid she my copy it and start doing it.

Please am I wrong? Am I over reacting? Is it a normal practice? Please advise me.

OP - I did not want to comment on this issue but I just couldn’t restrain myself due to the enormous stupidity & foolishness I’m reading from these disgusting comments on the first page.

You see all these morally decadent imbeciles telling you “it’s not a big deal” or “it’s normal” are the reason Nigeria is currently irredeemably hopeless.

I swear by Sango, a good number of the males have DEFINITELY slept with their own mothers while the females have also been fvcked by their fathers.

In Nigeria, misery loves company, majority of them would naturally mislead you so that your own family too can become as unfortunate & cursed like theirs.

If not, why would anyone be encouraging such sacrilegious acts in the name of civilization and copying what they watch on T.V?

I don’t know where you come from but let me be clear. In Yoruba land, it is a veritable taboo for a mother to kiss her son mouth-to-mouth or a father kissing her daughter mouth-to-mouth.

From mouth-to-mouth kissing, what do you think would follow that? The useless mother asking the son to massage her pubic hair or the bastard father asking the daughter to massage his schlong.

If you don’t know, majority of the people you see in Nigeria have been defiled by their parents and that’s why they don’t see it as a big deal.

If I were in your shoes, and the woman still refuses to heed my repeated warnings, I would retrieve my son & kick her out of my house to the gutter from whence she came.

Sango in collabo with Ogun will obliterate any bastard that quotes me to say rubbish.

I will only advice here base on covid, for now. That my take on this.

Every mother is fond of doing it and you can't stop it
That's the joy of motherhood

Health Wise it's not right because she can infect the child with mouth disease.

I don't know why a mother will chose to kiss a baby in the mouth.

The cheeks and forehead is fine but definitely not the mouth. Let her stop it. It's not healthy.

that kind thing

Bornsinner7:
I see nothing wrong as it is her child.. that you were sexualy abused have left a scar in your memory but you have to deal with it..

Maybe you should let her understand your point of view rather than just prohibiting her authoritatively from the act...

Everybody loves the feel of the lips of babies bro.. don't be mad..

Until the grab your cheek and bite you�

..

Don’t deny ur wife showing affection to her child naa... the baby is much hers as yours.. wat am I saying? Don’t be an end time father

Saao:
one sided advise, so if he kiss his daughter I guess it's okay?

Good father's can do so without guilt https://www.quora.com/At-what-age-should-fathers-stop-kissing-daughters-on-the-lips-Or-was-it-ever-appropriate