pocohantas:


Wow!!! So Nigerian women are not jobless after all. This thread is eye-opening.

God punish anybody that says Nigerian women don’t work.

An God punish anybody that says Nigerian men are marginalising the women/girl child.

Godoverevery:
[s]What is the point of sending a female child to school and empowering her if at the end of it all she still feels marginalised.

Right from my primary school in the early 90's till this point I always competit with ladies on the same level ground...nothing was given to me freely because am a man.
Is really annoying that people like ini edo and co will always come out to play the same old card of African female child/women are marginalised....this am a woman change is a total nonsense[/s] because is fellow women that mocks themselves.

[s]I will be analysing every sector and section of social life to prove this old lies wrong

Education
Just take a look around you and tell me which female child is actually stopped from going to school because of her gender......Right from my primary school untill university there were more female student than the male......we receive the same quality of Education so were the marginalisation??

Work/job
Currently in nigeria is easy for a woman to get a job than a man.....Apart from the engineering sector which is dominated by the male most sector is dominated by the female(banks,medical,hotels,entertainment)...so were the marginalisation.

Politics
Nobody gifts anyone an elective post anywhere in the world rather you fight for it....Men fight for it with blood and sweat so if a woman wants to hold this post she must be ready to fight not expecting to be handed over on a platter.
If a woman should come out to contest for elective post in this country even her fellow women won't vote for her....so were is the marginalisation

Entertainment
Is no news apart from music which men dominant the movie industry is dominated by the female who make more money than the male....people like ini edo won't question why they are paid more than there male colleagues in the same profession.

Relationship/marriage
Today in nigeria if you can not provide for your family u are useless man.....even in ordinary relationship a lady will expect you to provide things she needs..No money No love yet they still complain and play victim card.
They can't date broke guys but will expect well to do guys to date a lady who can't even do a 1k sub for herself......they only have the right to choose but not men......were is the marginalisation

In marriage you pay to marry her,you provide shelter, food,clothing etc...if the marriage crash you pay child support.....A full adult totally dependent on another and still feel she meant to be equal with him......were is the marginalisation


State and federal government pays equally to both gender on the same level
Private sector pays equally to both gender on the same level.

I have a lil sis.....there was nothing I enjoy or had that she didn't get from our parent.....I challenge any lady here to tell me how she was treated inferior to her brothers.

What is the point of sending a female child to school from primary to higher institution and at the end of the day she will be totally dependent on the man and will always feel she isn't given enough to be independent.

The moment we start debunking the lies and stop victim mentality the better for the next generation of girls.....this lies is the reason why most our ladies are unproductive and lazy.

Help the female child by letting her know she can do it on her own.....she can competit and no one can stop her except herself.

Women stop spreading the message of victim mentality/marginalisation to our girls this 2021 not 1960.[/s]

Advise your sister accordingly and always correct any fish head female who drags her fellow female down. Don't just witness it and be amused because it boosts your ego only to cry wolf when they come for you.

pocohantas:

Nothing to counter. OP is very correct. Nigerian women are not being marginalized, they are doing well educationally and professionally.

The future is…

It's not funny. You women always claim to be at a disadvantage & when I look around me, I see none.

It's a manipulative way to try & cheat your way to the top hence the stigma attached to female success especially in this part of the world.

Maybe if you women can just stop complaining & manipulating your way to success, men might actually start respecting your achievements.

It's nature.

Godoverevery:

An God punish anybody that says Nigerian men are marginalising the women/girl child.

And punish the ones that say Nigerian men are the only ones working and providing for 99% of homes.

DoggoneDogg:


It's not funny. You women always claim to be at a disadvantage & when I look around me, I see none.

Its a manipulative way to try & cheat your way to the top hence the stigma attached to female success especially in this part of the world.

Maybe if you women can just stop complaining & trying to manipulate your way to success, men might actually start respecting your achievements.

It's nature.

sorry o. We have just gotten to realize you men even notice we are doing well educationally and career-wise. The Op even said the female entertainers get paid MORE than the males. Meaning it is normal that they are buying houses na.

Let me bookmark this thread.

The future is…

Justbehave:
Just state how you lots still claim to be marginalized. Thank God guys are beginning to see through your manipulations and victim mentalities

I am beginning to see that Nigerian women are hardworkers. That Nigerian women make up majority of the banking sector. That Nigerian women are not jobless and dull.

Most importantly, you can get men to agree with you by making them think they are disagreeing with you.

God bless Nigerian women.

pocohantas:


Wow!!! So Nigerian women are not jobless after all. This thread is eye-opening.

God punish anybody that says Nigerian women don’t work.

Just state how you lots still claim to be marginalized. Thank God guys are beginning to see through your manipulations and victim mentalities

Fiscus105:
Not until you guys come to realisation that you own ur woman, though not ur slave or ur servant o, you won't stop to lament on woman issue.


Person (woman) born that is not from ur own family, would come to ur house, change her patriarch name, adopt ur own, go to labour in which it's life and death, the outcomes of such risky adventure, would be bearing ur patriarch name, non will bear her own patriarch name. Not done with that, she would be cooking and doing house chores for you, when she finally dies, the remain will not still go back to her father house, but ur own place.

Upon all these, you guys still lamenting on secondly basis on woman issue. Who curse you for Christ sake?

please leave them to continue wailing

2elliot:
Is that your only problem, or there are more?

You can still continue to lament ooooo.

You are free to go to Italy to change ur gender ok.


Or better still, pray that God should make you woman rapper, at least , you will stay at home and feed by woman.

dollynnn:
You have said it all!
Females have been playing the "Victim cards " since the 90's
Notwithstanding the fact that I am a female,all what the OP wrote up there is the truth, nothing but the truth

You and OP should visit the North

Justbehave:
Stop trying to be smart and using revert psychology.

Are you minding the childish maniac? Don't waste your time on her.

The op is on point and that is what matters. You can take that gender out of victimhood, but you can't take victimhood out of them. The need to be seen as victims or marginalised folks is a manipulative survival strategy: if they can convince everyone to seem them as victims, then there is room to demand special treatment and unearned privileges.

femi4:
You and OP should visit the North

Come with facts

FreeIgboho:


How many women are like your account officer? Nigeria is approximately 50% women. Look at the business, political, church, education, etc leadership landscapes in Nigeria. How many are wome??

Actually, the population of women in Nigeria is over 50%. To answer your question, the reason why they are not fully represented in those sectors you mentioned is because the present day Nigerian woman is laid-back and have this feeling of entitlement as per her gender.

They prefer to relax while the man hustles for them. The ultimate goal for them is marriage!

SeaTrade:

Bunch of delusionist,those ones.
I've always tried to understand how women are being marginalised in this country yet i can't see it.
Except for the core North,Nigeria women literally have it better than most men.
Hoping to get things on a platter,while hiding under their marginalisation agenda.Who's suppose to pay the price for you just cos you are female?
If you want to succeed in any sphere,better fight hard for it,else get ready to be stuck in a spot for very long periods,male or female.

My sisters' pocket money in secondary school were higher than mine that was already in the university.
Thank God they caught on sha,doing well both b4 they got married.
Ist sister had a PhD at 28 and was workingbb4 she got married.
2nd had a masters and was lecturing in a Fed Poly plus doing buying and selling b4 she got married.
No be like those wey go finish school,then be collecting money from papa and mama, then be waiting for another man to come and continue where their father stopped in the name of marriage.

Martinez39s:
Are you minding the childish maniac? Don't waste your time on her.

The op is on point and that is what matters. You can take that gender out of victimhood, but you can't take victimhood out of them. The need to be seen as victims or marginalised folks is a survival strategy: if they can convince everyone to seem them as victims, then there is room to demand special treatment and unearned privileges.

She doesn't have anything to say that's why she is busy capping trash.

Justbehave:
I want to hear from the ladies. @ OP. You ve said it all.My account officer is a lady rich and single. I have asked her this question once and her answer was that only a lazy and entitled lady can say that they are marginalized.

You won't, the evidence speaks for itself...

Fiscus105:
Not until you guys come to realisation that you own ur woman, though not ur slave or ur servant o, you won't stop to lament on woman issue.


Person (woman) born that is not from ur own family, would come to ur house, change her patriarch name, adopt ur own, go to labour in which it's life and death, the outcomes of such risky adventure, would be bearing ur patriarch name, non will bear her own patriarch name. Not done with that, she would be cooking and doing house chores for you, when she finally dies, the remain will not still go back to her father house, but ur own place.

Upon all these, you guys still lamenting on secondly basis on woman issue. Who curse you for Christ sake?

Your type no dey Sabi anything except to talk first (which everyone can attest to what an empty drum does the most). Shey na round table we dey? Facts and points suppose dey go round. Clear cut discussion naim you want end even when e never start? The statement was logically aligned, I'd wait for your next comment which i hope will be better.



Lastly, this wasn't a complain. Our young men are going crazy just to make money, and this topic is perfect. "There's nothing like a broke man" except heart break of any kind. Ladies no dey morgue, abattoir, even for election rigging (I take these as the dirtiest of jobs, JOBS) yet he's broke? C'mon!

pocohantas:


And punish the ones that say Nigerian men are the only ones working and providing for 99% of homes.






sorry o. We have just gotten to realize you men even notice we are doing well educationally and career-wise. The Op even said the female entertainers get paid MORE than the males. Meaning it is normal that they are buying houses na.

Let me bookmark this thread.

The future is…



I am beginning to see that Nigerian women are hardworkers. That Nigerian women make up majority of the banking sector. That Nigerian women are not jobless and dull.

Most importantly, you can get men to agree with you by making them think they are disagreeing with you.

God bless Nigerian women.

Abi oooo.....that why we have more olosho ds days.

Very hard working.

Tannhauser:



Remember then in secondary school my parents would give my elder sister 7k for pocket money and I would be given 3k or 4k. When I protested pointing out that she is older, they told me "you are a man, she's a girl". If anything, men are the ones marginalized.

Exactly what my dad would say for our house help when she was in the university.
"I don't want her to be vulnerable to men" bla bla bla

elonmuskbaby:
please leave them to continue wailing

Is this all you have to say? Lol.

Godoverevery:

Abi oooo.....that why we have more olosho ds days.

Very hard working.

From your thread, they are in every prestigious sector except engineering. Please don’t discredit your own research. I like to think you logically put it together.

Justbehave:
I want to hear from the ladies. @ OP. You ve said it all.My account officer is a lady rich and single. I have asked her this question once and her answer was that only a lazy and entitled lady can say that they are marginalized.

Useless Nigerian girls you won't see them here because truth is like bitter leaf to them

badman007:
This is the most stupid thing I’ve read all year.
In a world full of people with obvious religious prejudice and Bias against women. It goes to show how Unenlightened and uninformed you are about the issue of women’s rights/marginalisation.

You really have said nothing.

Justbehave:
Stop trying to be smart and using revert psychology.

You guys pay that wannabe feminist too much attention.

pocohantas:

sorry o. We have just gotten to realize you men even notice we are doing well educationally and career-wise. The Op even said the female entertainers get paid MORE than the males. Meaning it is normal that they are buying houses na.

Let me bookmark this thread.

The future is…

It is a FACT that female entertainers make more money than their male counterparts. Men are not complaining because entertainment is more or less a female thing.

However, in fields related to men like football & contact sports for example, you women STILL claim to be marginalized.

This is pure hypocrisy & manipulation.

This is exactly why female achievements are not regarded as credible because there is that lingering notion that she may have gotten it by cheating.

Tamunotonye22:



Your type no dey Sabi anything except to talk first (which everyone can attest to what an empty drum does the most). Shey na round table we dey? Facts and points suppose dey go round. Clear cut discussion naim want end even when e never start? The statement was logically aligned, I'd wait for your next comment which i hope will be better.



Lastly, this wasn't a complain. Our young men are going crazy just to make money, and this topic is perfect. "There's nothing like a broke man" except heart break of any kind. Ladies no dey moque, abattoir, even for election rigging (I take these as the dirtiest of jobs, JOBS, yet he's broke? C'mon!

Why weeping that ur fellow human being (female) are getting good job and better?

Satanist like you want them to be inside kitchen cooking for u day and night , and u will be claiming big man,......African man,

So that you can be sleeping with every girl in ur locality

OP abeg be calming down, why am l reading this piece like you are shouting, lol.

DoggoneDogg:


It is a FACT that female entertainers make more money than their male counterparts. Men are not complaining because entertainment is more or less a female thing.

However, in fields related to men like football & contact sports for example, you women STILL claim to be marginalized.

This is pure hypocrisy & manipulation.

This is exactly why female achievements are not regarded as credible because there is that lingering notion that she may have gotten it by cheating.

Exactly, Nigerian women are hardworking. They are not oloshos. God continue to bless Nigerian women. Today Nigerian men have appreciated their hardwork.

Some cultures and sectors relegate women to the back bt not Ini edo and co. They haven’t been marginalized by anyone and in any way.

She’s actually on top of the food chain.

richmond500:
Leave them joh, them think say to be a man na bobo

Even Bobrisky no fit handle the pressure, he had to run.

The other day, a man poured a lady water from his convoy and gave her 500k as compensation, u know how many water dem don pour me? 5 naira I never see, the last person weh pour me water even nearly beat me cos I told him "thunder fire ur landlord"

Lol...good 4u. U get bad mouth

pocohantas:


Exactly, Nigerian women are hardworking. They are not oloshos. God continue to bless Nigerian women. Today Nigerian men have appreciated their hardwork.

So why was Ini Edo complaining??

pocohantas:


From your thread, they are in every prestigious sector except engineering. Please don’t discredit your own research. I like to think you logically put it together.

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The problem is not about being in prestigious sectors, it's about "them" being independent and not to be entitled. Be logical too

virginprincess:
Hmmm, this your comment I don't understand, are you in support of females or the op?

Should it be about supporting d OP or not?
I think it should be seeing reasons & the valid points d OP made.

Justbehave:
She doesn't have anything to say that's why she is busy capping trash.

Capping nonsense