Tell your Dad. Let the world know with DNA proof sha. I suggest you take out the test for yourself first before revealing. It’s illegitimate children that destroy homes in the end. Their blood no de rest for the wrong house. Let him go to his father’s house.

Juliusmomoh:
Note i don't hate him..
I love him with my everything.

I just discover recently that he's not my dad son..

Wetin make u go do DNA on d said brother in d first instance?

brownemmanuel43:

He is your step brother, and for u to be nursing DNA shows that your step brother has being showing some attitudes or lifestyle that is not in your family.
If that's the case, pls go ahead and do dna, moreover is your step mum alive? If she's alive pls don't tell or ask her anything to avoid poisoning u or killing u.
Tell your dad that everybody should go and do the dna test

Best advice ever.
Yes she's alive.

Juliusmomoh:


Not what u may think..
This is a faceless forum

It's not faceless forum.

What do u stand to gain by cutting the joy of ur old father and ur supposed half-brother with such news? I hope ur father's property is not what brought about such selfish thought. Don't send ur father to an early grave with such bad news

Juliusmomoh:
I have found out and am with the evidence that he don't belong here...

Should i go ahead and tell my dad that the child he suffer to train is not his? ..

Or i should tell him to conduct DNA test on all of us? (i can foot the bill) .

Am confuse

Which kind op be this sef? To settle down nack us better gist just dey hard you abi? Most people with yeye story go even dey beg us say make we no vex bcuz the story long with plenty grammar mistake, but ur story when be like wetin go sweet person aproko ears, you just give us only the last paragraph. No advice from me o, until you drop the full gist

Try and find out to he aim of your dad's friend for telling you now. Why didn't he do it earlier. Does it have beef with anyone? What's his relationship with the boy's mum? Just find out if there's any alterior motive behind this.
I would advise you don't be in a hurry to tell your dad.

Juliusmomoh:
I have found out and am with the evidence that he don't belong here...

Should i go ahead and tell my dad that the child he suffer to train is not his? ..

Or i should tell him to conduct DNA test on all of us? (i can foot the bill) .

Am confuse

tell him na

Juliusmomoh:


Am just afraid...
What if i tell him and got heart-break and die... He's 76 plus

What u are planning to do would save the family now that your dad is still alive than in the grave

Juliusmomoh:
Note i don't hate him..
I love him with my everything.

I just discover recently that he's not my dad son..

How did you discover? The question no one cares to ask.

Juliusmomoh:


Am just afraid...
What if i tell him and got heart-break and die... He's 76 plus

abeg nor go kill that old man with that kind news oh, let the sleeping dog lye

If he has been of good conduct, and his position in the family is not of threat to the legitimate children then they won't be need for that unless otherwise. You father raised him so he is still his son.

Sonnobax15:
Bros,this thing get as e be oh.....Just like you you said,the outcome of the news might have a negative impact on your dad.....This thing get as e be,but I think it's very important for him to know..

A similar thing happened to a man(an retired shell worker for that matter) here in my home town...In this case,all the children weren't his....After the man don train all of them finish go school,even all of them self don dey abroad dey live good lives,na one day the wife call the man sidown,break the news to am...She Also told the kids about it.... mennnnnnnn,na one day the children come naija come carry the man fly out,say na the father wey them know nai be that

Wow! God bless those children

Juliusmomoh:
I have found out and am with the evidence that he don't belong here...

Should i go ahead and tell my dad that the child he suffer to train is not his? ..

Or i should tell him to conduct DNA test on all of us? (i can foot the bill) .

Am confuse

wow this is deep

FreeSpirited:
Imagine ur Dad runs DNA on all of u and it turns out u are also not his child ...
.......
Nothing is impossible especially if it involves vagina people and paternity.

Guy you wiketh dai!

Juliusmomoh:


I know am his legitimate son... My problem now is, what if i tell him and this old man died out of surprise?

if the guy isn't a problem to the family, I'd advice you don't tell him anything. Family/brother isn't always blood related, I've seen friends and strangers that turned out to be better than brothers in the end. And I've seen brothers that betray his own too. If the guy is a good guy, and you're not dragging anything with him, why bother. Think about how it will affect him too if he receives the news, the shame and emotional breakdown he'll go through.

good day bros according to what u said here.. ur dad is 70+ and u found out now that ur step bros in not his legitimate son? hmmmm,,, pls don't give Satan chance in ur family although i see Satan coming into the family if after the man of 70+ we leave the world... pls sorry for this question i want to ask u.. what is ur reason on this issue? what good have u done if eventually is true of flash? do u know that ur life may be in danger there will be a very big problem in ur family..... and u will be an enemy to ur step bros for ever.... what of the step mother cos am sure she not ur mother? i hope she is know more cos there is going to be a very serious dispute ..... pls is not good enough to encouraged man of 70+ to go and run DNA test to his children ..... just believe this if the true finally comes out u,ur father. ur step bros .. every one of u will be in danger ''' i hope u have ur own family as first son by now just go and take care of ur family ...... save ur family disgrace or maybe u have personal interest in ur father wil

Juliusmomoh:


I know am his legitimate son... My problem now is, what if i tell him and this old man died out of surprise?

how old are you? and how old is that step brother of yours?

how did u discover he is not your dads son? MR DISCOVERER

jaxxy:


Then depending on the circumstances I think the 1st to know should be ur step brother and he can make decisions if he wants to know his real father or not. Whatever the case ur dad is still his dad.

Telling ur dad is risky and quite unnecessary at this point and age especially if the circumstances will hurt his feelings or break his heat. It cud actually hasten his passing rather than enjoy his last few years with his family in peace.

Let’s things remain as they are. I think bt it all depends on the circumstances.

No circumstance
Thank you sir... God bless you.

if its not your truth, let it slide.

RPG2020:



If you know the truth say it no matter what

Juliusmomoh:


I know am his legitimate son... My problem now is, what if i tell him and this old man died out of surprise?

You are sure you are his biological son.
Your dad is 76...meaning he is done with the school of life and is just waiting in the hallway to go meet God.

Put yourself in his shoes. If you receive such news at that age, everything you have accomplished in life will evaporate and regret and self-contempt will fill that void. Do NOT tell him.

If he had adopted the boy, would it matter now? No. What if he already knew but had taken it in his stride in order to give all of his children a beautiful legacy of family?

Let it be. But you know what you know, and do not let what you know introduce biases that could wreck your harmony.

Do not also wreck the life of your half brother. Consider him adopted. Period! If he was still an infant, you may ask the mother to leave. But not anymore. He's a man now. Abi?

Drefaithful:


how old are you? and how old is that step brother of yours?

My step-bros is 46

That means you are ready to just see your father live the rest of his life as a sad man....why do you hate your step bro? You dont want to accept him as your brother fine, just allow your dad to live the rest of his life happily.

Juliusmomoh:


Oga sonnobax...
I just receive the new yesterday... And guess what, all what they told me is true... They can't tell my father direct. Since am the first born, they had to let me know first... They said i shoul get back to them before sunday.

Don't tell the old man before you send him to his grave quickly or he may fall sick. See your mum first and meet the guy involved. Total DNA test should be conducted and solve the puzzle once and for all

Mcslize:

How did you discover? The question no one cares to ask.

My dad friend tells me.

Assuming the situation turns out to be "when the bushmeat go catch the hunter" waitn u go do?

If he isn't causing any problems to the family why not let him be. You want to cause problem to the young and your dad for what he knows nothing about. Please allow the old man live his remaining life in peace don't rush him to the grave

Juliusmomoh:

I was told by my dad's friend. I think he want want the son back to the original family after sunday... I will never let it happen...

What makes you think that your father's friend is not the real father?

Wawelexy:
Bro, no kill that man before him time?

just wait till he dies, then give that bastard and his mom the shock of their life by exposing them with the evidence u have.

But don't try this if ur dad is rich, cos he might have given that son of a beech a large chunk of his estate in his WILL before his death and it can't be altered after his death. Just scattere everything now make una rearrange am.(but that's if he's really wealthy).

Omo this thing dey pain eh!!

this should be a debate in the court case. what if in the will, it was stated that the estate should be shared among his sons.

DNA test show one of them were not his son. how will the will be executed?

Juliusmomoh:


My dad friend tells me.

What makes you think that your father's friend is not the real father?

1) IS YOUR STEP MOTHER STILL ALIVE?

2) WHAT DOES YOUR DADS FRIEND STAND TO GAIN BY TELLING U

3) WHO IS THE BIOLOGICAL FATHER OF YOUR STEP BROTHER

4) HOW COME YOUR DAD DIDN'T KNOW WHILE HIS FRIEND KNEW AND WAS TELLING YOU ** a good sign of a bad friend**

5) NOT JUST HAVING MONEY FOR DNA TEST. CAN YOU STAND THE HEAT AFTER THE TEST?

6) IF YOUR STEP MOM HAVE A BIOLOGICAL SON OR DAUGHTER FROM YOUR DAD, APART FROM THAT PARTICULAR STEP BROTHER. WHAT DO U THINK THE RELATIONSHIP WILL BE LIKE

7) WHY DID YOUR DADS FRIEND PICK U AND NOT UR MOM FROM THE ONSET ** cos woman Sabi fight that kind fight at the early stage**

REMEMBER YOU ARE FROM A POLYGAMOUS HOME. IS YOUR OWN MOM THE FIRST OR SECOND WIFE. **a good reason to use ur head**

9) FINALLY!!!!!! TELL THAT YOUR DADS FRIEND TO BE MAN ENOUGH TO BREAK THE NEWS HIMSELF.