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Stop Doing This As A Guy by bodybuilder: 10:06pm On Oct 14, 2021
As a guy work hard and live a nice life. Stop eyeing people's money. Stop bothering about people using iPhones and travelling to fucking Dubai. I'm not saying iPhones are bad, I personally love iPhones, but just fvvcking worry about some things until you can afford it. As long as you're broke iPhones are overrated. Learn how to despise things you can't afford. Worshiping money is not gonna make you rich bro, it's only gonna cause depression.

Try balance your life small. You need a little bit of everything. No be say you get only 500k for your hand you wan buy iPhone 12. You dey try to compete with Davido way don already balance im life. That's why you fucking unhappy. I feel balance is key to happiness you need a little bit of everything.

This life eh, you gats dey sure of basic needs as a human being that's food, shelter and clothing before you add up extra things. Try dey live your life to scale.

No ever dey try compete for this money spending thing because you no go ever win I promise you.

Boys go always get money pass you. You

Me way dey talk this things no be say I perfect sha. But as I dey advice others, I dey take style they advice myself by extension.

And abeg try dey enjoy by budget, you no fit afford Dubai yet no mean say you no fit go vacation. Go to Ghana, go to Kenya, if that wan too much, go to another state in Nigeria. Last last na still vacation. There are still beautiful places in Nigeria you haven't seen yet. Don't deprive yourself of vacation because e no fit afford the expensive ones, the Instagram friendly ones.

Even the Nigeria way no dey like America sef, you never still enjoy am finish.

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Re: Stop Doing This As A Guy by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 10:18pm On Oct 14, 2021


Kenya, Ghana?? And another state like Borno, Zamfara or Sokoto shebi??


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Re: Stop Doing This As A Guy by Ocholu: 10:18pm On Oct 14, 2021
Some guys will avoid this thread.
See better life lessons.

OP let me be real with you;
Oil de your head.

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Re: Stop Doing This As A Guy by chatinent: 10:24pm On Oct 14, 2021
Nice one, Bros.

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Re: Stop Doing This As A Guy by Mandela27: 10:27pm On Oct 14, 2021
As I dey here sef I never even dey think all these things I dey live life jeje with the little my hussle can afford.
No iPhone,I be fine boy,my itel pop2 camera go still make my face clear grin

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Re: Stop Doing This As A Guy by pansophist(m): 10:27pm On Oct 14, 2021
Contentment makes a poor man wealthy, but discontentment makes even a wealthy man poor. Its not about the material wealth, its your attitude about it.

The easiest way to torture yourself unnecessarily is to bemoan about what you don't need.

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Re: Stop Doing This As A Guy by Smartb0y: 10:34pm On Oct 14, 2021
pansophist:
Contentment makes a poor man wealthy, but discontentment makes even a wealthy man poor. Its not about the material wealth, its your attitude about it.
to each his own,everyone cant be sensible

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Re: Stop Doing This As A Guy by Pumpumking: 10:37pm On Oct 14, 2021
bodybuilder:
As a guy work hard and live a nice life. Stop eyeing people's money. Stop bothering about people using iPhones and travelling to fucking Dubai. I'm not saying iPhones are bad, I personally love iPhones, but just fvvcking worry about some things until you can afford it. As long as you're broke iPhones are overrated. Learn how to despise things you can't afford. Worshiping money is gonna make you rich bro, it's only gonna cause depression.

Try balance your life small. You need a little bit of everything. No be say you get only 500k for your hand you wan buy iPhone 12. You dey try to compete with Davido way don already balance im life. That's why you fucking unhappy. I feel balance is key to happiness you need a little bit of everything.

This life eh, you gats dey sure of basic needs as a human being that's food, shelter and clothing before you add up extra things. Try dey live your life to scale.

No ever dey try compete for this money spending thing because you no go ever win I promise you.

Boys go always get money pass you. You

Me way dey talk this things no be say I perfect sha. But as I dey advice others, I dey take style they advice myself by extension.

And abeg try dey enjoy by budget, you know fit afford Dubai yet no mean say you no fit go vacation. Go to Ghana, go to Kenya, if that wan too much, go to another state in Nigeria. Last last na still vacation. There are still beautiful places in Nigeria you haven't seen yet. Don't deprive yourself of vacation because e no fit afford the expensive ones, the Instagram friendly ones.

Even the Nigeria way no dey like America sef, you never still enjoy am finish.



angry
Re: Stop Doing This As A Guy by Totilopussylick(m): 10:40pm On Oct 14, 2021
Chia... this op na better son smiley

In my work place, e get this handsome Bobo wey de cruise iPhone 13 pro max.

All the ladies in the organization, are like rags to him.

But you won't believe this guy squat with another guy working from different company.

I mean some people really don't care.

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Re: Stop Doing This As A Guy by SenecaTheYonger: 10:45pm On Oct 14, 2021
You might want to proofread your post. Typos sending out the wrong message
Re: Stop Doing This As A Guy by Polynek(m): 11:36pm On Oct 14, 2021
Making sense
Re: Stop Doing This As A Guy by Tadwears2050(m): 11:53pm On Oct 14, 2021
Re: Stop Doing This As A Guy by AmancalledGod: 1:31am On Oct 15, 2021
Op God bless you in folds
Re: Stop Doing This As A Guy by bodybuilder: 2:09am On Oct 15, 2021
OLDESTWARRIBOY:


Kenya, Ghana?? And another state like Borno, Zamfara or Sokoto shebi??



Lol. You get problem with me boss. angry
Re: Stop Doing This As A Guy by rex444(m): 5:01am On Oct 15, 2021
You see ehn, coro don show many nwiiiii....life is easy if we don't burden ourselves with the materialism of life

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Re: Stop Doing This As A Guy by Gadafii: 6:13am On Oct 15, 2021
Op you are a real niigga, damn real niigga
My motto in this life is "as long as I can not afford it, I don't need it, and if I can't afford it twice, I can't afford it"

Before I go fit buy phone of 200k, I go make sure say I get over 500k in my account, as a guy man like this, I get sure plugs for yaba where I dey buy okrika wears from him hand, when I wash and tidy am well with nice perf, u no fit know say na okrika, same as shoes, I no fit buy shoes above 8k presently, not that i don't have such money in my account, but I feel it's worthless to buy shoes of 8k when I have 50k in my account, I still have house rent to pay, NEPA bills to sort, gas to fill, fridge to fill, food to buy etc so why waste hard resources on things that doesn't really matter in the scheme of things

The basic goal is to cover unclothedness, if your Prada na 30k, he get shoes of 7k wey I go buy, our two go measure up squarely.

In this life, contentment in every stage of your life is bliss, there was a time I couldn't even afford a pair of jeans, now if I want to buy 5 once I will, na matter of time, no rush

I know of people who rush go buy iphone 11 some months ago, he's looking for who to buy it cheaper now, cos owu don blow him Papa

When I been wan rent house, I drew a budget, I wanted a self con, cos I cherish my privacy, it was the agent that I contacted that gave me scope, he asked if I have plans to get married soon, I Said no, he said why don't you just get a single room and just save money, since you go out every day to work and come back in the evening to sleep, why waste money on house when you won't be at home for a very long, I took the advice, if not I for borrow money join my saving to rent a self con, when it's time to pay next year I will be running around lmao.

At the same I have age mates living in duplex in lekki, serviced apartments in ikorodu etc, but na their time, I don't need to worry my self much, cos there are people who would give everything to have my place too, abi no be people dey sleep under bridge and inside shops for markets cheesy

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Re: Stop Doing This As A Guy by helinues: 6:20am On Oct 15, 2021
If you want to have happiness for days, drink beer

If you want to have happiness for weeks, get married

But if you want to have happiness from the rest of your life, then mind your business.

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Re: Stop Doing This As A Guy by Gadafii: 6:21am On Oct 15, 2021
Totilopussylick:
Chia... this op na better son smiley

In my work place, e get this handsome Bobo wey de cruise iPhone 13 pro max.

All the ladies in the organization, are like rags to him.

But you won't believe this guy squat with another guy working from different company.

I mean some people really don't care.
guy lie small small naau

U mean iPhone 13 pro max if over 1.2million

Where is this ur place of work chief, even a bank manager earning 2 million no fit reason iPhone 13 pro max, bruhh slow down ooo grin cheesy

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Re: Stop Doing This As A Guy by Nobody: 6:23am On Oct 15, 2021
I know a broke dude, who's always begging up and down but go to his wardrobe, none of the things there are below 15k.

He buys shoe of 30k. Always on fly when you see him. But he's broke. How he gets the money to even buy those expensive wears is what still confuses me.

Money doesn't make people rich, their reasoning and mindset do. If you don't know the principles of money, being rich will be like walking through the eye of a needle.

I really thank God for my life. When I was broke, I was busy reading self development books and today, they are helping me in life.

The goal is to be wealthy, not to look wealthy.

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Re: Stop Doing This As A Guy by Nobody: 6:28am On Oct 15, 2021
HenryDion:
I know a broke dude, who's always begging up and down but go to his wardrobe, none of the things there are below 15k.

He buys shoe of 30k. Always on fly when you see him. But he's broke. How he gets the money to even buy those expensive wears is what still confuses me.

Money doesn't make people rich, their reasoning and mindset do. If you don't know the principles of money, being rich will be like walking through the eye of a needle.

I really thank God for my life. When I always broke, I was busy reading self development books and today, they are helping me in life.

The goal is to be wealthy, not to look wealthy.
You this small boy,how much do you even have sef.Don't quote me please.
Re: Stop Doing This As A Guy by Nobody: 6:30am On Oct 15, 2021
Iyaebe:
You this small boy,how much do you even have sef.Don't quote me please.

My account balance is like my phone number
Re: Stop Doing This As A Guy by Nobody: 6:33am On Oct 15, 2021
HenryDion:

My account balance is like my phone number
proof or we don't believe
Re: Stop Doing This As A Guy by Nobody: 6:38am On Oct 15, 2021
Iyaebe:
proof or we don't believe

Reason I'm rich is because I'm mature. Sharing a screenshot of my acc balance is immature. Take my advice, and hustle.

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Re: Stop Doing This As A Guy by Vanilla4(f): 6:45am On Oct 15, 2021
Guys and girls please. smiley
Re: Stop Doing This As A Guy by Nobody: 7:42am On Oct 15, 2021
HenryDion:


Reason I'm rich is because I'm mature. Sharing a screenshot of my acc balance is immature. Take my advice, and hustle.
I don't know how to hustle, teach me.
Re: Stop Doing This As A Guy by Nobody: 7:55am On Oct 15, 2021
Iyaebe:
I don't know how to hustle, teach me.

I'm a freelance writer. There are tons of skills to acquire. The question is, are you ready to sit down and dedicate months to learn without earning?

There lies your answer.

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Re: Stop Doing This As A Guy by Nobody: 8:10am On Oct 15, 2021
HenryDion:


I'm a freelance writer. There are tons of skills to acquire. The question is, are you ready to sit down and dedicate months to learn without earning?

There lies your answer.
Sit down for months without earning? though im not the outgoing type but I'm everywhere in the house,let me practice the act of sitting in one place first.How soon will I be earning
Re: Stop Doing This As A Guy by Coldie(m): 8:24am On Oct 15, 2021
True I have had millions in my bank account for years but I no use iPhone 12 Pro Max until the time in my life when my 1 week pay could buy it.

It’s foolish saving for a whole year of your life only to use it to buy a phone, what if it gets stolen?

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Re: Stop Doing This As A Guy by Bunmhi(f): 8:31am On Oct 15, 2021
Nairaland guys left the group grin

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Re: Stop Doing This As A Guy by Phiniter(m): 8:57am On Oct 15, 2021
ok
Re: Stop Doing This As A Guy by Rickmann: 9:31am On Oct 15, 2021
bodybuilder:
As a guy work hard and live a nice life. Stop eyeing people's money. Stop bothering about people using iPhones and travelling to fucking Dubai. I'm not saying iPhones are bad, I personally love iPhones, but just fvvcking worry about some things until you can afford it. As long as you're broke iPhones are overrated. Learn how to despise things you can't afford. Worshiping money is not gonna make you rich bro, it's only gonna cause depression.

Try balance your life small. You need a little bit of everything. No be say you get only 500k for your hand you wan buy iPhone 12. You dey try to compete with Davido way don already balance im life. That's why you fucking unhappy. I feel balance is key to happiness you need a little bit of everything.

This life eh, you gats dey sure of basic needs as a human being that's food, shelter and clothing before you add up extra things. Try dey live your life to scale.

No ever dey try compete for this money spending thing because you no go ever win I promise you.

Boys go always get money pass you. You

Me way dey talk this things no be say I perfect sha. But as I dey advice others, I dey take style they advice myself by extension.

And abeg try dey enjoy by budget, you no fit afford Dubai yet no mean say you no fit go vacation. Go to Ghana, go to Kenya, if that wan too much, go to another state in Nigeria. Last last na still vacation. There are still beautiful places in Nigeria you haven't seen yet. Don't deprive yourself of vacation because e no fit afford the expensive ones, the Instagram friendly ones.

Even the Nigeria way no dey like America sef, you never still enjoy am finish.


This is the ugly truth a lot of wannabee guys and ladies hate to hear.

Well said, bro.

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Re: Stop Doing This As A Guy by Mightyguy(m): 9:38am On Oct 15, 2021
HenryDion:


Reason I'm rich is because I'm mature. Sharing a screenshot of my acc balance is immature. Take my advice, and hustle.
bro, show us love as hustling Neva pay us now.

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