GraciousGod190:
Am hurt, 4 years relationship about to go down the drain.first time meeting her parents was last week Sunday, they did welcome me with a smiling face.
After all the introductions and making my intentions known to them I like to marry their daughter.

my girlfriend called me on phone yesterday that she's coming over, which she did and start saying that her elder bro and her mum is kicking against our marriage. i asked why? she said because am an Ssce holder.

yes I might be an Ssce holder, but am self employed doing well for myself (I noi de beg to chop) isn't that enough.

can't an Ssce holder marries a bsc, msc or a phd holder.
why the discrimination towards a brother because of a white man education?
because of a white sheet of paper.

ityP:




Lmao. Something dey touch for una head o. Do they teach how to speak good English in the university? I spoke better English when I was in secondary school. Na then we were taught how to speak sweet English. Our professors for university sef no fit speak better English. They're good in their area of expertise sha. My point: University education no go make you speak better English

GraciousGod190:
Am hurt, 4 years relationship about to go down the drain.first time meeting her parents was last week Sunday, they did welcome me with a smiling face.
After all the introductions and making my intentions known to them I like to marry their daughter.

my girlfriend called me on phone yesterday that she's coming over, which she did and start saying that her elder bro and her mum is kicking against our marriage. i asked why? she said because am an Ssce holder.

yes I might be an Ssce holder, but am self employed doing well for myself (I noi de beg to chop) isn't that enough.

can't an Ssce holder marries a bsc, msc or a phd holder.
why the discrimination towards a brother because of a white man education?
because of a white sheet of paper.

joyandfaith:


I believe every person should have at least a national diploma. Ssce is like primary school certifcate of 70s.

DaddyRochie1642:



Your English and your writing is good for an Ssce holder.

GraciousGod190:

no bro, am a business man.
finishing Ssce is enough, am 36 years old I should upgrade myself because her family refused to accept me for who I am.
if this is the end of our relationship, so be it.

cassyrooy:
Hello Sir, I've read some comments suggesting that you advance educationally, from my understanding of those comments I think they're saying that you should do it for you, and not because of some woman.

At 36, you can still get a higher level of certification before 40-42yrs of age, and that's going to make you a more flexible person in your future endeavours.

coldcandy:
The poster seems too proud and pompous. The family saw that too.
OP, when u upgrade your education you will realize that there's more to life than having money.

GraciousGod190:

it wasn't a serious discussion, just many of our random chats, that was 2years ago.
maybe she saw it coming but didn't say in a way I Will understand then. (like her parents won't agree and all)

BRATISLAVA:
If only men stopped playing victim about these things.

https://www.nairaland.com/6788228/cost-getting-married-poor-family#106486560

Here is a similar situation. 8 years of dating and he suddenly can't marry because she's suddenly illiterate because she's an SSCE holder. She has not created a thread to make the author of the thread look bad.

Is this the new breed of slaymen who whine and bring everything online?

GraciousGod190:

no bro, am a business man.
finishing Ssce is enough, am 36 years old I should upgrade myself because her family refused to accept me for who I am.
if this is the end of our relationship, so be it.

yunqdady:

You sound so dumb. Uneducated illiterate. How can you be 36 and refuse to upgrade? It's not as if you do not have the money. There are part time programs. Open university dey too.
Education opens your mind. It is more than knowing how to read and write and count money.
Odecious mumu

GraciousGod190:

getting married to a woman can't motivate me to upgrade my educational background.
already told her it's over so be it, she's the one shedding tears over here.

SmartPolician:


Bro, it's not about getting married to a woman. Getting a high education now will save you a lot of embarrassment in the future. Imagine how Soludo is using his professorial academic qualification to intimate other contestants in Anambra elections.

You never know the ambition you will have tomorrow and someone says you cannot have it because you didn't further your education.

You can do a part-time and get that certificate. It improves your worth and nobody can belittle you because of ordinary documents. More importantly, you are definitely going to learn when you return to school.

Alternatively, you can settle for a polytechnic. Do your OND and pause. Later, you can finish your HND. Anyone who stops learning is DEAD! This is an angle to look at things from.

Samcent:

Upgrading his educational level is good, but he should not upgrade just because he wants to please the in-laws to be.
What if after upgrading, they come up with other criteria; maybe he must be a car and a house owner.

The girl's parents are more concerned with their ego than the happiness of their daughter.

Op, if you so love your babe you can make that sacrifice for her. However, just pray that this will be the last of demands from her parents even after the wedding.

GraciousGod190:

i understand you sir, when I heard it yesterday I was hurt deep down. I felt low, felt intimidated.
i do love my girlfriend, but how can a 36 year old man goes back to school because he wants to get married to a girl?.

i can make other meaningful sacrifices, but definitely not This.
thanks.

dahmie2013:

My brother, seeking knowledge has nothing to do with age. This attitude is not the best. I still advise you go to school and upgrade yourself.

ityP:



If he upgrades his educational status, the pride go increase

GraciousGod190:

no bro, am a business man.
finishing Ssce is enough, am 36 years old I should upgrade myself because her family refused to accept me for who I am.
if this is the end of our relationship, so be it.

GraciousGod190:
Am hurt, 4 years relationship about to go down the drain.first time meeting her parents was last week Sunday, they did welcome me with a smiling face.
After all the introductions and making my intentions known to them I like to marry their daughter.

my girlfriend called me on phone yesterday that she's coming over, which she did and start saying that her elder bro and her mum is kicking against our marriage. i asked why? she said because am an Ssce holder.

yes I might be an Ssce holder, but am self employed doing well for myself (I noi de beg to chop) isn't that enough.

can't an Ssce holder marries a bsc, msc or a phd holder.
why the discrimination towards a brother because of a white man education?
because of a white sheet of paper.

yunqdady:

For self improvement.

GraciousGod190:
Am hurt, 4 years relationship about to go down the drain.first time meeting her parents was last week Sunday, they did welcome me with a smiling face.
After all the introductions and making my intentions known to them I like to marry their daughter.

my girlfriend called me on phone yesterday that she's coming over, which she did and start saying that her elder bro and her mum is kicking against our marriage. i asked why? she said because am an Ssce holder.

yes I might be an Ssce holder, but am self employed doing well for myself (I noi de beg to chop) isn't that enough.

can't an Ssce holder marries a bsc, msc or a phd holder.
why the discrimination towards a brother because of a white man education?
because of a white sheet of paper.

GraciousGod190:
Am hurt, 4 years relationship about to go down the drain.first time meeting her parents was last week Sunday, they did welcome me with a smiling face.
After all the introductions and making my intentions known to them I like to marry their daughter.

my girlfriend called me on phone yesterday that she's coming over, which she did and start saying that her elder bro and her mum is kicking against our marriage. i asked why? she said because am an Ssce holder.

yes I might be an Ssce holder, but am self employed doing well for myself (I noi de beg to chop) isn't that enough.

can't an Ssce holder marries a bsc, msc or a phd holder.
why the discrimination towards a brother because of a white man education?
because of a white sheet of paper.

GraciousGod190:

no bro, am a business man.
finishing Ssce is enough, am 36 years old I should upgrade myself because her family refused to accept me for who I am.
if this is the end of our relationship, so be it.

advanceDNA:


Guy...girls no plenty ooo...
Have u seen the streets lately...na shédì bálábálá girls full outside now.

. girls wey dey fvck ex, girls wey no get marriage values, girls wey no see paternity fraud as anything, girls with no team mentality, 20 body counts with abortions to match...

If I loose the girl I have now...I'm not searching again...

descarado:

You never loved her.
No need. Move on

dahmie2013:
It is rather unfortunate. But I advise you upgrade yourself at least. It shows your willingness to want to get learned.

GraciousGod190:
Am hurt, 4 years relationship about to go down the drain.first time meeting her parents was last week Sunday, they did welcome me with a smiling face.
After all the introductions and making my intentions known to them I like to marry their daughter.

my girlfriend called me on phone yesterday that she's coming over, which she did and start saying that her elder bro and her mum is kicking against our marriage. i asked why? she said because am an Ssce holder.

yes I might be an Ssce holder, but am self employed doing well for myself (I noi de beg to chop) isn't that enough.

can't an Ssce holder marries a bsc, msc or a phd holder.
why the discrimination towards a brother because of a white man education?
because of a white sheet of paper.

mariahAngel:


You always so much to say/type when it has to do with females don't you?
You're not a fair minded person.

GraciousGod190:

no bro, am a business man.
finishing Ssce is enough, am 36 years old I should upgrade myself because her family refused to accept me for who I am.
if this is the end of our relationship, so be it.

EndRape2:
Go for your class ssce
Because if it were to be a man that has Msc, he will not marry a school cert.

Just wondering why she could not buy partime form for you, for good four years . Very soon you will start accusing her that because she is a graduate reason she is talking to you anyhow.