Bola146:


The old man is not in his senses unless you relocate him to a far distance. God will punish the woman unless she is not using juju, but if she is using juju God will spoil her jazz

Right. It’s not his fault. He’s innocent huh?

mariahAngel:


Your mum has had the best of him. She has nothing to lose.

Kai...

Icouldhave:

no matter what he's still the head of the family.

He needs to act that way then.
If you’re fine with financially supporting the outside woman and her kids, then keep sending him money the way you have been.
But the advice greenie gave you was sound

crackhaus:

Kai...

Seriously, if I were the mum, I'd be relieved and relish my retirement from wifely duties while living.
Women bother way too much over men matters seriously.
I simply won't be bothered.

Icouldhave:


don't insult him please, act mature.

Bros take your dad for deliverance or invite him to a church. this is not ordinary eyes

mariahAngel:


Seriously, if I were the mum, I'd be relieved and relish my retirement from wifely duties while living.
Women bother way too much over men matters seriously.
I simply won't be bothered.

She’s still doing his laundry and finding viagra in his pockets. Probably still cooks for him and cleans up after him. So obviously she’s not being relieved of wifely duties. Unless you mean sexual relationship “duties”. To that I’d say, not everyone views it as a duty. To some it’s an important and intimate part of their relationship not a duty or a chore.

Also not all women should be okay with disrespect. Yea some are fine with it but not all. Just saying.

irunoko:
Bros take your dad for deliverance or invite him to a church. this is not ordinary eyes

getat, let me see better people comments.
not some kids talks.

Stop enabling him by sending him money. Once he doesnr have money to spend,the little madamwill shift too

OssyMalik:
Your papa na old generation simp

Jesu odogwu papa

cococandy:


She’s still doing his laundry and finding viagra in his pockets. Probably still cooks for him and cleans up after him. So obviously she’s not being relieved of wifely duties. Unless you mean sexual relationship “duties”. To that I’d say, not everyone views it as a duty. To some it’s an important and intimate part of their relationship not a duty or a chore.

Also not all women should be okay with disrespect. Yea some are fine with it but not all. Just saying.

Only a foolish woman will still be doing all that for a philandering old man.
When I said retirement from wifely duties, I meant all that, including sex.

Disrespect? Seriously, we underestimate the power of indifference.

mariahAngel:


Only a foolish woman will still be doing all that for a philandering old man.
When I said retirement from wifely duties, I meant all that, including sex.

Disrespect? Seriously, we underestimate the power of indifference.

madam it has do, let other people comments.
no need for insultive words.

YOU see this as an opportunity to insults people parents elderly at that, shows u have no respect or proper home training.

I asked for solutions not insults.

I tire for you people.

Iyaebe:
Imagine ooo.Please I want to ask,do old men have erection?

Your own puuuuuuusssssssaaaaaaayyyyy no get water again


Op no vex but baba is getting close to home

No vex my gee , make baba enjoy his last moments

Icouldhave:

madam it has do, let other people comments.
no need for insultive words.

YOU see this as an opportunity to insults people parents elderly at that, shows u have no respect or proper home training.

I asked for solutions not insults.

I tire for you people.

What insulting words? That is just putting it as respectful as possible, which is quite hard considering the situation.
It has do because you say so? If you no get mind, no carry family matter come nairaland. Just dey pray make e no reach FP!

I wasn't referring to your mum in particular.

Leave am e be like say em wan die
Anyways he don try for your momsy na

mariahAngel:


What insulting words? That is just putting it as respectful as possible, which is quite hard considering the situation.
It has do because you say so? If you no get mind, no carry family matter come nairaland. Just dey pray make e no reach FP!

I wasn't referring to your mum in particular.

Agbeg getat, you make sense on the first page.

Now you dey make person vex, it won't do you harm if you comments in a more civil manner.(I said no insults, which I made clear on my post)

Some women dey try oh.. I just dy imagine myself f**king an 85 years old woman
God forbid bad thing

@85?

@op please allow the man to enjoy his remaining days on earth. If it's sex he wants, let him have it.

Just keep all d motherfucker

After all u do am a favour

My prayer is you don't lose him as a result of the sexual enhancement drugs his taking.


Prayers would solve the issue don't go far in search of solution.

This is quite interesting. Just pray for baba ot you could try talking to the woman he is seeing maybe she will stop seeing him.

My own comment from my young mind

U no go leave that old man alone...

Icouldhave:
Hi all

We the children have sat my dad down and talked to him, to the extent we are tired, how can an old man at this stage in life still fornicating.

Money we sent to him for his upkeeps, he is using it to feed another man's children. several times my mom have seen vega 200 in his pockets during laundry.

The annoying thing is this woman he is frolicking with is a known area miscreant, I don't know if he's jazzed or it's something else.

A man at this age is not supposed to have sexual urge, besides while he was young he didn't do like this.

(no insults on my dad please, we respect him, he did alot for us his children both male and female)

Please how do we the children handle this issue?

The man is old and might die soon, he just wants to enjoy his final moment.

Guess what is tombstone will read

Icouldhave:

upkeeps I send Before a week and half am starting to get calls.
i just tire

stop sending him money maybe the Jazz wey the woman run go clear for him eye

Icouldhave:
Hi all

We the children have sat my dad down and talked to him, to the extent we are tired, how can an old man at this stage in life still fornicating.

Money we sent to him for his upkeeps, he is using it to feed another man's children. several times my mom have seen vega 200 in his pockets during laundry.

The annoying thing is this woman he is frolicking with is a known area miscreant, I don't know if he's jazzed or it's something else.

A man at this age is not supposed to have sexual urge, besides while he was young he didn't do like this.

(no insults on my dad please, we respect him, he did alot for us his children both male and female)

Please how do we the children handle this issue?

Na jazz. This same thing happened to my late uncle and we got to know everything when the old witch he was entangled with confessed. I suggest you go native because the more you try to stop them, the stronger the jazz on him become.

Icouldhave:
Hi all

We the children have sat my dad down and talked to him, to the extent we are tired, how can an old man at this stage in life still fornicating.

Money we sent to him for his upkeeps, he is using it to feed another man's children. several times my mom have seen vega 200 in his pockets during laundry.

The annoying thing is this woman he is frolicking with is a known area miscreant, I don't know if he's jazzed or it's something else.

A man at this age is not supposed to have sexual urge, besides while he was young he didn't do like this.

(no insults on my dad please, we respect him, he did alot for us his children both male and female)

Please how do we the children handle this issue?

Let him know that he is only enjoying 'extra time' and should think more of eternity. He should be frequent at spiritual gatherings at this age. He is lucky to be alive for repentance. See grace wey man dey waste.

Icouldhave:

how would I know, I don't stay with them only got complains from my mom ending of last year.
he's my dad we respect him very much, that's why we looking for a reasonable way to sort this out.


the last time the family sat and deliberate on this issue, my elder brother asked him if my mom was the one visiting another man, how would he feel.

after that day he didn't talk with my brother close to a month.

Let the old man keep enjoying his life.

Clinghton:
My prayer is you don't lose him as a result of the sexual enhancement drugs his taking.


Prayers would solve the issue don't go far in search of solution.

Name one problem prayer had solve in this life?

mariahAngel:


How old is your mum?

At the stage she is in her life, I don't think she should bother herself with however an 85yr old man has chosen to live the rest of his life.
So, she should simply stop stressing herself over the matter and let him do whatever and however he wants.
You and your siblings should just make sure she has all she needs.
Ya lefuru agadi nwoke anya!

For real?
Have you forgotten they are still married?

You never marry that's why.