Please I will try to be brief.
I started dating her in 2017,we dated for 3yrs and I traveled outside the country in 2020.
We didn't have any problems and I was serious about getting married to her.
When I was leaving she promised not to have another boyfriend and to wait for me(she is 24). I promised not to disappoint her.
It was going well for sometime until after one year,we had a quarel and separated.

About 3 months ago,we got back together,and she said she was still intact and waiting for me.
We started communicating regularly,but I noticed that each time were talking,she would be receiving calls frequently,after sometime,I confronted her with it,she lied that he was her customer. But I called the guy and found out he is a guy that was chiking her before.
She later admitted that she dated the guy when we had quarels. She also admitted to going to night clubs that period.

I still love her,but I'm pained because she cheated,lied about it and was reluctant about coming out of that relationship.
I'm also thinking of continuing the relationship because I have been outside for 2year now,it happened when we quarelled and she has agreed to stop it.
Nairalanders,do you think I should quit the relationship or go ahead with marriage plans.

Decolink:
Please I will try to be brief.
I started dating her in 2017,we dated for 3yrs and I traveled outside the country in 2020.
We didn't have any problems and I was serious about getting married to her.
When I was leaving she promised not to have another boyfriend and to wait for me(she is 24). I promised not to disappoint her.
It was going well for sometime until after one year,we had a quarel and separated.

About 3 months ago,we got back together,and she said she was still intact and waiting for me.
We started communicating regularly,but I noticed that each time were talking,she would be receiving calls frequently,after sometime,I confronted her with it,she lied that he was her customer. But I called the guy and found out he is a guy that was chiking her before.
She later admitted that she dated the guy when we had quarels. She also admitted to going to night clubs that period.

I still love her,but I'm pained because she cheated,lied about it and was reluctant about coming out of that relationship.
I'm also thinking of continuing the relationship because I have been outside for 2year now,it happened when we quarelled and she has agreed to stop it.
Nairalanders,do you think I should quit the relationship or go ahead with marriage plans.

Just quit no need for too much stress.

Mennnnnnnn,the fact that the other nigha enjoyed your woman to the fullest Simply because you both had a little quarrel should always serve as a quick reminder to you anytime you think of forgiving her

Anytime wey una go get small misunderstanding,the other guyman go just dey at the receiving end . Free WiFi,free chopping and free digging and pouring

Is she the only woman in this world? There're chances of her still f.u.ck.ing the other guy when y'all eventually get married.
Seems you want to learn the hard way

Calculate all the good side about her and the bad side and Decide

No vex
Babes no dey that abroad ni

Go ahead only when both of you make honesty your best policy.
You reason am, she's been alone for too long

This relationship matters go make all of us run MAD one day!
Be honest with yourself! You expected her to be faithful to you? Women?. Make expectations no kill man Sha!

Decolink:
Please I will try to be brief.
I started dating her in 2017,we dated for 3yrs and I traveled outside the country in 2020.
We didn't have any problems and I was serious about getting married to her.
When I was leaving she promised not to have another boyfriend and to wait for me(she is 24). I promised not to disappoint her.
It was going well for sometime until after one year,we had a quarel and separated.

About 3 months ago,we got back together,and she said she was still intact and waiting for me.
We started communicating regularly,but I noticed that each time were talking,she would be receiving calls frequently,after sometime,I confronted her with it,she lied that he was her customer. But I called the guy and found out he is a guy that was chiking her before.
She later admitted that she dated the guy when we had quarels. She also admitted to going to night clubs that period.

I still love her,but I'm pained because she cheated,lied about it and was reluctant about coming out of that relationship.
I'm also thinking of continuing the relationship because I have been outside for 2year now,it happened when we quarelled and she has agreed to stop it.
Nairalanders,do you think I should quit the relationship or go ahead with marriage plans.

As long as its a long distance relationship its always a gamble. The two parties will claim faithfulness when sometimes one person or even both are actually cheating.

If she's a good girl and has extraordinary qualities then forgive and continue. If she has nothing to offer but s*x then dump her sorry ass.

who be this again tori Olorun

But I have also cheated,and I have been outside the country for 2year.

Sonnobax15:

Mennnnnnnn,the fact that the other nigha enjoyed your woman to the fullest Simply because you both had a little quarrel should always serve as a quick reminder to you anytime you think of forgiving her

Anytime wey una go get small misunderstanding,the other guyman go just dey at the receiving end . Free WiFi,free chopping and free digging and pouring

Small quarrel
She don carry kpekus give other niggas..

Yo!..
In Nigeria close distance relationships don't work well, Nigerian girls will be still be playing you evil, how much more long distance..

Mehn.. I know it hurts but, you won't see true love from a girl between 18 - 27 years old cos they are on hoe phase..
Their body still they hot
Until they have seen it all and ready to build an empire with a king.

So just calm down, make money

My brother, ask that dude for me o, maybe in dey fear follow oyinbo talk

joshdeni77:
No vex
Babes no dey that abroad ni

Divoc19:
Go ahead only when both of you make honesty your best policy.
You reason am, she's been alone for too long

Been alone kwa,go back and read carefully. She was fu.c.king someone else when they hard issues

Decolink:
But I have also cheated,and I have been outside the country for 2year.

Eyahhhhh.....ok I understand bro....Both of you cheated . But every guyman with him own mentality cha...But as for me,I don't think I can ever forgive such type of woman,....E go better say make everybody kain e lane make peace for dey......

You for reason if you sef fit forgive and forget

Reason if the lady, will have add a certain positivity into your life... No follow love enter that marriage

My 2kobo�Follow what she have to offer you..

No follow ladies who fall out to other men's Everytime you guys have issues

FvckAllMods:
My brother, ask that dude for me o, maybe in dey fear follow oyinbo talk

Some guys dey funny oh , Nigeria girls majority are not dating you because they love you , it's for the thing you are giving them
Example.... Lagos to Enugu - long distance relationship, Lagos - London - true love...

Moral lesson : white girls would show you legit love .. leave Naija girls

Decolink:
But I have also cheated,and I have been outside the country for 2year.

If when you “cheated” was when you guys separated, it wasn't cheating.

Make things up. Go marry am.


Lalasticlala Dominique

The first mistake is keeping a relationship when you left Nigeria.

The second mistake is dating her again after the breakup.

The third mistake is yet to happen but I know you will not have sense to cancel your subscription for the relationship.

You traveled in 2020 and you are already outside for 2 years?

How did you arrive at such mathematics.

luizpippo:
You traveled in 2020 and you are already outside for 2 years?

How did you arrive at such mathematics.

I swear the guy awed me

luizpippo:
You traveled in 2020 and you are already outside for 2 years?

How did you arrive at such mathematics.

January 2020 is approximately 2yrs now

Relationships matter don tire me

Akakanfirstclass:
Small quarrel
She don carry kpekus give other niggas..

Yo!..
In Nigeria close distance relationships don't work well, Nigerian girls will be still be playing you evil, how much more long distance..

Mehn.. I know it hurts but, you won't see true love from a girl between 18 - 27 years old cos they are on hoe phase..
Their body still they hot
Until they have seen it all and ready to build an empire with a king.

So just calm down, make money

Interesting

Alone without the op I meant

SmellySperm:

Been alone kwa,go back and read carefully. She was fu.c.king someone else when they hard issues

Sometimes the rate at which weak guys claim they love their cheating girfriend is alarming Like WTF, is she the only girl in the world? Guy you need a brain resetting slap. Never wife a ho.e, no girlfriend is to be trusted. Have an abundant metality and see yourself solving half of relationship problems ... WTF is wrong with you bro

Lol Oga
She’s just coming back to you because you are abroad and she sef wan japa

If she’s still intact
You can risk it sha
But if dem don tear am
Free her

But do you want to lie you are not sampling other girls there

Decolink:
Please I will try to be brief.
I started dating her in 2017,we dated for 3yrs and I traveled outside the country in 2020.
We didn't have any problems and I was serious about getting married to her.
When I was leaving she promised not to have another boyfriend and to wait for me(she is 24). I promised not to disappoint her.
It was going well for sometime until after one year,we had a quarel and separated.

About 3 months ago,we got back together,and she said she was still intact and waiting for me.
We started communicating regularly,but I noticed that each time were talking,she would be receiving calls frequently,after sometime,I confronted her with it,she lied that he was her customer. But I called the guy and found out he is a guy that was chiking her before.
She later admitted that she dated the guy when we had quarels. She also admitted to going to night clubs that period.

I still love her,but I'm pained because she cheated,lied about it and was reluctant about coming out of that relationship.
I'm also thinking of continuing the relationship because I have been outside for 2year now,it happened when we quarelled and she has agreed to stop it.
Nairalanders,do you think I should quit the relationship or go ahead with marriage plans.

Why would you call or confront a competitor? Why??
Never ever call a guy calling your girlfriend or asking her out...

There is a reason he is calling, your girlfriend allowed and permitted it

Some guys are a disgrace to the male gender. You are in love with someone who lied and cheated on you.you need a resounding slap to reset your brain

J