Does Excessive Stressing Or Staying Away From Sex For Too Long, Causes Erectile Dysfunction?

I wanted to create a new moniker for this thread but later changed my mind in order to continue with this my main Monika, because I see no importance/reason for creating a new moniker. Please you guys should not insult nor comment negatively on this thread. I know that topics similar to this have been created on this forum but I really want an answer and also a special advice towards achieving a permanent solution. I've browsed the internet about it, but it seems most of the sites I visited were only interested on advertising their products.

Lately, I've been overstressing my self, I combine three things in a day which means combining studies, business and family which makes me to always be on the road every minute of the day, I shuttle between Anambra, Enugu and Bayelsa, most of the time, if I can't find some of the goods I'm looking for in Onitsha, I travel to Lagos or Aba to get them which will be way-billed to my wife in Bayelsa so that she can sale them, and all these make me to be away from home for too long especially my studies.

so, on 18-11-2021, I decided to visit home, it was the day that terrible accident occured at upper iweka, Onitsha. But I got home, and I observed that I can't have an erection, even if it manages to erect, I can't hold the erection for too long, this thing kept happening until my wife couldn't take it anymore and she suggested we see a doctor, on getting to the hospital, the doctor asked me what I do for a living (what I do in my every day life) and I told him, he also asked how often do I visit home, I told him that it takes longer period before I visit home. He suggested that I should get some rest and stay away from too much stress, and also visit home regularly in order to be having regular intimacy with my wife, because staying away for too long from it can also have a negative effect on sexual life. But I told him that, stressing my self is how I put food on my table and that's also how I've been able to pass my exams even right from my undergraduate days.

The doctor made mention of Stress, which I'm fully aware of it's negative effect on sexual health, but staying away from intimacy for too long, does that also cause erectile dysfunction? even the internet didn't mention anything concerning Staying Away from intimacy for too long. I know that most men are down with this particular issue but are too shy/ashame to speak up.

please Nairalanders, how else do I overcome this disgraceful and shameful predicament?
all advice would be highly appreciated.

lalasticlala, please help a brother and other men who are shy and ashame to speak up, who are out there dying slowly in depression

Anyone having reckless erections in this Buhari regime should be arrested and prosecuted.


The truth is, the country is hard. Men have to double their hustle just to meet up. Nobody get time for sex these days.

Even oloshos for quarters dey complain say market no dey move again.

Our wives and girlfriends should bear with us as we go through this phase. 2023 is almost here. We shall be back to business as usual.


Shalom.

A doctor told you that if you stay away from sex for too long that it will affect your sexual life and you are coming to ask us if it's true or not....?

yanabasee2:
A doctor told you that if you stay away from sex for too long that it will affect your sexual life and you are coming to ask us if it's true or not....?

yeah, never heard of that in my entire life.

Don't focus on the Penis. Don't put much attention to it. Just continue with romance, with time it will rise on its own.

You are simply nervous or afraid over it not rising or not able to last long, that is why it ain't rising.

Chronic stress causes erectile dysfunction while not having sex for a very long time can cause premature ejaculation when it is time for the action. Most especially if the pussy is new and tight.

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Omo na to dey smash dey go ni o, that means I have to go and straff cause e go don reach like 4 days since I don smash last

Yes

Wahala.....I need to exercise then/

Nigger Damnit Mehn....

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Take your erectile problems elsewhere!

Stress nko

Kaliwali bro
Na when I dey stressed I dey like bang bro... It relieves the stress

That depends on who.

Some men travel often and bang mercilessly when on the move and still return to perform well at home.

Some men are home all day but can't do anything.

So it depends on who.

Yes and No

Stress can not cause DF because after sex your body release endorphins that even help you to reduce stress and for no having sex for long time I do not believe it can cause DF unless you engage in some activities which are well known to everyone

I don't think so; over stress will definitely make you tired and stop you from performing well(this is bodily). But emotional stress (overstress/depression) can surely cause ED.

Then but taking your mind off sex for a long time and concentrating to suppress your libido will definitely cause Erectile Dysfunction. You never appreciate what you have until you lose it.

Abeg this plot is for sale I don't have anything to say

Bros, there's no two ways about it, it is pure stress, when you over stress yourself, even to eat your favourite food would become a problem...

If you're experiencing this , just visit Alagbo & thank me later

Aaaaaaaah

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yes staying away from sex for too long does that to the penis, your first sexual copulation after a long while will make you nervous, even if it's with some one you are familiar with.

R

i get thhe best erection when i stay off sex and soapy for long

You should learn how to control your mind, if you have full control of yourself, there is always reserve energy, just think of it like nitro.

I remember those days I did manual labour, regardless of how stressed out I am if I have in mind to accomplish a mission, it will be as if I have been resting all though, because I can control my mind to produce extra energy that can send heat into my body, hence producing some form of energy.

I know this isn't about sex, in the fact, that's how I can remain a virgin cause I am never weak in the flesh, but I believe if you can control your mind in such a manner, you can also control your erection.

Stress yes but abstinence no