Mgada1ne:
Hello guys,

I have a girlfriend who is abit Temperate,she gets mad at small things easily.

I missed her call yesterday because i slept up,waking up this morning i called back but i discover i did not have enough airtime so i got no option than ask her to call me back if she has airtime, she could not greet what i heard was “the one you recharged for me"? She then hissed and hanged up.

I was so upset at the statement to the extent i almost asked for breakup but had to control myself.

Please guys ,do you think such relationship will lead to something decent?

Better run for your life. I don't understand why you Beta males love coming to Nairaland to open trash threads like this. The last place you should be seeking validation from is Nairaland or online for that matter. A real man knows what to do.

No of my sex mates can reply or respond to me like that.
U guys in relationships are the reason why I've decided to have a relationship-free live.
I dey fucck anytime I want with different ladies

Double0h7:


Are her other qualities good enough to overlook this small imperfection? Because nobody is going to have it all. If we just keep ending relationships for every imperfection we see, then we'll be old and alone, or we'll finally become desperate, and settle for someone with all the imperfections combined!

If her temper doesn't lead to violence, or verbal abuse, then I'd say learn to ignore her tantrums, and wait for her to come to her senses... if she knows she has this issue and she dislikes it, then with age and life experience she'll overcome it herself. Also, if the relationship is young then there's a lot of insecurities and lack of trust, so her temper could just be a self defense mechanism. She might think you're cheating, or she might just fear losing you (fear and anger come from the same place).

I'm in an understanding mood today and just want to save a relationship, instead helping to end one

Stop talking nonsense. You can sense that the nigga is already miserable. So Bleep you mean, other good side, the dude will be miserable for life if he marries such woman. So Bleep other sides of her, let her go. It could even be that the girl gives zero Bleep about writer’s feelings, she might gotta a main dude. Love nor dey allow una see clearly again for this country, break as much relationship you can break to find who is right for you, wetin concern us concern settle for what we got because they have other sides

Godoverevery:
People hardly change.....I was once in your shoes.

It started with lil things like this until she almost got me blind with a charger.

The decision is all your bro but I will tell you to stay away from a lady with anger issue.

Your tolerance limit will be exceeded.

Hahahaha, thank God you are not blind.

MufasaLion:


Damn! Your foolishness never cease to amaze me.

small priiik men recognice small priiik men....congrats!!

Hopez456:
You had break up with her before she break bottles on your head

Not just bottles.
Hot water, Acid, Cut penis in the night after she don give am sleeping medicine to drink, etcetera

Women like attention don't call her again
If she loves you she will call you and apologize
Nigga don't be a simp
If doesn't call you my friend you have been dating ursef.
I like this kind of girlfriends i go do am strong thing, don't talk to her
Anyways my girl doesn't do dat

Dextre:



Stop talking nonsense. You can sense that the nigga is already miserable. So Bleep you mean, other good side, the dude will be miserable for life if he marries such woman. So Bleep other sides of her, let her go. It could even be that the girl gives zero Bleep about writer’s feelings, she might gotta a main dude. Love nor dey allow una see clearly again for this country, break as much relationship you can break to find who is right for you, wetin concern us concern settle for what we got because they have other sides

Bros e, leave am..dem no dey tell person...
A woman/man who has 'hanger" issues is as dangerous as a ticking "thyme" bomb and she apparently has no control over it..

Solatium:




You are dating an unappreciative and an insensitive/inconsiderate person and you think it will lead to good?
You already know the answer

God bless you for this comment. Not to mention that, the statement was unprovoked and not warranted. Very very wrong. Girls need to do better

Mavor:
Better run for your life. I don't understand why you Beta males love coming to Nairaland to open trash threads like this. The last place you should be seeking validation from is Nairaland or online for that matter. A real man knows what to do.

Lol. You no well bro

Double0h7:


Are her other qualities good enough to overlook this small imperfection? Because nobody is going to have it all. If we just keep ending relationships for every imperfection we see, then we'll be old and alone, or we'll finally become desperate, and settle for someone with all the imperfections combined!

If her temper doesn't lead to violence, or verbal abuse, then I'd say learn to ignore her tantrums, and wait for her to come to her senses... if she knows she has this issue and she dislikes it, then with age and life experience she'll overcome it herself. Also, if the relationship is young then there's a lot of insecurities and lack of trust, so her temper could just be a self defense mechanism. She might think you're cheating, or she might just fear losing you (fear and anger come from the same place).

I'm in an understanding mood today and just want to save a relationship, instead helping to end one

great mind

U can see d signs of incompatibility but sex is still shackin u.
Don't worry, u wee still open another nairaland thread in d nearest future telling us how u divorced ur 'mannerless' wife!

Mgada1ne:
Hello guys,

I have a girlfriend who is abit Temperate,she gets mad at small things easily.

I missed her call yesterday because i slept up,waking up this morning i called back but i discover i did not have enough airtime so i got no option than ask her to call me back if she has airtime, she could not greet what i heard was “the one you recharged for me"? She then hissed and hanged up.

I was so upset at the statement to the extent i almost asked for breakup but had to control myself.

Please guys ,do you think such relationship will lead to something decent?

Mgada1ne:
Hello guys,

I have a girlfriend who is abit Temperate,she gets mad at small things easily.

I missed her call yesterday because i slept up,waking up this morning i called back but i discover i did not have enough airtime so i got no option than ask her to call me back if she has airtime, she could not greet what i heard was “the one you recharged for me"? She then hissed and hanged up.

I was so upset at the statement to the extent i almost asked for breakup but had to control myself.

Please guys ,do you think such relationship will lead to something decent?

this word “the one you recharged for me"? alone is to expose to you that this girls is a hungry one and entitled one and not loyal and does not love you........run now bro she is looking for avenue to milk you

this type of girl will soon enter street

Mgada1ne:
Hello guys,

I have a girlfriend who is abit Temperate,she gets mad at small things easily.

I missed her call yesterday because i slept up,waking up this morning i called back but i discover i did not have enough airtime so i got no option than ask her to call me back if she has airtime, she could not greet what i heard was “the one you recharged for me"? She then hissed and hanged up.

I was so upset at the statement to the extent i almost asked for breakup but had to control myself.

Please guys ,do you think such relationship will lead to something decent?

guy just say the truth na Xmas cause this who you wan decieve

Arsenate:

Ah, a smart man here. Spot on dude.

I'm telling you... That guy has brains

Mine is the anger and envy come from the same place sit her down and talk to her about her temperament and if she fail to change my brother make your decision its better to remain single for a while than marrying the women that will bath us with hot water out of anger one day. My brother a word is enough for the wise.

Lolz...
U never chi-chun-chin.
How many women are appreciative?
They are build to receive,...and receive!

Solatium:




You are dating an unappreciative and an insensitive/inconsiderate person and you think it will lead to good?
You already know the answer

If u like be giving her 50k per day, e nor matter; d day d money u give her start reducing na dt time u go know say u don enter one chance.

Have you heard of NO FINANCE NO ROMANCE? l have quitted my relationship of same issue. Even despite the fact you are doing well to them, anytime you are unable to do for them, they acted with u like a stranger, it is so painful. U can only manage them if you want to be with them.

Hintona:


In your mind you are a girl

Lol you have a problem with a girl condemning other girls?

Some things are simple , expensive ,lazy, hot tempered ladies etc. are all wife materials. leave expensive ladies for guys that can afford them no matter how beautiful she looks she is not for you accept it and move on to avoid complications later . leave lazy ladies for hardworking men who dont mind doing a lot of the job to cover up for the deficiencies of such a woman . if you cant please move on and leave her in peace and your heart intact . leave hot tempered ladies for men with the intellect to successfully manage such ladies . although we claim to be more advance now and pick our spouses ourselves we are bound now to make mistakes because we are bound to pick our partners based on emotions alone and not logic. Our forefathers used logic more in picking partners for their children and not emotions alone hence the secret why many marriages could last a life time in the old times compared to present time.

2braithe:


Lol you have a problem with a girl condemning other girls?

No. I know that moniker. It's not a girl.

michael77777:
No woman no cry.......




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Omo
Ino know how your reply concern the topic.. But on another side e still concerns the topic

But i laughed hard... Its a perfectly fit meme some how, even with the face

Double0h7:


Are her other qualities good enough to overlook this small imperfection? Because nobody is going to have it all. If we just keep ending relationships for every imperfection we see, then we'll be old and alone, or we'll finally become desperate, and settle for someone with all the imperfections combined!

If her temper doesn't lead to violence, or verbal abuse, then I'd say learn to ignore her tantrums, and wait for her to come to her senses... if she knows she has this issue and she dislikes it, then with age and life experience she'll overcome it herself. Also, if the relationship is young then there's a lot of insecurities and lack of trust, so her temper could just be a self defense mechanism. She might think you're cheating, or she might just fear losing you (fear and anger come from the same place).

I'm in an understanding mood today and just want to save a relationship, instead helping to end one

it's actually refreshing to see a smart comment in page 1 on this type of post on Nairaland.
The first pages are usually filled with wannabe redpillers that can't even talk with a girl in real life making unrealistic comments.

OP, before you rush to break up with her.
Examine the situation critically..

If you had called her and she didn't pick up, only to call you back and tell you to call her if you have airtime. What would be your reaction??

weigh that reaction with how she reacted and see if there's any difference

Mgada1ne:
Hello guys,

I have a girlfriend who is abit Temperate,she gets mad at small things easily.

I missed her call yesterday because i slept up,waking up this morning i called back but i discover i did not have enough airtime so i got no option than ask her to call me back if she has airtime, she could not greet what i heard was “the one you recharged for me"? She then hissed and hanged up.

I was so upset at the statement to the extent i almost asked for breakup but had to control myself.

Please guys ,do you think such relationship will lead to something decent?

. Nothing decent will come out of a relationship with a temperamental young lady. Premium tears loaded.

I always tell people this, "no matter how much you get tempted to skip true friendship test before dating anyone, please don't do it". E GET Y.
Ignore the Y and the number of X(es) in your record will be on the rise like Nigeria's covid cases.
Always date your true friend. I repeat TRUE FRIEND.

You are a mumu boy

This OP na mumu

Kick d self entitled ape out of ur life she has no manner

She is a hungry type and can go to the highest bidder

@womenareapess

This one never jasi

Mgada1ne:
Hello guys,

I have a girlfriend who is abit Temperate,she gets mad at small things easily.

I missed her call yesterday because i slept up,waking up this morning i called back but i discover i did not have enough airtime so i got no option than ask her to call me back if she has airtime, she could not greet what i heard was “the one you recharged for me"? She then hissed and hanged up.

I was so upset at the statement to the extent i almost asked for breakup but had to control myself.

Please guys ,do you think such relationship will lead to something decent?

Her reaction is based from the fact that she's pissed, you know her character. You've not broken up yet because you feel you can address these sorts of issues.

You're not perfect either, what happened to "let me recharge and call you back" since you were the one that missed her call?

U still get time post your mumu online that one Naa your problem

We no dey motivate person for here if you wan end your relationship end am abeg

Bro, every human has weakness. You've been enduring over 2 years, I feel you should sit here down and discuss about her temper issue. I believe as she ages she will definitely change. You've to keep acting like a man every single time which will help you a lot. Thanks

Mgada1ne:
Hello guys,

I have a girlfriend who is abit Temperate,she gets mad at small things easily.

I missed her call yesterday because i slept up,waking up this morning i called back but i discover i did not have enough airtime so i got no option than ask her to call me back if she has airtime, she could not greet what i heard was “the one you recharged for me"? She then hissed and hanged up.

I was so upset at the statement to the extent i almost asked for breakup but had to control myself.

Please guys ,do you think such relationship will lead to something decent?