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You have to avoid too much visits where the two of you will be alone. Equally use the times you spend together to discuss and learn more about yourselves. Try to keep your mind clean from anything lust

In all honesty right now I won't fall for this crap. My eyes have seen deciet, betrayal and pain from this no sex before marriage scam.
I dated 3 church girls I mean church workers the relationship between us was very serious and purposeful. They all said no sex before marriage I blindly agreed and I was giving out money and playing lover boy. Not knowing my church sister's were collecting dick outside. It was through fervent prayer God opened my eyes to see and others told me as well but I never believed untill God showed me. I felt very betrayed for been scammed.
After the 3 girls or Ladies, I met my state girl matured and beautiful who told me in all sincerity she can't be in a relationship with me without sex. She was a worker in church, she thought I was going to judge her but I did not, that made her love me to the moon, it was my best relationship until we discovered that we had the same genotype. I still did not have sex with her, the highest I did was to allow her kiss me. That genotype stuff altered everything. Till date she loves and respected me, she is married now. Many ladies are hypocrites when it comes to the issue of sex in a relationship. I am not even after the sex but while I am keeping myself, you are sharing yourself with guys.. God will scatter that relationship in Jesus name. I hate deciet, I hate relationship scam and mostly the ladies do so. Sexual compatibility matters slot, but it's not a must to have sex to determine sexual compatibility. Most people in relationships are not honest to each other.

Tell her that there is no problems but no money and gift till marriage.both of you should stick to the rules

Xilsbridalhouse:
Jesus is the Way, the Truth and the Life and anyone who defiles the marital bed or fornicates is doing the will of the Father of all liars which is the devil.

So saying it isn’t worth it, means you believe the lies of the devil.

Having sex before marriage can't stop one from from succeeding in Life, same goes with having sex. Facts around you will tell you that this is true. Religious sentiments apart.
Jesus has done the work he was sent to do and went back.
Telling the young man that it will worth it is a big lie, which you Know.
what is the thing that will worth it actually?

Jesus is the way, the truth and life. Amen.

MrMacinterchi1:
Having sex before marriage can't stop one from from succeeding in Life, same goes with having sex. Facts around you will tell you that this is true. Religious sentiments apart.
Jesus has done the work he was sent to do and went back.
Telling the young man that it will worth it is a big lie, which you Know.
what is the thing that will worth it actually?

Jesus is the way, the truth and life. Amen.

Lol It is extremely worth it when you wait dear, and you an I know this but for selfish reasons, you wouldn’t want to agree. There are blessings attached to every single law you obey by God Almighty. All the rules laid down in the Bible are for our benefits and totally worth it but the flesh wouldn’t make you agree. I get, it takes the Grace of God to know the Truth, accept the Truth and live the Truth.

walexsho:
If 7 different unknown pastors tell you to avoid sex for 9 months in order to avert death won't you do that?

Death that comes from where?
it's the person for the people that disturb their peace of mind with such garbage I fee for.
death is comes when it does

If you find someone who is not desperately looking for sex to tie you down, hold on to her....or do you want a woman of no character? Abi you want her to buy kayanmata from instagram and Bleep you

This shouldn't even be a topic. Take her for medical check up to be sure everything is biologically okay and say your prayers! Period

EkehPraise:
Top of the morning dear Nairalanders..

I think I have found the girl of my dreams and she ticks all the boxes for me except that she has said our relationship should be a no sex relationship till marriage because we intend to settle down this year by God's grace.
So please if you have been in a no sex relationship kindly share tips on how to preserve it and be steadfast till we tie the knots.
Thank you.

I really need good advice because I want this to be my Bus-Stop.

Xilsbridalhouse:
Lol It is extremely worth it when you wait dear, and you an I know this but for selfish reasons, you wouldn’t want to agree. There are blessings attached to every single law you obey by God Almighty. All the rules laid down in the Bible are for our benefits and totally worth it but the flesh wouldn’t make you agree. I get, it takes the Grace of God to know the Truth, accept the Truth and live the Truth.

The flesh you're sounding like this about is part of your make up.and natural to.
Your response is typical it's nothing new to it.
Is it the experience that worth it or the flavor or because of God factor?
Which ever one, it's bleeerrr.
May God's name be praised.

Romanoff:
I'll advise you to repent and give your life to Christ. Ask God to reveal this woman to you. Allow God to lead you.

Any secret she's hiding, if you have a relationship with God, God will reveal it to you.

It takes the grace of God, discipline and commitment to avoid fornication.

Don't do it because of her, do it because of you and your soul.

Love you sis...

yemi1504:
Madam, there is nothing wrong with a girl being deflowered but having high body counts due to I want to enjoy their prime and still want to pass the carcass to an unsuspecting or foolish man is what most of us can't stand and hate. I hate that I have to clear you on this, I hardly do anyways. You can't just eat your cake and have it. I don't blame these girls anyways but the church brothers that continue to enable their rubbish that I blame instead. If there is no market for damaged goods by the church brothers being sensible as regards this matter, some of our women will do things (fvcking around) with sense. I rest my case.

How did you reach the conclusion that she has a high body count? What if she is abstaining from sex so she DOESN'T have a high body count? She may have made one or 2 mistakes and errors in judgement and decided no more trial and errors until she is safely married. You just never know. I understand your point sha, Shebi the other day we read on this platform about one hanty that did the same thing only for the husband to meet tatoo on her vagina on the said wedding night... It is a risk the op is just going to have to take if he loves her. Like I said, its never too late to stop fornicating. He should not press her to change her stans. If he can't deal, he should walk away.

uncle is seems like you Are confused..
Based on speech it seems your dream girl is someone whom you wish to have sex with before and this one says no sex before marriage. So either you are confused or she is not your full dream girl..

NOTE AND VERY IMPORTANT!U CAN ONLY ACCEPT THE TERMS,IF SHE IS A VIRGIN AND SHE REMAINED INTACT TILL UR BOTH LEGALLY MARRIED!GOODLUCK!!

Iamthoney:
Tip 1: Make sure she’s a Virgin Tip 2: If she is not a Virgin make sure she’s not getting it elsewhere Tip 3: If you must get laid make sure she doesn’t find out Tip 4: Rinse and repeat all tips until y’all get married

does your no 3 not contradict no 2; besides how would he find out no 2? it's better not to agree at all thab to do no 3. not cool.

OK sir

Laegbe05:
I was also in one once, she stated clearly "I don't like sex in a relationship, if you can wait till marriage you'll be my all in all" OK was my answer, the rest is history

what history was the rest ?

Womenarespecial:
There is no relation between Sex and pious with God...Both are entirely different...

Sexual relationship with your spouse is not an immoral act...Out of your spouse is immoral..
But since you and your partner agreed on it here you go...:
Fill your mind with edifying thoughts

Read the Bible often..

Do things God's way according to the Bible..

Limit how much you talk about sex if at all you do..

Avoid thinking about sex as much as possible for it is all around in people's words..flirtations..clothing styles..and actions..in the media and entertainment..books and periodicals..
Note: these are tips suitable for persons who believes in abstaining from sex till marriage(those points are deeply related to the Christian faith..)..

Talking nonsense as usual. Who told you that fornication is not sin? Na for darkness you dey read your own bible? Na so una dey deceive people dey go

siofra:
Take lots of cold showers

How about your Yahoo crush?

MrMacinterchi1:
The flesh you're sounding like this about is part of your make up.and natural to.
Your response is typical it's nothing new to it.
Is it the experience that worth it or the flavor or because of God factor?
Which ever one, it's bleeerrr.
May God's name be praised.

And what is life without God factor ?

The Truth will set your free.

MrMacinterchi1:
does your no 3 not contradict no 2; besides how would he find out no 2?
it's better not to agree at all
thab to do no 3. not cool.

Lets assumes she told him she’s a Virgin but he’s having a doubt about what she told him, he can set her up to find out either by snooping into her phone to look for secrets or directly asking a friend who’s good at charming ladies to try his luck on her and possibly have sex with her to know if she’s a Virgin or not

OBTOREPA:
How about your Yahoo crush?

I thank God for nairaland. He doesn't disturb me anymore. We're cool now.

Meanwhile he's not my crush

Xilsbridalhouse:
And what is life without God factor ?

The Truth will set your free.

Is that the worth you have been linking to the manipulation of no sex thingy of female?
Very deceitful covering under God said.

I hope the young man doesn't get played like most men had - while waiting for the nothing that would work it .

May the truth set us free, Amen.

No sex till marriage but after marriage dont come and disturb Nairalanders with posts like "My wife has a tattoo on her opiotus".

Mood11:

First tip; make sure she's not getting it elsewhere.

Why do I feel like she's about to scam and deceive you

Lol damnnn niggar

alphaNomega:
Should we tell him?

BOSS tell him

SmellySperm:
No Comrade. Let him face the outcome for he's about to be scammed

Haha please tell him the truth And save a Soul, I learned the hard way.

ufotty2001:
Op!! Please you don't need this kind of girls. Most of them are repented oloshos. It is when u marry her and sex with her you will know that her puss.y is as wide as river Niger by then it is too late.

Hahahhahahaha

MrMacinterchi1:
Is that the worth you have been linking to the manipulation of no sex thingy of female?
Very deceitful covering under God said.

I hope the young man doesn't get played like most men had - while waiting for the nothing that would work it .

May the truth set us free, Amen.

You know absolutely nothing young man. With time you’d come to understand.

The worth it is every good thing you can think of that comes from God. Yes, totally worth it! If she continued to obey God, she’d not just be a perfect wife for op, more blessings would abound and oh, I sense you are kinda jealous lol

You are jealous and envy the fact that someone can decide to keep themselves and wait because you can’t subject your own flesh and feelings under such and you try to console yourself that it isn’t worth it. It’s totally worth it mehnnnn!!!!

EkehPraise:
Top of the morning dear Nairalanders..

I think I have found the girl of my dreams and she ticks all the boxes for me except that she has said our relationship should be a no sex relationship till marriage because we intend to settle down this year by God's grace.
So please if you have been in a no sex relationship kindly share tips on how to preserve it and be steadfast till we tie the knots.
Thank you.

I really need good advice because I want this to be my Bus-Stop.

no wait go see tattoo for pussy oooo!

EkehPraise:
Top of the morning dear Nairalanders..

I think I have found the girl of my dreams and she ticks all the boxes for me except that she has said our relationship should be a no sex relationship till marriage because we intend to settle down this year by God's grace.
So please if you have been in a no sex relationship kindly share tips on how to preserve it and be steadfast till we tie the knots.
Thank you.

I really need good advice because I want this to be my Bus-Stop.

If you are ready, propose now otherwise let are go.

donhackaz:
Comrade u sure say u never enter ripper hand like this

not at all my brother.

It will end in tears at last. Enjoy

EkehPraise:
Top of the morning dear Nairalanders..

I think I have found the girl of my dreams and she ticks all the boxes for me except that she has said our relationship should be a no sex relationship till marriage because we intend to settle down this year by God's grace.
So please if you have been in a no sex relationship kindly share tips on how to preserve it and be steadfast till we tie the knots.
Thank you.

I really need good advice because I want this to be my Bus-Stop.

She never Bleep before? As in she is a virgin? If not, we may need to reply you back like below sometime down the line.

EkehPraise:
Bro,

She's cheating on you.
The pregnancy was not yours.
She's not yours too.

Take heart.