Haakeem:
Women!!!!!!!!!!! Fear them

Olunmercy56:



Men like you are evils, fear them

Olunmercy56:


Men like you are evils, fear them

ibechris:
1. She wouldn't take a job.
2. Her husband isn't financially capable.
3. And from the look of things the children would not go to school until they relocate.

U can't help your husband to grow then your a typical example of "household enemy". This is why it's good to marry someone that has a job or a business woman.

This one just used marriage to dump her destiny in a man's house.

I respect women alot but this one no be am honestly.

I pity your brother seriously.

Beremx:
In most cases, when a couple wants to rent an apartment, the wife’s choice is always what is agreed upon. My question is, didn’t she know her husband rented an apartment in the remote part of Ikorodu? If she did, then it’s so callous and wicked for her to use her kids to protest her anger. The couple should sort their issue amicably

Dailyparrot:


Where they currently live, they don't pay rent. The house is built by my brother's friend.

As for those asking if my brother begged her to marry him, in fact, she's never my brother's type.

She took in for my brother and the marriage was forced. But you know, once children are involved, a woman will always use them as bargaining chip for everything.

Dailyparrot:
The wife said she's not taking up any job or starting any business until they relocate from that area. So for now, the whole burden is on my brother.

Please, what's the best approach to this their family issue. We don't want to take side and go hard on the wife, but, don't feel she's taking the best decision for the kids.

Mariangeles:


She was never your brother’s type, and yet he slept with her and got her pregnant. Irresponsible if you ask me.

If they want it “I got her pregnant”, if they don’t “she took in”. Na she give herself belle?

eniolorunfe:
For the sake of the kids, your family cannot just stand by and watch. Because whether you like it or not, this may backfire in future. How long do those kids want to remain at home before they start school? How old are they?

Maybe education is not important to your brother also, because I don’t see why he can’t take some few days off work to go register those kids in school if he can’t get his wife to do it. Doesn’t the wife have family that can speak sense into her? If that doesn’t work, your brother can make arrangements with other neighbors or even the school for pick up and drop off of the kids. Also, any family member that has some free time now, can go over and help out with the kids and ensure they go to school.

There are ways but the bulk lies on your brother. He needs to take charge of his home.

Kobojunkie:
Your brother should maybe send his kids to stay with other relatives, so they can attend school - public school- since his wife who is supposed to care for them refuses to do so. They can come back home during the holidays to visit. He would also need to send along money to care for the kids while they are away so they don't end up a heavy burden on relatives.

As for their mother, he needs to make it clear to her that if she ever wants her dream realized, she would need to take up work to help raise the finance necessary to make such a lofty goal a reality

Girlieo:
from the write up, I can deduce the woman is not that educated.

so no long talk, you can't give what you don't have..

Dailyparrot:
Nobody has that time. People are not done looking after their own children, it's to be taking care of children that their father and mother are alive.

This is Lagos, everyone is hustling...

Kobojunkie:
Maybe with his parents out in village or town somewhere where people still have a heart?

Dailyparrot:
My brother lives in the remote part of Ikorodu. They have three kids.

The children didn't go to school throughout last term and this term again, they've been staying at home. When other kids in the compound have gone to school, his kids will remain at home with the wife doing nothing.

The reason the wife stopped the kids from going to school is because she wants them to leave that part of Lagos and move to the developed part of Ikorodu or any township part of Lagos.

Invariably, she's using the kids staying at home to protest and punish the husband, maybe?

I feel she's punishing the kids and not the husband. My brother leaves for work very early in the morning and will not be able to take the kids to school himself.

He's not financially capable of relocating at this time but I feel he can plan with his wife and save towards relocating, maybe in a year's time but I doubt the wife is taking the best approach.

The wife said she's not taking up any job or starting any business until they relocate from that area. So for now, the whole burden is on my brother.

Please, what's the best approach to this their family issue. We don't want to take side and go hard on the wife, but, don't feel she's taking the best decision for the kids.

Dailyparrot:
My brother lives in the remote part of Ikorodu. They have three kids.

The children didn't go to school throughout last term and this term again, they've been staying at home. When other kids in the compound have gone to school, his kids will remain at home with the wife doing nothing.

The reason the wife stopped the kids from going to school is because she wants them to leave that part of Lagos and move to the developed part of Ikorodu or any township part of Lagos.

Invariably, she's using the kids staying at home to protest and punish the husband, maybe?

I feel she's punishing the kids and not the husband. My brother leaves for work very early in the morning and will not be able to take the kids to school himself.

He's not financially capable of relocating at this time but I feel he can plan with his wife and save towards relocating, maybe in a year's time but I doubt the wife is taking the best approach.

The wife said she's not taking up any job or starting any business until they relocate from that area. So for now, the whole burden is on my brother.

Please, what's the best approach to this their family issue. We don't want to take side and go hard on the wife, but, don't feel she's taking the best decision for the kids.