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My Friend Is Having A Trouble In His Marriage. by isholak21(m): 10:16pm On Feb 06, 2022
Hello nairalanders, I want you guys opinions on this issue that's really bothering my mind tonight. pls accept my grammatical errors.
There's this my neighbour that has now turned to close friend cux we really talk a lots about things. The guy had a baby towards d ending of last year from his new girlfriend & they are now together. D issue is that my guy & his babe are both black including their parents but their daughter is pure white with no iota of resemblance with both parents. I don't really see anything wrong with them having a white baby until today d guy came into my apartment looking for me but I was sleeping in d room & he sit with my wife & started talking to her about having doubts about his daughter wder she belongs to him or not to the point he called his mother in-law at d presence of my wife but the woman was all defensive according to my wife. He said there is this white man that frequency their apartment & his wife shop & he suspected he might be d biological father of their daughter. This guy had same issue from his previous marriage to the point he caught his ex wife sleeping with another man on their matrimonial bed.
Please what do u think is d way forward for him or what kind of advice sud I gv him about d issue. I don't think he can afford DNA test for now.
Re: My Friend Is Having A Trouble In His Marriage. by baby124: 10:23pm On Feb 06, 2022
What do you mean white? Like the child is mixed race? Like half oyinbo? If she’s half white then he does not need DNA now. You people should raise money for him to do the test. If the baby is just light skin, she could be his though.
Re: My Friend Is Having A Trouble In His Marriage. by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:24pm On Feb 06, 2022
are DNA tests extinct/illegal in your side of the forrest?!

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Re: My Friend Is Having A Trouble In His Marriage. by frozen70(f): 10:24pm On Feb 06, 2022
isholak21:
Hello nairalanders, I want you guys opinions on this issue that's really bothering my mind tonight. pls accept my grammatical errors.
There's this my neighbour that has now turned to close friend cux we really talk a lots about things. The guy had a baby towards d ending of last year from his new girlfriend & they are now together. D issue is that my guy & his babe are both black including their parents but their daughter is pure white with no iota of resemblance with both parents. I don't really see anything wrong with them having a white baby until today d guy came into my apartment looking for me but I was sleeping in d room & he sit with my wife & started talking to her about having doubts about his daughter wder she belongs to him or not to the point he called his mother in-law at d presence of my wife but the woman was all defensive according to my wife. He said there is this white man that frequency their apartment & his wife shop & he suspected he might be d biological father of their daughter. This guy had same issue from his previous marriage to the point he caught his ex wife sleeping with another man on their matrimonial bed.
Please what do u think is d way forward for him or what kind of advice sud I gv him about d issue. I don't think he afford DNA test for now.

DNA or nothing

He must have toyed with people's wife in the past, how come his first wife was caught red handed and now the second wife has a prove of infidelity

Well the truth will come out one day
Re: My Friend Is Having A Trouble In His Marriage. by Adaanna(f): 10:27pm On Feb 06, 2022
Well DNA is the only option for him to clear his doubt. Tell him to save up for it simple.

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Re: My Friend Is Having A Trouble In His Marriage. by socialmediaman: 10:27pm On Feb 06, 2022
DNA test is the answer to this problem, if he can’t afford it, he’ll have to be patient and do more investigation to clear his doubts
Re: My Friend Is Having A Trouble In His Marriage. by yuping(m): 10:28pm On Feb 06, 2022
undecided without DNA nothing can be done.
Re: My Friend Is Having A Trouble In His Marriage. by lilvicky68(m): 10:29pm On Feb 06, 2022
White as in albino or fair?
Re: My Friend Is Having A Trouble In His Marriage. by yuping(m): 10:29pm On Feb 06, 2022
frozen70:


DNA or nothing

He must have toyed with people's wife in the past, how come his first wife was caught red handed and now the second wife has a prove of infidelity

Well the truth will come out one day
some people are just unfortunate.
Re: My Friend Is Having A Trouble In His Marriage. by Caramia2020(m): 10:38pm On Feb 06, 2022
Hmm
Re: My Friend Is Having A Trouble In His Marriage. by DaddyRochie1642: 10:41pm On Feb 06, 2022
Am sure you saw the Devilish signs from that your wife when you guys were dating.

When love dey sweet you that time you were like "baby you're the oxygen that I breathe, "Baby I cannot live without you", "without you my angel, I am not complete grin grin grin
Re: My Friend Is Having A Trouble In His Marriage. by GboyegaD(m): 10:43pm On Feb 06, 2022
Black kids come in all shades. Tell him to ask for a DNA.
Re: My Friend Is Having A Trouble In His Marriage. by Kobojunkie: 10:44pm On Feb 06, 2022
isholak21:
Please what do u think is d way forward for him or what kind of advice sud I gv him about d issue. I don't think he can afford DNA test for now.
Without a DNA test, there really isn't any other way of having the 99.9% assurance he may desire. So your friend needs to decide what is important to him, his relationship or whether or not the child is his. undecided
Re: My Friend Is Having A Trouble In His Marriage. by odinson1(m): 10:47pm On Feb 06, 2022
isholak21:
Hello nairalanders, I want you guys opinions on this issue that's really bothering my mind tonight. pls accept my grammatical errors.
There's this my neighbour that has now turned to close friend cux we really talk a lots about things. The guy had a baby towards d ending of last year from his new girlfriend & they are now together. D issue is that my guy & his babe are both black including their parents but their daughter is pure white with no iota of resemblance with both parents. I don't really see anything wrong with them having a white baby until today d guy came into my apartment looking for me but I was sleeping in d room & he sit with my wife & started talking to her about having doubts about his daughter wder she belongs to him or not to the point he called his mother in-law at d presence of my wife but the woman was all defensive according to my wife. He said there is this white man that frequency their apartment & his wife shop & he suspected he might be d biological father of their daughter. This guy had same issue from his previous marriage to the point he caught his ex wife sleeping with another man on their matrimonial bed.
Please what do u think is d way forward for him or what kind of advice sud I gv him about d issue. I don't think he can afford DNA test for now.

I wonder where these weak men keep crawling out from.

It is Biologically Impossible for 2 Black Parents to give Birth to a White or Half caste baby. So I don't see why your friend didn't opt for a DNA test right there in the delivery room. His wife cheated and pinned the pregnancy on him,end of story.

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Re: My Friend Is Having A Trouble In His Marriage. by eyinjuege: 11:10pm On Feb 06, 2022
If the child is biracial, you know the answer
Re: My Friend Is Having A Trouble In His Marriage. by olabrinks(f): 11:24pm On Feb 06, 2022
I mean his wife must be very stupid to think that she can sleep with a white man, carry his child and pin the baby on a black man. At least if you’re going to do paternity fraud, use sense to do it now. Sleep with someone that looks like your husband. I hope your friend gets the truth out as quickly as possible.

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Re: My Friend Is Having A Trouble In His Marriage. by phorget(m): 11:33pm On Feb 06, 2022
olabrinks:
I mean his wife must be very stupid to think that she can sleep with a white man, carry his child and pin the baby on a black man. At least if you’re going to do paternity fraud, use sense to do it now. Sleep with someone that looks like your husband. I hope your friend gets the truth out as quickly as possible.


Hmmmmmm!
I don dey fear you small small o.
Re: My Friend Is Having A Trouble In His Marriage. by thorpido(m): 11:34pm On Feb 06, 2022
It's simple na.No two black parents can have a white baby.
Since there is a white guy that has been around them,then it shouldn't be a hard nut to crack.If he doesn't have money for DNA now,he should plan for it.
Re: My Friend Is Having A Trouble In His Marriage. by Nobody: 11:53pm On Feb 06, 2022
He should find the means to get the DNA test done. That's the only way he can have peace of mind.
Re: My Friend Is Having A Trouble In His Marriage. by Johnsown1(m): 12:18am On Feb 07, 2022
DNA solution or the child might be switched in the hospital

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Re: My Friend Is Having A Trouble In His Marriage. by MufasaLion: 1:18am On Feb 07, 2022
grin grin grin

Your wife has won a jackpot! Don't stress that baby, she's an American citizen.
Re: My Friend Is Having A Trouble In His Marriage. by Mindlog: 2:12am On Feb 07, 2022
DNA test...if it doesn't match the father then do also for the woman and if it matches then it is a case of getting impregnated outside the marriage but if it doesn't, it is case of baby switch at the hospital.
Re: My Friend Is Having A Trouble In His Marriage. by gaby(m): 6:21am On Feb 07, 2022
Wahala

Make una tell the guy the truth abeg
Re: My Friend Is Having A Trouble In His Marriage. by Lostchild(m): 4:04pm On Feb 07, 2022
odinson1:


I wonder where these weak men keep crawling out from.

It is Biologically Impossible for 2 Black Parents to give Birth to a White or Half caste baby. So I don't see why your friend didn't opt for a DNA test right there in the delivery room. His wife cheated and pinned the pregnancy on him,end of story.

You are a very straight forward person.
wink

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Re: My Friend Is Having A Trouble In His Marriage. by Joelobioha(m): 9:25pm On Feb 07, 2022
odinson1:


I wonder where these weak men keep crawling out from.

It is Biologically Impossible for 2 Black Parents to give Birth to a White or Half caste baby. So I don't see why your friend didn't opt for a DNA test right there in the delivery room. His wife cheated and pinned the pregnancy on him,end of story.
what about the black Nigerian couple that gave birth to a white porcelain skin blue eyed baby in Lagos..I heard it may be recessive gene..or one distant forefather dna reincarnated itself bla bla

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