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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Nyamuriflathead: 9:46pm On Mar 30, 2022
Nonexisting:
Restrict this your account to politics section where you fight tribal wars. You can't use useless account to make a useful comment, the username negates every sense you are trying to make.
Or else what?

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by arthurwillia(m): 10:19pm On Mar 30, 2022
Mystiquefia:


Just because you're a weak man, doesn't mean others are weak

Lol strong man because he send wife comot
You are a useless man

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by dnawah(m): 10:20pm On Mar 30, 2022
Proudpolygamist:
My first wife got pregnant for me when she was in the university and i had just newly secured a job with a high paying firm. She was the daughter of a big businessman at the time and we were from a conservative society, so we had to sharply perform the marriage rites and settle her family handsomely because they accused me of impregnating their daughter before marriage and sought compensations.
Fast-forward to our marriage life, she started making life hell for me after the birth of our first son.
Hadiza was a real trouble maker and I was beginning to think I made a mistake marrying her, she would nag all day when she was pregnant and won't cook meals at home or do domestic chores. In fact I spent most of the nights on empty stomach, my consolation being that she would put to bed one day. She would only have sex when she felt like doing it and it must have been after a good treat.

Things got worse after she put to bed. She complains that she spends the whole day caring for our young son that she can barely think about anything else.
She prefers to watch TV all day and spend her whole time on social media instead of cooking, doing dishes, , domestic chores or getting a job. She once asked me to prepare breakfast in bed for her on a Monday morning when I was supposed to get to work early for an appointment. I returned home that day hungry but she had refused to prepare food because I didn't make her breakfast in bed. She was so engrossed in telemundo fantasies that she thought she could dictate what direction our marriage swings.
I got tired and decided to teach her a lesson
On this fateful night, she snored irritatingly like a pig in my room and accused me of snoring like a pig, stressing that I need urgent medical check up . I told her she would know who was snoring like a pig, and who needs medical checkup after i'm done with her.I left my room and went to sleep in the guest room.
The following day i left home for work without taking breakfast afterwhich i went to see my lawyer. I issued a court summon to my wife through a court clerk.
I was told, She couldn't believe her eyes after she read through and discovered that i was seeking a divorce
She Refused to sign the papers and told the court clerk that i should kom and tell her with my mouth, stressing that she didn't marry me through a letter. She said i should kom and give her the papers myself if I was man enough.
The court clerk said he tried cajoling her into signing the papers peacefully but she screamed "He is my husband, I can't divorce him" and ran away with hot tears rolling down her cheek.
You know what happened next, i went straight to area command where my good friend works and left for home with 5 armed policemen.
In quick strides we searched for her and found her in her bedroom upstairs. She sat in the bed looking morose and jumped up fearfully when she saw us.
I pointed to her and told the men to escort her out of my house. Before she could say pim, one of the policeman a corporal, clamped handcuffs on her hand and told her to be cooperative as to follow them to the station. She protested very loudly and struggled to free herself, but it was too late, my mind was already made up. She ended up in tears making strong appeals to me but I kept a stony face. The policemen dragged my wife into the waiting van.

One of them came to me and asked to take her things along with her. I was shocked, because I bought everything in the house with my money. The sergeant kept his mouth shut when he saw the look on my face.
I gave him an address and asked him to drop my former wife in that address where her father lives.
Then I locked up the bungalow I bought for my 1st wife and joined my second wife in the estate.
u just escape untimely death,my experiences,I no get jobs now,

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Proudpolygamist: 10:23pm On Mar 30, 2022
dnawah:
u just escape untimely death,my experiences,I no get jobs now,
How do you mean bruv, tell us about your experiences
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Proudpolygamist: 10:25pm On Mar 30, 2022
TheWolfen:
Lol
Congrats!
You didn't give room for women manipulations. When she ask that you come give her the divorce paper cheesy..
That is a trap a lot of men falls for. cheesy


But I think you should forgive her if she comes begging with a promise that she will improve on herself.

She didn't cheat on you.
It is only when a woman cheat that i advice men not to haven't anything to do with her anymore

I hosted a few of her family members plus my own family members that came to my crib for dialogue unannounced. I asked them to give us 3months to reflect on whether or not we want to be together, they tried to cajole me to take her back immediately but I refused.
When that 3months expires, I won't call anybody for reconciliation. If her family returns then, I'll accept her back with conditions.
Topmost on the list being that
She won't move into my house immediately, I will rent a self contain apartment for her outside for the main time

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Nadeol: 11:25pm On Mar 30, 2022
Proudpolygamist:
My first wife got pregnant for me when she was in the university and i had just newly secured a job with a high paying firm. She was the daughter of a big businessman at the time and we were from a conservative society, so we had to sharply perform the marriage rites and settle her family handsomely because they accused me of impregnating their daughter before marriage and sought compensations.
Fast-forward to our marriage life, she started making life hell for me after the birth of our first son.
Hadiza was a real trouble maker and I was beginning to think I made a mistake marrying her, she would nag all day when she was pregnant and won't cook meals at home or do domestic chores. In fact I spent most of the nights on empty stomach, my consolation being that she would put to bed one day. She would only have sex when she felt like doing it and it must have been after a good treat.

Things got worse after she put to bed. She complains that she spends the whole day caring for our young son that she can barely think about anything else.
She prefers to watch TV all day and spend her whole time on social media instead of cooking, doing dishes, , domestic chores or getting a job. She once asked me to prepare breakfast in bed for her on a Monday morning when I was supposed to get to work early for an appointment. I returned home that day hungry but she had refused to prepare food because I didn't make her breakfast in bed. She was so engrossed in telemundo fantasies that she thought she could dictate what direction our marriage swings.
I got tired and decided to teach her a lesson
On this fateful night, she snored irritatingly like a pig in my room and accused me of snoring like a pig, stressing that I need urgent medical check up . I told her she would know who was snoring like a pig, and who needs medical checkup after i'm done with her.I left my room and went to sleep in the guest room.
The following day i left home for work without taking breakfast afterwhich i went to see my lawyer. I issued a court summon to my wife through a court clerk.
I was told, She couldn't believe her eyes after she read through and discovered that i was seeking a divorce
She Refused to sign the papers and told the court clerk that i should kom and tell her with my mouth, stressing that she didn't marry me through a letter. She said i should kom and give her the papers myself if I was man enough.
The court clerk said he tried cajoling her into signing the papers peacefully but she screamed "He is my husband, I can't divorce him" and ran away with hot tears rolling down her cheek.
You know what happened next, i went straight to area command where my good friend works and left for home with 5 armed policemen.
In quick strides we searched for her and found her in her bedroom upstairs. She sat in the bed looking morose and jumped up fearfully when she saw us.
I pointed to her and told the men to escort her out of my house. Before she could say pim, one of the policeman a corporal, clamped handcuffs on her hand and told her to be cooperative as to follow them to the station. She protested very loudly and struggled to free herself, but it was too late, my mind was already made up. She ended up in tears making strong appeals to me but I kept a stony face. The policemen dragged my wife into the waiting van.

One of them came to me and asked to take her things along with her. I was shocked, because I bought everything in the house with my money. The sergeant kept his mouth shut when he saw the look on my face.
I gave him an address and asked him to drop my former wife in that address where her father lives.
Then I locked up the bungalow I bought for my 1st wife and joined my second wife in the estate.

"...My first wife got pregnant for me when she was in the university and i had..."

"...left for home with 5 armed policemen.
In quick strides we searched for her and found her in her bedroom upstairs. She sat in the bed..."

"...Then I locked up the bungalow I bought for my 1st wife..."

I don't understand, please clarify.

Your first wife got pregnant.....she was in her bedroom upstairs.....you locked up the bungalow you bought for your first wife....

Does a bungalow has a bedroom upstairs?

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by dnawah(m): 12:20am On Mar 31, 2022
Proudpolygamist:

How do you mean bruv, tell us about your experiences
I lost everything

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Double0h7(f): 1:36am On Mar 31, 2022
Fantastic fantasy of a lipsrsealed

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by ignis: 6:53am On Mar 31, 2022
Proudpolygamist:


Thank you, I have peace of mind now ah swear.
As for my second wife, she saw how my first wife left and she knows if she misbehaves I will show her the way out too.
But shes down to earth, humble, feminine and submissive.
This is how I like them to be, not the ones that are confused about gender roles

Marry 20 more wives....

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Datikwerreboi(m): 8:04am On Mar 31, 2022
uncleck:
I wonder why marriage was introduced in the first place. It just doesn't make sense
How else should humans have lived? Fvcking and bearing children like animals . Marriage is not perfect but it's still a better option than living like animals

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Datikwerreboi(m): 8:06am On Mar 31, 2022
Proudpolygamist:


I hosted a few of her family members plus my own family members that came to my crib for dialogue unannounced. I asked them to give us 3months to reflect on whether or not we want to be together, they tried to cajole me to take her back immediately but I refused.
When that 3months expires, I won't call anybody for reconciliation. If her family returns then, I'll accept her back with conditions.
Topmost on the list being that
She won't move into my house immediately, I will rent a self contain apartment for her outside for the main time
That's good . Follow through to that process. But eventually when she's changed let her come back. So long she's not cheating and not violent to poss threat to your life

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by heniford2: 10:05am On Mar 31, 2022
Proudpolygamist:
My first wife got pregnant for me when she was in the university and i had just newly secured a job with a high paying firm. She was the daughter of a big businessman at the time and we were from a conservative society, so we had to sharply perform the marriage rites and settle her family handsomely because they accused me of impregnating their daughter before marriage and sought compensations.
Fast-forward to our marriage life, she started making life hell for me after the birth of our first son.
Hadiza was a real trouble maker and I was beginning to think I made a mistake marrying her, she would nag all day when she was pregnant and won't cook meals at home or do domestic chores. In fact I spent most of the nights on empty stomach, my consolation being that she would put to bed one day. She would only have sex when she felt like doing it and it must have been after a good treat.

Things got worse after she put to bed. She complains that she spends the whole day caring for our young son that she can barely think about anything else.
She prefers to watch TV all day and spend her whole time on social media instead of cooking, doing dishes, , domestic chores or getting a job. She once asked me to prepare breakfast in bed for her on a Monday morning when I was supposed to get to work early for an appointment. I returned home that day hungry but she had refused to prepare food because I didn't make her breakfast in bed. She was so engrossed in telemundo fantasies that she thought she could dictate what direction our marriage swings.
I got tired and decided to teach her a lesson
On this fateful night, she snored irritatingly like a pig in my room and accused me of snoring like a pig, stressing that I need urgent medical check up . I told her she would know who was snoring like a pig, and who needs medical checkup after i'm done with her.I left my room and went to sleep in the guest room.
The following day i left home for work without taking breakfast afterwhich i went to see my lawyer. I issued a court summon to my wife through a court clerk.
I was told, She couldn't believe her eyes after she read through and discovered that i was seeking a divorce
She Refused to sign the papers and told the court clerk that i should kom and tell her with my mouth, stressing that she didn't marry me through a letter. She said i should kom and give her the papers myself if I was man enough.
The court clerk said he tried cajoling her into signing the papers peacefully but she screamed "He is my husband, I can't divorce him" and ran away with hot tears rolling down her cheek.
You know what happened next, i went straight to area command where my good friend works and left for home with 5 armed policemen.
In quick strides we searched for her and found her in her bedroom upstairs. She sat in the bed looking morose and jumped up fearfully when she saw us.
I pointed to her and told the men to escort her out of my house. Before she could say pim, one of the policeman a corporal, clamped handcuffs on her hand and told her to be cooperative as to follow them to the station. She protested very loudly and struggled to free herself, but it was too late, my mind was already made up. She ended up in tears making strong appeals to me but I kept a stony face. The policemen dragged my wife into the waiting van.

One of them came to me and asked to take her things along with her. I was shocked, because I bought everything in the house with my money. The sergeant kept his mouth shut when he saw the look on my face.
I gave him an address and asked him to drop my former wife in that address where her father lives.
Then I locked up the bungalow I bought for my 1st wife and joined my second wife in the estate.
Agu nwoke confirm!! That's what am talking about been in charge of yourself, Am glad you find peace stay safe brother.

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Proudpolygamist: 3:08pm On Mar 31, 2022
dnawah:
I lost everything
undecided
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by SmartyPants(m): 3:29pm On Mar 31, 2022
TheWolfen:
Lol
Congrats!
You didn't give room for women manipulations. When she ask that you come give her the divorce paper cheesy..
That is a trap a lot of men falls for. cheesy


But I think you should forgive her if she comes begging with a promise that she will improve on herself.

She didn't cheat on you.
It is only when a woman cheat that i advice men not to haven't anything to do with her anymore

It's like you didn;t notice no one asked for advice cheesy

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Savedday: 3:29pm On Mar 31, 2022
9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

They are nothing but useless. All of them..

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by GoodFaith: 3:34pm On Mar 31, 2022
Proudpolygamist:
My first wife got pregnant for me when she was in the university and i had just newly secured a job with a high paying firm. She was the daughter of a big businessman at the time and we were from a conservative society, so we had to sharply perform the marriage rites and settle her family handsomely because they accused me of impregnating their daughter before marriage and sought compensations.
Fast-forward to our marriage life, she started making life hell for me after the birth of our first son.
Hadiza was a real trouble maker and I was beginning to think I made a mistake marrying her, she would nag all day when she was pregnant and won't cook meals at home or do domestic chores. In fact I spent most of the nights on empty stomach, my consolation being that she would put to bed one day. She would only have sex when she felt like doing it and it must have been after a good treat.

Things got worse after she put to bed. She complains that she spends the whole day caring for our young son that she can barely think about anything else.
She prefers to watch TV all day and spend her whole time on social media instead of cooking, doing dishes, , domestic chores or getting a job. She once asked me to prepare breakfast in bed for her on a Monday morning when I was supposed to get to work early for an appointment. I returned home that day hungry but she had refused to prepare food because I didn't make her breakfast in bed. She was so engrossed in telemundo fantasies that she thought she could dictate what direction our marriage swings.
I got tired and decided to teach her a lesson
On this fateful night, she snored irritatingly like a pig in my room and accused me of snoring like a pig, stressing that I need urgent medical check up . I told her she would know who was snoring like a pig, and who needs medical checkup after i'm done with her.I left my room and went to sleep in the guest room.
The following day i left home for work without taking breakfast afterwhich i went to see my lawyer. I issued a court summon to my wife through a court clerk.
I was told, She couldn't believe her eyes after she read through and discovered that i was seeking a divorce
She Refused to sign the papers and told the court clerk that i should kom and tell her with my mouth, stressing that she didn't marry me through a letter. She said i should kom and give her the papers myself if I was man enough.
The court clerk said he tried cajoling her into signing the papers peacefully but she screamed "He is my husband, I can't divorce him" and ran away with hot tears rolling down her cheek.
You know what happened next, i went straight to area command where my good friend works and left for home with 5 armed policemen.
In quick strides we searched for her and found her in her bedroom upstairs. She sat in the bed looking morose and jumped up fearfully when she saw us.
I pointed to her and told the men to escort her out of my house. Before she could say pim, one of the policeman a corporal, clamped handcuffs on her hand and told her to be cooperative as to follow them to the station. She protested very loudly and struggled to free herself, but it was too late, my mind was already made up. She ended up in tears making strong appeals to me but I kept a stony face. The policemen dragged my wife into the waiting van.

One of them came to me and asked to take her things along with her. I was shocked, because I bought everything in the house with my money. The sergeant kept his mouth shut when he saw the look on my face.
I gave him an address and asked him to drop my former wife in that address where her father lives.
Then I locked up the bungalow I bought for my 1st wife and joined my second wife in the estate.

Did the family know what was happening?
Big business man daughter some useless

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Ay77(m): 3:34pm On Mar 31, 2022
Mpurumiri at work grin

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by EvilNeedle(m): 3:35pm On Mar 31, 2022
Redpill for the win cheesy

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by MuteMute(m): 3:35pm On Mar 31, 2022
Proudpolygamist:
My first wife got pregnant for me when she was in the university and i had just newly secured a job with a high paying firm. She was the daughter of a big businessman at the time and we were from a conservative society, so we had to sharply perform the marriage rites and settle her family handsomely because they accused me of impregnating their daughter before marriage and sought compensations.
Fast-forward to our marriage life, she started making life hell for me after the birth of our first son.
Hadiza was a real trouble maker and I was beginning to think I made a mistake marrying her, she would nag all day when she was pregnant and won't cook meals at home or do domestic chores. In fact I spent most of the nights on empty stomach, my consolation being that she would put to bed one day. She would only have sex when she felt like doing it and it must have been after a good treat.

Things got worse after she put to bed. She complains that she spends the whole day caring for our young son that she can barely think about anything else.
She prefers to watch TV all day and spend her whole time on social media instead of cooking, doing dishes, , domestic chores or getting a job. She once asked me to prepare breakfast in bed for her on a Monday morning when I was supposed to get to work early for an appointment. I returned home that day hungry but she had refused to prepare food because I didn't make her breakfast in bed. She was so engrossed in telemundo fantasies that she thought she could dictate what direction our marriage swings.
I got tired and decided to teach her a lesson
On this fateful night, she snored irritatingly like a pig in my room and accused me of snoring like a pig, stressing that I need urgent medical check up . I told her she would know who was snoring like a pig, and who needs medical checkup after i'm done with her.I left my room and went to sleep in the guest room.
The following day i left home for work without taking breakfast afterwhich i went to see my lawyer. I issued a court summon to my wife through a court clerk.
I was told, She couldn't believe her eyes after she read through and discovered that i was seeking a divorce
She Refused to sign the papers and told the court clerk that i should kom and tell her with my mouth, stressing that she didn't marry me through a letter. She said i should kom and give her the papers myself if I was man enough.
The court clerk said he tried cajoling her into signing the papers peacefully but she screamed "He is my husband, I can't divorce him" and ran away with hot tears rolling down her cheek.
You know what happened next, i went straight to area command where my good friend works and left for home with 5 armed policemen.
In quick strides we searched for her and found her in her bedroom upstairs. She sat in the bed looking morose and jumped up fearfully when she saw us.
I pointed to her and told the men to escort her out of my house. Before she could say pim, one of the policeman a corporal, clamped handcuffs on her hand and told her to be cooperative as to follow them to the station. She protested very loudly and struggled to free herself, but it was too late, my mind was already made up. She ended up in tears making strong appeals to me but I kept a stony face. The policemen dragged my wife into the waiting van.

One of them came to me and asked to take her things along with her. I was shocked, because I bought everything in the house with my money. The sergeant kept his mouth shut when he saw the look on my face.
I gave him an address and asked him to drop my former wife in that address where her father lives.
Then I locked up the bungalow I bought for my 1st wife and joined my second wife in the estate.


you are a spoilt brat according to what you wrote
Woman ain't slave

Show them care and pamper am sure yur 2nd wife we soon file for divorce

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by underpinna: 3:36pm On Mar 31, 2022
Proudpolygamist:


Thank you, I have peace of mind now ah swear.
As for my second wife, she saw how my first wife left and she knows if she misbehaves I will show her the way out too.
But shes down to earth, humble, feminine and submissive.
This is how I like them to be, not the ones that are confused about gender roles

Not questioning your decisions or intruding on your private life but do you mind sharing the reason for marrying a second wife?
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by nautybride: 3:36pm On Mar 31, 2022
I just dey laugh hard! We tell them but they won't listen! Get a life before marrying! Without vision, a man will kick you like balls!

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Agugbadin: 3:36pm On Mar 31, 2022
Mission accomplished. Nice one and congratulations. Your second wife will thread softly, be homely and she will be there for you.
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Anfieldboss: 3:37pm On Mar 31, 2022
That was too cruel. You could have simply informed your in laws that you were done with the marriage. They would have come to carry their daughter peacefully from your house.

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by MRAKBEE(m): 3:37pm On Mar 31, 2022
Proudpolygamist:


Thank you, I have peace of mind now ah swear.
As for my second wife, she saw how my first wife left and she knows if she misbehaves I will show her the way out too.
But shes down to earth, humble, feminine and submissive.
This is how I like them to be, not the ones that are confused about gender roles
That's why I can never play with the one I have here at home. She is God sent. Honestly, God can only give us the best.. Nothing less

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Nobody: 3:38pm On Mar 31, 2022
Proudpolygamist:


I hosted a few of her family members plus my own family members that came to my crib for dialogue unannounced. I asked them to give us 3months to reflect on whether or not we want to be together, they tried to cajole me to take her back immediately but I refused.
When that 3months expires, I won't call anybody for reconciliation. If her family returns then, I'll accept her back with conditions.
Topmost on the list being that
She won't move into my house immediately, I will rent a self contain apartment for her outside for the main time
You have driven home your points. But please it is marriage not a competition. If I see genuine remorse where infidelity was not the issue, forgiveness should naturally follow. Please I believe she has learnt, albeit the hard way.

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by adonainana: 3:38pm On Mar 31, 2022
My friend you have done a lot of illegal things and assuming your ex wife is indeed from a rich family

Expect a serious comeback,

Firstly, you are not divorced, only a court of law can pronounce a marriage has dissolved

You claim you made police made her sign divorce papers or accosted her out of the house whichever one, it wont matter,

Divorce cases can be contested and if she is ready for you all she has to do is come to court and claim that her marriage to your has not irretrievably broken down. And then COUNTER SUE you for assaulting her and chasing and packing her load from the matrimonial house

What about your kid from the marriage, your almost half baked story didnt say who is going to be taking care of the child.

Then you simply moved in with your second wife.... Hmm your story get K leg sha, but if your story is true, you are in BIG TROUBLE my friend if your first wife has your time

Great empahsis on "has your time "

Akinola Eluyefa

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by NGArmyTerrorist: 3:38pm On Mar 31, 2022
At least you will have peace and years more to live. Living with a daughter of Jezebel and surviving her, you need to go for Thanksgiving.. You did well Sir. You can go and relax with your second wife and flush out all the intoxications of the first wife inside your memory.

You're Odogwu!

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by ijeshaboy: 3:39pm On Mar 31, 2022
Proudpolygamist:
My first wife got pregnant for me when she was in the university and i had just newly secured a job with a high paying firm. She was the daughter of a big businessman at the time and we were from a conservative society, so we had to sharply perform the marriage rites and settle her family handsomely because they accused me of impregnating their daughter before marriage and sought compensations.
Fast-forward to our marriage life, she started making life hell for me after the birth of our first son.
Hadiza was a real trouble maker and I was beginning to think I made a mistake marrying her, she would nag all day when she was pregnant and won't cook meals at home or do domestic chores. In fact I spent most of the nights on empty stomach, my consolation being that she would put to bed one day. She would only have sex when she felt like doing it and it must have been after a good treat.

Things got worse after she put to bed. She complains that she spends the whole day caring for our young son that she can barely think about anything else.
She prefers to watch TV all day and spend her whole time on social media instead of cooking, doing dishes, , domestic chores or getting a job. She once asked me to prepare breakfast in bed for her on a Monday morning when I was supposed to get to work early for an appointment. I returned home that day hungry but she had refused to prepare food because I didn't make her breakfast in bed. She was so engrossed in telemundo fantasies that she thought she could dictate what direction our marriage swings.
I got tired and decided to teach her a lesson
On this fateful night, she snored irritatingly like a pig in my room and accused me of snoring like a pig, stressing that I need urgent medical check up . I told her she would know who was snoring like a pig, and who needs medical checkup after i'm done with her.I left my room and went to sleep in the guest room.
The following day i left home for work without taking breakfast afterwhich i went to see my lawyer. I issued a court summon to my wife through a court clerk.
I was told, She couldn't believe her eyes after she read through and discovered that i was seeking a divorce
She Refused to sign the papers and told the court clerk that i should kom and tell her with my mouth, stressing that she didn't marry me through a letter. She said i should kom and give her the papers myself if I was man enough.
The court clerk said he tried cajoling her into signing the papers peacefully but she screamed "He is my husband, I can't divorce him" and ran away with hot tears rolling down her cheek.
You know what happened next, i went straight to area command where my good friend works and left for home with 5 armed policemen.
In quick strides we searched for her and found her in her bedroom upstairs. She sat in the bed looking morose and jumped up fearfully when she saw us.
I pointed to her and told the men to escort her out of my house. Before she could say pim, one of the policeman a corporal, clamped handcuffs on her hand and told her to be cooperative as to follow them to the station. She protested very loudly and struggled to free herself, but it was too late, my mind was already made up. She ended up in tears making strong appeals to me but I kept a stony face. The policemen dragged my wife into the waiting van.

One of them came to me and asked to take her things wealong with her. I was shocked, because I bought everything in the house with my money. The sergeant kept his mouth shut when he saw the look on my face.
I gave him an address and asked him to drop my former wife in that address where her father lives.
Then I locked up the bungalow I bought for my 1st wife and joined my second wife in the estate.
you are a real man.

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Truckpusher(m): 3:39pm On Mar 31, 2022
grin grin

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by StDonE(m): 3:39pm On Mar 31, 2022
Clap for yourself! How come you already have a second wife so quick? Could it be that you have been sleeping and messing around that made your wife put up those attitudes. Mr Perfect, you exonerated yourself from any wrong doing in your marriage. You must be a bad ass overgrown baby.

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