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Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Yalwayzme: 10:38pm On Apr 09, 2022
Stop cooking up stories you're not crushing on your reverend, you find story and you will get it here on Nairaland
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by elinaxy(m): 10:40pm On Apr 09, 2022
AntiMen:
I'm married with two beautiful children..
I love my husband no doubt....
But I noticed that I'm beginning to like my reverend, I don't know how to explain this...
He is married with children too but we are kinda fond of each other...
How do I stop this unusual feeling , I can't stop going to church cos my husband would be mad at me.
the daddy g.o crew.equals olosho crew
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by mu2sa2: 10:40pm On Apr 09, 2022
Op's moniker is Antimen. How can you declare yourself anti- men and be crushing on a man? Lie-lie don suffer!
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by remzytimer: 10:41pm On Apr 09, 2022
AntiMen:
I'm married with two beautiful children..
I love my husband no doubt....
But I noticed that I'm beginning to like my reverend, I don't know how to explain this...
He is married with children too but we are kinda fond of each other...
How do I stop this unusual feeling , I can't stop going to church cos my husband would be mad at me.

Place a curse on that evil thought that God should kill you anytime you have that thought again and that is the end.
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Dickson178(m): 10:41pm On Apr 09, 2022
Just tell the Reverend exactly what you told us here. Know his reaction.
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by TruthinAction: 10:42pm On Apr 09, 2022
AntiMen:

Love isn't the word, you should understand how I'm feeling, like I always think of him and always want to have a conversation with him...

I can't hit on him, neither would I ruin either of our homes by having an affair with him, but how can I erase what I'm feeling about him?

Stop thinking about him. Resist that thought because every evil men do start from their thought life.

If you are a genuine believer, the scripture tells us what we should think about in Philipians 4:8.

Eve was deceived to eat the forbidden fruit because she permitted the thought to stay long in her heart.

Rebuke the thought in the mighty name of Jesus.

And begin to distant yourself from him. Talk less with him.

You must run for your life. Otherwise, you might just ruin your marriage and you may never recover from the shame and shock for years to come.
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by thursdayfri: 10:43pm On Apr 09, 2022
AntiMen:
I'm married with two beautiful children..
I love my husband no doubt....
But I noticed that I'm beginning to like my reverend, I don't know how to explain this...
He is married with children too but we are kinda fond of each other...
How do I stop this unusual feeling , I can't stop going to church cos my husband would be mad at me.

I don't know if you will see this reply or not but let me say it shaa.

I don't discourage crying to God, but after prayer you still need to be put up strict measure both on yourself and with the reverend, emotions is deceptive that's why it's good to think with one's head, nobody should force or expect anyone to attain any spiritual height at all, the more you get closer to God the more you know him. If you shun your reverend once he would have sense and behave himself. The ball lies in your court whether to keep your home and fight the rubbish lust or give in to lust and destroy your home, ministry and probably reverend marriage also.

You can check my post on nairaland on how I have hurt myself. If there's one thing I Know about lust, it's that don't give in at all because it Will be difficult to fight later. Even the bible said "We should give no place" to the devil.

As a Christian, know this, YOU ARE NOT WISER, CUNNIER OR SMARTER THAN THE DEVIL. SO BRACE UP NOW.
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by tradepunter: 10:44pm On Apr 09, 2022
Many of you are on your way to destruction... How can you be in the presence of God and be commiting adultery in your mind...

Meaning the word of God doesn't have any effect... Because it is evident that your mind is not been transformed or renewed...

Lastly stop blackmailing people with having two beautiful kids... We don't care, seek your path by engaging the word of God....

Majority of Nigeria women are like this... Claim spirituality but are toooo damn carnal in body, mind and soul.

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Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by thursdayfri: 10:45pm On Apr 09, 2022
AntiMen:
I'm married with two beautiful children..
I love my husband no doubt....
But I noticed that I'm beginning to like my reverend, I don't know how to explain this...
He is married with children too but we are kinda fond of each other...
How do I stop this unusual feeling , I can't stop going to church cos my husband would be mad at me.

If you give in to this and don't take strict measure and discard the rubbish feeling.

This is what will happen.

Reverend will fall for you because he's a man and by what you said he doesn't know much about how devil use things and circumstance to his advantage, even the bible said "He may appear as the angel of light"

Reverend Will fall, things will happen between you, husband will get to know, eventually leak out in church, this will affect marriage and ministry and cause other things you won't be able to withstand.

Israel it's now up to you to Choose the way of life or death. But I will advise you choose life. Flee from all as ppearance of lust. Save yourself. Feelings come and go.

Tomorrow if you see another person behaving like your reverend and more spiritual than him. Would you still fall for him.

Satan is trying to create a pattern don't allow him. RUN
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Noblewealth(m): 10:46pm On Apr 09, 2022
This is currently what I'm facing with a female colleague of mine at work... It was just yesterday she confessed to me that she's madly in love with me and this lady is happily married with a one child...

She has been disturbing with calls and sweet msg and I have been ignoring in all ways.. I don't want to report the case to my fiancee cos she's a no nonsense person..

Pls nairalanders advice me on what to do inother not to put her marriage in jeopardy and my own relationship to ruin..

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Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Zion243(m): 10:48pm On Apr 09, 2022
AntiMen:
I'm married with two beautiful children..
I love my husband no doubt....
But I noticed that I'm beginning to like my reverend, I don't know how to explain this...
He is married with children too but we are kinda fond of each other...
How do I stop this unusual feeling , I can't stop going to church cos my husband would be mad at me.



AntiMen is lusting after her Reverend
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by elooma: 10:49pm On Apr 09, 2022
I read your post and saw your sincerity.Church is a community and things can happen. I understand you're a lady and emotions most time creep into our subconscious and turn our thoughts. I ll tell you two things, see the Reverend as a Father. Then there are ways you can positively contribute to seeing him achieve goodness and build the flock committed to him. He's a shepherd and don't be the Lion that will scatter the flock. I can tell you more if you read and find it useful. Once more your openness is commended.You own much to your husband and Kids. If you wouldn't mind asking, what do you for supporting your family?. We might discuss to tell you how engaging in profitable things can divert your attention from compromising emotions to a better time things. Regards
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Bolsman(m): 10:51pm On Apr 09, 2022
AntiMen:
I'm married with two beautiful children..
I love my husband no doubt....
But I noticed that I'm beginning to like my reverend, I don't know how to explain this...
He is married with children too but we are kinda fond of each other...
How do I stop this unusual feeling , I can't stop going to church cos my husband would be mad at me.





It's possible to stop crushing on him. Since you could develop the thought to crush on him, you would also have to neuter the thought. Lobatan. If this doesn't help, that means ur case is different.
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Nobody: 10:52pm On Apr 09, 2022
AntiMen:
I'm married with two beautiful children..
I love my husband no doubt....
But I noticed that I'm beginning to like my reverend, I don't know how to explain this...
He is married with children too but we are kinda fond of each other...
How do I stop this unusual feeling , I can't stop going to church cos my husband would be mad at me.

You are possessed with the spirit of conji and greed.. you love your husband but you are feeling for your reverend.. may the holy spirit slap your face outta your confusion

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Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Akharmony: 10:52pm On Apr 09, 2022
if nah joke just stop am cos E no deh end well simple. . .
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by seyz91(m): 10:53pm On Apr 09, 2022
Ashawo dey your blood
AntiMen:
I'm married with two beautiful children..
I love my husband no doubt....
But I noticed that I'm beginning to like my reverend, I don't know how to explain this...
He is married with children too but we are kinda fond of each other...
How do I stop this unusual feeling , I can't stop going to church cos my husband would be mad at me.
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by NOwazobia: 10:54pm On Apr 09, 2022
Tales by moonlight.
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by elinaxy(m): 10:54pm On Apr 09, 2022
I can bet my balls that this is a forge story, a married woman can't expose herself this way even if she feels that way.
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by francisjochaim: 10:56pm On Apr 09, 2022
it has ever happened to me and I had to STOP WORK before I will ruin someone MARRIAGE and destroy my destiny,the Bible says "fle from TEMPTATION oooooooo �����������������������������������������
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by SmartPolician: 10:56pm On Apr 09, 2022
AntiMen:


If it will rest my head ,I don't mind, but no be me force feeling on myself.....did I?

I can help Bianca your face to reset your brain for free.
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by BESTScientist1: 10:56pm On Apr 09, 2022
AntiMen:

When I say I'm Antimen, I'm only against the bossy attitude of men, nothing more nothing less..and that doesn't stop me from loving or crushing on anyone....
It's just a feeling, im only Looking for ways to making it stop ,nothing more....
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by IDERAWOLE(m): 10:57pm On Apr 09, 2022
AntiMen:

Thanks for telling me the blunt truth, but my husband holds key position in the church, there's no reason I give that would be meaningful to him except I become opened about the issue...Actually I didn't get close to him, but he ( Reverend) seems to be interested in my spiritual life, often times he wants me do certain church activities which I usually dodge, since then each time he sees me in church, he doesn't fail to call my name, if I'm seated amongst my friends, he will call me, greet me and pass, every time , since then I began to have this funny feeling for him...

It's not that serious though but it's becoming intense unlike before.

If all you said thus far is true, then your Reverend isn't serious and may actually be terrorising your emotions by those funny callouts among the crowd.

He may actually be setting you up till both of you will be so engulfed in the heat and fire of your emotions and be ready to damn the consequences of your respective broken homes.

I think the spirit of God has been fair to you with all these warnings and your enablement to share this story in public.

My solution for you:

Schedule a counselling session for both of you to be handled by your Reverend.

Mention what you're going through without mentioning the pastor's name. Let him give whatever he wants to as counsel. I'm sure your husband will ask who the person is when you get home. There and then, tell him it's your Reverend. Except your husband is a dumb, he should believe you without any drama about this. If you want to cheat on him, you won't organize such a counselling session.

I'm ever sure the demon pushing either you or your Reverend to break the two homes will disappear.

Pray of course before setting up this counselling session.

Wish you all the best.

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Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Asseverywhere: 10:57pm On Apr 09, 2022
I have nothing to say for now till someone provokes me cool
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Tamer40(m): 10:58pm On Apr 09, 2022
[quote author=AntiMen post=111370417]I'm married with two beautiful children..
I love my husband no doubt....
But I noticed that I'm beginning to like my reverend, I don't know how to explain this...
He is married with children too but we are kinda fond of each other...
How do I stop this unusual feeling , I can't stop going to church cos my husband would be mad at me.[You are just writing fiction ]
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by shokzemo: 10:58pm On Apr 09, 2022
WOMEN ARE POLYGAMOUS ( FEMALE WORLD) IN NATURE NOWADAYS OH! WHILE MEN ARE FAITHFULL; JUST LIKE ANTIMEN, IS CRUSHING ON HER PASTOR FOR SEXUAL GRATIFICATION. PLEASE GO AHEAD AND MARRY HIM; SINCE THE FEELING IS MUTUAL. NA UR KPEKUS GO SUFFER..... BKOZ U GO DEY KOLECT 4RM BOTH!!!
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Jokkarm2: 10:58pm On Apr 09, 2022
You just wan nack your reverend and later you say is devil. Why not just open up to your husband you claimed you love? Then change church., Change activities, change your thonght.
You can not do this naaa madam , you are married with kids.

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Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Abiliboi: 10:59pm On Apr 09, 2022
I have come to realize that most disgraced pastors that lost their job and glory were as a result of this sort of situation. And one thing I know is that women fall in love easily with assertive, intelligent and neat men(attributes of a Reverend),as their name imply too. They command respect, smart too. Unfortunately, that thing in between their holy legs refused to be holy and picky. I don't have much to advise you, kindly pray against that lust, unwanted feelings the devil is planting in you before it is too late. Fast and pray. God will help you. �

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Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by ramaju: 10:59pm On Apr 09, 2022
AntiMen:
I'm married with two beautiful children..
I love my husband no doubt....
But I noticed that I'm beginning to like my reverend, I don't know how to explain this...
He is married with children too but we are kinda fond of each other...
How do I stop this unusual feeling , I can't stop going to church cos my husband would be mad at me.
Why always "I love my husband and blessed with beautiful children" and still want us to validate your adulterous tendencies?

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Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by thursdayfri: 11:00pm On Apr 09, 2022
Noblewealth:
This is currently what I'm facing with a female colleague of mine at work... It was just yesterday she confessed to me that she's madly in love with me and this lady is happily married with a one child...

She has been disturbing with calls and sweet msg and I have been ignoring in all ways.. I don't want to report the case to my fiancee cos she's a no nonsense person..

Pls nairalanders advice me on what to do inother not to put her marriage in jeopardy and my own relationship to ruin..


If the said lady find another man who higher quality than you, she'll break your heart and leave you, just as she's doing with her fiancee now because of you.

Do you get?

Be a stoic man and not a soy. Tell her you love someone even if she knew already and you aren't not ready for any rubbish or nonsense. Tell her what's she is insinuating can not be possible with you.

Try and be polite with her at first while saying it. If she seems unyielding. Be brutal. She'll respect you by respecting herself.

God will help you
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Legendoo: 11:00pm On Apr 09, 2022
Abunu

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