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Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Uniquetani1(f): 7:33pm On Apr 28, 2022
Bashnigga:
Do u need a sugar boy (abi na sugar baby sef) tongue


I don't want
Na husband I dey find
Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Bashnigga(m): 8:01pm On Apr 28, 2022
Uniquetani1:



I don't want
Na husband I dey find
mmmmm!! I love your honesty, I'm not looking for a sugar mummy either.

Happy searching smiley
Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by toujurs: 12:17am On Apr 29, 2022
GingerbreadMen:

But this is a good question to ask a guy,right??


It's crazy the number of girls that don't know how to converse either and think they are just too good to be the first to say 'Hi' or start a conversation!
Don't mind the fool, this is how the dumb ones feel, that is why boys just Bleep and dump them any how, mumu thing. Very dull thing, she doesn't know a conversation should be between two parties with interests and not a one parties giving the other party a reason to feel interested in the conversation, if you don't like the guy, just say it that you are not interested to have the conversation its simple, than seating there like a mumu to judge a guy effort, these is how dull ladies feel until guy bleeps are too much and dumps her then she would come out to nag how men are scum undecided

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Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by toujurs: 12:18am On Apr 29, 2022
Uniquetani1:



I don't want
Na husband I dey find
You can never get a husband, with that stupid thing you posted until you change how you reason
Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Uniquetani1(f): 5:47am On Apr 29, 2022
toujurs:
You can never get a husband, with that stupid thing you posted until you change how you reason

Shey na curse ni
I am advising you
Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Uniquetani1(f): 5:48am On Apr 29, 2022
toujurs:
Don't mind the fool, this is how the dumb ones feel, that is why boys just Bleep and dump them any how, mumu thing. Very dull thing, she doesn't know a conversation should be between two parties with interests and not a one parties giving the other party a reason to feel interested in the conversation, if you don't like the guy, just say it that you are not interested to have the conversation its simple, than seating there like a mumu to judge a guy effort, these is how dull ladies feel until guy bleeps are too much and dumps her then she would come out to nag how men are scum undecided


Better grow up
Men are truly scum
Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Uniquetani1(f): 5:55am On Apr 29, 2022
toujurs:
Don't mind the fool, this is how the dumb ones feel, that is why boys just Bleep and dump them any how, mumu thing. Very dull thing, she doesn't know a conversation should be between two parties with interests and not a one parties giving the other party a reason to feel interested in the conversation, if you don't like the guy, just say it that you are not interested to have the conversation its simple, than seating there like a mumu to judge a guy effort, these is how dull ladies feel until guy bleeps are too much and dumps her then she would come out to nag how men are scum undecided


Grow up
Men are truly scum
Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Nobody: 6:00am On Apr 29, 2022
Do you have money?

What will chatting with you or knowing you help a man achieve?
Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Uniquetani1(f): 10:02am On Apr 29, 2022
Fairmedia:
Do you have money?

What will chatting with you or knowing you help a man achieve?


Na people like you dey find sugar mummy grin
Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by vistarDex: 11:04am On Apr 29, 2022
I saw theses trend a day back, thought if I should comment, ops your post says alot about you, the energy you emit that the set of people, you will attract and not forgetting alot of Nigeria girls don't know how to maintain a meaningful conversation, they always what you to do the talking, while all they do is give you one word reply, don't even remember the last time I chat a Nigeria girl up either by Facebook or Whatsapp, because when I observed I am the only one doing the talking and the other party is not contributing, I just kill the chat I can't beg anybody to chat with me, before you say I might not have good conversational skill, I have chatted with a lady from another part of the planet and the conversation was natural, it's wasn't sth that was coaxed or force, and it's was fun I got to know about alot of things I didn't know before, sorry for the long typo and if they is any grammatical error.

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Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Collegelove: 11:10am On Apr 29, 2022
Uniquetani1:
Is it just me?
Most guys haven't grown up. They don't know how to make or start conversation with a lady.

You guys should be creative.
For instance, a guy chatting with a lady for the first time and asking if she has eaten.

Have you eaten?
Hope you have eaten?
What did you eat?

If I haven't eaten, what will you do about it? Will you order me food?
What did I eat? Are you asking because you are hungry?

Another thing
Asking what did you do for a living?
I don't understand, are you broke? Do you need money? Are you looking for a sugar mummy?

Lastly, send me your full pic
For what?

It's an advice tho

It's an advice
Hahaha. You cracked me up here. And that's why they should simply purchase my e-book and learn some tricks.
Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Uniquetani1(f): 11:59am On Apr 29, 2022
Collegelove:
Hahaha. You cracked me up here. And that's why they should simply purchase my e-book and learn some tricks.


You will pay for this advert
Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Collegelove: 12:22pm On Apr 29, 2022
Uniquetani1:



You will pay for this advert
Hahaha.
Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by LagBae(f): 12:47pm On Apr 29, 2022
Uniquetani1:
Is it just me?
Most guys haven't grown up. They don't know how to make or start conversation with a lady.

You guys should be creative.
For instance, a guy chatting with a lady for the first time and asking if she has eaten.

Have you eaten?
Hope you have eaten?
What did you eat?

If I haven't eaten, what will you do about it? Will you order me food?
What did I eat? Are you asking because you are hungry?

Another thing
Asking what did you do for a living?
I don't understand, are you broke? Do you need money? Are you looking for a sugar mummy?

Lastly, send me your full pic
For what?

It's an advice tho

It's an advice

That 'send me your full pic' can be annoying. As if they are doing interview undecided. Some would even see your picture on your dp and still be asking you to send them your pictures.

Then they would now add 'so tell me more about yourself'. No be mini interview be dat
Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Uniquetani1(f): 12:50pm On Apr 29, 2022
LagBae:


That 'send me your full pic' can be annoying. As if they are doing interview undecided. Some would even see your picture on your dp and still be asking you to send them your pictures.


As in
Very true, I will be like "eye is paining this one"
Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Crystalsweetnes(f): 1:03pm On Apr 29, 2022
I think guys should first find out the things they have in common, or maybe a general topic like politics, the weather, ask if she reads, if she does then you discuss books. You get to know her better and have things t o talk about rather than asking her if she has eaten. Chatting with her for the first time shouldn't be more than 5mins at most. Make her comfortable and free then you will know she is a talkative. Not every body can start a conversation but most people just need a little push. You are the one coming to her so you should already have what to say. Most girls are not boring, it's either she doesn't like you or maybe she is not interested or doesn't know much about the topic you present.

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Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Nobody: 1:09pm On Apr 29, 2022
Uniquetani1:


I am looking for a husband
If he no get today, he go get tomorrow

You will just die single with these your so called requirements...if he wants to marry you you think he wont ask what you do for a living?...keep fooling yourself...even the right man for you can pass you by cause you're already a liability
Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Oblivionz5(m): 1:16pm On Apr 29, 2022
Uniquetani1:
Is it just me?
Most guys haven't grown up. They don't know how to make or start conversation with a lady.

You guys should be creative.
For instance, a guy chatting with a lady for the first time and asking if she has eaten.

Have you eaten?
Hope you have eaten?
What did you eat?

If I haven't eaten, what will you do about it? Will you order me food?
What did I eat? Are you asking because you are hungry?

Another thing
Asking what did you do for a living?
I don't understand, are you broke? Do you need money? Are you looking for a sugar mummy?

Lastly, send me your full pic
For what?

It's an advice tho

It's an advice

Lol like y’all know how to reply properly
Wahala for who Dey chase girls tho �

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Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Uniquetani1(f): 1:22pm On Apr 29, 2022
Oblivionz5:


Lol like y’all know how to reply properly
Wahala for who Dey chase girls tho �

Na because na small small girls una dey chase angry
Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Collegelove: 1:24pm On Apr 29, 2022
Chatting with a lady is very simple. What I do first of all, is to be funny. Like saying hey, you were born on Sunday while I was born on Monday. Hope you don't mind chatting with an ugly face like me? Most times, I get response like no, you aren't ugly.

Furthermore, next thing is make up. Then once I notice your interest level in me is going high, I'll begin to delay responding to you and will say, I would call you later. Once a woman is waiting for your call, then her interest level towards you is high. Everything becomes much easier thereafter. cheesy cheesy
Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Collegelove: 1:34pm On Apr 29, 2022
Uniquetani1:



I don't want
Na husband I dey find
How old are you? Maybe we can work something out.
Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Oblivionz5(m): 3:08pm On Apr 29, 2022
grin grin wink
Uniquetani1:


Na because na small small girls una dey chase angry

Make I come chase the old cargoes wey them don chop and dump tire. Them come see say time don Dey pass them come calm down Dey form submissive woman

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Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Uniquetani1(f): 6:36pm On Apr 29, 2022
Collegelove:
How old are you? Maybe we can work something out.


E se
They said you are a hater of women
Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Collegelove: 6:42pm On Apr 29, 2022
Uniquetani1:



E se
They said you are a hater of women
LOL, that's really funny. I am not a gay, you know?

Send me a private message. We need to talk.
Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Nobody: 7:27pm On Apr 29, 2022
Collegelove:
LOL, that's really funny. I am not a gay, you know?

Send me a private message. We need to talk.

Its guys like you that make all these small girls continue to have their stupid inflated sense of ego...stop engaging them ffs

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Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Collegelove: 7:32pm On Apr 29, 2022
sollolucci77:


Its guys like you that make all these small girls continue to have their stupid inflated sense of ego...stop engaging them ffs
OK man. Thnks.
Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Hoodyrich(m): 9:20pm On Apr 29, 2022
You deh whine me ni?

When all of us knows hunger is Paramount in Naija..

Mind you a hungry man is a angry man
Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Gkemz: 9:30am On May 04, 2022
If he doesn't ask that, you'd call him a selfish man who doesn't care about your well-being.

Women and confusion... That's why you guys end up with people who later turn you to punching bags or bring in second wives having ignored the nice ones who showed concern earlier.
Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Uniquetani1(f): 10:45am On May 06, 2022
Gkemz:
If he doesn't ask that, you'd call him a selfish man who doesn't care about your well-being.

Women and confusion... That's why you guys end up with people who later turn you to punching bags or bring in second wives having ignored the nice ones who showed concern earlier.


I thought the society placed men above women, whether a woman has a career or not. It is the duty of the man to provide for her. Isn't that what the society stated?

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Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by maestro299: 11:41am On May 06, 2022
Uniquetani1:
Is it just me?
Most guys haven't grown up. They don't know how to make or start conversation with a lady.

You guys should be creative.
For instance, a guy chatting with a lady for the first time and asking if she has eaten.
K
Have you eaten?
Hope you have eaten?
What did you eat?

If I haven't eaten, what will you do about it? Will you order me food?
What did I eat? Are you asking because you are hungry?

Another thing
Asking what did you do for a living?
I don't understand, are you broke? Do you need money? Are you looking for a sugar mummy?

Lastly, send me your full pic
For what?

It's an advice tho

It's an advice
I was expecting you, after all the ranting, to give tips on the types of questions a guy should ask or conversation topics he could use with you guys. But no. You ladies don't even have a clue. But you expect a man to 'read your mind' and find out what you are 'interested' in Besides, why can't you start a conversation with a guy. Then you'll have an idea of how difficult it is to talk to another human being.

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Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Uniquetani1(f): 11:49am On May 06, 2022
maestro299:
I was expecting you, after all the ranting, to give tips on the types of questions a guy should ask or conversation topics he could use with you guys. But no. You ladies don't even have a clue. But you expect a man to 'read your mind' and find out what you are 'interested' in Besides, why can't you start a conversation with a guy. Then you'll have an idea of how difficult it is to talk to another human being.


Isn't it the society standard that man should make every move first?

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Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by PrinceofAgoAre(m): 12:18pm On May 06, 2022
Premiumwriter:
Says the gender that can't start a conversation with a guy.
Abi!!!

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