cococandy:



yea but broke men are the ones trying to become rich. hence they are more likely to do extreme stuff for money. Which makes a woman more prone to danger. No?

Y’all just like blame women instead of holding yourselves accountable

Will you just stop with the mouth, woman??

There are variants to this shiit. Have you heard of hotspot before? It's a situation where a nice looking girl who dated a yahoo boy is not killed outright but laced with charms designed to suck the MB(life source) of any man who sleeps with her. She won't die or anything like that but she would be a conduit for riches through those who sleep with her.
For example, let's say Luminouz meet fat mouth cococandy and wants to marry her(which I won't do because she is such a troublemaker) but she dated a yahoo boy in the past who made her a hotspot. Marrying cococandy would have me lose my income, job and all such..and may even cause worse because the hotspot keeps sucking my MB.

Get it now?

Funny thing is, there is a female version of this too.

I recommend that you read some of Bisi Adewale's books on singles and married.
I believe I will be of help. Thank you

pozehnani:
This calls for serious concern especially for the female folk as ladies are the ones at the receiving end of this whole cruelty and madness of ritualism that has become the order of the day in our already decaying society.

The rate at which female body parts are being ripped on a daily basis by their supposed boyfriends and lovers leaves me wondering if one can still have a genuine guy/relationship without having to watch your back that he's going rip your organs the next minute.

Right now, its very difficult to agree to date a guy without the fear or thoughts of being used for rituals because the heart of every Young guy/man has been seered with a hot iron and so hardened and desperate to make money at all cost that they wont think twice when presented with an opportunity to do money rituals.

These days if a guy approaches me, I walk as fast my legs can carry me and I'm most tempted to scream "ritualist!!!!
It is that bad.
A guy can not approach you and the next thing on your mind is rituals. Like seriously, its appalling.

Please, with this rising trend of killing and havesting female body parts, is it still advisable to accept guys/ mens advances talk more dating them?. And don't even begin to tell me to go to my religious circle because they are everywhere. Some are disguising as bro in the church. In fact 90% percent of men are desperate to get rich quick therefore can be easily influenced by this evil trend.

What should we single ladies do?
Avoid men totally?

I like my life abeg.

Sad.
.. I

If u date someone that's legit, he shouldn't be taking you to hotels, except u both travel out of his place of residence. And always tell a friend, family member your moves and who ur with, also be cautious if he calls u up for a date with a strange number other than his registered sim, evil has enveloped d land.God help us!

luminouz:


With the picture on your profile, which sane Naija man go toast you. We need something soft, not those iron looking muscles.
I have a genuine income. The real question is, are you worth it? How am I sure you are different from the other shakushaku babes out there?

What's wrong with the pics? Iron?
I don't want body shammers

Simple. Dont marry Yoruba

Uniquetani1:



What's wrong with the pics? Iron?
I don't want body shammers

Please lemme alone.

The last thing I want is a man like me, sucking my diick!!!

You didn't answer my second query

Hmm. Na lady dey write dis one, wen do we guys also complain about the female folks wey dey lock guys destiny with their waist beads and all those silly stuffs? And this one don Dey happen tey tey.

The thing is that no one can be truly trusted these days again, we are at the end times where even husbands and wives dey use themselves for money ritual. Na only God know who fear am for mind o.

Papa n mama selves dey use their children…… pikin dey use their mama….. siblings dey use themselves all because of money o.

For the ladies sha, support your guys even if he is still struggling…. Maybe his breakthrough sef fit dey ur hand and please stop being greedy by wanting to live the SM lifestyle. And above all put your relationship into God’s hands.

You can actually find genuine spouse if you reduce your greed.

This ritual thing is also most commonly triggered by the ladies.

A good percentage of your 90% that are desperate to make money are pushed by the ladies through Contempt.

This is like being hunted by the very fire you help stir.

It is really a thing of concern that we hear all of these everyday. The new trend of those ladies getting killed and their organs ripped off is heartbreaking. It shows the extent evil has gone and the quest for ladies to become rich overnight. Those prostitutes that have overtime sold their destinies by sleeping with every Tom ,dick and Harry are not left out.please ladies, do not allow any form of financial condition push you into dirty deals. It is not worth it at all. What happens with selling tomatoes or groundnuts no matter how small ? It would blossom and open other doors of opportunities with time if you commit fully into it.

Pejumolabalie:
Simple! Date broke men

But rituals (or potential ) are broke people that want shortcut to riches

When you stop choosing guys who drive cars over those who don’t. Not all that glitters is gold.

ZUBY77:
Simple. Dont marry Yoruba

Exactly, you're 100% right. Marry a Yoruba woman at your own peril

luminouz:


Please lemme alone.

The last thing I want is a man like me, sucking my diick!!!

You didn't answer my second query

I am a rare gem, a princess, best of the best.
E wo ni shakushaku
I trust myself

Desperados:



Mak we dey sincere wit each other, na the girls dey kill themselves because of their greed.




There are good focused hardworking guys even here on Nairaland but when they approaches this same girls, they look them as broke.


Majority of Nigerian girls wants to date a guy driving car without knowing the source.




There are advises been passed to this same girls daily but they don't pay heed to it.




THE RITUAL KILLINGS OF GIRLS WILL CONTINUE UNTIL THEIR GREED & LUST AFTER MONEY IS QUENCHED....


(drops pen).

There are greedy ladies everywhere even in Europe and America who desert broke men for fraudulent men, but how many times do you hear of ritual killings in such societies. What is evil is evil, don't divert our attention from the problem, the elephant in the room.

pozehnani:
This calls for serious concern especially for the female folk as ladies are the ones at the receiving end of this whole cruelty and madness of ritualism that has become the order of the day in our already decaying society.

The rate at which female body parts are being ripped on a daily basis by their supposed boyfriends and lovers leaves me wondering if one can still have a genuine guy/relationship without having to watch your back that he's going rip your organs the next minute.

Right now, its very difficult to agree to date a guy without the fear or thoughts of being used for rituals because the heart of every Young guy/man has been seered with a hot iron and so hardened and desperate to make money at all cost that they wont think twice when presented with an opportunity to do money rituals.

These days if a guy approaches me, I walk as fast my legs can carry me and I'm most tempted to scream "ritualist!!!!
It is that bad.
A guy can not approach you and the next thing on your mind is rituals. Like seriously, its appalling.

Please, with this rising trend of killing and havesting female body parts, is it still advisable to accept guys/ mens advances talk more dating them?. And don't even begin to tell me to go to my religious circle because they are everywhere. Some are disguising as bro in the church. In fact 90% percent of men are desperate to get rich quick therefore can be easily influenced by this evil trend.

What should we single ladies do?
Avoid men totally?

I like my life abeg.

Sad.
.. I

A part from getting partner everything one is doing in this life need precaution, no where is save not only ladies are victim is both gender, this is what to do 1, don't create unnecessary fear in your heart 2, let people around you know where you are going and the person you want to go and see 3, don't neglect anybody but do your findings seriously before you decide on what to do 4, but your lifestyle will determine how God will see you through

pozehnani:


It is scary and I sincerely pray it passes quickly because many ladies are due for marriage and it will only plunge them into longer waiting and delay if this thing lingers on more than necessary.

For now, Everyone is a suspect until proven otherwise but how? How can you be sure for certain that such an one is not a potential ritualist without moving close due to fear?

Humanity has lost it!

Only God can save his own.

Avoid young men with unverifiable source of income.


He drives a luxury car, he lives in a highbrow area of the city, he is below 35yrs, he doesn't have a well known business or lucrative job, he is not from a well established rich family, just run.



When you see a young man obsessed with flashy dress style, loves Zazu, Davido, Wizkid, and other wealth flashing hiphop artistes and most of his friends are young, rich without known lucrative job or business, there is high possibility he is into crime.



As a lady, reduce your own desire for worldly things like latest iphones, costliest hair, best makeup, latest designer bag, etc, and be realistic with your expectations from guys. It is time for our ladies to reposition their minds and reorient themselves.


Date realistically.


Owning an iphone is not a sign of affluence or better life, when your female friend who isn't working to earn such is using an iphone and her parents or siblings arent rich and didn't buy it for her, just be wary of her and instead of admiring her and trying to outshine her, instead pity her and advice her to be very careful.

Mrkcee:

True, ladies who are diabolic have little or no regard for the DESTINY of boys. U sleep with them, u bid ur luck & destiny GOODBYE. They could also use men to renew their anti-evil protection spells, even for money rituals proper.

My advice to innocent guys...
1) Avoid woman.
2) Fear woman
3) Control ur pencil
4) AVOID & FEAR WOMAN!

lol..this is serious case..if we avoid opposite sex..who now are we going to meet...chai this world no sweet again...angel Gabriel blow trumpet please.

Tboymessiah:
NasoLifeBe!!!

Very easy just flock with ur bird mate.

Be serious with life find something doing, then men will take u serious.

But the lady murdered inside the BRT was minding her business

Uniquetani1:


I am a rare gem, a princess, best of the best.
E wo ni shakushaku
I trust myself

Ehn ehn.... Shey Iwo Le toju okunrin daada. Shey Iwo mo ounje and obe se.

I no want the best if the best that can't boil water o

yesloaded:
Avoiding men is not the solution

Don't date someone you don't know what he does for a living

Some girls saw the red flag but will still go ahead because they want to roll with big boys. I'm not saying girls should date guys who had no plan for brighter future but stop looking for guys who drive Benz with no legit source of income

The other day a guy selling phone at Computer village used her gf for money rituals.
Yes the girl knows what heroes for a living but does that stop him from using her

Marry that friend who became your best friend. - The Cool Guy

The type of men you go for determines your fate

Chasegb:
When you stop choosing guys who drive cars over those who don’t. Not all that glitters is gold.

What is the guarantee that guys who don't drive are not looking for means to also acquire one?

Desperados:



Mak we dey sincere wit each other, na the girls dey kill themselves because of their greed.




There are good focused hardworking guys even here on Nairaland but when they approaches this same girls, they look them as broke.


Majority of Nigerian girls wants to date a guy driving car without knowing the source.




There are advises been passed to this same girls daily but they don't pay heed to it.




THE RITUAL KILLINGS OF GIRLS WILL CONTINUE UNTIL THEIR GREED & LUST AFTER MONEY IS QUENCHED....


(drops pen).

This is what I said before see this man post.

The solution is simple, reduce your greed.

Mindlog:


Being broke does not mean the person is not thinking of hammering.

They are the ones most desperate to hammer. How about women who are abducted, minding their own business, going their own way. It is not only girls following men that fall victim. And how about women in relationships? You are with a regular guy, thinking you're planning and building for tomorrow, not knowing he's dissatisfied with his lot and is ready to do anything to 'make it'. Then her value to him starts to increase but not in the way she thinks. Happened to a woman my Mum knows. Long term relationship with a regular guy. Too shocking.

pozehnani:
What are your views guys and ladies?

Let's not keep quiet and pretend like these things don't happen or they are only fictional or things you see only on social media. They are real!!!!

The number of good guys actually outnumber the evil minded ones... But, many of your sisters will consistently overlook them because they are not 'financially fit'!

In today's economy, a guy is spending money faster than Dangote yet no verifiable income stream... Or has clear red flags about his movements and associations, but a lot of you ignore those signs... Why?!!! Because you want the easy life on the fast lane!

OP why did you wrote every guy/man?

People are getting married in Nigeria every weekend.

JoyousFurnitire:


But the lady murdered inside the BRT was minding her business

Very true, some men and women are victims of kidnap, not relationship issues

8stargeneral:
lol..this is serious case..if we avoid opposite sex..who now are we going to meet...chai this world no sweet again...angel Gabriel blow trumpet please.

Shineoneday:
As a lady try n be industrious in life ,try they hustle your own money , one of the reason most of those girls fall victim into the hands of ritualist is because of them chasing after money ! N that's one way to lure them to their death
By the time u get your own money the over dependency no go de...

Gud guys admire lady that is hardworking and earning something not becoming a liability to them esp for this hard economy u no go except person to fund all ur bills

U see small guys with big life una no go get sense reason where d money de come una go jump follow am, good guys de but if them they woo una , una no de look their face na the one we get money una de see

Last Las na God get power

abeg help me tell them well.


Cococandy


Come see the answer to the question you asked me in my mention.


if you nor understand, na ur headache.

nairalee:
From the village.

The ones that everyone knows their family. That one u can be reasonably sure of what you're getting involved with

This! actually.

Although one of the recent killings in Lagos was of a guy that travelled to the village, did wedding or introduction with a lady just to bring her to Lagos for ritual.

But your opinion will go a long way provided each party are loyal.

Plus not just village. It could be neighborhood too. We should go back to the very old way of dating.

damosky12:
The key word is Right Places.

The question is where do you go to look for a spouse? The chances that you'd find an ideal spouse in a dance/strip club, house party, hotel, WizKid music concert, bar, smoking joint, brothel, etc. are low.

The fact is that there are many many marriageable girls and boys out there. But you rarely find them in the above-named places. They spend the bulk of their time in their school libraries, active in their churches, at their homes, in the market, etc.

Where and how you meet someone you want to get serious with likely tells a lot about them.

You nailed it.