Dear Nairalanders, permit me to join forces in asking ladies (confused gender) "what do you seek in a potential mate?".

This is my Love Relationship Story.

I met her online, immediately, we clicked and the vibes was madt. We started dating, we started good. She was below my spec but I strongly believe in growth. I took the pain to grow her up. I came into her life, changed a lot, encouraged and was strong-willed to see her become a better version of herself - responsible and mature. Though Spiritually weak, I encourage and supported her, giving her smart advice to grow her business. Her family members came to love and appreciate me, signing my praises.

Moreso, I encouraged her to study/read personal development books, provided good books but her reply "books no be my thing". I was supportive financially, emotionally, intelligently et al. I became her strength and column (pillar).

She met a Young Man who's spiritually-minded, intelligent, calculative, hard/smart working, knowledgeable, productive, honest, supportive, creative, understanding, kind, confident, good dressing sense, clean, ambitious, goal/vision oriented, a good paying job. She called me answer to her prayer for a perfect man.

The problem.

Constantly, we were having issues upon issues, I accused her of cheating, not paying attention to the needs of the relationship. She spends 23/24hrs on social media (FB Messenger, WhatsApp and TikTok). On several occasions, I cautioned and complained, but my complaints resulted from issues to issues. I sat her down on many occasions, advised her on the need to be a woman rather than a girl.

She's good with words but not a doer of her words. She keeps account and memories of misunderstanding. After settling issues, she records and safe-keep issues in her memory. During misunderstanding, she calls my family members to report and complain, rather than call me to settle issues. She rubbish me before her family members (she get first class for that one), while I sing her praises to my family members. I don correct her tire, but no way. Na a norm to her.

The Breakfast.

Nairalanders, on a Sunday Sunny Afternoon, while encouraging her to be positive rather than be negative, she served me breakfast, highlighting that we aren't compatible. See mind

I'm an introvert, she's an extrovert. She light up my quiet life, she was the spark of the relationship.

Immediately after the breakup, she was in another relationship. Thus, I was right when I told her she was cheating on me. She made TikTok videos, dancing and was uploading via status.

Guess who she's dating? For breakup wey never reach 3weeks? Someone I was far better than, someone who isn't above me in any ramification. Actually, she was Double Dating.

Remember, I wasn't perfect, I had my own flaws.

Ladies, what do you want in a man?


Rocktation
Farano

Vanessa wants A... Jane wants B... Candace wants C...

Women are individuals... Each has preferances...

Learn what your women wants... It would stop you from fu**ing up then coming here to ask a very childish question...

Couldn't even read this epistle... Stop whining!

Take heart bruh, you'll love again

Wonderful

ContinentalBwoy:
Dear Nairalanders, permit me to join forces in asking ladies (confused gender) "what do you seek in a potential mate?".

This is my Love Relationship Story.

I met her online, immediately, we clicked and the vibes was madt. We started dating, we started good. She was below my spec but I strongly believe in growth. I took the pain to grow her up. I came into her life, changed a lot, encouraged and was strong-willed to see her become a better version of herself - responsible and mature. Though Spiritually weak, I encourage and supported her, giving her smart advice to grow her business. Her family members came to love and appreciate me, signing my praises.

Moreso, I encouraged her to study/read personal development books, provided good books but her reply "books no be my thing". I was supportive financially, emotionally, intelligently et al. I became her strength and column (pillar).

She met a Young Man who's spiritually-minded, intelligent, calculative, hard/smart working, knowledgeable, productive, honest, supportive, creative, understanding, kind, confident, good dressing sense, clean, ambitious, goal/vision oriented, a good paying job. She called me answer to her prayer for a perfect man.

The problem.

Constantly, we were having issues upon issues, I accused her of cheating, not paying attention to the needs of the relationship. She spends 23/24hrs on social media (FB Messenger, WhatsApp and TikTok). On several occasions, I cautioned and complained, but my complaints resulted from issues to issues. I sat her down on many occasions, advised her on the need to be a woman rather than a girl.

She's good with words but not a doer of her words. She keeps account and memories of misunderstanding. After settling issues, she records and safe-keep issues in her memory. During misunderstanding, she calls my family members to report and complain, rather than call me to settle issues. She rubbish me before her family members (she get first class for that one), while I sing her praises to my family members. I don correct her tire, but no way. Na a norm to her.

The Breakfast.

Nairalanders, on a Sunday Sunny Afternoon, while encouraging her to be positive rather than be negative, she served me breakfast, highlighting that we aren't compatible. See mind

I'm an introvert, she's an extrovert. She light up my quiet life, she was the spark of the relationship.

Immediately after the breakup, she was in another relationship. Thus, I was right when I told her she was cheating on me. She made TikTok videos, dancing and was uploading via status.

Guess who she's dating? For breakup wey never reach 3weeks? Someone I was far better than, someone who isn't above me in any ramification. Actually, she was Double Dating.

Remember, I wasn't perfect, I had my own flaws.

Ladies, what do you want in a man?

the problem started when you started investing or your time money energy ,rule number one ,never invest in any woman that is not your mother or sister ,2 women don't like nice guys ,they always finish last ,if like heed to this advice if like skip ,I we here for more premium tears

Dating Nigerian women is nothing but a waste of time and effort.

Congratulations son ,

Next time , have sense , swallow the red pill �

ContinentalBwoy:
Dear Nairalanders, permit me to join forces in asking ladies (confused gender) "what do you seek in a potential mate?".

This is my Love Relationship Story.

I met her online, immediately, we clicked and the vibes was madt. We started dating, we started good. She was below my spec but I strongly believe in growth. I took the pain to grow her up. I came into her life, changed a lot, encouraged and was strong-willed to see her become a better version of herself - responsible and mature. Though Spiritually weak, I encourage and supported her, giving her smart advice to grow her business. Her family members came to love and appreciate me, signing my praises.

Moreso, I encouraged her to study/read personal development books, provided good books but her reply "books no be my thing". I was supportive financially, emotionally, intelligently et al. I became her strength and column (pillar).

She met a Young Man who's spiritually-minded, intelligent, calculative, hard/smart working, knowledgeable, productive, honest, supportive, creative, understanding, kind, confident, good dressing sense, clean, ambitious, goal/vision oriented, a good paying job. She called me answer to her prayer for a perfect man.

The problem.

Constantly, we were having issues upon issues, I accused her of cheating, not paying attention to the needs of the relationship. She spends 23/24hrs on social media (FB Messenger, WhatsApp and TikTok). On several occasions, I cautioned and complained, but my complaints resulted from issues to issues. I sat her down on many occasions, advised her on the need to be a woman rather than a girl.

She's good with words but not a doer of her words. She keeps account and memories of misunderstanding. After settling issues, she records and safe-keep issues in her memory. During misunderstanding, she calls my family members to report and complain, rather than call me to settle issues. She rubbish me before her family members (she get first class for that one), while I sing her praises to my family members. I don correct her tire, but no way. Na a norm to her.

The Breakfast.

Nairalanders, on a Sunday Sunny Afternoon, while encouraging her to be positive rather than be negative, she served me breakfast, highlighting that we aren't compatible. See mind

I'm an introvert, she's an extrovert. She light up my quiet life, she was the spark of the relationship.

Immediately after the breakup, she was in another relationship. Thus, I was right when I told her she was cheating on me. She made TikTok videos, dancing and was uploading via status.

Guess who she's dating? For breakup wey never reach 3weeks? Someone I was far better than, someone who isn't above me in any ramification. Actually, she was Double Dating.

Remember, I wasn't perfect, I had my own flaws.

Ladies, what do you want in a man?

You were a nice man. Be a good man and not a nice man!

Nice men are always left heartbroken. I said, ALWAYS!!

In your next relationship, take lessons learned in this.

Nice men always tend to 'understand' even when they shouldn't. I saw in another thread where one nice man said he always call his girl to settle whatever misunderstanding they have irrespective of who is at fault. That's a true nice man there! He will be served sooner or later..


Number 1 rule of dating women... Never make her know that you can't do without her even if you can't. Love to a limit.

It doesn't guarantee that you won't be served bfast but it will keep her in check.

My longest relationship so far has been with a girl I treated anyhow. They're confused lots. Man up and see her submit! Even if you have money but remain a nice man, your funds will be used to bankroll a real man. Stop the pussy worshipping! MAN the eff UP y'all, will ya?

See ya

BoredBerry:
Vanessa wants A... Jane wants B... Candace wants C...

Women are individuals... Each has preferances...

Learn what your women wants... It would stop you from fu**ing up then coming here to ask a very childish question...

Couldn't even read this epistle... Stop whining!

You reason like a child �

Take heart bruh... U did your best, but next time don't invest much

ContinentalBwoy:
Dear Nairalanders, permit me to join forces in asking ladies (confused gender) "what do you seek in a potential mate?".

This is my Love Relationship Story.

I met her online, immediately, we clicked and the vibes was madt. We started dating, we started good. She was below my spec but I strongly believe in growth. I took the pain to grow her up. I came into her life, changed a lot, encouraged and was strong-willed to see her become a better version of herself - responsible and mature. Though Spiritually weak, I encourage and supported her, giving her smart advice to grow her business. Her family members came to love and appreciate me, signing my praises.

Moreso, I encouraged her to study/read personal development books, provided good books but her reply "books no be my thing". I was supportive financially, emotionally, intelligently et al. I became her strength and column (pillar).

She met a Young Man who's spiritually-minded, intelligent, calculative, hard/smart working, knowledgeable, productive, honest, supportive, creative, understanding, kind, confident, good dressing sense, clean, ambitious, goal/vision oriented, a good paying job. She called me answer to her prayer for a perfect man.

The problem.

Constantly, we were having issues upon issues, I accused her of cheating, not paying attention to the needs of the relationship. She spends 23/24hrs on social media (FB Messenger, WhatsApp and TikTok). On several occasions, I cautioned and complained, but my complaints resulted from issues to issues. I sat her down on many occasions, advised her on the need to be a woman rather than a girl.

She's good with words but not a doer of her words. She keeps account and memories of misunderstanding. After settling issues, she records and safe-keep issues in her memory. During misunderstanding, she calls my family members to report and complain, rather than call me to settle issues. She rubbish me before her family members (she get first class for that one), while I sing her praises to my family members. I don correct her tire, but no way. Na a norm to her.

The Breakfast.

Nairalanders, on a Sunday Sunny Afternoon, while encouraging her to be positive rather than be negative, she served me breakfast, highlighting that we aren't compatible. See mind

I'm an introvert, she's an extrovert. She light up my quiet life, she was the spark of the relationship.

Immediately after the breakup, she was in another relationship. Thus, I was right when I told her she was cheating on me. She made TikTok videos, dancing and was uploading via status.

Guess who she's dating? For breakup wey never reach 3weeks? Someone I was far better than, someone who isn't above me in any ramification. Actually, she was Double Dating.

Remember, I wasn't perfect, I had my own flaws.

Ladies, what do you want in a man?


Rocktation
Farano

Ever since I left people daughters alone ( in the case of romance )
My life has been straightforward



Jesus is the ONLY way ❤️

Wanna read from kollins...

ContinentalBwoy:
Dear Nairalanders, permit me to join forces in asking ladies (confused gender) "what do you seek in a potential mate?".

This is my Love Relationship Story.

I met her online, immediately, we clicked and the vibes was madt. We started dating, we started good. She was below my spec but I strongly believe in growth. I took the pain to grow her up. I came into her life, changed a lot, encouraged and was strong-willed to see her become a better version of herself - responsible and mature. Though Spiritually weak, I encourage and supported her, giving her smart advice to grow her business. Her family members came to love and appreciate me, signing my praises.

Moreso, I encouraged her to study/read personal development books, provided good books but her reply "books no be my thing". I was supportive financially, emotionally, intelligently et al. I became her strength and column (pillar).

She met a Young Man who's spiritually-minded, intelligent, calculative, hard/smart working, knowledgeable, productive, honest, supportive, creative, understanding, kind, confident, good dressing sense, clean, ambitious, goal/vision oriented, a good paying job. She called me answer to her prayer for a perfect man.

The problem.

Constantly, we were having issues upon issues, I accused her of cheating, not paying attention to the needs of the relationship. She spends 23/24hrs on social media (FB Messenger, WhatsApp and TikTok). On several occasions, I cautioned and complained, but my complaints resulted from issues to issues. I sat her down on many occasions, advised her on the need to be a woman rather than a girl.

She's good with words but not a doer of her words. She keeps account and memories of misunderstanding. After settling issues, she records and safe-keep issues in her memory. During misunderstanding, she calls my family members to report and complain, rather than call me to settle issues. She rubbish me before her family members (she get first class for that one), while I sing her praises to my family members. I don correct her tire, but no way. Na a norm to her.

The Breakfast.

Nairalanders, on a Sunday Sunny Afternoon, while encouraging her to be positive rather than be negative, she served me breakfast, highlighting that we aren't compatible. See mind

I'm an introvert, she's an extrovert. She light up my quiet life, she was the spark of the relationship.

Immediately after the breakup, she was in another relationship. Thus, I was right when I told her she was cheating on me. She made TikTok videos, dancing and was uploading via status.

Guess who she's dating? For breakup wey never reach 3weeks? Someone I was far better than, someone who isn't above me in any ramification. Actually, she was Double Dating.

Remember, I wasn't perfect, I had my own flaws.

Ladies, what do you want in a man?


Rocktation
Farano

Yes, she's right. You're not compatible. It's better that things go south now rather than later.

You're the reading type, she's not. What would you be discussing when you should be discussing titles of books you have read? Who moved my Cheese? As a man thinketh....
This TikTok thing Ehn! Mtcheeew! Common sense should tell you to be wary of anyone who spends 24/7 on social media. For a week I may not open any of my accounts. It's the reason some of us are not popular here. Work has choked up our time.


Well, eat your breakfast with shoulders raised and watch out for future leeches that would want to reap where they didn't sow.

Samakus:


You were a nice man. Be a good man and not a nice man!

Nice men are always left heartbroken. I said, ALWAYS!!

In your next relationship, take lessons learned in this.

I'll never stop being a good person. Rather, I'll change who I was good to.

ContinentalBwoy:


I'll never stop being a good person. Rather, I'll change who I was good to.

Don't stop being a good man pls. But STOP being a nice man! Maka ndu gi

Cheers

Hmmmm....Makachi some of them are confused and don't even know what they want in life...learn not to give your all in any useless ship, being in a relationship is not an achievement, now watch how you will grow financially without stress or burden from anybody...!!

N:B...she will come back begging like they always do, but make sure you ghost her like she never existed

You go can be the best man in the whole world and a woman will cheat on you with a lowlife.My bro it doesn't make you loose your value.She is the one that lost something valuable.

BoredBerry:
Vanessa wants A... Jane wants B... Candace wants C...

Women are individuals... Each has preferances...

Learn what your women wants... It would stop you from fu**ing up then coming here to ask a very childish question...

Couldn't even read this epistle... Stop whining!

Smally rest naw...!! You will be here advising elders and married couples on romance section while in reality you just wrote jamb last month hope your result came out nice

ContinentalBwoy:


I'll never stop being a good person. Rather, I'll change who I was good to.

Please sir,I need you to read this book,It will help a lot with your next relationship....I,myself,haven't gotten there, but I know we will all get it right someday if we keep trying to be the best version of ourselves....One more thing sir, please stay away from redpillers!!!

PS: Ignore the title of the book and focus more on its content!!!

Ok