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My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Nobody: 4:55pm On Jun 23, 2022
Just the other day I met a girl of 17yrs, after I gave her a simple lift because it was raining, she was probably standing at the entry of the mall, so she followed after me immediately I stepped out of the mall and pleaded for a ride, I obliged her and was nice to her and that was it. She insisted her mother thanked me, who was sitting outside her shop, I stepped out to greet her, we had a good conversation, finally I gave them some money and my business card and left.

Guys, since 3days now they have been bombarding me with calls and text, omo the little girl has been so demanding, asking me to buy her a phone, that her mom’s cream and perfume just finished, and that her mom needed money to boost her business and so on, I have been listening to them without saying much, the unfortunate mom even called “to know howfar with what the daughter discussed with me”, also addressing me as “my love” Gross! I don’t understand why they feel so entitled without any form of relationship with me, are people in this country insane or something?

I finally called the girl and had an intense conversation with her, I asked her why she was demanding things from a man or even demanding things at all, she boldly said that most men want sex and if that’s what I want no problem as long as I help them. To be honest, it was at this moment my people that I realised how beautiful this little girl was (I mean built curvy body, firm breasts, baby lips, cute face, bold brown eyes, curly hair and all) I took in all those details in 1sec and the temptation came, but being me (a boy who stabbed a girl in eyes for touching my peniss in primary sch.) I was disgusted and embarrassed, I can never descend so low for any reason not to talk of an underage. So after I scolded her. She cried and told me that I wouldn’t understand, that she was doing all for her mom and that her dad abandoned them and she feels a sense of responsibility to her family. I didn’t press further, obviously the case is beyond me, I’m no counsellor, I’ve my own problems, so I’ve decided to block and forget about them.

Now, my question is when did we get here, what happened to our morality. At 17 my sisters would either be in sch, church, choir practice, fetching water or at home, even though there were no mobile phones then but you’d know where and what your girl child was doing at every moment. Where do we go from here? And mostly importantly, what’s going to happen to the next generation after ours? I’m cold scared guys, this world has become a strange place.

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For those who think it’s a fake story, at least find the pony first, before you open your mouth waaaah! Oh and by the way your opinion is irrelevant!

For all the underdeveloped minds below criticising me for giving out my card, to ease your brain load, here’s why:

We got to talking and our conversation took a good turn, we talked about business and I hoped that somehow they would have need or know people that have need of my services, thus, my giving them my biz card. That’s how all successful business ppl get referrals and business deals.

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Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by MufasaLion: 4:55pm On Jun 23, 2022
The reason for all this your write-up is because you gave out your business card. You did it willingly and they didn't ask you to, which was unnecessary of you.

You've learnt your lesson.

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Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Malory: 4:58pm On Jun 23, 2022
First tell us the reason why you gave her your business card if you don't have something on your mind.

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Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by YeyeGbami: 4:59pm On Jun 23, 2022
No be today e start, we’ve lost moral and decency. Na hunger and greed remain.

If a helper shares their contact with you, that doesn’t mean you should start begging for money. What happen to asking for job or something reasonable?

To the extent that the teen even offered sex, the mama sef na runs mam.

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Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by temitope27(m): 5:00pm On Jun 23, 2022
U and the girl na idiot together

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Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Rastaramsey(m): 5:01pm On Jun 23, 2022
Fake story grin

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Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Chaos14: 5:14pm On Jun 23, 2022
You think these gen Z's are bad these baby boomers can say anything. They already know sex at the age of 8

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Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Mariangeles(f): 5:25pm On Jun 23, 2022
Her standing outside the mall was not by chance, it is her MO, and you're probably not the first she's asked for a ride.
Also, she's in on it (whatever the plan is) with her mother.

And you, what did you give her your business card for?
You're not innocent yourself.

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Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Ebubu4: 5:39pm On Jun 23, 2022
Mariangeles:
Her standing outside the mall was not by chance, it is her MO, and you're probably not the first she asked for a ride.
Also, she's in on it (whatever the plan is) with her mother.

And you, what did you give her your business card for?
You're not innocent yourself.
cooked story. he complicited himself by saying he gave her business card

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Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Afamsi: 5:40pm On Jun 23, 2022
MufasaLion:
The reason for all this your write-up is because you gave out your business card. You did it willingly and they didn't ask you to, which was unnecessary of you.

You've learnt your lesson.
You are right. He presented himself as their destiny helper

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Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by JOACHINpedro: 6:27pm On Jun 23, 2022
ceaseruso:
Just the other day I met a girl of 17yrs, after I gave her a simple lift because it was raining, she was probably standing at the entry of the mall, so she followed after me immediately I stepped out of the mall and pleaded for a ride, I obliged her and was nice to her and that was it. She insisted her mother thanked me, who was sitting outside her shop, I stepped out to greet her, we had a good conversation, finally I gave them some money and my business card and left.

Guys, since 3days now they have been bombarding me with calls and text, omo the little girl has been so demanding, asking me to buy her a phone, that her mom’s cream and perfume just finished, and that her mom needed money to boost her business and so on, I have been listening to them without saying much, the unfortunate mom even called “to know howfar with what the daughter discussed with me”, also addressing me as “my love” Gross! I don’t understand why they feel so entitled without any form of relationship with me, are people in this country insane or something?

I finally called the girl and had an intense conversation with her, I asked her why she was demanding things from a man or even demanding things at all, she boldly said that most men want sex and if that’s what I want no problem as long as I help them. To be honest, it was at this moment my people that I realised how beautiful this little girl was (I mean built curvy body, firm breasts, baby lips, cute face, bold brown eyes, curly hair and all) I took in all those details in 1sec and the temptation came, but being me ( a boy who stabbed a girl in eyes for touching my peniss in primary sch ) I was disgusted and embarrassed, I can never descend so low for any reason not to talk of an underage. So after I scolded her. She cried and told me that I wouldn’t understand, that she was doing all for her mom and that her dad abandoned them and she feels a sense of responsibility to her family. I didn’t press further, obviously the case is beyond me, I’m no counsellor, I’ve my own problems, so I’ve decided to block and forget about them.

Now, my question is when did we get here, what happened to our morality. At 17 my sisters would either be in sch, church, choir practice, fetching water or at home, even though there were no mobile phones then but you’d know where and what your girl child is doing at every moment. Where do we go from here? And mostly importantly, what’s going to happen to the next generation after ours? I’m cold scared guys, this world has become a strange place.

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Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Internet22: 7:29pm On Jun 23, 2022
But why do I find it difficult to believe this story
Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Oizee(f): 8:13pm On Jun 23, 2022
Internet22:
But why do I find it difficult to believe this story
bcuz of the stupidity of the op.
Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by ABANGWABOI(m): 8:17pm On Jun 23, 2022
The poverty in Nigeria should be of advantage to Men that are comfortable and know their game.. but No.. they would still SIMP for a girl when ladies full everywhere..
Op if na me be you.. I go Fvck both mother and daughter..
I go dey Fvck two of them simultaneously..

Oluwa thank you for the poverty in Naija.. it gives Coordinate Men many options..
Shame on any single or married dude Wailing about his partner when he can have a truck load of hot women to Fvck..

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Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by tayo60(f): 8:31pm On Jun 23, 2022
She came to the mall for parole, na olosho she be, and the useless mother too.

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Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:48pm On Jun 23, 2022
- why did you give them ways to contact you again?!?!?
- what was the aim of that act?
- why would you even give a 17yr old child a ride (and possibly be labelled a kidnapper)?
- why didnt you simply give that 17yr old child transport fare and basta?!?!?
- why do you even care of what they are asking you now?
- why cant you simply ignore/block/forget them?

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Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Nobody: 8:55pm On Jun 23, 2022
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Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by LadySarah: 9:01pm On Jun 23, 2022
You should have lambasted the mother!Bulk of the blame goes to her and I'm sure shss pimping the girl for prostitution purposes cos her own hoe phase is closing.

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Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Nobody: 9:24pm On Jun 23, 2022
YeyeGbami:
No be today e start, we’ve lost moral and decency. Na hunger and greed remain.

If a helper shares their contact with you, that doesn’t mean you should start begging for money. What happen to asking for job or something reasonable?

To the extent that the teen even offered sex, the mama sef na runs mam.

About the only reasonable post here, my dear I said we got to talking and our conversation took a good turn, we talked about business and I hoped that somehow they would have need or know people that have need of my services, thus, my giving them my biz card. That’s how all successful business ppl get referrals and business deals.

These people negatively criticising me are either children under their parent’s care or illiterates who can’t think critically. I don’t like using profanity but I also hate ppl who don’t think before talking. So I won’t even bother quoting the low brains.

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Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Nobody: 9:27pm On Jun 23, 2022
Ebubu4:

cooked story. he complicited himself by saying he gave her business card
Your belief/unbelief is irrelevant, my dear. Go where your contribution is valued.

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Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by RepoMan007: 9:29pm On Jun 23, 2022
Later some will say men are this and that if they see a big boy with 17 yo.
Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by jamesversion: 9:31pm On Jun 23, 2022
ceaseruso:
Just the other day I met a girl of 17yrs, after I gave her a simple lift because it was raining, she was probably standing at the entry of the mall, so she followed after me immediately I stepped out of the mall and pleaded for a ride, I obliged her and was nice to her and that was it. She insisted her mother thanked me, who was sitting outside her shop, I stepped out to greet her, we had a good conversation, finally I gave them some money and my business card and left.

Guys, since 3days now they have been bombarding me with calls and text, omo the little girl has been so demanding, asking me to buy her a phone, that her mom’s cream and perfume just finished, and that her mom needed money to boost her business and so on, I have been listening to them without saying much, the unfortunate mom even called “to know howfar with what the daughter discussed with me”, also addressing me as “my love” Gross! I don’t understand why they feel so entitled without any form of relationship with me, are people in this country insane or something?

I finally called the girl and had an intense conversation with her, I asked her why she was demanding things from a man or even demanding things at all, she boldly said that most men want sex and if that’s what I want no problem as long as I help them. To be honest, it was at this moment my people that I realised how beautiful this little girl was (I mean built curvy body, firm breasts, baby lips, cute face, bold brown eyes, curly hair and all) I took in all those details in 1sec and the temptation came, but being me (a boy who stabbed a girl in eyes for touching my peniss in primary sch.) I was disgusted and embarrassed, I can never descend so low for any reason not to talk of an underage. So after I scolded her. She cried and told me that I wouldn’t understand, that she was doing all for her mom and that her dad abandoned them and she feels a sense of responsibility to her family. I didn’t press further, obviously the case is beyond me, I’m no counsellor, I’ve my own problems, so I’ve decided to block and forget about them.

Now, my question is when did we get here, what happened to our morality. At 17 my sisters would either be in sch, church, choir practice, fetching water or at home, even though there were no mobile phones then but you’d know where and what your girl child is doing at every moment. Where do we go from here? And mostly importantly, what’s going to happen to the next generation after ours? I’m cold scared guys, this world has become a strange place.

Give me the girl number make I coordinate. I'm willing to give her money.

Thanks.
Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Ventriprise: 9:33pm On Jun 23, 2022
op , you no sabi block person number or what?
Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Internet22: 9:42pm On Jun 23, 2022
ceaseruso:

Your existence on earth is of no consequence to the grand scheme of things, so your belief/unbelief is irrelevant, my dear. Go where you’re valued.

I can see you're frustrated already, your anger is not with me lady part grin
Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Nobody: 10:04pm On Jun 23, 2022
MrBrownJay1:
- why did you give them ways to contact you again?!?!?
- what was the aim of that act?
- why would you even give a 17yr old child a ride (and possibly be labelled a kidnapper)?
- why didnt you simply give that 17yr old child transport fare and basta?!?!?
- why do you even care of what they are asking you now?
- why cant you simply ignore/block/forget them?

Bro, I don’t know how old you are but think of it like this, it’s pouring heavily you see a girl your daughter’s age running after you for a ride, and you refuse her, Seriously?

I gave her mom my card because we discussed business as I mentioned above, I hoped for referrals not this!

Lastly, of course I can block and forget but it’s also imperative to share stories like this, for others to learn and contemplate. Same reason you read books, to learn/understand perspectives/concepts/events from the author’s view. I’m also an int’l published author so pardon my compulsion to pen down everything.

But on a more serious note, we must ask ourselves questions; how we got here and where we’re going with this level of social decadence.

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Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by kelechi50: 10:24pm On Jun 23, 2022
A truck loaded up with multiple problems
ABANGWABOI:
The poverty in Nigeria should be of advantage to Men that are comfortable and know their game.. but No.. they would still SIMP for a girl when ladies full everywhere..
Op if na me be you.. I go Fvck both mother and daughter..
I go dey Fvck two of them simultaneously..

Oluwa thank you for the poverty in Naija.. it gives Coordinate Men many options..
Shame on any single or married dude Wailing about his partner when he can have a truck load of hot women to Fvck..
Please ask some of your friends that are into fucking around they're experience. lipsrsealed

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Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Nobody: 10:54pm On Jun 23, 2022
MufasaLion:
The reason for all this your write-up is because you gave out your business card. You did it willingly and they didn't ask you to, which was unnecessary of you.

You've learnt your lesson.

You’re wrong my dear, the reason for my “write-up” is to share my experience, educate and entertain. You sound bitter, you people should be reading with understanding before commenting.

It’s a message my dear not a lesson, and the message is for saner minds, who will do the best they can to revive morality in our society.

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Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Nobody: 10:57pm On Jun 23, 2022
temitope27:
U and the girl na idiot together

From your poor wordings, you’re surely one of the very uneducated street miscreant roaming up and down the streets of NL, looking for who to drag down to your level with your underdeveloped brain.

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Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by MufasaLion: 11:06pm On Jun 23, 2022
ceaseruso:


You’re wrong my dear, the reason for my “write-up” is to share my experience, educate and entertain. You sound bitter, you people should be reading with understanding before commenting.

It’s a message my dear not a lesson, and the message is for saner minds, who will do the best they can to revive morality in our society.

Keep being arrogant after being foolish. You gave them your card all because of what? Mr Superman!

I won't dignify you again with a response.

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Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Nobody: 11:13pm On Jun 23, 2022
Oizee:
bcuz of the stupidity of the op.
I’ve viewed your profile (including posts et al) in my attempt to profile you, and somehow despite your (f) indication, I feel like you’re a poor little boy who’s scared of crawling out of his closet. You feel intimidated and insignificant in a very vast and fast-paced world, so you express your disappointment and fear hiding behind a small smartphone in your comfortable bed waiting for mama’s next meal.

You lack the wisdom and emotional intelligence to survive in an advancing world, you’d probably understand my words better when your parents have passed on and your siblings have their own families to look after.

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Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Nobody: 11:18pm On Jun 23, 2022
MufasaLion:


Keep being arrogant after being foolish. You gave them your card all because of what? Mr Superman!

I won't dignify you again with a response.

Why the name calling, huh? You’re the foolish one here, in fact your foolishness is quite amusing. Why are you pained that I gave people my card? Is it your card? Hahahaha wahala

It’s obvious that you’re sick in the head and you can’t even read not to talk of understand. Now, my homework for you is to keep reading this thread over and over until you understand why I gave someone my card ok wink dull brain slow of understanding

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Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Nobody: 11:29pm On Jun 23, 2022
Smh

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