Why does this always happen please?
Packing out soonest.
Done.
11years, 3kids.
Dusted.
Kudos to the successful ones out there.
This is my fate.
Am happy and unhappy

Wow

Now tell me how this thread would add value to a common man's life?

If you're done pack your things and leave is not a do or die affair

OK, where are you packing to?

What is your definition of good men & bad girls

My sister marriage no be endurance, Marriage na full time enjoyment.. money or no money.

Safe journey sha

Divoc19:

Packing out soonest.

Nigeria, I hail thee!

It would be the other way around in another country. Many Japarians dey suffer, but they no fit talk.

Come make i wife you

Divoc19:
Why does this always happen please?
Packing out soonest.
Done.
11years, 3kids.
Dusted.
Kudos to the successful ones out there.
This is my fate.
Am happy and unhappy

Sorry about your marriage.

Would you care to expatiate?

The other way how?

WrksOnMyMachine:


Nigeria, I hail thee!

It would be the other way around in another country. Many Japarians dey suffer, but they no fit talk.

Not in all cases like attracts like

Not in all cases too. Opposite attracts. I don't know why

Holluwhakemmy:
Not in all cases like attracts like

Sad to hear, care to share what really happened

Just like any assertion,it is sometimes true but not always true.
If you asked Op to mention 5 marriages he knew where the husband/wife is good and the wife/husband is bad,he won't be able.

The truth about this subject is

Bad people always end u with good people, because the know better and the can manipulate a good person into marriage.
Two bad people won't work, becos them know themselves

Divoc19:
Why does this always happen please?
Packing out soonest.
Done.
11years, 3kids.
Dusted.
Kudos to the successful ones out there.
This is my fate.
Am happy and unhappy

Just have it at the back of your mind that you aren't going to remarry because your chances are really slim now. You aren't going to get genuine love from men especially after having 3 kids. The streets is cold.

Ensure that you're financially stable else you'll experience premium suffering in this life.

I wish you Goodluck.

Opposite attracts

Aunty Divoc19 what happened? I've always loved you. I've always admired you.I've always cherished you.I've always prayed for you in my subconscious mind.But what's going on again?

I can't believe i am shedding tears...It reminds me of the pains my mum went thru coz my dad and step mom were just too abusive! I love you aunty and always bear at the back of your mind that a 19-yr-old boy named Victor Divine who grew up in Jalingo, Taraba, now in Houston, Texas, LOVEs you so much.

Dont know why am too emotional about this, but aunty take care.God is with you.

You are making me tear up too. It's was a tough pill to swallow because I use to form strong woman. I'll keep updating.

Thanks for your love and prayers

ObamaMessi:
Aunty Divoc19 what happened? I've always loved you. I've always admired you.I've always cherished you.I've always prayed for you in my subconscious mind.But what's going on again?

I can't believe i am shedding tears...It reminds me of the pains my mum went thru coz my dad and step mom were just too abusive! I love you aunty and always bear at the back of your mind that a 19-yr-old boy named Victor Divine who grew up in Jalingo, Taraba, now in Houston, Texas, LOVEs you so much.

Dont know why am too emotional about this, but aunty take care.God is with you.

Yes. This is the reality of my time.
I can't do marriage/slavery again.
Finances to make the little ones know that life can be better. I am very hard-working. With God on my side. I'll do better.
Thank you

blinking001:

Ensure that you're financially stable else you'll experience premium suffering in this life.

I wish you Goodluck.

Very true, they sometimes turn good to bad. They are so manipulative by hiding their other side while the good people will be praying and be hopeful till their death.

ustanejnr:
The truth about this subject is
Bad people always end u with good people, because the know better and the can manipulate a good person into marriage.
Two bad people won't work, becos them know themselves

Divoc19:
Why does this always happen please?
Packing out soonest.
Done.
11years, 3kids.
Dusted.
Kudos to the successful ones out there.
This is my fate.
Am happy and unhappy

If it had nothing to do with domestic violence,I don't support it you leaving. Except you know you will face the children and remain single. Not later you will start dragging a married man.

You planned the divorce long before now which is why you chose this your username. Why don't you get over with it already and leave us the fucck alone while at it. I'm sick and tired of one sided stories and accusations.

Nonexisting:
You planned the divorce long before now which is why you chose this your username. Why don't you get over with it already and leave us the fucck alone while at it. I'm sick and tired of one sided stories and accusations.

The meme got me. You're a violent trouble maker I swear

There is no accusations here.
Am only expressing myself to my Nairaland family without changing/creating a new Monika.

Nonexisting:
You planned the divorce long before now which is why you chose this your username. Why don't you get over with it already and leave us the fucck alone while at it. I'm sick and tired of one sided stories and accusations.

Divoc19:
Very true, they sometimes turn good to bad. They are so manipulative by hiding their other side while the good people will be praying and be hopeful till their death.

I hope it's not the usual where the man refuses to work, always demands sex, never in anyway useful to the home/family, only exists for sex and the woman slaves away. Na Dem full outside. They won't allow responsible mehn marry never.

The issues are plenty.
But I will need space before I lose my sanity.

JBriel:



I hope it's not the usual where the man refuses to work, always demands sex, never in anyway useful to the home/family, only exists for sex and the woman slaves away. Na Dem full outside. They won't allow responsible mehn marry never.

Divoc19:
The issues are plenty.
But I will need space before I lose my sanity.

I have a feeling you are young. Re-marrying after three kids is strictly on God o. If I can chip in a word. I'll prefer you suggest to your inner being it as brief seperation and consider re-engagement, but without telling him.

It is manage one manages a spouse at times in this life

Looking at many disgusting fools here supporting the woman.
You guys don't even know whether she was a useless wife, a stupid cheat or simply an irresponsible woman.
She might even be the oppressor.

But because na woman, fools and stupid idiots like y'all up there dy offer encouragement.

This woman might be more evil than the devil himself. She might have been a disgusting thorn in her husband's flesh. Now the man has woken up and will no longer tolerate her excesses.

But stupid, rabid dogs like y'all commenters up there are all supporting the woman.

Nonsense!

What if it is the other way round?

It's always good to be rational when dealing with your fellow human.

satandeterrible:
Looking at many disgusting fools here supporting the woman.
Nonsense!