I am emotionally down honestly. If not that I am hearing this from her, I won't believe that a Man could be this cold towards his wife.

This lady is my one and only best friend. As a matter of fact, I was nursing plans to marry her but man never make it. We never had sex.

Well, she got married and our conversation slow down. I deliberately slow it down so as to respect her marriage.

One day I decided to call, the husband picked and warned me never to call her again. Omoh I was shocked.

Days after she called and apologized and explained how the man has completely changed and is maltreating her to the extend of beating her and emotional abuse. We spoke consistently and unfortunately, she left the marriage.

She came to my city was staying with her elder brother. We spoke for some time and I went off cos I didn't want to get too close so as not to attract emotional feelings.

Well, after some months, she blocked me from reaching her. For 9 months we haven't been in touch.

Yesterday she sent me a chat with a strange phone Facebook that I should give her my number. Since Yesterday, she has been pouring her emotional trauma on me.
Her marriage is hell. Emotional abuse, insults, beating.

As I am typing, she is still talking on phone. She is done with the marriage and wants to leave but she is scared of her son that's 1 year and 2 months old.

I really feel bad for her and don't even know how to help her.
It is painful. She is my best friend.

This lady is my one and only best friend.

We never had sex.

We spoke consistently and unfortunately, she left the marriage.

For 9 months we haven't been in touch.

One day I decided to call, the husband picked and warned me never to call her again. Omoh I was shocked.

I was nursing plans to marry her but man never make it.

If not that I am hearing this from her, I won't believe that a Man could be this cold towards his wife.

We spoke for some time and I went off cos I didn't want to get too close so as not to attract emotional feelings.

As I am typing, she is still talking on phone .

The devil will be surprised at who sent you! Wtf! Why can't you leave people's wives alone!!!!!

The cost of Olosho have risen recently.

Can you imagine to chop without touching breast now cost as much as 1k

Nawa o

Girl made SIMP her friend, and actually puts him friend-zone.
Simp actually thought girl would marry her him.
Girl used SIMP as emotional tampon every time there's heartbreak.
Girl got knocked up by the Tyrone.
Girl has a kid for the Chad.
Girl got battered by Tyrone.
Now girl remembers the Simp she left.
SIMP gonna become a cuck and step-daddy .

Don't be Mr SIMP.

Presently, equally battling with that of my close friend also. They only just separated and I am wondering why some men can be so heartless.

She has three boys for my friend and I am wondering what those boys will grow up to be with the kind of parenting they are been exposed to. People should learn I beg.

Had a colleague at DPR far back, a senior management officer who was killed by his two sons in cold blood, they did not pity him that he is crippled.

Men please, if you cannot marry her when the breast are no longer gorgeous and attractive don't go close at all. Women never stays the same, they will always be lots of changes.

My major concern is the life of those kids with epileptic parenting system. I feel for them.

InfinityFabric:
Girls made SIMP her friend, and actually puts him friend-zone.
Simp actually thought girl would marry her.
Girl used SIMP as emotional tampon every time there's heartbreak.
Girl got knocked up by the Tyrone.
Girl has a kid for the Chad.
Girl got battered by Tyrone.
Now girl remembers the Simp she left.
SIMP gonna become a cuck and step-daddy .

Don't be Mr SIMP.

I swear, why she was talking, I remember all of you in Nairaland. This Man character is typical of most Nairaland guys here.
Walahi, nah God go help Una. This Una mindset about women won't help you guys.

Continue.

Felimax:
Presently, equally battling with that of my close friend also. They only just separated and I am wondering why some men can be so heartless.

She has three boys for my friend and I am wondering what those boys will grow up to be with the kind of parenting they are been exposed to. People should learn I beg.

Had a colleague at DPR far back, a senior management officer who was killed by his two sons in cold blood, they did not pity him that he is crippled.

Men please, if you cannot marry her when the breast are no longer gorgeous and attractive don't go close at all. Women never stays the same, they will always be lots of changes.

My major concern is the life of those kids with epileptic parenting system. I feel for them.

Guy shun, some men are heartless.
And they are majority of such men on Nairaland. By their comments you will know them.

Bloody Narcissists

So what do you want us to do for you now since you yourself don't know how to help her?

loosecanon50:
So what do you want us to do for you now since you yourself don't know what to do?

Don't be a bloody Narcissist . That's what I want

SteveDGreat:


I swear, why she was talking, I remember all of you in Nairaland. This Man character is typical of most Nairaland guys here.
Walahi, nah God go help Una. This Una mindset about women won't help you guys.

Continue.

Guy go face your wife or go work harder to have more & better choices instead waiting to tap from a used good.
She chose him, now want to run from the consequences. It's called responsibility.

Just tell us when she finally marries you.

SteveDGreat:


Guy shun, some men are heartless.
And they are majority of such men on Nairaland. By their comments you will know them.

Bloody Narcissists

A lot of them here I swear down you are right. All products of failed marriages or single parenting.

In cold blood that colleague of mine was killed by his own children whom he has rejected a very long time ago. He was in the staff quarters amidst security but how they gained entrance and kill the father surprised us all. For months they security attached to his apartment were roasting in Asaba until investigation revealed it was his boys that killed him, lots of stories like these.

Felimax:


A lot of them here I swear down you are right. All products of failed marriages or single parenting.

In cold blood that colleague of mine was killed by his own children whom he has rejected a very long time ago. He was in the staff quarters amidst security but how they gained entrance and kill the father surprised us all. For months they security attached to his apartment were roasting in Asaba until investigation revealed it was his boys that killed him, lots of stories like these.

Incomplete storiy, children don't go round killing every parents that rejected them

You can start helping her by advising her to get something doing with her life, she either get a job or start a business that Atleast she too can say she is making money, then with it will be easier for her to leave the marriage if she want to without thinking on how she go survive

mystery22:
Incomplete storiy, children don't go round killing every parents that rejected them

I will not give you complete details because I want people to be responsible. The man deserve what he gets eventually.

sadly, you have to be honest with this woman....SHE chose that man, SHE married that man, SHE had a baby by that man, SHE decided to stay with that abusive man ....so whatever she is telling you now, is irrelevant to the wrong choices SHE made. dont be drawn into her drama as if you were responsible for it.

now suddenly she is all over you , as if you were "captain save an abused wife".... pls do remember that all her yeye drama will come to your life, if/when you start messing with her.

SteveDGreat:
Yesterday she sent me a chat with a strange phone Facebook that I should give her my number .
Since Yesterday, she has been pouring her emotional trauma on me. Her marriage is hell. Emotional abuse, insults, beating. As I am typing, she is still talking on phone . She is done with the marriage and wants to leave but she is scared of her son that's 1 year and 2 months old .
I really feel bad for her and don't even know how to help her .It is painful. She is my best friend

What she likely needs is a mental health therapist to help her deal with and eventually offload the garbage she is packing from what you say was a toxic marriage - emotional and physical abuse - so, advise her to engage one of those as soon as possible.

As for leaving her marriage, she and her ex-to-be should probably consider engaging the aide of a marriage counsellor on that, this is to help her confront the reality of her situation head-on and decide once and for all what is best for her and her kids. According to your story, you had stated she left the marriage 9 months earlier, yet you claim while she spoke recently to you, she spoke as one who was back in the marriage. So, it is possible she is not sure whether she is ready to leave or not. Professional marriage counselling is a good way to help her face the truth of her marriage, and do the right thing for herself. Let your friend decide her own future by herself.

Didn't read your post. Let me get to the crux of the matter.

Don't just be emotional wastebin


Supply her some penis pipe as a good friend.

SteveDGreat:


Don't be a bloody Narcissist . That's what I want

Stop being a bloody sissy and unnecessary emotional bank. Maybe that will do you some good

Can you stay folks's marriages alone

techWriter3:
Can you stay folks's marriages alone

What are you afraid of?

InfinityFabric:
Guy go face your wife or go work harder to have more choices instead waiting to tap from a used good. She chose him, now want to run from the consequences. It's called responsibility.
Just tell us when she finally marries you.

What responsibility do you mean abeg?

Kobojunkiee:
What responsibility do you mean abeg?

is her new husband rich.? cause there's no way he didn't display any of these sociopathic behaviour when they were dating but she probably over looked them. now she is crying to you.





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SteveDGreat:
I am emotionally down honestly. If not that I am hearing this from her, I won't believe that a Man could be this cold towards his wife .

This lady is my one and only best friend . As a matter of fact, I was nursing plans to marry her but man never make it . We never had sex.

Well, she got married and our conversation slow down. I deliberately slow it down so as to respect her marriage .

One day I decided to call, the husband picked and warned me never to call her again. Omoh I was shocked .
Days after she called and apologise and explain how the man has completely changed and is maltreating her to the extend of beating her and emotional abuse . We spoke consistently and unfortunately, she left the marriage .
She came to my city was staying with her elder brother.
We spoke for some time and I went off cos I didn't want to get too close so as not to attract emotional feelings.
Well, after some months , she blocked me from reaching her . For 9 months we haven't been in touch .

Yesterday she sent me a chat with a strange phone Facebook that I should give her my number .
Since Yesterday, she has been pouring her emotional trauma on me.
Her marriage is hell. Emotional abuse, insults, beating.
As I am typing, she is still talking on phone . She is done with the marriage and wants to leave but she is scared of her son that's 1 year and 2 months old .
I really feel bad for her and don't even know how to help her .
It is painful. She is my best friend

You caan still help her

nooboody:
is her new husband rich.? cause there's no way he didn't display any of these sociopathic behaviour when they were dating but she probably over looked them. now she is crying to you.

Not all sociopaths turn out the same. Also, some wait till marriage to fully express those wicked urges as society does encourage in some men the idea that by getting a wife, they earn the right to afflict her as they choose as she is some sort of property designed specifically for such.

So, she married a sociopath, is she shackled for life or something? IS she meant to sit tight and wait until he knocks her brains out before she cries for help?

SteveDGreat:
I am emotionally down honestly. If not that I am hearing this from her, I won't believe that a Man could be this cold towards his wife .

This lady is my one and only best friend . As a matter of fact, I was nursing plans to marry her but man never make it . We never had sex.

Well, she got married and our conversation slow down. I deliberately slow it down so as to respect her marriage .

One day I decided to call, the husband picked and warned me never to call her again. Omoh I was shocked .
Days after she called and apologise and explain how the man has completely changed and is maltreating her to the extend of beating her and emotional abuse . We spoke consistently and unfortunately, she left the marriage .
She came to my city was staying with her elder brother.
We spoke for some time and I went off cos I didn't want to get too close so as not to attract emotional feelings.
Well, after some months , she blocked me from reaching her . For 9 months we haven't been in touch .

Yesterday she sent me a chat with a strange phone Facebook that I should give her my number .
Since Yesterday, she has been pouring her emotional trauma on me.
Her marriage is hell. Emotional abuse, insults, beating.
As I am typing, she is still talking on phone . She is done with the marriage and wants to leave but she is scared of her son that's 1 year and 2 months old .
I really feel bad for her and don't even know how to help her .
It is painful. She is my best friend

You want to sleep with a married woman abi. How can you be doing bestie with someone who u had interest in and is now married. Don't worry you will soon start consoling her with your Willie Wille.

Comot hand for husband and wife matter. If she want to break up it is solely her decision.

Ok

Ok

lol

Mumu Man, face your front and leave peoples wives alone.
Next na 2 by 2 them go use wipe you