JESHAL:


You said you want a woman that is going to contribute her income with you in the home, you said that because she's post wall she will accept your terms

JESHAL:
All women are Hypergamous that is they want better, taller and stronger, it's their innate nature when selecting for a partner, but the issue is the ruthlessness Nigeria girls advance their hypergamy, the don't want to add value at all to the man, only to extract and extract, no matter how much a woman makes she wants someone higher or at least on the same income, but men can date women regardless of income bracket because [b]innately we have that providers instinct [/b]and burden of performance that is intrinsical to the masculine.

BigBashiru:


Not entirely true... the provider instinct is not unconditional....

JESHAL:



Typically it's sexual access and submission with her adhering to her feminine roles.

Zabiboy:

Do you have some Fat?( looking at your family, are you likely to be fat) if yes, you can start with light exercises like Jogging, skipping, sit-ups for now. Main focus should be consistency and building endurance..
If you are lean, you can start bulking up. You can also do little light exercises that doesnt burn much fat like sit-ups, calf-raises, light push-ups.
Aside the physical aspect, Always try to enjoy the mental part too.
Goodluck bro..

Oshokhai69:


Guy make I give you honest advice wey go serve you well for life. Go and hustle while you are still young and comot eye for toto matter!

Shittaakeem:

Bro I'm lean I want to gain muscles. I need tips and kind of foods to eat and avoid.

JESHAL:
Beta male quickly had sense

BigBashiru:


Seems ur stuck in traditional gender roles....times hv changed and gender roles are not set in stone....

broshowfar:
In all my interactions with women i keep two things in mind be open and non judgemental and women would tell you everything especially the truth and in all these interactions i have with women post wall and hoe phase the same conversations spring up. Yes we want a man who is financially ok but does he know his way around my sexuality a.k.a can he Bleep good. Today's women are willing to settle for the financial security but would cheat so as to meet their sexual demands. The sooner men start acquiring this knowledge rather than humping away thinking they are doing a great job the better. A man should be striving to improve all aspects of himself body, mind, soul and spirit. Why ignore your masculine sexuality and think money would replace such? Every aspect of your life needs constant improvement. So if as a man looking at LTR with a woman you shy away from your fitness, sexuality and focus on money then enjoy the repercussions. Cheers

JESHAL:
All women are Hypergamous that is they want better, taller and stronger, it's their innate nature when selecting for a partner, but the issue is the ruthlessness Nigeria girls advance their hypergamy, they don't want to add value at all to the man, only to extract and extract, no matter how much a woman makes she wants someone higher or at least on the same income, but men can date women regardless of income bracket because innately we have that providers instinct and burden of performance that is intrinsical to the masculine.

Proudpolygamist:


The ruthlessness with which southern Nigerian women advance their hypergamy is because Nigerian Men don't hold their women accountable for anything, it is as a result of the weakness and liberalization of Southern Nigerian men and the society. Women are like children, they need not just be told how to behave in a society without instilling some level of fear in them, accruing some level of purnishment and shaming tactics to deter them from going haywire. The Southern Nigerian society can only be compared to Western countries that tend to be individualistic society as against say Northern Nigeria, Ethiopia and Asian countries that tend to be collectivistic society.
Southern Nigerian women have this notion that "it is my life and I'll live it however I want" and the society emboldens and condoles this behavioural decline even though we all know that the adverse effect of such decadence affects everyone and the society in general.

There's a thread on Nairaland where a South African lady is seen advising Nigerian ladies on how to love Nigerian men and I know it's an effort in futility because Nigerian men seem to have switched their masculine frame and are sheltered in the frame of their women. I would prefer if such messages was coming from South men instead to our Men.
The question should be, what are South African men doing differently from southern Nigerian men that their women are less hypergamous and somewhat traditional than Nigerian women. Because just as Southern Nigeria is somewhat liberal and progressive, so is South Africa even though there's some touch of conservationism in it. This brings us to "knowing where to draw the line". SA, just like Ethiopian men know where to draw the line. Remember that Ethiopia being a 70% Christian dominted country has the the tendency to drift into social liberalism/overwesternization leanings just like Nigeria but hasn't and may probably continue to be a deeply conservative society.
South Africa operates an individualstic pan collectivist society, there's a limit to how individualistic you can be really, when it begins to have an adverse effect on the society they collectively put a dual leaning to it. That's why you can abort babies in South Africa but you can't sell harmful drugs to their society.
SA African men are not as Hardworking as their women, but their women seem to be loyal and submissive to them regardless.
SA men know they're the consumers of hard drugs sold by Africans(SA included) but they also know that SA women have an hypergamous tendency to be attracted to foreigners especially Nigerians who spend money lavishly from the sales of these drugs on women (unlike SA men), so how to deter their women from associating with some of these men they blacklist Nigerian men and brand them as drug Lord's whilst ostensibly pushing a narrative that neighboring African countries are stealing their jobs, then boom xenophobia Sparks up. This is a collectivistic effort that seeks to instill fear in SA women from freely associating with potential Nigerian money spending machines ruining their societies. This is how to protect what matters most to you, SA men ordinarily wouldn't give a shit if you sell drugs but it's repulsive to entice their women with such money and disrupt the status quo. Xenophobia was a war to protect SA societal leanings on monetarily induced relationship than it was a war to get their jobs back to me.

Presently there's some form of resentment for Nigerians in SA for their drug peddling history by SA women themselves so much that that there's a natural inclination to think that any young Nigerian in SA living lavishly is into drugs or a cyber fraudster. This profiling of Nigerians by SA men is a tool used by them to prevent their women frolicking around Nigerian men without thinking of some underlying consequences.

satandeterrible:
Shola is back on twitter though. I think his handle is @themanshola or something like that.

I love what Kemi, the mad journalist said about Shola's posts. She said she has three young boys who enjoy reading his posts and as a woman, her greatest joy is knowing that her sons won't be manipulated by women.

This reinforces what we've been saying here. Women know what they are doing. They know it is bad. They don't want it for their sons or brothers.
But because you are an effeminate, emasculated pussy, you allow yourself to become become love-struck, allowing a woman to control your frame, becoming a dumb beta-bucks.

All men should wise up!

Proudpolygamist:


The ruthlessness with which southern Nigerian women advance their hypergamy is because Nigerian Men don't hold their women accountable for anything, it is as a result of the weakness and Social liberalization of Southern Nigerian men and the society. Women are like children, they need not just be told how to behave in a society without instilling some level of fear in them, accruing some level of purnishment and shaming tactics to deter them from going haywire. The Southern Nigerian society can only be compared to Western countries that tend to be individualistic society as against say Northern Nigeria, Ethiopia and Asian countries that tend to be collectivistic society.
Southern Nigerian women have this notion that "it is my life and I'll live it however I want" and the society emboldens and condoles this behavioural decline even though we all know that the adverse effect of such decadence affects everyone and the society in general.

There's a thread on Nairaland where a South African lady is seen advising Nigerian ladies on how to love Nigerian men and I know it's an effort in futility because Nigerian men seem to have switched their masculine frame and are sheltered in the frame of their women. I would prefer if such messages was coming from SA men instead to our Nigerian Men because SA women are only less hypergamous because they're conditioned by their men and society.

The question should be, what are South African men doing differently from southern Nigerian men that their women are less hypergamous and somewhat traditional than Southern Nigerian women. Because just as Southern Nigeria is socially liberal and progressive, so is South Africa even though there's some touch of conservationism in it (so herein lies an actual comparison).
This brings us to "knowing where to draw the line". SA, just like Ethiopian men know where to draw the line. (Remember that Ethiopia being a 70% Christian dominted country has the tendency to drift into social liberalism/overwesternization leanings just like Nigeria but hasn't and may probably continue to be a deeply conservative collectivistic society).

South Africa operates an individualstic pan collectivist society, there's a limit to how individualistic you can be really, when it begins to have an adverse effect on the society they collectively adopt a dual leaning to end individualism. That's why the societal intuition in SA is such that you can abort babies, but you can't sell harmful drugs to the society, even though they themselves are the consumers.
SA African men are not as Hardworking as their women, but their women seem to be loyal and submissive to them regardless.
SA men know they're the consumers of hard drugs sold by Africans(SA included) but they also know that SA women have an hypergamous tendency to be attracted to foreigners especially Nigerians who spend money lavishly from the sales of these drugs on women (unlike SA men), so how to deter their women from associating with some of these men they blacklist Nigerian men and brand them as drug Lord's whilst ostensibly pushing a narrative that neighboring African countries are stealing their jobs, then boom xenophobia Sparks up. This is a collectivistic effort that seeks to instill fear in SA women from freely associating with potential Nigerian money spending machines ruining their societies( on a supposedly individualistic decision).
This is how to hold women accountable and protect what matters most to you, SA men ordinarily wouldn't give a shit if you sell drugs but it's repulsive to entice their women with such money and disrupt the status quo. Xenophobia was a war to protect SA's societal leaning on monetarily induced relationship than it was a war to get their jobs back to me.

Presently there's some form of resentment for Nigerians in SA for their drug peddling history by SA women themselves so much that there's a natural inclination to think that any young Nigerian in SA living lavishly is into drugs or cyber fraud. This profiling of Nigerians by SA men is a dread tool used by them to prevent their women from frolicking around foreign (Nigerian) men without thinking of some underlying consequences.

palmshots:


We're not Jews , we're Africans and Dark Skinned same colour as our creator in this part of the world. The black gods are also Dark skinned

JESHAL:
In rich countries hypergamy selects for genetic quality (good looks, athleticism, dominance, wit etc) whereas in poor countries it selects solely for money. When women have no money they prioritise money. When they have money, their prioritise genes.

broshowfar:
In all my interactions with women i keep two things in mind be open and non judgemental and women would tell you everything especially the truth and in all these interactions i have with women post wall and hoe phase the same conversations spring up. Yes we want a man who is financially ok but does he know his way around my sexuality a.k.a can he Bleep good. Today's women are willing to settle for the financial security but would cheat so as to meet their sexual demands. The sooner men start acquiring this knowledge rather than humping away thinking they are doing a great job the better. A man should be striving to improve all aspects of himself body, mind, soul and spirit. Why ignore your masculine sexuality and think money would replace such? Every aspect of your life needs constant improvement. So if as a man looking at LTR with a woman you shy away from your fitness, sexuality and focus on money then enjoy the repercussions. Cheers

teebagy:
woman of 35 to 50 cant give peace of mind . Thats why their single

marry a 30+ woman then cheat on her with someone younger (20+)??
why not marry the 20+ woman and leave the 30+ women to live with the consequences of their actions.
That's how you guys go around creating problems for yourself.

BigBashiru:


Lol nice comment.... my own is marry 28-30 then date younger as gfs and concubine...shebi na dem were no wan marry on time so no be my fault..

MJBOLT:

marry a 30+ woman then cheat on her with someone younger (20+),why not marry the 20+ woman and leave the 30+ women to live with the consequences of their actions.
That's how you guys go around creating problems for yourself.

BigBashiru:


There's nothing like "cheat"...she cheated on herself by not getting married on time....

The 20+ year old woman is at the peak of her hypergamy which has been worsened by social media.... as a result of many societal changes they do not want to settle down at that age..... the 20 year old woman will still keep expecting a better guy i.e. she feels she's young and that there's an endless pool of guys till she hit 28 herself...its an endless cycle and the younger girls never learnm

MJBOLT:

There are dozens of young women (20+) who are getting married every weekend,don't come and spread false information just because you want men to be foolish enough to settle for leftovers and scraps.

Even women who are 30+ are constantly on the lookout for better options and getting married to them is not a guarantee of anything.
It's only a foolish man that will ignore a young,beautiful woman in her prime who is still probably a virgin and settle with an evening newspaper.

Don't worry I understand
it's either you settled for scraps and want other men to be miserable like you or you're an evening newspaper trying to find a foolish man to wife you up.

BigBashiru:


Why haven't you married one yourself? Show us your own

MJBOLT:

Don't worry I understand
it's either you settled for scraps and want other men to be miserable like you or you're an evening newspaper trying to find a foolish man to wife you up.

teebagy:
that is a lie women in the western priotise money too. Do u know 70 percent of divorce rate are initiated by women to milk men . Women prefer six figure earners that is like 10 to 14 percent of men. Why do u think they have mgtow and red pill teaching over their. Most of the redpill ubunja. Shola. Martines teach are gotten from them