Good morning house,

I write this with a cloud of confusion over my head.

I have a kid sister, our last born who stays with my parents, she is well taken care of in every possible way, but appear to be the black sheep of the house, as she is extremely sturbbon and rebellious, need i say she is the last born of the family, which places her in the state of not wanting or lacking anything at all.

Anyways I will try my best in making this as brief as I can, my sister is notorious for being too trusty, emotional, a social media maniac ......I mean on several occasions she had been saved from ill fate of being kidnapped by ritualists, these episodes cants be shared here cos they are numerous, we as her family realizing these trend about her, placed a restriction on her movement, which implies she is not allowed seeing anyone we do not know or her making friends or visiting them without our knowing who they are.

Just on Saturday which is two days ago, she told us her girl friend ,(someone about 7 years older than she is, a single mother) is siçk, she seek visiting her, we okayed that, only to find out she had played us in other to visit someone she had met on Facebook far far away, she did came back same Saturday very late though.

Before then my mom had confronted the supposed sick lady only to find out all was a ....

Upon her return she was scolded......only for her to pick few of her stuffs and run away on Sunday, then we discovered , that somehow her girl friend to give us the phone number of the boy she had visited, she tipped us into believing she must have encouraged her to run away or maybe away of the stranger my sister might have ran to.

WE INTEND PICKING THE GIRL THIS MORNING WITH POLICE FOR QUESTIONING, BUT SOME OF MY SIBLINGS ARE INSISTING WE ALLOW MY SISTER BE AS SHE HAVE BEEN SCREAMING FOR FREEDOM FOR LONG, INSISTING SHE WILL RUN AWAY SOMEDAY.

AM CONFUSED PLEASE, COS THIS IS ON THE VERGE OF BEING A DENT ON MY FAMILY

Nelbless:
Good morning house,

I write this with a cloud of confusion over my head.

I have a kid sister, our last born who stays with my parents, she is well taken care of in every possible way, but appear to be the black sheep of the house, as she is extremely sturbbon and rebellious, need i say she is the last born of the family, which places her in the state of not wanting or lacking anything at all.



Anyways I will try my best in making this as brief as I can, my sister is notorious for being too trusty, emotional, a social media maniac ......I mean on several occasions she had been saved from ill fate of being kidnapped by ritualists, these episodes cants be shared here cos they are numerous, we as her family realizing these trend about her, placed a restriction on her movement, which implies she is not allowed seeing anyone we do not know or her making friends or visiting them without our knowing who they are.

Just on Saturday which is two days ago, she told us her girl friend ,(someone about 7 years older than she is, a single mother) is siçk, she seek visiting her, we okayed that, only to find out she had played us in other to visit someone she had met on Facebook far far away, she did came back same Saturday very late though.

Before then my mom had confronted the supposed sick lady only to find out all was a ....

Upon her return she was scolded......only for her to pick few of her stuffs and run away on Sunday, then we discovered , that somehow her girl friend to give us the phone number of the boy she had visited, she tipped us into believing she must have encouraged her to run away or maybe away of the stranger my sister might have ran to.

WE INTEND PICKING THE GIRL THIS MORNING WITH POLICE FOR QUESTIONING, BUT SOME OF MY SIBLINGS ARE INSISTING WE ALLOW MY SISTER BE AS SHE HAVE BEEN SCREAMING FOR FREEDOM FOR LONG, INSISTING SHE WILL RUN AWAY SOMEDAY.

AM CONFUSED PLEASE, COS THIS IS ON THE VERGE OF BEING A DENT ON MY FAMILY

What's her age?

24

Involve the Police ASAP don't listen to those people asking to let her be. We all do stupid things when we are young. Go get your sister bro.

Look at all these strong-ass grown up men with the intelligenc of a potted plant saying a girl of 24 is not young. If the victim was one of your sisters would you still hold such a idiotic opinion?

There's nothing you or your family members can do again, your beloved sister has been dickmatized.

How do you guys even expect to cage a 24-year-old Nigerian girl

Bro bro if she is been screaming for freedom then let her be,
Let the hunger the betrayals set in.
Unfortunately there are some people who might offer to help her and take everything from her.
Am just worried because the street will hurt her, make sure you know her location and keep an eye on her always.
Am sorry and please take heart.
I know how this hurt base on experience.

Soso come and help me oooo

Cause i dun pray maami

I dun break commandment

One of the reasons some men say they don't want female children......When a female child wanna disgrace her family they go the extra mile.

Just seeing the headline alone I know her problem must be gbola related.

This case is a serious one! I first want to blane everybody in d family for allowing issues to degenrat to this level. The problem did not start today, this is just the aftermath of some not too good decisions you guys have taken concerning her in d past, needless to say that you guys spoilt her in her formative years. Although you didn't mention how old she is.
My take will be that she needs counselling from this moment on! No scolding, no beating, no harsh words but counselling by a qualified counsellor not from you guys, you guys have failed already.
Note that she is already like a stock fish that cannot be bent so u have to apply caution at this moment. I wish you luck with her and i pray she doesn't get into trouble before she realizes she is taking the wrong path!

Nelbless:
24

Allow her to learn from experience

Pls do not allow her learn from experience experience might be her worst teacher

P

Rhozabeth:
This case is a serious one! I first want to blane everybody in d family for allowing issues to degenrat to this level. The problem did not start today, this is just the aftermath of some not too good decisions you guys have taken concerning her in d past, needless to say that you guys spoilt her in her formative years. Although you didn't mention how old she is.
My take will be that she needs counselling from this moment on! No scolding, no beating, no harsh words but counselling by a qualified counsellor not from you guys, you guys have failed already.
Note that she is already like a stock fish that cannot be bent so u have to apply caution at this moment. I wish you luck with her and i pray she doesn't get into trouble before she realizes she is taking the wrong path!

is a shame that you blame the family that gave birth to her and take care of her for 24 years,
Your judgement is wrong and poor and I think you should shut up.
What happened here is a result of bad friends,
What about children that grow without parents without anyone beside them and still end up responsible.

Nelbless:
Good morning house,

I write this with a cloud of confusion over my head.

I have a kid sister, our last born who stays with my parents, she is well taken care of in every possible way, but appear to be the black sheep of the house, as she is extremely sturbbon and rebellious, need i say she is the last born of the family, which places her in the state of not wanting or lacking anything at all.



Anyways I will try my best in making this as brief as I can, my sister is notorious for being too trusty, emotional, a social media maniac ......I mean on several occasions she had been saved from ill fate of being kidnapped by ritualists, these episodes cants be shared here cos they are numerous, we as her family realizing these trend about her, placed a restriction on her movement, which implies she is not allowed seeing anyone we do not know or her making friends or visiting them without our knowing who they are.

Just on Saturday which is two days ago, she told us her girl friend ,(someone about 7 years older than she is, a single mother) is siçk, she seek visiting her, we okayed that, only to find out she had played us in other to visit someone she had met on Facebook far far away, she did came back same Saturday very late though.

Before then my mom had confronted the supposed sick lady only to find out all was a ....

Upon her return she was scolded......only for her to pick few of her stuffs and run away on Sunday, then we discovered , that somehow her girl friend to give us the phone number of the boy she had visited, she tipped us into believing she must have encouraged her to run away or maybe away of the stranger my sister might have ran to.

WE INTEND PICKING THE GIRL THIS MORNING WITH POLICE FOR QUESTIONING, BUT SOME OF MY SIBLINGS ARE INSISTING WE ALLOW MY SISTER BE AS SHE HAVE BEEN SCREAMING FOR FREEDOM FOR LONG, INSISTING SHE WILL RUN AWAY SOMEDAY.

AM CONFUSED PLEASE, COS THIS IS ON THE VERGE OF BEING A DENT ON MY FAMILY

If she's 24 then she has every right to run away if she wants to. At her age it's not even called running away it's called "flying the nest" or leaving home to become independent. There's no need to involve the police. She's an adult she can go wherever she wants whenever she wants. She's not running away because only teenagers run away, not adults, she's simply exercising her right to freedom of movement. I can't imagine a 24 year old has to lying in order to be allowed to go out and then being scolded upon coming back. Just let her go. She's more than old enough to move out and live her own life anyway.

Haba!!

At 24, she is an adult.
If you do anything, she has the right to sue you.

Leave her to live her life.
Hopefully like the prodigal son, she would return someday.

Nelbless:
Good morning house,

I write this with a cloud of confusion over my head.

I have a kid sister, our last born who stays with my parents, she is well taken care of in every possible way, but appear to be the black sheep of the house, as she is extremely sturbbon and rebellious, need i say she is the last born of the family, which places her in the state of not wanting or lacking anything at all.



Anyways I will try my best in making this as brief as I can, my sister is notorious for being too trusty, emotional, a social media maniac ......I mean on several occasions she had been saved from ill fate of being kidnapped by ritualists, these episodes cants be shared here cos they are numerous, we as her family realizing these trend about her, placed a restriction on her movement, which implies she is not allowed seeing anyone we do not know or her making friends or visiting them without our knowing who they are.

Just on Saturday which is two days ago, she told us her girl friend ,(someone about 7 years older than she is, a single mother) is siçk, she seek visiting her, we okayed that, only to find out she had played us in other to visit someone she had met on Facebook far far away, she did came back same Saturday very late though.

Before then my mom had confronted the supposed sick lady only to find out all was a ....

Upon her return she was scolded......only for her to pick few of her stuffs and run away on Sunday, then we discovered , that somehow her girl friend to give us the phone number of the boy she had visited, she tipped us into believing she must have encouraged her to run away or maybe away of the stranger my sister might have ran to.

WE INTEND PICKING THE GIRL THIS MORNING WITH POLICE FOR QUESTIONING, BUT SOME OF MY SIBLINGS ARE INSISTING WE ALLOW MY SISTER BE AS SHE HAVE BEEN SCREAMING FOR FREEDOM FOR LONG, INSISTING SHE WILL RUN AWAY SOMEDAY.

AM CONFUSED PLEASE, COS THIS IS ON THE VERGE OF BEING A DENT ON MY FAMILY

appishani1:
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is a shame that you blame the family that gave birth to her and take care of her for 24 years,
Your judgement is wrong and poor and I think you should shut up.
What happened here is a result of bad friends,
What about children that grow without parents without anyone beside them and still end up responsible.

I can only shut up if u can tell ur grandfather to shut up. The children of nowadays are just stupid, senseless and short sighted. What an elder sees sitting down, you can never see evem if u climb Kilimanjaro. Rather than for you to ask me to substantiate or throw more light on my assertion, you are telling me to shut up. Are u sane?

Her parents and siblings have spoilt her at the formative age and therefore at this point only experience can teach her and remould her.

TUANKU:
Involve the Police ASAP don't listen to those people asking to let her be. We all do stupid things when we are young. Go get your sister bro.

are you serious?, he should get police to arrest the innocent girl because of her friend of 24 years old that decided to eloped?

Truth be told one way or the other last born always tend towards getting spoil, but it depends on how the family were able to curb that, maybe you guys didn't do well enough to that. Ps she is already of age, let her taste the hardship of being independent she will know what she has lost then she will come crawling back

aisha1314:


If she's 24 then she has every right to run away if she wants to. At her age it's not even called running away it's called "flying the nest" or leaving home to become independent. There's no need to involve the police. She's an adult she can go wherever she wants whenever she wants. She's not running away because only teenagers run away, not adults, she's simply exercising her right to freedom of movement. I can't imagine a 24 year old has to lying in order to be allowed to go out and then being scolded upon coming back. Just let her go. She's more than old enough to move out and live her own life anyway.

u are always a fan of promiscuous lifestyle pls fear god for once in your life

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Rhozabeth:

I can only shut up if u can tell ur grandfather to shut up. The children of nowadays are just stupid, senseless and short sighted. What an elder sees sitting down, you can never see evem if u climb Kilimanjaro. Rather than for you to ask me to substantiate or throw more light on my assertion, you are telling me to shut up. Are u sane?

I can only tell my grandfather to shut up if he is as dump as you are.

I'm always surprised when a fully grown woman is referred to as kid sister.

SHE IS YOUR JUNIOR SISTER AND A WOMAN OF HER OWN AT 24.

Stop bullying her around or you would lose her

Nelbless:
Good morning house,

I write this with a cloud of confusion over my head.

I have a kid sister, our last born who stays with my parents, she is well taken care of in every possible way, but appear to be the black sheep of the house, as she is extremely sturbbon and rebellious, need i say she is the last born of the family, which places her in the state of not wanting or lacking anything at all.



Anyways I will try my best in making this as brief as I can, my sister is notorious for being too trusty, emotional, a social media maniac ......I mean on several occasions she had been saved from ill fate of being kidnapped by ritualists, these episodes cants be shared here cos they are numerous, we as her family realizing these trend about her, placed a restriction on her movement, which implies she is not allowed seeing anyone we do not know or her making friends or visiting them without our knowing who they are.

Just on Saturday which is two days ago, she told us her girl friend ,(someone about 7 years older than she is, a single mother) is siçk, she seek visiting her, we okayed that, only to find out she had played us in other to visit someone she had met on Facebook far far away, she did came back same Saturday very late though.

Before then my mom had confronted the supposed sick lady only to find out all was a ....

Upon her return she was scolded......only for her to pick few of her stuffs and run away on Sunday, then we discovered , that somehow her girl friend to give us the phone number of the boy she had visited, she tipped us into believing she must have encouraged her to run away or maybe away of the stranger my sister might have ran to.

WE INTEND PICKING THE GIRL THIS MORNING WITH POLICE FOR QUESTIONING, BUT SOME OF MY SIBLINGS ARE INSISTING WE ALLOW MY SISTER BE AS SHE HAVE BEEN SCREAMING FOR FREEDOM FOR LONG, INSISTING SHE WILL RUN AWAY SOMEDAY.

AM CONFUSED PLEASE, COS THIS IS ON THE VERGE OF BEING A DENT ON MY FAMILY

The family should bring her back mandate her to bring in a suitor for marriage.

Look for her no matter what it takes...
Fight dirty. That her girl friend needs to provide more clues! Secondly your sister is more likely to contact her on phone first for anything.
So let the police come in and do their interrogations and locating her whereabouts.
No where is safe in Nigeria. Just pray she is in good hands wherever she is or whomever she is with.

appishani1:

I can only tell my grandfather to shut up if he is as dump as you are.

U see, thats why some people never make it in their life, when they open the gutter on their head that they call mouth and spew lava! For this one, i guarantee that u have sawdust in ur head and not brain! I pity ur parents!

Wotoporiously speaking

And this your sister is older than our last born but our last born no fit behave like this, infact that one is a core introvert with zero tolerance for being seen in public anyhow

Your sister is at that age where her clitoris is scratching her, from her behavior I know say that one na core extrovert and she see all of una as stombling block to her extrovert doings hence her frustration and actions, well since she has decided to go left, it's either the street gon keep her safe or hurt her but it's up to you to decide the roll you're gonna play in it cuz the thing be say pikin wey wan spoil go still spoil even if she's being locked inside a cage.

Follow your heart and treat the case with caution and understanding to bring a safe landing for both ends

Mercury12:
Look for her no matter what it takes...
Fight dirty. That her girl friend needs to provide more clues! Secondly your sister is more likely to contact her on phone first for anything.
So let the police come in and do their interrogations and locating her whereabouts.
No where is safe in Nigeria. Just pray she is in good hands wherever she is or whomever she is with.

Provide more clues to what? Don't the family of the girl (24 year old kid sister) have her phone numbers? She has the right to live any where she wishes and doesn't need anyone's permission or content.

If they arrest the girl friend unjustly, she should sue the family and police for unlawful arrest.

24? Well, I'd suggest you leave her to experience the freedom she wants. Just make sure you're in contact with her and she's safe. She ain't a kid no more. At 24, it's safe to assume she knows what she's doing and she knows actions have consequences.

wirinet:


Provide more clues to what? Don't the family of the girl (24 year old kid sister) have her phone numbers? She has the right to live any where she wishes and doesn't need anyone's permission or content.

If they arrest the girl friend unjustly, she should sue the family and police for unlawful arrest.

Police invitation for interrogation into any matter is NOT UNLAWFUL but LAWFUL Thank you. If she is found wanting in any way the police can then arrest her.

Secondly OP sister is 24 years old adult and doesn't takes away the moral right of the family also know her whereabouts.Families look out for each other.
Well in the eyes of the law,she is currently a missing person.

Pls desist from supporting evil. If your sister or any of your love ones happen to be in same situation i bet you won't suggest they be left alone not knowing their whereabouts or if they safe just because they adults.
Pathetic

wirinet:

Found wanting for what exactly? What are you accusing her of - kidnapping? Did you not read the original post or you have a comprehension deficit disorder. According to the post, the lady friend had helped the family as best as she could by providing information she has about the girl's whereabout to them.

It is quite obvious you the one with comprehension disorder.

Do you even know the meaning of "if" in English dictionary?
So like I said before I would say it again. The police inviting the girlfriend for interrogation is NOT a crime.
If she is found wanting by the police they can they then have the right to arrest her.
No one can speak for for the girlfriend, except you happen to know more more than the family does in this matter else then the police better handle the case.
Op sister ran away from home and the last people she would want to contact or have contact her is her family. Common sense is enough to understand that...
I put it to you again that if your sister happen to be in this kinda situation you won't suggest she be left alone and the family uncertain about her safety simply because she is an adult.

Nelbless:

WE INTEND PICKING THE GIRL THIS MORNING WITH POLICE FOR QUESTIONING,

There is nothing absolutely wrong in bring her in for questioning.
Except anyone know more or have something to hide that is when they be scared of the police involvement in the matter moreover the police can also help track her number.

She only craves for freedom but the disadvantage is that she might experience the wrath of man, which the family will have to bear
It could be that u are overprotective towards her misinterpreting it as love. Well she's not a kid, she should have freedom to do things especially at her age

You and your parents spoiled her at her formative age, over pampering is very bad.
Last born are mostly the black sheep of the family, I don't know why, especially the males.

You and your parents spoiled her in her formative age, over pampering is very bad.
Last born are mostly the black sheep of the family, I don't know why, especially the males.