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Re: My Kid Sister Ran Away From Home, What Do I Do? by AfonjaConehead: 10:55am On Nov 14, 2022
I hate you for calling her a black sheep..... People make mistakes in life and when they come of age,it hurts them alot and wish they could go back in time and change...
I'm sure you guys have been treating her bad which you didn't say

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Re: My Kid Sister Ran Away From Home, What Do I Do? by wirinet(m): 11:09am On Nov 14, 2022
Mercury12:

Police invitation for interrogation into any matter is NOT UNLAWFUL but LAWFUL Thank you. If she is found wanting in any way the police can then arrest her.
Found wanting for what exactly? What are you accusing her of - kidnapping? Did you not read the original post or you have a comprehension deficit disorder. According to the post, the lady friend had helped the family as best as she could by providing information she has about the girl's whereabout to them.

Read this portion once again and comprehend;

Just on Saturday which is two days ago, she told us her girl friend ,(someone about 7 years older than she is, a single mother) is siçk, she seek visiting her, we okayed that, only to find out she had played us in other to visit someone she had met on Facebook far far away, she did came back same Saturday very late though.

Before then my mom had confronted the supposed sick lady only to find out all was a ....(lie)

Upon her return she was scolded......only for her to pick few of her stuffs and run away on Sunday, then we discovered , that somehow her girl friend to give us the phone number of the boy she had visited, she tipped us into believing she must have encouraged her to run away or maybe away of the stranger my sister might have ran to.

The spoilt 24 year old girl lied to her family using the girlfriend as excuse. She later came back to pack her load to run away to live with her new lover, the girlfriend provided the phone number of the guy she suspected the 24 year old ran away with, and you are talking about police arresting the girl. For what exactly?




Secondly OP sister is 24 years old adult and doesn't takes away the moral right of the family also know her whereabouts.Families look out for each other.
Well in the eyes of the law,she is currently a missing person.
Police is not hisbah with mandate to enforce moral rights. The family should get in touch with their daughter and her new lover to establish her whereabouts before involving the police.

Pls desist from supporting evil. If your sister or any of your love ones happen to be in same situation i bet you won't suggest they be left alone not knowing their whereabouts or if they safe just because they adults.
Pathetic

It's you that is supporting evil, the intimidation and harassment of a poor single mother probably due to hatred.

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Re: My Kid Sister Ran Away From Home, What Do I Do? by appishani1(m): 11:24am On Nov 14, 2022
Rhozabeth:

U see, thats why some people never make it in their life, when they open the gutter on their head that they call mouth and spew lava! For this one, i guarantee that u have sawdust in ur head and not brain! I pity ur parents!
Re: My Kid Sister Ran Away From Home, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 11:36am On Nov 14, 2022
Nelbless:
Good morning house,

I write this with a cloud of confusion over my head.

I have a kid sister, our last born who stays with my parents, she is well taken care of in every possible way, but appear to be the black sheep of the house, as she is extremely sturbbon and rebellious, need i say she is the last born of the family, which places her in the state of not wanting or lacking anything at all.



Anyways I will try my best in making this as brief as I can, my sister is notorious for being too trusty, emotional, a social media maniac ......I mean on several occasions she had been saved from ill fate of being kidnapped by ritualists, these episodes cants be shared here cos they are numerous, we as her family realizing these trend about her, placed a restriction on her movement, which implies she is not allowed seeing anyone we do not know or her making friends or visiting them without our knowing who they are.

Just on Saturday which is two days ago, she told us her girl friend ,(someone about 7 years older than she is, a single mother) is siçk, she seek visiting her, we okayed that, only to find out she had played us in other to visit someone she had met on Facebook far far away, she did came back same Saturday very late though.

Before then my mom had confronted the supposed sick lady only to find out all was a ....

Upon her return she was scolded......only for her to pick few of her stuffs and run away on Sunday, then we discovered , that somehow her girl friend to give us the phone number of the boy she had visited, she tipped us into believing she must have encouraged her to run away or maybe away of the stranger my sister might have ran to.

WE INTEND PICKING THE GIRL THIS MORNING WITH POLICE FOR QUESTIONING, BUT SOME OF MY SIBLINGS ARE INSISTING WE ALLOW MY SISTER BE AS SHE HAVE BEEN SCREAMING FOR FREEDOM FOR LONG, INSISTING SHE WILL RUN AWAY SOMEDAY.

AM CONFUSED PLEASE, COS THIS IS ON THE VERGE OF BEING A DENT ON MY FAMILY


is she lightskin? angry

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Re: My Kid Sister Ran Away From Home, What Do I Do? by TheRealOwner(m): 11:52am On Nov 14, 2022
She's still young and naive
Re: My Kid Sister Ran Away From Home, What Do I Do? by AmazingELixir: 11:54am On Nov 14, 2022
grin

Op allow her she is playing out her destiny....

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Re: My Kid Sister Ran Away From Home, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 11:54am On Nov 14, 2022
Ok.
Re: My Kid Sister Ran Away From Home, What Do I Do? by Terry44: 11:56am On Nov 14, 2022
angry angry angry


She is 24 and old enough to make her own decisions. It is hard to control any gender at such age best is to allow them their freedom with certain limits. You guys are choking her with too much restrictions that's why she left home.



Try and communicate with her to come back home cause using force would only worsen the situation.
Re: My Kid Sister Ran Away From Home, What Do I Do? by harmony75: 11:58am On Nov 14, 2022
Nelbless:
24
24years old is an adult I thought she's a good friend teen she's not a baby.. just rest your mind she can take care of herself on the other hand that thing she's looking for with strangers she will find it hope it will be a positive one.
Re: My Kid Sister Ran Away From Home, What Do I Do? by Olaolex: 11:58am On Nov 14, 2022
meetme01:


What's her age?
Must you quote the whole story just to ask this silly question? It is fraustrating nah.

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Re: My Kid Sister Ran Away From Home, What Do I Do? by sp2002(m): 11:59am On Nov 14, 2022
Bahamas95:
One of the reasons some men say they don't want female children......When a female child wanna disgrace her family they go the extra mile.

Just seeing the headline alone I know her problem must be gbola related.
honestly. I am a leaving testimony with 3 boys as children
Re: My Kid Sister Ran Away From Home, What Do I Do? by chiokeman(m): 11:59am On Nov 14, 2022
She has taken the forbidden fruit and ran away from the Garden of Eden.
So her action is biblical period.

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Re: My Kid Sister Ran Away From Home, What Do I Do? by Ekugbeh(m): 11:59am On Nov 14, 2022
Nelbless:
24
she's an adult then.
Leave to her conscience

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Re: My Kid Sister Ran Away From Home, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 11:59am On Nov 14, 2022
Nelbless:
24

No be small pikin na

Even police no go give una listening ear

She's matured to take care of herself and accept her responsibilities

@24 una still dey pamper am

Na why most people that are over pampered no dey turn out well....

If you bring her home now,she go still runaway and it's against the law to lock her up at home or chain her


Let her be, agarachaa must come back

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Re: My Kid Sister Ran Away From Home, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 12:00pm On Nov 14, 2022
At that age no too reason am bro, lets her go she will come back some days

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Re: My Kid Sister Ran Away From Home, What Do I Do? by kwasoly(m): 12:02pm On Nov 14, 2022
Nelbless:
Good morning house,

I write this with a cloud of confusion over my head.

I have a kid sister, our last born who stays with my parents, she is well taken care of in every possible way, but appear to be the black sheep of the house, as she is extremely sturbbon and rebellious, need i say she is the last born of the family, which places her in the state of not wanting or lacking anything at all.

Anyways I will try my best in making this as brief as I can, my sister is notorious for being too trusty, emotional, a social media maniac ......I mean on several occasions she had been saved from ill fate of being kidnapped by ritualists, these episodes cants be shared here cos they are numerous, we as her family realizing these trend about her, placed a restriction on her movement, which implies she is not allowed seeing anyone we do not know or her making friends or visiting them without our knowing who they are.

Just on Saturday which is two days ago, she told us her girl friend ,(someone about 7 years older than she is, a single mother) is siçk, she seek visiting her, we okayed that, only to find out she had played us in other to visit someone she had met on Facebook far far away, she did came back same Saturday very late though.

Before then my mom had confronted the supposed sick lady only to find out all was a ....

Upon her return she was scolded......only for her to pick few of her stuffs and run away on Sunday, then we discovered , that somehow her girl friend to give us the phone number of the boy she had visited, she tipped us into believing she must have encouraged her to run away or maybe away of the stranger my sister might have ran to.

WE INTEND PICKING THE GIRL THIS MORNING WITH POLICE FOR QUESTIONING, BUT SOME OF MY SIBLINGS ARE INSISTING WE ALLOW MY SISTER BE AS SHE HAVE BEEN SCREAMING FOR FREEDOM FOR LONG, INSISTING SHE WILL RUN AWAY SOMEDAY.

AM CONFUSED PLEASE, COS THIS IS ON THE VERGE OF BEING A DENT ON MY FAMILY



Na season we dn enter pick the gal up let her tell u guys were ur sister dey before they will use her for rituals.
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Re: My Kid Sister Ran Away From Home, What Do I Do? by chatinent: 12:02pm On Nov 14, 2022
Allow anyone who wants to be useless be useless.

They will make good historians later. I mean, they make good motivational speakers.

Nonsense.

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Re: My Kid Sister Ran Away From Home, What Do I Do? by Oyindamsax(m): 12:02pm On Nov 14, 2022
Sope otilo angry
Re: My Kid Sister Ran Away From Home, What Do I Do? by Romanoff(f): 12:03pm On Nov 14, 2022
A 24 year old?

Make una leave her. Dog wey go lost no dey hear hunter whistle.

One dey monkey go go market, e no go come back. Na stubborn fly dey follow dead body enter grave.

Unless someone like her hits rock bottom or have a near death experience, she won't change.

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Re: My Kid Sister Ran Away From Home, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 12:04pm On Nov 14, 2022
appishani1:
P

is a shame that you blame the family that gave birth to her and take care of her for 24 years,
Your judgement is wrong and poor and I think you should shut up.
What happened here is a result of bad friends,
What about children that grow without parents without anyone beside them and still end up responsible.


If u can't read btw lines, no dey quote person grin cheesy

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Re: My Kid Sister Ran Away From Home, What Do I Do? by jaxxy(m): 12:04pm On Nov 14, 2022
Nelbless:
Good morning house,

I write this with a cloud of confusion over my head.

I have a kid sister, our last born who stays with my parents, she is well taken care of in every possible way, but appear to be the black sheep of the house, as she is extremely sturbbon and rebellious, need i say she is the last born of the family, which places her in the state of not wanting or lacking anything at all.

Anyways I will try my best in making this as brief as I can, my sister is notorious for being too trusty, emotional, a social media maniac ......I mean on several occasions she had been saved from ill fate of being kidnapped by ritualists, these episodes cants be shared here cos they are numerous, we as her family realizing these trend about her, placed a restriction on her movement, which implies she is not allowed seeing anyone we do not know or her making friends or visiting them without our knowing who they are.

Just on Saturday which is two days ago, she told us her girl friend ,(someone about 7 years older than she is, a single mother) is siçk, she seek visiting her, we okayed that, only to find out she had played us in other to visit someone she had met on Facebook far far away, she did came back same Saturday very late though.

Before then my mom had confronted the supposed sick lady only to find out all was a ....

Upon her return she was scolded......only for her to pick few of her stuffs and run away on Sunday, then we discovered , that somehow her girl friend to give us the phone number of the boy she had visited, she tipped us into believing she must have encouraged her to run away or maybe away of the stranger my sister might have ran to.

WE INTEND PICKING THE GIRL THIS MORNING WITH POLICE FOR QUESTIONING, BUT SOME OF MY SIBLINGS ARE INSISTING WE ALLOW MY SISTER BE AS SHE HAVE BEEN SCREAMING FOR FREEDOM FOR LONG, INSISTING SHE WILL RUN AWAY SOMEDAY.

AM CONFUSED PLEASE, COS THIS IS ON THE VERGE OF BEING A DENT ON MY FAMILY

I have dealt with rebels mentality and I can tell u ur sister is suffering from lack of love. Not necessarily from a boy bt love in general and she is seeking and finding it with total strangers and its new and attractive to her cos she's never felt that way at home.


Learn to love urselves rather than taking urselves for granted. Peace

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Re: My Kid Sister Ran Away From Home, What Do I Do? by Elsueno: 12:04pm On Nov 14, 2022
Nelbless:
24

That's a grown a## woman bros, U guys have tried ur best, allow her to face the realities of life...U can't force an adult like her, only experience would teach her a very good lesson good or bad.....Just pray 4 d best

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Re: My Kid Sister Ran Away From Home, What Do I Do? by id4sho(m): 12:04pm On Nov 14, 2022
Naso one 16yr old girl for area here in Jos ran away
Re: My Kid Sister Ran Away From Home, What Do I Do? by charlesdinho7(m): 12:05pm On Nov 14, 2022
you have done your best as family. allow her to go and explore, she will definitely regret it. just relax and see how she will come back home regretting her life

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Re: My Kid Sister Ran Away From Home, What Do I Do? by Cloud007: 12:05pm On Nov 14, 2022
Rhozabeth:

I can only shut up if u can tell ur grandfather to shut up. The children of nowadays are just stupid, senseless and short sighted. What an elder sees sitting down, you can never see evem if u climb Kilimanjaro. Rather than for you to ask me to substantiate or throw more light on my assertion, you are telling me to shut up. Are u sane?
kids these days don't have respect nor aware of their environment. A lot have changed these days with Bad parenting and peer pressure.

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Re: My Kid Sister Ran Away From Home, What Do I Do? by Freshgrace4life(f): 12:06pm On Nov 14, 2022
shocked 24yrs ,she be adult ,na this kind freedom they make dem carry unwanted belle ,like the one wey dey my side ,she run follow man ,now she don come back with 3 children .. she should be around 24yrs too..

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Re: My Kid Sister Ran Away From Home, What Do I Do? by Divay2(f): 12:06pm On Nov 14, 2022
Just imagine Girls of nowadays

She must be somewhere enjoying Dick cry

Nigerian ladies and Dick are like 5 and 6 embarassed

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Re: My Kid Sister Ran Away From Home, What Do I Do? by Oluwatobiloba07: 12:07pm On Nov 14, 2022
Two things I will like to say concerning this matter

1. When you are overprotective over someone, this what you get. This dispensation is different from our father. Also maybe she have received the love she really wants, I could remember when I was very young.

2. I will say don't let her be, try your best and look for her, talk to God before talking to her.
Not everyone are given second chance grace, you won't lose her in Jesus name


Nelbless:
Good morning house,

I write this with a cloud of confusion over my head.

I have a kid sister, our last born who stays with my parents, she is well taken care of in every possible way, but appear to be the black sheep of the house, as she is extremely sturbbon and rebellious, need i say she is the last born of the family, which places her in the state of not wanting or lacking anything at all.

Anyways I will try my best in making this as brief as I can, my sister is notorious for being too trusty, emotional, a social media maniac ......I mean on several occasions she had been saved from ill fate of being kidnapped by ritualists, these episodes cants be shared here cos they are numerous, we as her family realizing these trend about her, placed a restriction on her movement, which implies she is not allowed seeing anyone we do not know or her making friends or visiting them without our knowing who they are.

Just on Saturday which is two days ago, she told us her girl friend ,(someone about 7 years older than she is, a single mother) is siçk, she seek visiting her, we okayed that, only to find out she had played us in other to visit someone she had met on Facebook far far away, she did came back same Saturday very late though.

Before then my mom had confronted the supposed sick lady only to find out all was a ....

Upon her return she was scolded......only for her to pick few of her stuffs and run away on Sunday, then we discovered , that somehow her girl friend to give us the phone number of the boy she had visited, she tipped us into believing she must have encouraged her to run away or maybe away of the stranger my sister might have ran to.

WE INTEND PICKING THE GIRL THIS MORNING WITH POLICE FOR QUESTIONING, BUT SOME OF MY SIBLINGS ARE INSISTING WE ALLOW MY SISTER BE AS SHE HAVE BEEN SCREAMING FOR FREEDOM FOR LONG, INSISTING SHE WILL RUN AWAY SOMEDAY.

AM CONFUSED PLEASE, COS THIS IS ON THE VERGE OF BEING A DENT ON MY FAMILY

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Re: My Kid Sister Ran Away From Home, What Do I Do? by uche393: 12:08pm On Nov 14, 2022
24 ain't a kid anymore and shouldn't think of doing such, to get sisters and female children Na big wahala

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Re: My Kid Sister Ran Away From Home, What Do I Do? by AchichaMmuo: 12:09pm On Nov 14, 2022
Nelbless:
24

You guys should let her be.

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