| Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by Sammy101111(m): 5:20pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
Call your wife and warn her again
Tell her you’ve got nothing to loose
That if she continue doing that nonsense that don’t she know she is married that you will send her back to her parent . And call the guy face to face and tell him maturely that does he want to destroy your home was that why he rented the house to destroy your home and tell him to stop the friendship with your wife that she is a married woman which conversation are they both having at night . Warn him
For the Op that post this
There is something you need to know about woman . This ladies know how to manipulate things they will do something wrong and still act like they are the one affected . So from now play wiser . Your wife as seen you finish she knows you are weak ( sorry for saying that ) please now You have to be harder on her if she don’t want to listen na you marry your wife no be she marry you . Tell her if she doesn’t listen to you if you start your attitude she will hate . Try to always record them when they are talking at night and go and show your family and her family and tell them back that what is a married woman doing with a single man in your own house .
If she is acting stubborn
The fastest way to make her stop is to shame her cause a public reaction scream shout on her in public tell in front of everyone one . That she is a landlady why is she disgracing her self with a tenant .
Before she shame you shame her in public
If she act stubborn
And I don’t understand is your house face me I slap you waything tenant they find inside your flat apartment inside your kitchen for that matter you have allowed shit from start you are weak bro . That first day you caught him in your kitchen you should have change it for the guy badly and shame the guy call all the remaining tenant that they should help you oh before you go mad at the guy that what he’s he looking for in your kitchen does he want to poison you .
Woman will always take advantage of weak men 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by emerged01(m): 5:48pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
Protect your wife by all means necessary. When you are at home,spend more time with your wife,get closer to her. The guy is only filling the vacuum you have created between you and your wife. Identify the vaccum and fill it. 1 Like |
| Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by Blunttruth: 6:15pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
Problems of face me I face you. That's the only explanation for the guy entering kitchen. It means you all share kitchen. If your wife is obedient she would listen to you. For the guy he is a bad guy. Na dem. The ones who sleeps with married women. He has studied you and knows you are not always around. The way to a mother's heart is to show affection to the kids. The woman will turn to mumu. You have to step your foot down. |
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| Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by SensetionalGoal(m): 6:47pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
 I would dealt with the foolish tenant long before now if I were op walai... Allowing him to come close to ur wife and family is ur worst mistake , you shouldn't have gave him such leverage... I will advise you to warn him seriously never to come close to ur kitchen again, be firm about it and be ready to take drastic action because it seems their relationship has gone far... |
| Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by Slynation(m): 6:54pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
You are only being insecure young man... Although you have every reason to feel that way, but the mistake you made is letting a young man with full functional preeq into your home when you have a young wife...!!
The best way to deal with it is too stop thinking of the unknown, or your fears will surely come to reality one day...!!
Many men are yet to realize there wives are bored at home tho and they have no plans of spicing up their relationship. |
| Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by dawnomike(m): 6:56pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
wonderr:
I have being living fine with my wife and two kids. She loves me an I love her too. Sincerely speaking she has being a very good wife. But now we have a problem, we got a tenant into our house last year, a single guy ever since this guy came into our house he has being showing so much love towards my kids buying them gifts from time to time almost everyday and this makes my wife like this guy and they have seem to be good friends, at first I feel cool with it thinking the guy is just nice and there is no strings attached, but lately I feel the intimacy is getting too much that even when am at home my wife would leave me inside and start talking to the guy outside at night, sometimes I would be inside and my wife would be cooking inside the kitchen this guy will leave whatever he is doing and go and keep my wife company in the kitchen, I started feeling disrespected I talked to her about it and she promised to ameliorate the third day same thing happened The guy came back from work and my wife was cooking at the kitchen before the guy even enter his room he went straight to the kitchen and start to keep her company again both of them alone at night all other tenants are in their rooms. I became very exasperated I had to walk up to the kitchen and tell her right in the guys presence that she is not okay and that is her last warning my intention of doing this is to let the guy know that am not cool with the intimacy between them that he should caution himself. now I feel am not being respected because after I warned her I believe she should have excused the guy and not give him so much attention again, now I think he is being kind to my kids just to gain my wife's attention, even if they both have a pure heart and nothing in mind if the intimacy continues It might later lead to relationship and sex, so I called her parents yesterday to inform them of what is happening they promise to talk to her, meanwhile she has invited the guy to our family church weeks ago. my only aunty that I can say she is the only family I gat because am the only child of my parents and am an orphan now, so I do not have many relatives this my aunt's husband is the pastor of the church. Now my wife has narrated the story to my aunt and she is now telling me I must not quarell with my wife or the guy because the guy is now a member of the church they do not want to loose a member I do not know what to do because my aunt seems to be at her side saying she can't do such thing but I know what I am seeing and experiencing at home if they can be doing such in my presence what would they do in my absence, and I do a shifting job I only sleep at hope for two weeks in a month am scared and confused, Don't want to loose her and I can't even give the guy a quit notice now because my only aunt wold be furious I don't want her to be mad at me she's the only family I gat am confused please advise me Since your wife had decided not to listen, give him a quit notice through your lawyer biko!! |
| Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by Blake755: 8:00pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
Bonesbreaker:
Dude your wife is doing this intentional so play the bat game start by making a female tenant friend discuss with her ur plans then start the opposite thing ur wife its doing but first accuse ur wife of cheating that will put her on a still moody then kick off this plan i said here give that particular female lady attention that your wife will be jealous and regret her actions towards you. Ignore the male tenant let him be the swan in ur pawn game, warn ur kids never to collect anything from him again. Follow this u go dey alright |
| Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by Lamanii22(f): 9:11pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
Bonesbreaker:
Dude your wife is doing this intentional so play the bat game start by making a female tenant friend discuss with her ur plans then start the opposite thing ur wife its doing but first accuse ur wife of cheating that will put her on a still moody then kick off this plan i said here give that particular female lady attention that your wife will be jealous and regret her actions towards you. Ignore the male tenant let him be the swan in ur pawn game, warn ur kids never to collect anything from him again. great advice |
| Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by Pakwel(m): 9:34pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
wonderr:
I have being living fine with my wife and two kids. She loves me an I love her too. Sincerely speaking she has being a very good wife. But now we have a problem, we got a tenant into our house last year, a single guy ever since this guy came into our house he has being showing so much love towards my kids buying them gifts from time to time almost everyday and this makes my wife like this guy and they have seem to be good friends, at first I feel cool with it thinking the guy is just nice and there is no strings attached, but lately I feel the intimacy is getting too much that even when am at home my wife would leave me inside and start talking to the guy outside at night, sometimes I would be inside and my wife would be cooking inside the kitchen this guy will leave whatever he is doing and go and keep my wife company in the kitchen, I started feeling disrespected I talked to her about it and she promised to ameliorate the third day same thing happened The guy came back from work and my wife was cooking at the kitchen before the guy even enter his room he went straight to the kitchen and start to keep her company again both of them alone at night all other tenants are in their rooms. I became very exasperated I had to walk up to the kitchen and tell her right in the guys presence that she is not okay and that is her last warning my intention of doing this is to let the guy know that am not cool with the intimacy between them that he should caution himself. now I feel am not being respected because after I warned her I believe she should have excused the guy and not give him so much attention again, now I think he is being kind to my kids just to gain my wife's attention, even if they both have a pure heart and nothing in mind if the intimacy continues It might later lead to relationship and sex, so I called her parents yesterday to inform them of what is happening they promise to talk to her, meanwhile she has invited the guy to our family church weeks ago. my only aunty that I can say she is the only family I gat because am the only child of my parents and am an orphan now, so I do not have many relatives this my aunt's husband is the pastor of the church. Now my wife has narrated the story to my aunt and she is now telling me I must not quarell with my wife or the guy because the guy is now a member of the church they do not want to loose a member I do not know what to do because my aunt seems to be at her side saying she can't do such thing but I know what I am seeing and experiencing at home if they can be doing such in my presence what would they do in my absence, and I do a shifting job I only sleep at hope for two weeks in a month am scared and confused, Don't want to loose her and I can't even give the guy a quit notice now because my only aunt wold be furious I don't want her to be mad at me she's the only family I gat am confused please advise me Guy. Listen to me alone.. buy a secret camera. Just put one in your room. One in your living room and one in your kitchen.. watch it when you come back or on your phone |
| Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by Sammy101111(m): 11:33pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
Answer my question op
Is your house face me I last you house
How can your tenant be in your kitchen with out you knowing |
| Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by EastAlchemist: 12:58am On Jan 16, 2023 |
wonderr:
I have being living fine with my wife and two kids. She loves me an I love her too. Sincerely speaking she has being a very good wife. But now we have a problem, we got a tenant into our house last year, a single guy ever since this guy came into our house he has being showing so much love towards my kids buying them gifts from time to time almost everyday and this makes my wife like this guy and they have seem to be good friends, at first I feel cool with it thinking the guy is just nice and there is no strings attached, but lately I feel the intimacy is getting too much that even when am at home my wife would leave me inside and start talking to the guy outside at night, sometimes I would be inside and my wife would be cooking inside the kitchen this guy will leave whatever he is doing and go and keep my wife company in the kitchen, I started feeling disrespected I talked to her about it and she promised to ameliorate the third day same thing happened The guy came back from work and my wife was cooking at the kitchen before the guy even enter his room he went straight to the kitchen and start to keep her company again both of them alone at night all other tenants are in their rooms. I became very exasperated I had to walk up to the kitchen and tell her right in the guys presence that she is not okay and that is her last warning my intention of doing this is to let the guy know that am not cool with the intimacy between them that he should caution himself. now I feel am not being respected because after I warned her I believe she should have excused the guy and not give him so much attention again, now I think he is being kind to my kids just to gain my wife's attention, even if they both have a pure heart and nothing in mind if the intimacy continues It might later lead to relationship and sex, so I called her parents yesterday to inform them of what is happening they promise to talk to her, meanwhile she has invited the guy to our family church weeks ago. my only aunty that I can say she is the only family I gat because am the only child of my parents and am an orphan now, so I do not have many relatives this my aunt's husband is the pastor of the church. Now my wife has narrated the story to my aunt and she is now telling me I must not quarell with my wife or the guy because the guy is now a member of the church they do not want to loose a member I do not know what to do because my aunt seems to be at her side saying she can't do such thing but I know what I am seeing and experiencing at home if they can be doing such in my presence what would they do in my absence, and I do a shifting job I only sleep at hope for two weeks in a month am scared and confused, Don't want to loose her and I can't even give the guy a quit notice now because my only aunt wold be furious I don't want her to be mad at me she's the only family I gat am confused please advise me Oga na your wife ooo Ginger sense into her Or she will have sense soon when the guy dun enter like two times |
| Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by brightDdon(m): 1:36am On Jan 16, 2023 |
Bonesbreaker:
Dude your wife is doing this intentional so play the bat game start by making a female tenant friend discuss with her ur plans then start the opposite thing ur wife its doing but first accuse ur wife of cheating that will put her on a still moody then kick off this plan i said here give that particular female lady attention that your wife will be jealous and regret her actions towards you. Ignore the male tenant let him be the swan in ur pawn game, warn ur kids never to collect anything from him again. Correct your .... Just followed you. |
| Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by Nobody: 2:09am On Jan 16, 2023 |
As an old woman let me tell ya… when a man says “she doesn’t like sex” it means he is rubbish at sex! Too small! Too fast! Too you name it. Op is the worst nightmare of any woman, I mean even the village girl with no hope, he is every woman worlds nightmare! Greth he don’t have, length he don’t have, technique he don’t have! Only the dickens that’s it! Money? Forget about about it! But watch his counterpartzzzzzz comfort him |
| Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by Aaaaarghmed(m): 3:58am On Jan 16, 2023 |
The guy is foolish and immatured,he is grooming your wife and small time now,sex go follow.Your wife sef is not behaving like a married woman.Me,I cannot be close to someone wife or gf,highest na greeting concern us .wetin wan make us dey discuss 1 Like |
| Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by Thebadpolitican(m): 6:05am On Jan 16, 2023 |
wonderr:
I have being living fine with my wife and two kids. She loves me an I love her too. Sincerely speaking she has being a very good wife. But now we have a problem, we got a tenant into our house last year, a single guy ever since this guy came into our house he has being showing so much love towards my kids buying them gifts from time to time almost everyday and this makes my wife like this guy and they have seem to be good friends, at first I feel cool with it thinking the guy is just nice and there is no strings attached, but lately I feel the intimacy is getting too much that even when am at home my wife would leave me inside and start talking to the guy outside at night, sometimes I would be inside and my wife would be cooking inside the kitchen this guy will leave whatever he is doing and go and keep my wife company in the kitchen, I started feeling disrespected I talked to her about it and she promised to ameliorate the third day same thing happened The guy came back from work and my wife was cooking at the kitchen before the guy even enter his room he went straight to the kitchen and start to keep her company again both of them alone at night all other tenants are in their rooms. I became very exasperated I had to walk up to the kitchen and tell her right in the guys presence that she is not okay and that is her last warning my intention of doing this is to let the guy know that am not cool with the intimacy between them that he should caution himself. now I feel am not being respected because after I warned her I believe she should have excused the guy and not give him so much attention again, now I think he is being kind to my kids just to gain my wife's attention, even if they both have a pure heart and nothing in mind if the intimacy continues It might later lead to relationship and sex, so I called her parents yesterday to inform them of what is happening they promise to talk to her, meanwhile she has invited the guy to our family church weeks ago. my only aunty that I can say she is the only family I gat because am the only child of my parents and am an orphan now, so I do not have many relatives this my aunt's husband is the pastor of the church. Now my wife has narrated the story to my aunt and she is now telling me I must not quarell with my wife or the guy because the guy is now a member of the church they do not want to loose a member I do not know what to do because my aunt seems to be at her side saying she can't do such thing but I know what I am seeing and experiencing at home if they can be doing such in my presence what would they do in my absence, and I do a shifting job I only sleep at hope for two weeks in a month am scared and confused, Don't want to loose her and I can't even give the guy a quit notice now because my only aunt wold be furious I don't want her to be mad at me she's the only family I gat am confused please advise me I see as a weak man What does your aunty have to do with safe guarding your marriage I was wooing a lady recently the lady like me which I know but unfortunately the lady went to her bf place and I called her. The bf picked, I tried calling her days later the bf picked again and told me to stop calling his gf he later took her Sim away.... There was no way for me to reach out to the lady that was the end.... His fight for his gf saved many unseen circumstances Instead of whining take drastic action if your tenant endup shagging your wife your marriage will collapse your children will bear the wrought, your money you spent on marrying her will be a waste you will be the biggest losser Your tenant is a fool for engaging a married woman and your wife happens to have fallen for him which is natural |
| Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by Georgekyrian(m): 6:48am On Jan 16, 2023 |
marcopollo:
Your suspicion is legit. But who is your wife not to listen to you? Why are some men like this? Who married who? Or did she pay your groom price? You don't need to involve any third party. Be very decisive with what you want and take a definite stand on this matter. Let her know the consequences of disobeying you which might lead to separation. Yes, it's that serious. Who born monkey?
In all (and this is very important), stop eating her food and don't sleep with her till she comes back to her senses. Be spiritually alert, also. Make spiritual consultations to know what she's up to. Women can do anything to get what they want, before she turn you to mumu. The way our men gets weak this days dey mad me, I am just newly married but I know even in years to come, if my woman cannot keep my order then the marriage may end up been story for another day.. Moreover I don’t entertain people contributing nonsense in my life, so if matters play between me and my woman, I got no advise from nobody.. na why I Dey try make big money 1 Like |
| Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by Georgekyrian(m): 6:57am On Jan 16, 2023 |
Bonesbreaker:
Dude your wife is doing this intentional so play the bat game start by making a female tenant friend discuss with her ur plans then start the opposite thing ur wife its doing but first accuse ur wife of cheating that will put her on a still moody then kick off this plan i said here give that particular female lady attention that your wife will be jealous and regret her actions towards you. Ignore the male tenant let him be the swan in ur pawn game, warn ur kids never to collect anything from him again. Let me say from what I have observe from women, I don’t like playing games, I place orders and I am extremely ready to take any decision that people least expected from me, I don’t even have to warn or flirt with another woman, I place my actions that whoever involved will reason two times before coming closer again.. I don’t play with people wife/gf so no shine teeth with my own |
| Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by Kreddy: 8:03am On Jan 16, 2023 |
zed7:
How to know fake story tellers on nairaland.
They usually deliberately use bad grammar to try to make them look genuine. Writing without paragraphs and all to make it seem there are barely educated.
They always come up with the victim story. Some even deliberately try to sound really weak and helpless, just to seem believable.
The question is what is their motive? Are they being paid to come up with these stories or it's mere idleness? It baffles. If you perceive it to be fake, why don't you use the exist door,or are you compelled to comment on every post?? Op na mumu,I won't allow my girlfriend to do such nonsense let alone my wife. I once dropped my fiancee because she didn't see anything bad in talking and romancing with random guys. She only had few girlfriends but numerous boyfriends,I disengaged when I realized that she didn't see anything bad in the display of shame. Warn your kids to abstain from collecting any gift from the man, give your LovePeddler a sound warning , that anytime you see her with the guy again, it'd be disastrous. you said you complained to her parents,so what step did they take?? |
| Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by seanwilliam(m): 9:29am On Jan 16, 2023 |
No woman can do this to my face . I’m very soft and loving but when I get serious , my gf trembles . That is the highest level of disrespect a man can receive from a woman .
Next time you catch her, send her packing and for awhile , stop eating her food and pussy.
Don’t do anything for the guy, cos if you send him packing , trust me, she’ll be doing it afar. |
| Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by jimmychang: 11:51am On Jan 16, 2023 |
JASONjnr:
You don't have any business with the said guy but with your wife....
Personally, I'd ensure that she gets the message by all means...
I supposed you know what it means of you give the young lad a quit notice...Your wife will likely continue the intimacy from afar without you monitoring her.
Are you sure they're not ex lovers? And those kids could be his...
If a woman can't understand that as a married person, you have to keep distance from men, then she's never seeing herself as a married woman.
Also check on yourself...Have you been giving her the attention that she needs? I still remember in our face me I face you where I grew up.There was this married man with kids and this single dude usually comes to his wife kitchen to chat with her,first day,second day omo e turn weeks. One day na so the married man stroll come out and told the nigga to go home.Na so the matter end.The nigga should mind his territory and stop talking to her frequently. |
| Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by jimmychang: 11:58am On Jan 16, 2023 |
He is nice to your just to get your wives attention,you are definitely right. First of all ban that nigga from entering your kitchen.What sort of man keeps friends with a married women and spends all time with her in her kitchen.E be like say the nigga no get work. Sir,this marriage is your own,Bleep her aunt.Increase his rent or make his life less happy while staying there.You no go know when e go move out.  |
| Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by ZINNYBANKS: 12:10pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Honestly I hate guys who find interest in married women . op leave them alone but tell ur wife that any day you catch them both in bed you will kill her that day just threaten her with that .. |
| Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by ZINNYBANKS: 12:28pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Thebadpolitican:
I see as a weak man
What does your aunty have to do with safe guarding your marriage
I was wooing a lady recently the lady like me which I know but unfortunately the lady went to her bf place and I called her. The bf picked, I tried calling her days later the bf picked again and told me to stop calling his gf he later took her Sim away.... There was no way for me to reach out to the lady that was the end....
His fight for his gf saved many unseen circumstances
Instead of whining take drastic action if your tenant endup shagging your wife your marriage will collapse your children will bear the wrought, your money you spent on marrying her will be a waste you will be the biggest losser
Your tenant is a fool for engaging a married woman and your wife happens to have fallen for him which is natural
All what you wrote is bullshit and im not sorry for calling you a fool also. Firstly you know quite alright that a girl had a BF and you didnt stop calling her. Why are you guys like this ? To be frank you and the op's tenant are the same.
Leave girls that have a man alone leave women that are already married alone. There are over 3 billion single girls out there ..
Saying the bolded is natural means you and the op's wife are few steps from being unfortunate.. Damn I just hate black people ..  1 Like |
| Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by arazanbal: 1:00pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Why would you have a male tenant in your main apartment in your house in the first place? Which kind money u find reach dere nor to talk of him (tenant) having access into your kitchen and other places in your main apartment. Bros na u use ur hand buy market. Even if u tell d guy to pack out ur wife fit still pass ur back go do shit. Your church nor help mata by saying you should not shout for ur wife/guy or something because dm nor want loss member. (Dm prefer church membership dan ur marriage base on my own opinion) get urself prepared for any fallout of this your action. The gods are wise |
| Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by Thebadpolitican(m): 3:51pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
ZINNYBANKS:
All what you wrote is bullshit and im not sorry for calling you a fool also. Firstly you know quite alright that a girl had a BF and you didnt stop from calling her. Why are you guys like this ? To be frank you and the op's tenant are the same.
Leave girls that have a man alone leave women that are already married alone. There are over 3 billion single girls out there ..
Saying the bolded is natural means you and the op's wife are few steps from being unfortunate.. Damn I just hate black people .. She didn't tell me she had a guy.... Sometimes we can be selfish it's human I didnt just quit pushing. the said boyfriend called me and begged me to be reasonable with him and I saw reason to quit calling is girlfriend Yea it's natural to have crush even when you're married regardless of it being the man or the wife and its natural too to stand and fight of intruders |
| Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by ZINNYBANKS: 4:07pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Thebadpolitican:
She didn't tell me she had a guy....
Sometimes we can be selfish it's human I didnt just quit pushing. the said boyfriend called me and begged me to be reasonable with him and I saw reason to quit calling is girlfriend I'm really sorry for sounding rude earlier . but I just hate that act the reason for my aggression. Around November last year too , I asked a girl out and to before man and God I dont know she have a BF .
I asked her out and she told me plainly she have a BF and so I stopped my chat with her I even went as far as deleting her number . like a week or so I got a text back from her I knew it was her number cause her last two digit was my birthday date. And we starting chating she asked me why I stopped texting and I told her she got someone she was like is that the reason why I stopped texting.? I told her yes.
She said it doesent mean that what if she was joking that i ought to press more . inside me I was like cause na only u dey abi . once a girl says shes got someone or shes married abeg we guys let's respect that . pressing harder in wooing them will only make them feel more pompous and special and there's nothing I mean nothing special about these bitches I swear na 2020 I sabi that shit. |
| Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by Sweetvie: 4:27pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Nairaland with unending marriage wahala  |
| Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by Deegee7788: 4:53pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
JASONjnr:
You don't have any business with the said guy but with your wife....
Personally, I'd ensure that she gets the message by all means...
I supposed you know what it means of you give the young lad a quit notice...Your wife will likely continue the intimacy from afar without you monitoring her.
Are you sure they're not ex lovers? And those kids could be his...
If a woman can't understand that as a married person, you have to keep distance from men, then she's never seeing herself as a married woman.
Also check on yourself...Have you been giving her the attention that she needs? Ur last paragraph is the most important point. Have u been giving her the necessary attention? Say the truth. If no, pls change. Go closer to ur wife. Be with her while she is cooking since na kitchen the guy like to come meet her. Emulate good thing |
| Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by Thebadpolitican(m): 5:15pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
ZINNYBANKS:
I'm really sorry for sounding rude earlier . but I just hate that act the reason for my aggression. Around November last year too , I asked a girl out and to before man and God I dont know she have a BF .
I asked her out and she told me plainly she have a BF and so I stopped my chat with her I even went as far as deleting her number . like a week or so I got a text back from her I knew it was her number cause her last two digit was my birthday date. And we starting chating she asked me why I stopped texting and I told her she got someone she was like is that the reason why I stopped texting.? I told her yes.
She said it doesent mean that what if she was joking that i ought to press more . inside me I was like cause na only u dey abi . once a girl says shes got someone or shes married abeg we guys let's respect that . pressing harder in wooing them will only make them feel more pompous and special and there's nothing I mean nothing special about these bitches I swear na 2020 I sabi that shit. Stopping was a good idea she might have toyed with your feelings have been there |
| Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by Dshocker(m): 5:29pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
wonderr:
I have being living fine with my wife and two kids. She loves me an I love her too. Sincerely speaking she has being a very good wife. But now we have a problem, we got a tenant into our house last year, a single guy ever since this guy came into our house he has being showing so much love towards my kids buying them gifts from time to time almost everyday and this makes my wife like this guy and they have seem to be good friends, at first I feel cool with it thinking the guy is just nice and there is no strings attached, but lately I feel the intimacy is getting too much that even when am at home my wife would leave me inside and start talking to the guy outside at night, sometimes I would be inside and my wife would be cooking inside the kitchen this guy will leave whatever he is doing and go and keep my wife company in the kitchen, I started feeling disrespected I talked to her about it and she promised to ameliorate the third day same thing happened The guy came back from work and my wife was cooking at the kitchen before the guy even enter his room he went straight to the kitchen and start to keep her company again both of them alone at night all other tenants are in their rooms. I became very exasperated I had to walk up to the kitchen and tell her right in the guys presence that she is not okay and that is her last warning my intention of doing this is to let the guy know that am not cool with the intimacy between them that he should caution himself. now I feel am not being respected because after I warned her I believe she should have excused the guy and not give him so much attention again, now I think he is being kind to my kids just to gain my wife's attention, even if they both have a pure heart and nothing in mind if the intimacy continues It might later lead to relationship and sex, so I called her parents yesterday to inform them of what is happening they promise to talk to her, meanwhile she has invited the guy to our family church weeks ago. my only aunty that I can say she is the only family I gat because am the only child of my parents and am an orphan now, so I do not have many relatives this my aunt's husband is the pastor of the church. Now my wife has narrated the story to my aunt and she is now telling me I must not quarell with my wife or the guy because the guy is now a member of the church they do not want to loose a member I do not know what to do because my aunt seems to be at her side saying she can't do such thing but I know what I am seeing and experiencing at home if they can be doing such in my presence what would they do in my absence, and I do a shifting job I only sleep at hope for two weeks in a month am scared and confused, Don't want to loose her and I can't even give the guy a quit notice now because my only aunt wold be furious I don't want her to be mad at me she's the only family I gat am confused please advise me Bros na matter of time, e go happen, i swear. If your wife no gree ear word, beat nonsense comot from her head. |
| Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by Siirjoe(m): 6:45pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Patience is a Virtue.
when you're around. do you spend Quality Time with your Wife and Children ?
plus if your Wife can do all you wrote up there in your Presence, imagine what she'll do do in your Absence.
if you don't Trust Your Wife or you Sincerely believe there is something Romantic btw them . your only evidence is to Get evidence or Catch them in the Act.
my Advise is Get a secret Camera installed in your Flat and see what actually happens when you're not at Home. |
