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How Do I Get Over The Loss Of A Loved One by Stevebuffet(op): 4:02pm On Aug 27, 2023
Hello Nairalanders,

I just lost a loved one, my mom. She was so dear to me, she wasn’t just my mom, she was a friend, a gist partner, my planner. It’s been over a week now, I still can’t move on. I feel depressed right now. So disorganized lately.

Please I need help

Mods front page please
Re: How Do I Get Over The Loss Of A Loved One by Visocrate(m): 4:08pm On Aug 27, 2023
Eyah hard luck , it’s only time that heals the injury of the body. Keep her things away from you and keep friends that will keep you busy for a while until you can adapt to the new situation.
Re: How Do I Get Over The Loss Of A Loved One by wittywriter: 4:11pm On Aug 27, 2023
Stevebuffet:
Hello Nairalanders,

I just lost a loved one, my mom. She was so dear to me, she wasn’t just my mom, she was a friend, a gist partner, my planner. It’s been over a week now, I still can’t move on. I feel depressed right now. So disorganized lately.

Please I need help

Mods front page please
Grief in peace , time heals.




Wittyness
Re: How Do I Get Over The Loss Of A Loved One by Chibuzoripob: 4:13pm On Aug 27, 2023
sad sad sad Mothers are GOLD.There's none like a mother. Be STRONG and be of good COURAGE. May heaven strengthen you/ur family..



May God give you the fortitude to bear tye irreplaceable loss.

IT IS WELL WITH YOU
ACCEPT OUR SYMPATHY
Re: How Do I Get Over The Loss Of A Loved One by Kingosytex(m): 4:14pm On Aug 27, 2023
Stevebuffet:
Hello Nairalanders,

I just lost a loved one, my mom. She was so dear to me, she wasn’t just my mom, she was a friend, a gist partner, my planner. It’s been over a week now, I still can’t move on. I feel depressed right now. So disorganized lately.

Please I need help

Mods front page please
I'm so sorry about the loss of your mum. I've been in your shoes and I know how painful it is to lose one's Mum and/or a loved one. Just hold on and cheer up, get rid of whatsoever that might trigger her memories in your sub conscious.
Take a trip if possible to another location or locality and spend some time outside your normal abode.
I believe things will fall back to normal with time ___time heals all wounds and life goes on with or without anyone.
Once again, accept my condolences.
Re: How Do I Get Over The Loss Of A Loved One by Stevebuffet(op): 4:15pm On Aug 27, 2023
Visocrate:
Eyah hard luck , it’s only time that heals the injury of the body. Keep her things away from you and keep friends that will keep you busy for a while until you can adapt to the new situation.
Thanks
Re: How Do I Get Over The Loss Of A Loved One by Nobody: 4:16pm On Aug 27, 2023
Sorry for your loss. RIP to your mom.
Are you married?
Re: How Do I Get Over The Loss Of A Loved One by Stevebuffet(op): 4:17pm On Aug 27, 2023
Kingosytex:
I'm so sorry about the loss of your mum. I've been in your shoes and I know how painful it is to lose one's Mum and/or a loved one. Just hold on and cheer up, get rid of whatsoever that might trigger her memories in your sub conscious.
Take a trip if possible to another location or locality and spend some time outside your normal abode.
I believe things will fall back to normal with time ___time heals all wounds and life goes on with or without anyone.
Once again, accept my condolences.
Yeah. Thanks. At some point I had thought I had gotten over it but I’m back at the bottom of the barrel.
Re: How Do I Get Over The Loss Of A Loved One by Stevebuffet(op): 4:18pm On Aug 27, 2023
IconicR:
Sorry for your loss. RIP to your mom.
Are you married?
Not yet. That’s my greatest pain atm
Re: How Do I Get Over The Loss Of A Loved One by Nobody: 4:25pm On Aug 27, 2023
Stevebuffet:
Not yet. That’s my greatest pain atm
But you have a fiancee right?
Re: How Do I Get Over The Loss Of A Loved One by austine4real(m): 4:33pm On Aug 27, 2023
Sorry about your loss
Re: How Do I Get Over The Loss Of A Loved One by Stevebuffet(op): 5:12pm On Aug 27, 2023
IconicR:
But you have a fiancee right?
Yeah

Why do you ask?
Re: How Do I Get Over The Loss Of A Loved One by Sonnobax15(m): 5:13pm On Aug 27, 2023
lipsrsealed
My dear brother,I swear I can feel your pain right from here......Cuz I've once upon a time been in your shoe before....

And just like you,it was also my mom......

Trust me bro,with time,you will heal but the memories will always be there....Even tho they will likely to fade away with time,but not all of 'em.....

May her soul continue to RIP🙏. And may jah give you the strength to carry on....
Re: How Do I Get Over The Loss Of A Loved One by Stevebuffet(op): 6:10pm On Aug 27, 2023
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
My dear brother,I swear I can feel your pain right from here......Cuz I've once upon a time been in your shoe before....

And just like you,it was also my mom......

Trust me bro,with time,you will heal but the memories will always be there....Even tho they will likely to fade away with time,but not all of 'em.....

May her soul continue to RIP🙏. And may jah give you the strength to carry on....
Amen. Thanks bro
Re: How Do I Get Over The Loss Of A Loved One by THURAFTERNOON: 6:47pm On Aug 27, 2023
Wow so sorry brotha. Mine crossed in 2021 still in my early twenties so it really hits me so hard cos it’s when I needed her most ..and I still can’t get her away. It’s not even possible.. learnt to live with it already i just keep praying for Gods Strength cos it’s not easy at all . May the almighty God comfort you and family bro . Cold world out here. Just keep safe brosky and keep on doing things which would make her ever proud whenever she checks in with you cos I tell you she WILL NEVER LEAVE YOU … God accept her soul. Rest in peace to all our soldier mothers we lost 😞
Re: How Do I Get Over The Loss Of A Loved One by Warl0ck: 7:11pm On Aug 27, 2023
Stevebuffet:
Hello Nairalanders,

I just lost a loved one, my mom. She was so dear to me, she wasn’t just my mom, she was a friend, a gist partner, my planner. It’s been over a week now, I still can’t move on. I feel depressed right now. So disorganized lately.

Please I need help

Mods front page please
eyaaaaaaaaah

Re: How Do I Get Over The Loss Of A Loved One by Streetmovement(m): 7:12pm On Aug 27, 2023
Wotoporiously cool speaking

Sorry about that, trust in the process you'll be alright.
Re: How Do I Get Over The Loss Of A Loved One by Stevebuffet(op): 7:26pm On Aug 27, 2023
Warl0ck:
eyaaaaaaaaah
Lol. You’re not serious. Only the living can mourn the dead
Re: How Do I Get Over The Loss Of A Loved One by Stevebuffet(op): 7:33pm On Aug 27, 2023
THURAFTERNOON:
Wow so sorry brotha. Mine crossed in 2021 still in my early twenties so it really hits me so hard cos it’s when I needed her most ..and I still can’t get her away. It’s not even possible.. learnt to live with it already i just keep praying for Gods Strength cos it’s not easy at all . May the almighty God comfort you and family bro . Cold world out here. Just keep safe brosky and keep on doing things which would make her ever proud whenever she checks in with you cos I tell you she WILL NEVER LEAVE YOU … God accept her soul. Rest in peace to all our soldier mothers we lost 😞
Sorry about your mom. I feel the same deep hurt, at some point I thought I had gotten over it, but I feel bottom-barrel.
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