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Dizzyyish:
"A woman's 'happiness' comes at the cost of someone else's."
- Rosemund P. Cherubin

Most important of all, do not take pity. Do not enmesh yourself in trying to help. - Robert Greene

Ilekokonit:
My friends dad sat all his male children down when they were young and told him and his brothers that there is no good woman including his wife (their mum) and his own mum (their grand mother) and that man is not far from the truth.

This shaped my friends life that he is quite successful financially but he does not joke with his money with his wife. He only gives her the barest minimum and spends the rest investing in more and more rental property which is solely in his name.

Just remembered that his Dad also told him, his brothers and his male cousins that the day they get married, just before they allow their wife to enter their house, they should give her a dirty slap and if she does not follow them into the house, they should end the union on the spot.

Dizzyyish:
Your friend's dad keeps it real, but I'm curious about the bolded tho..

Hayee:


Seems these days men are more interested in women matters more than women themselves

OP make sure you create one hundred more threads about us ooo.

I'm so loving this unending attention


Nigerian men don't like good women
Nigerian men are addicted to heartless gold diggers

InfinityFabric:
The Bible version, as we all know Bible can't be fully trusted.


This is only human, not woman.


Correct. Women are allergic to accountability, this is why Men have to take charge so that women don't disgrace everyone.


Mostly.


This is a feature NOT a bug.
How's this a bad thing ? They're NOT capable of leading nor do they hands to fight for their beliefs.
Men and women are NOT the same.


Have you heard of true genuine desire ? She might NOT know what she wants until she met you and only wants to have your baby. I will overlook the other untrue points but this, I won't let it slide. How would you say "someone wouldn't know what they want..." Yet you say they're sensibly okay in their decision making

C'mon you can do better!

REDPILL exists so that you don't hate women for what they can never be to you.

Dizzyyish:
Ybigp5

Smartb0y:
Instinctively men value their peace of mind because that's how we function properly in order to grow and progress.
However in this modern times,men have been programmed to seek self destruction by associating with women without having any idea what havoc they're capable of creating.

Understanding the truth about women greatly restricts associating with them. Ideals like marriage would become non-existent.

Ironically, understanding women's nature might put a man in a narcissistic state although in the true sense, it's just a form of protecting one's mind from the chaotic nature of females.

To the weak man,the burden of understanding a woman is too great as it goes against all the principles that has been programmed in him from childhood.
He'd rather love them and continue the fantasy that he's not on a sinking ship which inevitable will lead to his demise if he doesn't keep himself in check.

Learn or perish

Dizzyyish:
An interesting comment:

Women don't leave unless you're crushed. They'll leave u if you're feeling worse than they are(crushed in spirit) Whether life has u down & depressed or they themselves have torn you down,(a fight for example) they will leave once they have brought u lower than them. Like a finishing move, witnessing her enemies'  complete destruction.
Psychotic, yes. But it's how emotional they are. If ur not strong enough to deal with them (& their crap) then ur not strong enough to keep them and make them look up to ur as "their man." Put it this way: "Women don't leave UNTIL you're crushed."

Women's minds are wired differently than ours & they have certain perceptions about men, and if we break those perceptions then we break whatever makes them want to be with us.
If a woman thinks a guy doesn't need her, then she is more likely to stick around. But if you ever say something to a woman like "I can't live without you", then that is the beginning of the end and she'll eventually leave. They always have to think that you can live without them. Women will forgive a guy that hits them, long before they forgive a guy who is weak.

ollyboy900:
All hail the prof. (Dizzyyish), professor of women behavioral pattern studies.
This is a very interesting read bro, only men who have see women shege would understand the hidden knowledge in this write ups. Permit me to archive this for the future.

Abeg where be your location bro? Make i send you one bush meat make you take do pepper soup.

Dizzyyish:
Women and children want freedom but they can't control themselves (chaotic). They'll simply hurt themselves and others in the process.

Adam wandered peacefully in the GARDEN (peace of mind) until Eve came, though, he didn't leave the GARDEN immediately.. Eve wanting freedom (chaos) ate the forbidden fruit and hurt herself. She had now acquired knowledge from the fruit and had become fully aware of what she's doing---but despite this, she then decided to hurt Adam in the process by feeding him the fruit (chaos), which in turn drove BOTH parties from the garden (peace of mind).

A majority of hardships women face in their lives is self-inflicted by their chaotic nature.
But of course, like children, they'll much rather blame others for their problems even going so far as to blame society--patriarchy, even though the patriarchy is there to keep them in line and protect them from themselves.

Because women lack proper adversities they are almost always unhappy since they don't get a sense of fulfillment from conquering said adversities. What 'joy' they interpret as 'happiness' is attained from devious antics such as, successfully manipulating someone, reaping what they did not sow and perceiving themselves as better than other (women) people i.e. schadenfreude.

"A woman's 'happiness' comes at the cost of someone else's."
- Rosemund P. Cherubin

A woman doesn't want to 'win', she only wants a winner---she is content with being a loser while being with a winner. Her idea of making it in life is being with someone who has made it in life.
One might reason that.. if they're unhappy then surely they'd find happiness in a relationship, right? No. If a person is unhappy and unfulfilled when single they'll remain unhappy in a relationship, except now, BOTH parties will be unhappy. If a person cannot make themselves happy and fulfilled then no one can.

"Avoid the unhappy and the unfortunate... Most important of all, do not take pity. Do not enmesh yourself in trying to help. The infector (unhappy/unfortunate) will remain unchanged and you will be unhinged." - Robert Greene