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Re: Betting, Womanising And Borrowing Addictions: I Lost My Job And Fled by MeGood91: 12:06am On Jul 12, 2025
ChildOfDoom:
betting hard since 2015

oloshos here and there since 2022


multiple loan sharks indebtedness since 2021



had to flee from my 6-digit paying job as i owe a lot physically and online


my misery is about to start
Exactly what i am battling
Gambing and borrowing
Re: Betting, Womanising And Borrowing Addictions: I Lost My Job And Fled by ViceGovernor: 12:48am On Jul 12, 2025
Op God has a message for you...the Lord says to tell you that the cup of his wrath which you have been drinking from and it has made you to stagger, he has taken it away from your hands and put it in the hands of your enemy.
Never again shall you drink from the dredges.
Re: Betting, Womanising And Borrowing Addictions: I Lost My Job And Fled by Bar1941(m): 1:01am On Jul 12, 2025
tunnyl:
Have you tried God?. He will fill that incomplete hole for you.
Millions of people that flocked the churches and mosques on a daily basis, are their problems solved?

Did you know why it’s not solved? Because God will not help those who are not ready to help themselves. Someone is indebted, you asked have he tried God, is God coming down to pay his debts or what?

The people that brought religion to us still work very hard. Before you see a church you would have seen hundreds of industries but for us, before we see an industry, you must have counted hundreds of churches.

God exists no doubt, but some problems need mainly human efforts and we don’t necessarily need to bother God about them.
Re: Betting, Womanising And Borrowing Addictions: I Lost My Job And Fled by InvertedHammer: 1:03am On Jul 12, 2025
gunners160:
Why na? Yes, we know its gud to serve God, but some times everything should not be tied around faith; even the bible says that faith without work is blind. This is some one that needs therapy and not God for now. It is after the therapy then u can introduce the gospel. Can you preach the gospel to a man who is starving or a woman who just lost her child. We attached everything to faith without looking at the cause of the problem. A doctor can only treat a sickness that he or she has diagnosed. Oh foolish Nigerians, who has bewitched us
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Nigeria and multiple prayers are good reasons to doubt God. How could people pray so much and remain at the bottom in all indices of life?

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Re: Betting, Womanising And Borrowing Addictions: I Lost My Job And Fled by Albinoflash(m): 1:18am On Jul 12, 2025
ChildOfDoom:
betting hard since 2015

oloshos here and there since 2022


multiple loan sharks indebtedness since 2021



had to flee from my 6-digit paying job as i owe a lot physically and online


my misery is about to start
hello bro long time this is a friend from a gambling recovery group,chat me up privately so wee can link up again,this time not in the group but personally
Re: Betting, Womanising And Borrowing Addictions: I Lost My Job And Fled by Amarachieze(m): 1:21am On Jul 12, 2025
gunners160:
Why na? Yes, we know its gud to serve God, but some times everything should not be tied around faith; even the bible says that faith without work is blind. This is some one that needs therapy and not God for now. It is after the therapy then u can introduce the gospel. Can you preach the gospel to a man who is starving or a woman who just lost her child. We attached everything to faith without looking at the cause of the problem. A doctor can only treat a sickness that he or she has diagnosed. Oh foolish Nigerians, who has bewitched us
It seems you are among many others I have come across who needs the deep understanding of the nature of God or spiritual issues for that matter:
For example you admitted that it is good to serve God but in this case what the OP needed was therapy and not God thereby undermining the sovereignty of God Almighty. In other words God has the ability to do somethings but not others. But if this (mis) conception is true then how is he God Almighty? Besides, is God's word (talking from christian perspective) not therapeutic?
Just imagine if the OP was guided by the biblical teachings on the 2 mentioned addictive behaviors - gambling and fornication. Furthermore what is the difference between counseling and therapy? Knowledge and wisdom (therapy) is of God the creator. He is the one give us the wisdom to make wealth and by extension wisdom to offer counsel or therapy. The creator of all things (GOD) is the architect of all wisdom, knowledge and power. We must learn to give him glory and no man should give glory to himself
Re: Betting, Womanising And Borrowing Addictions: I Lost My Job And Fled by DataDoc: 1:57am On Jul 12, 2025
terrezo2002:
The guys doesn't believe in God. He believes his problem is natural and can only be solved naturally.
That's where the problem is.

No matter the advice you give him here, he can't implement it.

Addictions come with a strong force and spirit. It's like quicksand. The more you struggle to get out, the deeper you sink.

For someone already gripped by multiple addictions, it can't be solved by just mere English and the advice we give him here.

Whatever he does, he should first experience the power of God which is a stronger force than all his addictions put together.

After that, all the other physical measures can have hope of working.
Re: Betting, Womanising And Borrowing Addictions: I Lost My Job And Fled by VaginaAcademic: 2:06am On Jul 12, 2025
I'm not an atheist but deep down I feel the concept of God was created to surpress and control humans into thinking an imaginary being who doesn't interact with his creation except through self appointed men of God could solve human problems caused by humans themselves.
Re: Betting, Womanising And Borrowing Addictions: I Lost My Job And Fled by b0rn2fuck(m): 2:06am On Jul 12, 2025
SocialJustice:
Abeg rest, what will God do? The millions of people starving everyday, what has prayer solved? Even you typing, when was the last time you ate good food? What has God done for you?
seun osewa will not die in Jesus name, he has help a lot of people on nairaland
Re: Betting, Womanising And Borrowing Addictions: I Lost My Job And Fled by Jibsonified(m): 2:22am On Jul 12, 2025
This right here is an AI generated response:
Be original guys!(smh)


RavinWolf:
Ah my guy, e be like say you don chop life for front and life dey drag you for back now! But no worry — as e be say you still dey alive to type this message, hope never lost. 😅

See ehn, I go yarn you something wey go clear your head small:


Since 2015 you dey bet like say na Bet9ja go carry you enter Forbes, oloshos don dey dance shoki for your head since 2022, loan sharks dey pursue you like say you na meat for soup. Bro, na movie wey Netflix never get budget to produce! 🎬😂

But hear this:

🗣️ Wanda bata ji tsoron ruwan sama ba, zata yi wanka da safe!
Person wey no fear rain go baff early morning.

You don start the cruise, na to dance the music remain.

🗣️ Ti eniyan ba subu, ko maa wo iwaju, kì í maa wo ẹhìn!
If person fall, make e dey look front, no be back.

My brother, the shame no dey back, na tomorrow fit shine like new iPhone. 📱

So here be my funny but solid advice:

Bro, enter lowkey mode like snake wey just chop goat. Block all loan sharks like say you dey do ‘social media detox’. Avoid olosho like malaria mosquito. Na time to change password to ‘NewLife2025’ and press reset.🔄

And if dem ever catch you? Just pretend say you be motivational speaker wey dey study ‘financial trauma for self-growth’ — e dey work! 🤓

No forget, No be who chop pepper soup first dey win drinking competition. 🐟

Gather your life like garri for bowl before water soak am finish. You fit still turn this script to testimony.

I dey your back like MTN network, small small, we go dey alright. 😎💪🏾

You wan make I help you draft fake apology message to one of the loan sharks or oloshos wey still dey disturb you? 😂
Re: Betting, Womanising And Borrowing Addictions: I Lost My Job And Fled by Anchor12: 2:30am On Jul 12, 2025
SocialJustice:
Abeg rest, what will God do? The millions of people starving everyday, what has prayer solved? Even you typing, when was the last time you ate good food? What has God done for you?
But God is still faithful to keep them alive, once there is life, there is hope and with hope, you can still move mountains bro
Re: Betting, Womanising And Borrowing Addictions: I Lost My Job And Fled by Anchor12: 2:31am On Jul 12, 2025
SocialJustice:
Abeg rest, what will God do? The millions of people starving everyday, what has prayer solved? Even you typing, when was the last time you ate good food? What has God done for you?
But God is still faithful to keep them alive, once there is life, there is hope and with hope, you can still move mountains bro[i][/i]
Re: Betting, Womanising And Borrowing Addictions: I Lost My Job And Fled by Ewedegubbler: 2:45am On Jul 12, 2025
I bet. I womanise I don’t borrow. But I still have lots of money.

U are struggling because you either havnt worked hard and smart enough or u are just in the wrong business or located in a poverty stricken environment.

Change your environment, friends and occupation and u are gone prosper
Re: Betting, Womanising And Borrowing Addictions: I Lost My Job And Fled by MissOpe(f): 2:45am On Jul 12, 2025
tunnyl:
If you don’t see my answer as adequate or valid then God will answer you in heaven when we all meet him. No stress me abeg. I know prayers works thats all that matters.
When we all meet him grin grin grin....
Because you read that in a book written by someone like u, or he told u that personally?
Herd mentality!
Re: Betting, Womanising And Borrowing Addictions: I Lost My Job And Fled by Lekby25: 3:07am On Jul 12, 2025
gunners160:
Why na? Yes, we know its gud to serve God, but some times everything should not be tied around faith; even the bible says that faith without work is blind. This is some one that needs therapy and not God for now. It is after the therapy then u can introduce the gospel. Can you preach the gospel to a man who is starving or a woman who just lost her child. We attached everything to faith without looking at the cause of the problem. A doctor can only treat a sickness that he or she has diagnosed. Oh foolish Nigerians, who has bewitched us
But you should know that the guy got into all that mess in the first place because God was completely out of his life. Someone who has the Spirit of God at work in him will not get himself involved in those things he mentioned
Re: Betting, Womanising And Borrowing Addictions: I Lost My Job And Fled by AngelicBeing: 3:44am On Jul 12, 2025
InvertedHammer:
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Nigeria and multiple prayers are good reasons to doubt God. How could people pray so much and remain at the bottom in all indices of life?

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1)Because FAITH WITHOUT WORK is Dead

2) FAITH standing alone without corresponding ACTIONS is Dead

3) Prayers without Action is dead

4) You can be Religious( prayerful )and not be righteous or Void of the Fear of God and it leads you to a Dead end

5) Faith without corresponding ACTIONS, like Works, Love for one another, Fear of God, , thinking SMART and working hard is DEAD


6) God has given us Brains to think so that we can allow him to rest


7) God is tired of useless prayers void of Mercy, godliness, Fear of God, love your neighbor as you love yourself, work and THINK SMART, leave your Comfort Zone to Solve problems of people that will bring wealth and money into your hands etc as long as you keep doing some of what l enumerated above, you or the Nation will start seeing changes otherwise FAITH WITHOUT WORK IS DEAD......





Hahaha 😂
Re: Betting, Womanising And Borrowing Addictions: I Lost My Job And Fled by ruffhandu: 3:48am On Jul 12, 2025
tunnyl:
Have you tried God?. He will fill that incomplete hole for you.
You just wasted that line. Can't you see that the guy is not real? he is just catching cruise. Who comes on line to drop such issue the way he just wrote? I am 99.2% sure this story is fake, if it is true, then the person who posted it here is not the protagonist.
Re: Betting, Womanising And Borrowing Addictions: I Lost My Job And Fled by ChybuzzDD(m): 4:01am On Jul 12, 2025
tunnyl:
Better move close to God before it is too late. Your life will be better if you do. I am not talking about money.
All these yeye talks!
Do you know how many poor Nigerians that call on God every day?
When last did you hear that this God miraculously made any of them rich?

You folks believe ìn these things because you were told to do so and you see people around you doing the same, not because you have any way of verifying them or any personal experience about the existence of any God.
Re: Betting, Womanising And Borrowing Addictions: I Lost My Job And Fled by livinbygrace: 4:38am On Jul 12, 2025
ChildOfDoom:
betting hard since 2015

oloshos here and there since 2022


multiple loan sharks indebtedness since 2021



had to flee from my 6-digit paying job as i owe a lot physically and online


my misery is about to start
If you like quit or continue ,i am not here to advise you.As people are condemning betting i know so many people that have built mansion and even training their children up to University level with gambling money,so anything that work for you do it.
Re: Betting, Womanising And Borrowing Addictions: I Lost My Job And Fled by Berankis: 4:41am On Jul 12, 2025
SocialJustice:
Abeg rest, what will God do? The millions of people starving everyday, what has prayer solved? Even you typing, when was the last time you ate good food? What has God done for you?
There is God. And He is so wonderful that when you feel all is lost and the end has come, that is when He will show up in your life to proof to you that He is God!
Besides, he is not asking anything from you than to just believe. You don't need all the Pastors, Prophets, Imams etc, you only need your faith and quiet time with Him. Anyone who asks Him for help will surely get it.
God exists and He works.
Re: Betting, Womanising And Borrowing Addictions: I Lost My Job And Fled by Worksunlimited: 4:44am On Jul 12, 2025
ChildOfDoom:
betting hard since 2015

oloshos here and there since 2022


multiple loan sharks indebtedness since 2021



had to flee from my 6-digit paying job as i owe a lot physically and online


my misery is about to start
Your misery is not about to start but your freedom from the shackles of the enemy...

Turn to God with all sincerity and humility of heart and confess all, laying it before his feet, seeking His help, for it is written Matthew 11.28 - Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”

Go back to the one True God today and always and you shall find not only your strength rest but restoration of all things the enemy has taken from you, through devisive means, as it is written in Joel 2:25 - “I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten.

Believe in His word, be a doer of His word and you shall find redemption always, in Jesus name. Amen!.

Be well. Shalom.
Re: Betting, Womanising And Borrowing Addictions: I Lost My Job And Fled by abbey621(m): 4:59am On Jul 12, 2025
This is still baby addiction, you've not reached professional level yet.........You haven't stolen just to gamble, you haven't slept with OS knowing you don't have shin shin to pay........You haven't sold someone else's property just to gamble.......Heck, you still dey chop, you never used the money to gamble or carry OS so tey na only your head dey big, the rest of your body na stick grin grin grin grin

Re: Betting, Womanising And Borrowing Addictions: I Lost My Job And Fled by Richpet85: 6:15am On Jul 12, 2025
What a name; Childofdoom, your name portray your writeup and the way you attack someone who refer you to God is incredible. I think you need grace of God. Life is about the choice and decision because both can either make or destroy you.
Since this ugly behaviour of yours started at some point in your life and it is traceable to a particular time, try to think of whom you were before it all started and rewind yourself to that period when you were good and things were normal with you. You have lots of opportunities once you have life, you can begin a fresh start, starting with changing your friends and environment if you can then things will naturally fall in into places.
Re: Betting, Womanising And Borrowing Addictions: I Lost My Job And Fled by tobore4u(m): 6:22am On Jul 12, 2025
Chickensoup:
I find it hard to believe those are addictions but I might be ignorant.

The first goal of stopping an addiction is having a reason to see it as bad. Bad in the sense of harming you not religious or supernatural.

Second is the will power. Do you really want to stop it and are you ready to stop it.

Third is dedication. Are you constantly reminding yourself that those actions are bad and able to eliminate any thoughts of doubt.

Fourth is time. The body adjust to things we do everyday that is why we humans are very special.

The last is believe in yourself. Nothing is too late and until you start walking, you won't reach your goal.
Don't ask Nairaland members for contact details (email, phone, bbpin) or investments.
Re: Betting, Womanising And Borrowing Addictions: I Lost My Job And Fled by tobore4u(m): 6:33am On Jul 12, 2025
Goo0dHardDick:
Dude learn to shut up on important conversations like this. Wtf is what has God done for you? Are you okay at all? The air alone you're breathing, is it your fada that manufactured it? Your being alive, is it by your power?

No let me tear you hot slap for there
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Re: Betting, Womanising And Borrowing Addictions: I Lost My Job And Fled by Bigcowhorn: 6:34am On Jul 12, 2025
omolasho:
i wholly relate with your challenge , i wish we could talk. Lord have mercy on us.
I heard that problem with olosho but never betting

Everyday a different woman. Some days three different women. Money never lasts in my hand and when what I have finished I steal to rush and Bleep

Today I'm a satisfied business man with a young wife




Until you say enough is enough you won't stop and it will destroy you
Re: Betting, Womanising And Borrowing Addictions: I Lost My Job And Fled by jimmynauty: 6:40am On Jul 12, 2025
ChildOfDoom:
betting hard since 2015

oloshos here and there since 2022


multiple loan sharks indebtedness since 2021



had to flee from my 6-digit paying job as i owe a lot physically and online


my misery is about to start
It's well

Your problem will longer if you focus on them...need to change your focus to solution.
Re: Betting, Womanising And Borrowing Addictions: I Lost My Job And Fled by xest(m): 6:57am On Jul 12, 2025
SocialJustice:
Abeg rest, what will God do? The millions of people starving everyday, what has prayer solved? Even you typing, when was the last time you ate good food? What has God done for you?
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. My brother nice response. Everything turn to God,that's why we don't succeed here in Africa. Everything na God,turn to God to change the government and things are spoiling more n more.
Re: Betting, Womanising And Borrowing Addictions: I Lost My Job And Fled by sacajawea(m): 7:08am On Jul 12, 2025
ChildOfDoom:
betting hard since 2015

oloshos here and there since 2022


multiple loan sharks indebtedness since 2021



had to flee from my 6-digit paying job as i owe a lot physically and online


my misery is about to start
Okay.
Wish I had Powers to bring out all those & deleted posts...
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