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I have this big ass Nebor that has been stylishly been giving me green light . All the time she keeps saying she wants to cook for me . At a time she opened to me that's she is broke at the moment that even money to chop say she no get . Now she is suggesting she comes to my place tomorrow to cook for me and also take some part of the food to her place while seems cool but the issue now is I don't trust people easily but one mind is telling me to allow her to do the cooking . Mind you I no wan nak her. She is just a girl I noticed that's into me and from what I'm seeing she likes me. One mine is telling me to just send her some money so she can find something to eat . She helps me atimes with house chores but to this extent of cooking a good I will eat . I'm not really comfortable with it . We all know the country we live in . To avoid story . So guys in the house what do you really think I should do in this situation

Person dry hungry, dey find food...


You say na green light, she is into you.


She has a big axx... you have a bigger ego.


My big axx neighbor is into me... scoffs!

Talk true .. to nake her dey your eyes abi ?

In my humble opinion, allow her to come and cook. Its no big deal because she offered to do it at your own expense though. While she is cooking try to initiate conversations with her and make the house lively. Organise games like ludo, whot or chess to keep you occupied. Most girls with big bum bum are usually nice and caring.

Escabado:
I have this big ass Nebor that has been to do story . So guys in the house what do you really think I should do in this situation

Your neighbor is already planning who will continuously be paying her house rent

I thank you all for your comments. I have decided to send her some money to take hold her self . I no want make she cook for me because she has a serious relationship. I no just want take advantage of her . She respects me a lot and holds me at high esteem. Most of you here may not understand what I'm saying . Nobi every girl dem dey nak or allow to come that too close to extent of cooking your food.

MarketDispatch:
Your neighbor is already planning who will continuously be paying her house rent

Lol nobi for were I dey oo . Paying her rent is not an issue to me o but which I can't ever do .the area I'm thinking is totally different.the girl knows I'm rich so I dey try avoid her too much closeness

Rega99:
In my humble opinion, allow her to come and cook. Its no big deal because she offered to do it at your own expense though. While she is cooking try to initiate conversations with her and make the house lively. Organise games like ludo, whot or chess to keep you occupied. Most girls with big bum bum are usually nice and caring.

I can't allow her that close to me . U nogo understand. There are areas I want to help her she refused. So why she now wan come dey cook for me . Me too go refuse

That she has a big azz is not a guarantee that her to_toe is sweet besides it's not a good ideas to go into a relationship with a lady who lives in the same compound as you

TotoSuckker:
That she has a big azz is not a guarantee that her to_toe is sweet besides it's not a good ideas to go into a relationship with a lady who lives in the same compound as you

She has serious relationship which I know and I can't even date her . But wetin she dey find were I dey na wetin me no no . May be she feels I'm rich . Never the less I want to send her some money to take hold herself and feed

Escabado:
I thank you all for your comments. I have decided to send her some money to take hold her self . I no want make she cook for me because she has a serious relationship. I no just want take advantage of her . She respects me a lot and holds me at high esteem. Most of you here may not understand what I'm saying . Nobi every girl dem dey nak or allow to come that too close to extent of cooking your food.

Best decision, nicely done bro, but also don't hesitate, to
Extend a hand of help to a guy struggling too in your neigbourehood make e balance, brotherhood is proud of you🫡😎

Sucre6:
Best decision, nicely done bro, but also don't hesitate, to
Extend a hand of help to a guy struggling too in your neigbourehood make e balance, brotherhood is proud of you🫡😎

I help guys on normal . Even on daily basis. A lot of guys make daily bread from me . Upto 6 to 7 guys daily . That one nobi issue

Let me translate what is happening here.
She is broke. She has no food. She has been sending you signals. Now she wants to come to your house, cook, eat your food, and take some home.
That is not a woman who wants to cook for you. That is a woman who wants to eat. You happen to have a kitchen.
You already know this. That is why you are uncomfortable.
Now you said you do not want to sleep with her. Respect. But understand what you are inviting into your space. A hungry woman who likes you, alone in your house. Emotions are not calculators. Situations escalate. You said yourself. we know the country we live in.
The smarter move is the one you already thought of. Send her something small for food and keep your distance. That way you are not cold, you are not cruel, but you are also not opening a door you are not ready to walk through.
Helping from a distance is still helping. You do not have to let someone into your home to show decency.
Protect your space. Protect your peace. A man's home is his headquarters. Be careful who you let in.
Send the money. Keep the door closed.
HEED

Escabado:
I have this big ass Nebor that has been stylishly been giving me green light . All the time she keeps saying she wants to cook for me . At a time she opened to me that's she is broke at the moment that even money to chop say she no get . Now she is suggesting she comes to my place tomorrow to cook for me and also take some part of the food to her place while seems cool but the issue now is I don't trust people easily but one mind is telling me to allow her to do the cooking . Mind you I no wan nak her. She is just a girl I noticed that's into me and from what I'm seeing she likes me. One mine is telling me to just send her some money so she can find something to eat . She helps me atimes with house chores but to this extent of cooking a good I will eat . I'm not really comfortable with it . We all know the country we live in . To avoid story . So guys in the house what do you really think I should do in this situation

U wan start wetin u no go fit finish

Escabado:
She has serious relationship which I know and I can't even date her . But wetin she dey find were I dey na wetin me no no . May be she feels I'm rich . Never the less I want to send her some money to take hold herself and feed

Don't do it, your saving are about to enter Ass trap.

She's like the female mottel

Knack her and clean mouth
Never reject free food.

Escabado:
I help guys on normal . Even on daily basis. A lot of guys make daily bread from me . Upto 6 to 7 guys daily . That one nobi issue

Na man u be 🤝

galantjoe:
Knack her and clean mouth
Never reject free food.

Op never follow this advice,this is a voice from the devil

You already allowed her to do house chores for you... You gave the green light bro... Finish what you started.

Escabado:
I have this big ass Nebor that has been stylishly been giving me green light . All the time she keeps saying she wants to cook for me . At a time she opened to me that's she is broke at the moment that even money to chop say she no get . Now she is suggesting she comes to my place tomorrow to cook for me and also take some part of the food to her place while seems cool but the issue now is I don't trust people easily but one mind is telling me to allow her to do the cooking . Mind you I no wan nak her. She is just a girl I noticed that's into me and from what I'm seeing she likes me. One mine is telling me to just send her some money so she can find something to eat . She helps me atimes with house chores but to this extent of cooking a good I will eat . I'm not really comfortable with it . We all know the country we live in . To avoid story . So guys in the house what do you really think I should do in this situation

Escabado:
I thank you all for your comments. I have decided to send her some money to take hold her self . I no want make she cook for me because she has a serious relationship. I no just want take advantage of her . She respects me a lot and holds me at high esteem. Most of you here may not understand what I'm saying . Nobi every girl dem dey nak or allow to come that too close to extent of cooking your food.

Yes you can give her money but she doesn't have to come and cook for you. But after writing all these things, don't come back tomorrow and start complaining that upon all you did for her, she did not allow you pass through her strait of Hormuz

OYA BOSS, ME I NEED HELP FROM YOU TOO...AT ALL AT ALL

Escabado:
I help guys on normal . Even on daily basis. A lot of guys make daily bread from me . Upto 6 to 7 guys daily . That one nobi issue

Escabado:
She has serious relationship which I know and I can't even date her . But wetin she dey find were I dey na wetin me no no . May be she feels I'm rich . Never the less I want to send her some money to take hold herself and feed

Did she work for you & you are sending her the money as payment for her services?

Or you just want to be nice to her & prevent her from coming to cook for you?

If the latter is the case, then I can guarantee you that you want to start what you can't finish. She'll turn you into a mugu & anytime she needs money, she'll tell you she wants to come & cook for you, & that's how you will keep on dashing her money freely & any day you you fail to give her money, she'll become enemies with you without minding all the good you have done for her. Let those wey dey fück her, give her money or food.

Why not shelve the idea of giving her money? Simply tell her you are not interested in her coming to cook for you.
But if you are not bold enough, look for a convenient reason so she doesn't feel offended, eg. Tell her that in your tradition, it is a taboo for you to eat food cooked by a female neighbor you are not married to or related to. Or tell her you have been placed on special diet & you can't eat what she's cooking.

Note: If she were in your shoes, she will be ruthless with her decisions without giving a damn about how you will feel. She'll easily tell you she doesn't want you to cook for her, & she'll never care to make it up to you by giving you money.

Escabado:
I thank you all for your comments. I have decided to send her some money to take hold her self . I no want make she cook for me because she has a serious relationship. I no just want take advantage of her . She respects me a lot and holds me at high esteem. Most of you here may not understand what I'm saying . Nobi every girl dem dey nak or allow to come that too close to extent of cooking your food.

She's in a serious relationship and she dey show you green light and decided to cook for you as a good neighbor or what?
There's nothing I won't read from this space.
Serious relationship to the mud😌

Uptheante:
Did she work for you & you are sending her the money as payment for her services?

.

There is nothing I tell her to do for me that she will not do . I have tested her loyalty a little and she passed. When I say she does shores for me that doesn't mean she comes into my house to do it . So when she opened up to do that she is hungry and she doesn't have food as well . I checked back there have been some things I asked her to do for me in the past which she did without asking me for money . I'm a human been naa I just reason say mek I find her some money. I have send her some money already and she was very happy about it . There are other things she can do for me but u see her cooking my food. I'm not yet comfortable about it

EmmyMaestro:
Yes you can give her money but she doesn't have to come and cook for you. But after writing all these things, don't come back tomorrow and start complaining that upon all you did for her, she did not allow you pass through her strait of Hormuz

Lol guy u no no me very well . Na me dey even teach geh geh work . I nobi dat kain person at all . U see this particular girl she worth the money I give am . She has done work for me wey even pass the money I dash her .

Escabado:
I have this big ass Nebor that has been stylishly been giving me green light . All the time she keeps saying she wants to cook for me . At a time she opened to me that's she is broke at the moment that even money to chop say she no get . Now she is suggesting she comes to my place tomorrow to cook for me and also take some part of the food to her place while seems cool but the issue now is I don't trust people easily but one mind is telling me to allow her to do the cooking . Mind you I no wan nak her. She is just a girl I noticed that's into me and from what I'm seeing she likes me. One mine is telling me to just send her some money so she can find something to eat . She helps me atimes with house chores but to this extent of cooking a good I will eat . I'm not really comfortable with it . We all know the country we live in . To avoid story . So guys in the house what do you really think I should do in this situation

lol. She likes you? Abi she likes what you have to offer? 😂

MarketDispatch:
Your neighbor is already planning who will continuously be paying her house rent

wahlai. The guy too naive. Na him confidence inside strong Delulu for me.

Escabado:
I have this big ass Nebor that has been stylishly been giving me green light . All the time she keeps saying she wants to cook for me . At a time she opened to me that's she is broke at the moment that even money to chop say she no get . Now she is suggesting she comes to my place tomorrow to cook for me and also take some part of the food to her place while seems cool but the issue now is I don't trust people easily but one mind is telling me to allow her to do the cooking . Mind you I no wan nak her. She is just a girl I noticed that's into me and from what I'm seeing she likes me. One mine is telling me to just send her some money so she can find something to eat . She helps me atimes with house chores but to this extent of cooking a good I will eat . I'm not really comfortable with it . We all know the country we live in . To avoid story . So guys in the house what do you really think I should do in this situation

But you are used to women and can handle their stories just like the ghana big ya.

Toorh


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