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Re: I'm Dating My Friend's Sister But He Doesn't Know. by WackyJ1(m): 9:15pm On Dec 15, 2013
The Op is just a kid and a coward with no balls
Re: I'm Dating My Friend's Sister But He Doesn't Know. by Fraternize(m): 9:19pm On Dec 15, 2013
Fratenizing right under her father's nose? Mehnnnn, u bad. Anyway, let your friend know you are in to his sister? I must confess most of us guys wouldn't want our friends to date our siss. If you really serious about her and you don't have the intention of playing around, its best you fill in your friend.
Re: I'm Dating My Friend's Sister But He Doesn't Know. by winteriscoming: 9:35pm On Dec 15, 2013
Tell him now. He will feel betrayed if you dont tell him on time. My sister and my friend are dating, they told me right from the beginning. I didnt really care, they are both adults; what's my own?

But i did appreciate the gesture tough.
Re: I'm Dating My Friend's Sister But He Doesn't Know. by lasunray(m): 9:41pm On Dec 15, 2013
Fraternize: Fratenizing right under her father's nose? Mehnnnn, u bad. Anyway, let your friend know you are in to his sister? I must confess most of us guys wouldn't want our friends to date our siss. If you really serious about her and you don't have the intention of playing around, its best you fill in your friend.
I'll fill him in
Re: I'm Dating My Friend's Sister But He Doesn't Know. by lasunray(m): 9:47pm On Dec 15, 2013
winteriscoming: Tell him now. He will feel betrayed if you dont tell him on time. My sister and my friend are dating, they told me right from the beginning. I didnt really care, they are both adults; what's my own?

But i did appreciate the gesture tough.

I will let him know ASAP. But what of his reaction. dunno if I'll be able to withstand it.
or what if he says "NEVER!!!"
Re: I'm Dating My Friend's Sister But He Doesn't Know. by lasunray(m): 9:51pm On Dec 15, 2013
The funny thing is that he always check my call logs and messages.
Usually ask for who my gf is cos he said I don't talk about girls or gf.
Re: I'm Dating My Friend's Sister But He Doesn't Know. by ovokeiv1(m): 10:33pm On Dec 15, 2013
lasunray: The funny thing is that he always check my call logs and messages.
Usually ask for who my gf is cos he said I don't talk about girls or gf.
yea he z feeling it already..... ure so dead wen he finds out.
grin grin grin
Re: I'm Dating My Friend's Sister But He Doesn't Know. by andyanders: 10:37pm On Dec 15, 2013
stay clear from his sister as he might at the end give u rat poison.
Re: I'm Dating My Friend's Sister But He Doesn't Know. by optimism91(m): 10:52pm On Dec 15, 2013
lasunray:

It will surely end well
If you were too sure about it, why then are you seeking for our opinions. Remember, its betrayal, for you to be dating your (best) friend's sister without his knowledge. Do to men as you would like them do to you. That's my take. Let your conscience judge you.
Re: I'm Dating My Friend's Sister But He Doesn't Know. by Missy89(f): 11:19pm On Dec 15, 2013
why do guys hate it when their friend's date their sister? i dont gerrit
Re: I'm Dating My Friend's Sister But He Doesn't Know. by pcaptain38(f): 12:38am On Dec 16, 2013
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Re: I'm Dating My Friend's Sister But He Doesn't Know. by Fajzay: 1:06am On Dec 16, 2013
oluafolabi: It won't end well.

It never ends well.

How do you mean? Depends on your intent. Are you dating her just for the pot of stew - I can assure you, any fallout is tantamount to loosing your friendship. But if u mean well and u have a pure intent, then you are safe. FYI, I married my friends kid sister (mind you I was his best man at his wedding and that was my first meeting with her). It ends well !!!
Re: I'm Dating My Friend's Sister But He Doesn't Know. by Fajzay: 1:07am On Dec 16, 2013
Missy_89: why do guys hate it when their friend's date their sister? i dont gerrit

Becos they knw their friends very well. Either a player / they are both players. You dont want such for ur sister na. Would u?
Re: I'm Dating My Friend's Sister But He Doesn't Know. by Fajzay: 1:08am On Dec 16, 2013
Eyop:

If you value the relationship between yourself and your friend,then you shouldn't think of dating his sister. It means you don't regard him. If you know it's good,then inform your boyfriend about it and see his reaction.

Why can't he date his friends sister. I married mine

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Re: I'm Dating My Friend's Sister But He Doesn't Know. by sanspiffy(m): 5:34am On Dec 16, 2013
oluafolabi:

It goes against the #BroCode.

---> Never date or have sexual relations with a Bro's sister, half-sister or mother.
ammendment 3 on the #brocode if the sister is really hot she is no longer protected under article 19.... so the question..... is the sister hot?
Re: I'm Dating My Friend's Sister But He Doesn't Know. by c4sam(m): 6:54am On Dec 16, 2013
lasunray:

"you fit kill that your friend be dat" you think so?
am still trying to comprehend what the brother will do b4 breaking the news to him.
two thing involves is either he break up wit U̶̲̥̅̊ or He make her sister life miserable. So b4 U̶̲̥̅̊ break d news 2 him jst thing abt dat. But guy U̶̲̥̅̊ A̶̲̥̅̊я̲̣̥ε̲̣̣̣̥ ɑ̤̥̈̊ punkass mehn
Re: I'm Dating My Friend's Sister But He Doesn't Know. by c4sam(m): 6:58am On Dec 16, 2013
Missy_89: why do guys hate it when their friend's date their sister? i dont gerrit
missy he no make sense nah. Ω̴̩̩̩̥α big time bleeped up mehn. U̶̲̥̅̊ can be М̣̣̥̇̊Ɣ friend and still dating М̣̣̥̇̊Ɣ sister Oº°˚˚°ºo . ℓ̊ can only gree if U̶̲̥̅̊ first meet М̣̣̥̇̊Ɣ sista b4 me and can't be best friend.
Re: I'm Dating My Friend's Sister But He Doesn't Know. by hardeyincah(m): 7:07am On Dec 16, 2013
rubbish! betrayal of friendship.. love is not planned!!!
it is u that planned d lust....
Re: I'm Dating My Friend's Sister But He Doesn't Know. by Nobody: 8:12am On Dec 16, 2013
Kk oo
Re: I'm Dating My Friend's Sister But He Doesn't Know. by farano(f): 8:42am On Dec 16, 2013
I've been really tempted to do such but can neva try it.
Re: I'm Dating My Friend's Sister But He Doesn't Know. by lasunray(m): 10:24am On Dec 16, 2013
sanspiffy: ammendment 3 on the #brocode if the sister is really hot she is no longer protected under article 19.... so the question..... is the sister hot?

very HOT. Physically & Character-wise
Re: I'm Dating My Friend's Sister But He Doesn't Know. by lasunray(m): 10:26am On Dec 16, 2013
@farano:
I've been really tempted to do such but can neva try it.

diff strokes...
Re: I'm Dating My Friend's Sister But He Doesn't Know. by lasunray(m): 10:27am On Dec 16, 2013
Fajzay:

Why can't he date his friends sister. I married mine

Positive energy

I'll
Re: I'm Dating My Friend's Sister But He Doesn't Know. by WackyJ1(m): 10:39am On Dec 16, 2013
You disgust me OP... The very behaviour and indecisiveness you have shown here has proven you to be a spineless greedy backstabber. angry angry

You don't want something to go wrong,, and Yet you know you should tell your friend...
The only reason you feel you should tell your friend is because you are scared that he might find out later and things will go wrong...

OP you are scared to lose this girl and thay takes preCedence over your willingness to do the right thing. Yes that is selfishnes i smell, if it were me i will never trust you with anything again since you think like a wussy.

Go and tell your friend if you know you have no ulterior motives and stop acting like a criminal .

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Re: I'm Dating My Friend's Sister But He Doesn't Know. by Carsonv(m): 10:42am On Dec 16, 2013
The fact you're keeping it secret makes your intention look more suspicious. Truth is, guys don't like their friends dating their sister because only one out of the numerous relationships we(guys) startup end in marriage. The rest is statistics and they don't want their sister to be the statistics that you(the friend) constantly remind them of whenever they see you. Guys love their women finally!

So do the needful. Talk to the guy about it.
But seriously, if you don't have intentions to take the relationship to marriage, just quit it. Cos when the relationship ends, it'll screw up all other relationships that exist between both families(both the office relationship between her dad and your mum, your friendship with the brother, the little likeness the sisters and mum have for you). Infact you'll screw everything up with the little act of indiscretion.

Do some soul-searching. Cos I deduce from your post that it seems the girl kind of initiated the relationship by first showing love and leaving you in a 'helpless' situation. Some girls are like that, they don't know the enormity of a relationship with their brother's friend.
Re: I'm Dating My Friend's Sister But He Doesn't Know. by extremelygolden: 1:35pm On Dec 16, 2013
lasunray:

It will surely end well
It depends on the age of the parties involved.

The best friend of my friend married his only sister.

They dated for years without their knowledge, until the
day the guy and his family came formally to seek my friend's sister's
hand in marriage.

Today, they are happily married with kids! And for the fact that he
married his best friend's younger sister, he treats her with the best
any man could give to his wife, at least, for his friend's sake.

And I pray the Op's own last too.
Re: I'm Dating My Friend's Sister But He Doesn't Know. by tsharp(m): 2:10pm On Dec 16, 2013
Always do unto others as u would they do to u.

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Re: I'm Dating My Friend's Sister But He Doesn't Know. by katsim(m): 3:15pm On Dec 16, 2013
Make sure you love her from ur heart and try and marry her, but for God sake if you don`t love her please let her be, because if you hurt her your friend will hate you for life put your self on his shoes too so do the right thing
Re: I'm Dating My Friend's Sister But He Doesn't Know. by katsim(m): 3:18pm On Dec 16, 2013
It is not wrong to love but it is wrong for you to lust after her
Re: I'm Dating My Friend's Sister But He Doesn't Know. by Nobody: 3:39pm On Dec 16, 2013
guy,u are selfish nd a thief.u dont want any of ur frnds 2 date ur sister but u find it amazingly comfortable to date ur frnd's sister.A big shame!
Re: I'm Dating My Friend's Sister But He Doesn't Know. by ARareGem(f): 3:51pm On Dec 16, 2013
sanspiffy: ammendment 3 on the #brocode if the sister is really hot she is no longer protected under article 19.... so the question..... is the sister hot?
Like seriously?? grin grin This is a case of pure unadulterated lust! angry
Re: I'm Dating My Friend's Sister But He Doesn't Know. by NobleG1(m): 4:27pm On Dec 16, 2013
lasunray: We ve gone Far (Me&her). I'm 2+yrs Older than her. She really loves me & I am very sure about that. She told her mum and Sister about me, but they kept it from the Men in the house (her dad & brother). Her dad is my mum's boss at work, I am usually scared of him but he likes me.
I and the girl could be in the sitting room in his presence & be chatting via fb or whatsapp.
When our other friend talks about my sister, I usually "kick" with a frown or I will just "blast" him; I hope I'm not selfish I doubt if I can allow a friend of mine date my sister but this relationship came suddenly and unexpected (Or is love planned?), I can't explain it. She once told me that her brother wouldn't like it if he knows.

What's your take? Is this awkward? Have you experienced this before?

Shut up you! You mean the relationship magically happened without you heavily contributing to start it? You don't want to see any of your friends dating your sister but you're very comfortable dating theirs! What does that make you?
You're nothing but a selfish, back-stabbing and dishonest fool!

If you would hate seeing your friends dating your sister then it simply means you've idiotic friends like you. If you are truly in love with your friend's sister, why won't you tell your friend? Why the friendship if you can't be honest with your friend about his own sister? I know the answer - either you just want to sh*ag the girl many times and dumb her or you know your friend sees you as an i*diot and wouldn't want you close to his sister.

If I were your friend (God forbid) and I discover you've been sh*agging my sister behind my back, I would think you intentionally became my friend to get my sister. Oh God, I will deal with you ruthlessly. You may lose just one hand or leg or even both when I finish with you.

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