Looking at the world today, we can see the trend selling off on the gender equality. In this subject my opinions might not totally make sense to the mordern illusion most women have been conditioned to believe, but in actual facts the truth must be told.
"Women has lost their femininity". During the time of our fore fathers, sex was all about family, love and procreation which made their relationships survive through pain, joy and understanding. Sex outside marriage was not even a topic then. Most men could not get married until they were in their mid 30's or early 40's and passed through the tests of manhood and termed as "matured" before looking for a mate. And women were cultured and tailored on being a good wife of esteem in her husbands eyes, good cooks and Virgins. I can remember my grandfather tell me how he married my grandmom a virgin and after proving it, went to thank her parents with gifts for bringing up a good daughter.
In our present world today the society has been polluted by the "MEDIA" who uses obscenity to re-condition the mind of the society, distorting our moral values and keeping us in self bondage. In recent "Nollywood" and "hollywood" Movies, sex is being potrayed as love, leaving the Woman masked to reality and all these is "SOCIAL CONDITIONING".

Now my question is where is the feminity in women?........ None. This days, women are slutry and immoral. The boyfriend rave is at the peak, sex is no longer for commitment and marriage but now fun. I have this saying that many women to whom I have told have literally burst out laughing. Mostly because it does sound so corny, but it keeps me sane. Most woman, will skip the first stage and only concentrate on the second and most men I have met will allow it even though to have a lover who knows not you or your dreams, is like having a real life inflatable doll at your side: "a cum bucket".

I would think if the men would demand more from their women instead of allowing them to act like little miss slut-slut, women would get the message that men don't want girls who have gone wild.

Anyways it goes:

There are 4 stages every woman will go through in the life of a man.

Friend - with whom he learns to laugh, love, dream, and cry
Lover - of mind, body, and soul
Wife - because he needs no other
Mother - of that which makes him whole.

in the BIBLE women were submissive to their husband and called them lord. Today men are being Emasculated and the perversion leads them with ideas of "women run the world" making God a liar, thereby blaspheming and making the creator a liar. Men are created to be the head and women as supplemental helpers, not equal gender. Divorce in its increase has done nothing but produced a selfish lust fulfilled puppets and what will the future of our little children today be tomorrow?

The woman need a reassessment of their real entities. In next update I will be digging deep on this topic on the rise and fall of the woman and the plan to use women as puppets to end the world. I am a woman and I believe in the truth unredefined.

Drop your comments and share your experiences.

Need not say more Corper. You nailed it.

But most of this pressure comes from men, who sometimes try to test how much a lady loves them by how much they can sacrifice and women being the ' weaker vessel ' do fall for it. The society making them believe that the world of women should revolve around men, though not all women fall for that prank and ideology, majority does.

This is absolutely on point. However, I will advise that if the write-up isn't original, the first author be quoted.

calmdown: This is absolutely on point. However, I will advise that if the write-up isn't original, the first author be quoted.

Thank you very much for your contributions but sincerely, I wrote this myself this morning as the inspiration came while contemplating on our society and the woman imagery. I can also remember being challenged on the USA thread, when I said a woman should submit to a man. When "juntod" "zeezehabe" said in the US its void. I wouldn't want to obtrude this on anyone, but to enlighten every woman of Gods real purpose and obligations of every virtuous woman.
Once again thank you sir for your comments.

@OP:

I have two questions for you:

1. Were the men of old chaste? or did they have a tiny pool of women they messed around with and then went on to marry from the wide pool of virgins when ready?

2. Are you talking about gender inequality in marriage/generally?

Will be expecting your answers

Nice one but how many ladies believe this? Its pity! Truth be told, some of us have lost our sense of morality. Thumbs up Amerinancy. You are rare in rarity. I bless the womb that bore you. This is nothing but the bitter truth.

Smartsyn: Need not say more Corper. You nailed it.

But most of this pressure comes from men, who sometimes try to test how much a lady loves them by how much they can sacrifice and women being the ' weaker vessel ' do fall for it. The society making them believe that the world of women should revolve around men, though not all women fall for that prank and ideology, majority does.

thank you sir for your contribution. I must say that the reason men do this is the same reason why women do thiers too. All is stemed up by the socio illumination called "freedom" while in the real sense it is slavery. Men see women as sex objects for gratification rather than divine beings created in uttermost wonder made to be loved. The society is being influenced by the Banksters and media who infuse into our minds deregatory image of our self worth, thereby making man not know their real worth and value. Remember this phrase "you destroy to rule" need I say more.
Once again thanks for your contribution

Amerinancy: thank you sir for your contribution. I must say that the reason men do this is the same reason why women do thiers too. All is stemed up by the socio illumination called "freedom" while in the real sense it is slavery. Men see women as sex objects for gratification rather than divine beings created in uttermost wonder made to be loved. The society is being influenced by the Banksters and media who infuse into our minds deregatory image of our self worth, thereby making man not know their real worth and value. Remember this phrase "you destroy to rule" need I say more.
Once again thanks for your contribution

You will agree with me that most women sees themselves as sex objects too, judging from what they wear and how they carry themselves leaving men with no choice than to view them the same way.

You're welcome.

A virtuos woman you are.hard to find and good to keep.

bukatyne: @OP:

I have two questions for you:

1. Were the men of old chaste? or did they have a tiny pool of women they messed around with and then went on to marry from the wide pool of virgins when ready?

2. Are you talking about gender inequality in marriage/generally?

Will be expecting your answers

Thank you very much for these great questions.
First of all, looking at the statistics of the old and now marriages, the difference is clear. The world then was sane to a resonable extent which our world today will look as risible. I'm not talking on the general life of men here, I'm talking about the lost pride of women, and I used the old good days as example where sacrifice was paramount. Having women in their pools is the more same thing I'm saying, just like in the bible days we had prostitutes, Just that right now its off the hook and women has totaly lost their physical spiritual and emotional balance.
Take a look at our celebrities then and now.


Secondly I'm talking about the perverted woman in general and it all concerns inequality marriage and general conduct.

I hope I did answer your questions.
Thank you sister for this wonderful contribution.

"Bitter truth" indeed Seriously I love this thread!!!!

Amerinancy: Thank you very much for these great questions.
First of all, looking at the statistics of the old and now marriages, the difference is clear. The world then was sane to a resonable extent which our world today will look as risible. I'm not talking on the general life of men here, I'm talking about the lost pride of women, and I used the old good days as example where sacrifice was paramount. Having women in their pools is the more same thing I'm saying, just like in the bible days we had prostitutes, Just that right now its off the hook and women has totaly lost their physical spiritual and emotional balance.
Take a look at our celebrities then and now.


Secondly I'm talking about the perverted woman in general and it all concerns inequality marriage and general conduct.

I hope I did answer your questions.
Thank you sister for this wonderful contribution.

You did not answer any of my questions.

I agree you are talking about women alone but the issue of sex involves two people at least and is like the proverbial chicken and egg.

OK, to rephrase my first question, what do you think made women less virtuous?

The worst part of it is that if you don't have a boyfriend people see you as weird, they are like "why don't you have a boyfriend" and I'm like "why don't you come clean with it and ask me - why don't you commit fornication?
The end is truly near, may we be found rapturable on His coming. AMEN

bukatyne:

You did not answer any of my questions.

I agree you are talking about women alone but the issue of sex involves two people at least and is like the proverbial chicken and egg.

OK, to rephrase my first question, what do you think made women less virtuous?

let me correct you. Sex does not just involve two people, but specially created only for marriage between a man and a woman. But today it is being abused and used as fun. We now have the gay, bisexuals, lesbians, transgender etc thereby destroying hetrosexuality is that what you call sex between two people?

Women have lost their virtue because of the same society which have mould them so. Flick on your T.V and watch a movie, all they potray as love is sex and romance. P*rn has made so many women believe they are sluts. You watch p*rn and all you see is violence, fetish and unnatural sorts of things. Have you wondered why you can easily watch p*rn on the internet for free ? .... And I call those who buy it bonus fools. The society and this new world order wants to use the media to influence your subconscious mind and leave you helpless.
Women now believe in all these trash because, their subconscious mind hs been cultured so. We can't even watch the TV without being harrassed by a s*xual scene and they term it as "LOVE". The woman has lost her virtue due to the subconscious social conditioning which make wrong seem acceptable all in the name of freedom and enlightenment which has left them a sham. The same government that preaches peace and freedom yet endorse wars. Going naked is now a trend?........ Oh my God! What a shame no dignity. In the former days fashion was all about what you are wearing now its all about what you are not!! Women must realise they are in a big mess before we get stripped completely of our essence.

Empressgifted: The worst part of it is that if you don't have a boyfriend people see you as weird, they are like "why don't you have a boyfriend" and I'm like "why don't you come clean with it and ask me - why don't you commit fornication?
The end is truly near, may we be found rapturable on His coming. AMEN

My dear remember extraordinary people don't do what ordinary people do. Do what is right, don't follow the mammoth crowd because you were uniquely created.
Thanks for this awesome contribution.

Amerinancy: My dear remember extraordinary people don't do what ordinary people do. Do what is right, don't follow the mammoth crowd because you were uniquely created.
Thanks for this awesome contribution.

thanks dear, you welcome

u might call it decadence , i think its progress, conservative sexuality does not make a better society, a girl that keeps her virginity before marriage does not make a better bride compared to a girl that have had three girlfriends.

there are couple who are Player and have a more fulfilling relationship than your orthodox ideal couple




on the gender equality thing you mentioned, bible was writing in a time when labour was basically muscles, fisherman, farmer, builders, warriors....times have changed labour is intellect, women can go out and maximize their potential. its natural that a wife that brings more income the home has more say that a wife that dependes on the husband for everything, abi u things say germany go get mouth for europe if to say na greece account balance she get. the world is moving move along and stop complaining.

im fed up with all these cries of decadence, how can you move forward looking at the rear view mirror.

"our parents society was better because sex was sacred and they were more vigins running around"....bullshit!!

daryoor: u might call it decadence , i think its progress, conservative sexuality does not make a better society, a girl that keeps her virginity before marriage does not make a better bride compared to a girl that have had three girlfriends.

there are couple who are Player and have a more fulfilling relationship than your orthodox ideal couple




on the gender equality thing you mentioned, bible was writing in a time when labour was basically muscles, fisherman, farmer, builders, warriors....times have changed labour is intellect, women can go out and maximize their potential. its natural that a wife that brings more income the home has more say that a wife that dependes on the husband for everything, abi u things say germany go get mouth for europe if to say na greece account balance she get. the world is moving move along and stop complaining.

im fed up with all these cries of decadence, how can you move forward looking at the rear view mirror.

"our parents society was better because sex was sacred and they were more vigins running around"....bullshit!!

In all you have said it's really incompehensible. Yes! Because you are giving me the impression that you have also been caught up by this same web that has traumatized us for long.
Judging from MTV, the younger generation, is totally obsessed with short term sexual encounters. "I'm attracted to you." "I don't know what I want." One woman has bedded 200 men she met on the net. She'll never be able to commit to one man. The younger generation has been reduced to the level of fruit flies, barely able to think. I think you have been infected with society syndrome or probably not matured to understand that marriage is spiritual than physical. Sex is an added onion to marriage. If you go into marriage because of she is experienced and good in bed, you will also run for another woman who is more experienced and better in bed.
I will agree with you that things have changed, yes! But where did the moral aspect of change get us to compared to the former times?
In the Bible women maximized their potentials to the core so what the hell are you saying?
Deborah, Esther, Naomi, Rachael and even mary the mother of Jesus harnessed thiers.
A man is naturally superior to a woman and the head of the family. If you insult your head, if you don't know it comes with a curse. Which is why many women are suffering today from one breakup and divorce living unhappy lives. Men are there to help their wifes fulfill their calling. That you earn a million bucks still does not give a sane woman the right to insult his husband. Men were created to be macho, but they sold themselves cheaply to women right from the garden of eden and now to console themselves the society comes up with the theory of equality. Women have rights, which should be respected and valued in the society but her husband is her superior not her equal made to be honoured and respected. I repeat it "perversion" is the order of the day that the right makes sense no more.


I wonder how real children can have a good understanding of life than being brought up by good loving parents who live as examples rather than parents who because of your so called "things have changed" divorce not having children with behavioural disorders.

The marriage our forefathers had was adorable, majority of our marriages today is an eye sore.
Untill we address this issue, we will keep living unhappy lives.
Please read "Ephesians 5:22" if you are a christian.

Amerinancy: In all you have said it's really incompehensible. Yes! Because you are giving me the impression that you have so been caught up by this same web that has traumatized us for long.
Judging from MTV, the younger generation, is totally obsessed with short term sexual encounters. "I'm attracted to you." "I don't know what I want." One woman has bedded 200 men she met on the net. She'll never be able to commit to one man. The younger generation has been reduced to the level of fruit flies, barely able to think. I think you have been infected with society syndrome or probably not matured to understand that marriage is spiritual than physical. Sex is an added onion to marriage. If you go into marriage because of she is experienced and good in bed, you will also run for another woman who is more experienced and better in bed.
I will agree with you that things have changed, yes! But where did the moral aspect of change get us to compared to the former times?
In the Bible women maximized their potentials to the core so what the hell are you saying?
Deborah, Esther, Naomi, Rachael and even mary the mother of Jesus harnessed thiers.
A man is naturally superior to a woman and the head of the family. If you insult your head, if you don't know it comes with a curse. Which is why many women are suffering today from one breakup and divorce living unhappy lives. Men are there to help their wifes fulfill their calling. That you earn a million bucks still does not give a sane woman the right to insult his husband. Men were created to be macho, but they sold themselves cheaply to women right from the garden of eden and now to console themselves the society comes up with the theory of equality. Women have rights, which should be respected and valued in the society but her husband is her superior not her equal made to be honoured and respected. I repeat it "perversion" is the order of the day that the right makes sense no more.


I wonder how real children can have a good understanding of life than being brought up by good loving parents who live as an examples rather than parents who because of your so called "things have changed" divorce not having children with behavioural disorders.

The marriage our forefathers was adorable, majority of our marriages today is an eye sore.

you named mary and some bible chics to proove women maximizes their potential at that time thats total nonsense, women have never i repeat never had it this good. you dont just point to kleopatra and feel you've proven women has always been ruling.

male domination has always been a norm until recent times the society of tham time was well suited for it, 99% of the knights were men ,in contemporary times a militry chic could just sit i front of a laptop control a drone and kill a hundred people.

women who insult their husbands are the ones giving a bad name to feminisms. thats how women abuse economic power. a lot of men start under appreciating their wives when the money come, that when their wives start looking fat and ugly.

during the recession in
america the were more women than men fending for their families and this has never been the case in americas history, what if those women werent empowered to get jobs.

our fourfathers that married wives, which led to a lot of unhealthy rivalry , is thàt what you càll adorable?

daryoor:


you named mary and some bible chics to proove women maximizes their potential at that time thats total nonsense, women have never i repeat never had it this good. you dont just point to kleopatra and feel you've proven women has always been ruling.

male domination has always been a norm until recent times the society of tham time was well suited for it, 99% of the knights were men ,in contemporary times a chic could sit i front of a laptop control a drone and kill a hundred people.

our fourfathers that married wives, which led to a lot of unhealthy rivalry , is thàt what you càll adorable?

If I may ask you if the marriage of today is better, then why do we have more breakups than before?

What is nonsense that those Godly women reached their potentials ?

Women has never had it this good you say, wow so going naked and being rude and mean all in the name of equality is why those biblical women were not having it all good?

If a woman could control a drone and "KILL" so many people, is that right?

Everything you say here still remains incomprehensible to a real thinking moral human.
LOL our fathers married wives and got a lot of rivalries, now you marry one and you become an enemy of your own self.
Whilst you are trying to divert the topic, my concern here is that women should search for their lost femininity.

Seriously your point is what exactly? That women are the problem or just what?

Amerinancy: If I may ask you if the marriage of today is better, then why do we have more breakups than before?

What is nonsense that those Godly women reached their potentials ?

Women has never had it this good you say, wow so going naked and being rude and mean all in the name of equality is why those biblical women were not having it all good?

If a woman could control a drone and "KILL" so many people, is that right?

Everything you say here still remains incomprehensible to a real thinking moral human.
LOL our fathers married wives and got a lot of rivalries, now you marry one and you become an enemy of your own self.
Whilst you are trying to divert the topic, my concern here is that women should search for their lost femininity.

let me tell you why there are many break ups today, its because the quality of life has increased drastically,we 've imporved a lot globally, life expetancy globally has increased, drought and the issues of famine has reduced, techonogical and social standards has increased, a modern day woman has more opportunities to live a full life than being reduced to a baby machine. the break up is as a result of the modern womans refusal to take bullshi.t from the men.

the old women had stable marriages because the endure unhuman conditions and accept it as norm which the modern woman wouldn't, to put more light to this: it was a norm for men to beat their wives if they misbehave, she go chop the beating and appologise.
the men self will cheat on their wives, the word cheating sef didnt exist then, the man could bring the girlfriend to their matrimonial home and theres nothing the wife will do. this is what you want a well educated thriving woman to take in modern time, then you are not realistic.

when i said women have never had it this good, the ratio of male to female in all sectors hes never been this close, let just look at politics, were there women in the senate of the roman empire? did jesus have a female disciple? compare the ratio of women influencing politics in europe a century ago to contemporary times, then you'll understand what i mean by women never having it this good. angela markel sneezes the whole of Europe the whole of europe will catch cold, hilary clintion is likely to become the most powerful woman in the world come 2016. christine lagard, salif of liberia, fernades of argentiñà, yulia tymoshenko of ukraine...i can list one dictionary size list of women in places that were exclusive male dominated.

i think we should not waste our energy on blaming the dynamism of culture and focus on modifying with changing conditions, in other words, come up with how to manage the effect of broken homes on kids, i believe you'll be doing more to your generation by doing such rather than looking at the rear view mirror.

Amerinancy: If I may ask you if the marriage of today is better, then why do we have more breakups than before?

What is nonsense that those Godly women reached their potentials ?

Women has never had it this good you say, wow so going naked and being rude and mean all in the name of equality is why those biblical women were not having it all good?

If a woman could control a drone and "KILL" so many people, is that right?

Everything you say here still remains incomprehensible to a real thinking moral human.
LOL our fathers married wives and got a lot of rivalries, now you marry one and you become an enemy of your own self.
Whilst you are trying to divert the topic, my concern here is that women should search for their lost femininity.

well, this guy is talking cos of his selfish desires and interests. so there's no way he can be comprehensive. the bottom line is, the minds of women of our generation have been poisoned. that's why u can see women wearing a cloth that reveals half of her brreeaasts, and short gowns revealing her sensitive parts to activate the mind of men.

Amerinancy: In all you have said it's really incompehensible. Yes! Because you are giving me the impression that you have also been caught up by this same web that has traumatized us for long.
Judging from MTV, the younger generation, is totally obsessed with short term sexual encounters. "I'm attracted to you." "I don't know what I want." One woman has bedded 200 men she met on the net. She'll never be able to commit to one man. The younger generation has been reduced to the level of fruit flies, barely able to think. I think you have been infected with society syndrome or probably not matured to understand that marriage is spiritual than physical. Sex is an added onion to marriage. If you go into marriage because of she is experienced and good in bed, you will also run for another woman who is more experienced and better in bed.
I will agree with you that things have changed, yes! But where did the moral aspect of change get us to compared to the former times?
In the Bible women maximized their potentials to the core so what the hell are you saying?
Deborah, Esther, Naomi, Rachael and even mary the mother of Jesus harnessed thiers.
A man is naturally superior to a woman and the head of the family. If you insult your head, if you don't know it comes with a curse. Which is why many women are suffering today from one breakup and divorce living unhappy lives. Men are there to help their wifes fulfill their calling. That you earn a million bucks still does not give a sane woman the right to insult his husband. Men were created to be macho, but they sold themselves cheaply to women right from the garden of eden and now to console themselves the society comes up with the theory of equality. Women have rights, which should be respected and valued in the society but her husband is her superior not her equal made to be honoured and respected. I repeat it "perversion" is the order of the day that the right makes sense no more.


I wonder how real children can have a good understanding of life than being brought up by good loving parents who live as examples rather than parents who because of your so called "things have changed" divorce not having children with behavioural disorders.

The marriage our forefathers had was adorable, majority of our marriages today is an eye sore.
Untill we address this issue, we will keep living unhappy lives.
Please read "Ephesians 5:22" if you are a christian.

@ bolded, ok

You have answered my second question

Waow

fabiomatic: well, this guy is talking cos of his selfish desires and interests. so there's no way he can be comprehensive. the bottom line is, the minds of women of our generation have been poisoned. that's why u can see women wearing a cloth that reveals half of her brreeaasts, and short gowns revealing her sensitive parts to activate the mind of men.

on a normal day i wont reply you,

i have sat down to observe , and i have trained myself to come close to people before i conclude on what to make of who they are.
angelina joile dresses that way and she has contributed immersely to her society, and the world more than your pastors. iv heard people like jerry springer talk i was surprised on how deep, how cultured he is, sit down there and see people dress sexy and say they are destroying the modern women.

if my daughter comes to naija from Yankee where they wear bikini at the beach to naija, i'll tell her to dress like a nun because the people hear are quick to condemn people. a country where secular songs a world music.

Amerinancy: My dear remember extraordinary people don't do what ordinary people do. Do what is right, don't follow the mammoth crowd because you were uniquely created.
Thanks for this awesome contribution.

Preach my dear preach ,if only this our doomed generation will look up above pride,greed and self-aggrandisement and all the follies of the world labelled as pleasure and only catch a glimpse of the direction we are headed, we'd have made a u turn immediately, but like fishes caught up with the net we are all victims of the end of the systems of things.My fear is the number of people that will go down ignorantly?...

Amerinancy: Men are created to be the head and women as supplemental helpers, not equal gender.

Nice post but I quite disagree with the lines quoted above. "So God created man (plural entity) in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them." A male is not superior to a female; from creation they've been made to be equal. But in marriage institution, there was Adam before Eve that's where the whole idea of submission was conceived.
On a good day I'd have overlooked the above quoted comment, but especially in this part of the world, where women have comfortably taken the role of a second fiddle in the society because of their inability to differentiate a husband from fellow men (plural entity).
Being submissive to your husband does not relate at all with being inferior to a man.
Personally, I believe chastity shouldn't be seen as a conduct placed on the shoulders of femininity making it look as if masculinity is exempted. Whose body is the temple of the Lord - women only or both man and woman? In essence, don't blame it on the women alone but also on the men who don't know what it means to be raised by a Queen.

freecocoa: Seriously your point is what exactly? That women are the problem or just what?

The things she is saying will be very hard for some of you to understand.

Please just stick to nollywood and hollywood and the DSTV channels that you are used to

Truckpusher: The things she is saying will be very hard for some of you to understand.

Please just stick to nollywood and hollywood and the DSTV channels that you are used to

It isn't everytime that someone's in the mood for your insults, which btw you come back to claim is a joke, I suggest you say nothing when you really have nothing to say.

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jearile:
Nice post but I quite disagree with the lines quoted above. "So God created man (plural entity) in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them." A male is not superior to a female; from creation they've been made to be equal. But in marriage institution, there was Adam before Eve that's where the whole idea of submission was conceived.
On a good day I'd have overlooked the above quoted comment, but especially in this part of the world, where women have comfortably taken the role of a second fiddle in the society because of their inability to differentiate a husband from fellow men (plural entity).
Being submissive to your husband does not relate at all with being inferior to a man.
Personally, I believe chastity shouldn't be seen as a conduct placed on the shoulders of femininity making it look as if masculinity is exempted. Whose body is the temple of the Lord - women only or both man and woman? In essence, don't blame it on the women alone but also on the men who don't know what it means to be raised by a Queen.

Hello dear I never said that every woman should be morons to all men. When I said superior, I meant their husbands. Also that bible you quote is not proving enough because, the same holy book said Man was created in the image of God and woman in the Image of man. Very wrong they were not made to be equal. Women are the weaker vessel, men were originally made to rule and lead while women to be an adviser, helper and encouragement. Women are not inferior to a man. get my point clear and also this thread is for issues concerning women, not saying men are saints. I'm also a woman.
Thanks for your great contribution.