I dated her when she was doing her NYSC days but found out she complains a lot. After three months we had a mutual agreement that we weren't ready for a relationship and it’s best we remain friends This happened more than three years ago. She is working and is 27 years old.

The present girl is 22years old. I knew her when I tutored her in one of those Jamb classes. She is currently in school and we talk often on the phone. She is in her second year and will graduate probably in 2 years time. This is the 8months we are dating.


My dilemma: I met with my ex and I took her out for lunch. it’s obvious we still loved each other. And looking back I believed I wasn't ready for commitment and would have handled it well if it was now. Should i give it another chance?

As for my present girl who is still in school; We've only spent couple of hours when I visited her in school. She hasn’t come home for break. We talk on the phone frequently, but is that enough for me to end up with her knowing she would spend most of her time in school till when I will be ready to get married? To be honest, can I settle for phone conversation as courtship? Because its obvious there wont be time after graduation for the real courting. Should I take the risk and keep her; then marry her and hope she is the same I talk on the phone with?

And finally, I don't like the double dating idea.

I was seriously trying to read and give my lil piece of advice

But I'm finding it hard to keep up, the arrangement abi is it the grammer? I just don't know.... But somethings not right

Jakeattah:
I was seriously trying to read and give my lil piece of advice

But I'm finding it hard to keep up, the arrangement abi is it the grammer? I just don't know.... But somethings not right

I tire ma broda, me too can't comprehend it

The ex and the new gal.

Yes he should give the ex another chance. She is willing, he has realized his mistakes, he knows her shortcomings and believes he can handle it better so date the ex some more before he ties the knot..

I think so too.

Longman if you know you had nothing sensible to say, why not walk pass than occupying a space meant for a reasonable comment.
And for your info this post is true and he is very bothered. So pack your comment one side please.

You could have use the word 'I' instead of 'my friend' and safe us the stress of comprehending your grammar. You are that your friend. *Drops mic*

Emmysteve:
You could have use the word 'I' instead of 'my friend' and safe us the stress of comprehending your grammar. You are that your friend. *Drops mic*

For someone who doesn't have a comment to make on the post, what difference does it make? Toor!!!

Ex'es are meant to be our past...dnt go back to ur eX!

Follow ur heart man. Make sure u make d right choice.

I hate going back any thing that make us disunite is done for good.. I hate dating my ex! Its prostitution!

And the other girl in school, i don't trust her. Follow ur mind. Find some one who is close and start a new and lasting relationship.

testing testing testing,..testing microphone 1 2 3,..hmmm my advice is dat u should f**k d 2 very well and u will c solution sharp sharp,... drops mic,..tank me later

01karma:
I hate going back any thing that make us disunite is done for good.. I hate dating my ex! Its prostitution!

And the other girl in school, i don't trust her. Follow ur mind. Find some one who is close and start a new and lasting relationship.

I cant find anyone close...well not yet. I wouldn't want to look desperate.

og2k3:
Follow ur heart man. Make sure u make d right choice.

Yeah and that's why i'm in this situation. Thanks anyway.

Eberex:


Yeah and that's why i'm in this situation. Thanks anyway.

why do guys on nairaland often do this? No body will kill u if you initially tell us that you're the person in question. Haba! Fear God!

Emmysteve:
why do guys on nairaland often do this? No body will kill u if you initially tell us that you're the person in question. Haba! Fear God!

How does fearing God come into wanting to stay anonymous?

Jakeattah:
I was seriously trying to read and give my lil piece of advice

But I'm finding it hard to keep up, the arrangement abi is it the grammer? I just don't know.... But somethings not right

funny you were the one complaining about 'grammer'.

kozaic:
Ex'es are meant to be our past...dnt go back to ur eX!

Thank you, I actually found out she is still the same person, and hasn't changed with regards to her past character and attitude.