My present challenge is giving me a cause for concern.

My girlfriend has been receiving some phony calls from a particular girl, warning her to stay off me. Whenever she gets the call, she'll be screaming that I've been cheating on her. To be sincere, I've not for once cheated on my girlfriend.

This problem start while I was in NYSC camp and my girlfriend called me that I'm cheating on her in camp, that a lady called her and told her that I'm dating her and I've even called my parents to alert them of the development. The funniest part is that, though I had some chit-chats with some girls while in camp (which should be normal anyway), I never had any intimate relationship with any girl.
I am still surprised that a girl will snoop into my phone, get my girlfriend's number and start threatening her to leave me. I don't give ladies my phone and I didn't tell any girl that my girlfriend's name is ........

This present situation has made me think of so many things, which could be:

1. One of her toasters gave her number to another girl to threaten her to leave me.
2. One of her friends is trying to spoil the relationship.
3. One way or the other, I would've made a mistake to mention my girlfriend's name to a girl while in camp and somehow she got my phone, took my girlfriend's number and started threatening my girlfriend.
4. She's making it up.
5. I don't know what's happening.

Something also came up today. The mystery caller called thrice. My girlfriend was telling the mystery caller to call me and tell me to tell her (my girlfriend) to break-up with her. During the conversation with the mystery caller, I told my girlfriend to give me the phone to talk to the mystery crush. But to my surprise, my girlfriend refused to give me the phone. I was angry, I thought it whole thing about this mystery caller will end when I talk to her. At least to clear all forms of suspicion.

I've been trying to convince her that there's nothing going on between me and any other lady. All attempts have fell into deaf ears.

I confused, kinda

I think you should check if your girlfriend is being honest about the so called mystery caller

Maybe she wants to end the relationship. I don't see why she has never given you the phone to talk to the person. Women can be funny atimes

Thavik:
I think you should check if your girlfriend is being honest about the so called mystery caller

That's one thing I'm really trying to check. This caller called thrice, I was there when she called.

I don't want to sense mischief somewhere, that's why I'm careful about it.

And youve never thought your gf could be the one the behind the mystery calls

ULSHERLAN:
And youve never thought your gf could be the one the behind the mystery calls

That's why I said maybe she planned the whole thing with another girl just to end the relationship.

If that's the case, no biggie.

You enemies are after you again na.

hahn:
Maybe she wants to end the relationship. I don't see why she has never given you the phone to talk to the person. Women can be funny atimes

Hmmmm...

I just don't know

Mynd44:
You enemies are after you again na.

All my enemies died before the end of 2014

The ones that wanted to live still died around 12:01 of 2015

But women are wonderful sha o.. Hian

everybody is a suspect but your girl friend is the prime suspect.is d number hidden? Tell her to stop answering the call.

Bros,think ahead and act ahead.
You've noticed she wants to end the relationship,all you gotta do is beat her to it,so you won't be the fool.
*walks outta thread*

Creative way to break up with you lol

Purehuman:


That's one thing I'm really trying to check. This caller called thrice, I was there when she called.

I don't want to sense mischief somewhere, that's why I'm careful about it.

well you could also try calling the caller yourself to see who the person is